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Seun move to FP

Polynek:
When I was doing a menial job at the compound of a university vice Chancellor

wow you was in school then?

Doja2000:
who be Aisha

this gal what do you want from me

SenecaTheYonger:
I think it’s all in your head. I think you’re the one jealous of him and you’re projecting that jealousy on your friend. You seem to know what he’s thinking more than he himself. Maybe focus more on your own life and girls.

what is dead may never die

Just as obi cubana helped chief priest to rise career wise etc, some of us have benefited from people who are not related to us/have anything to gain from helping us. How did you come in contact with this person?



As for me I have been going to chill at 4/5 star hotels in Lagos since I have been jobless. It actually motivates to see all those classy cars parked and the expensive wine.



So how/where did you meet your big god

Doja2000:
Rubbish Rubbish Rubbish Rubbish

lol Aisha thinks otherwise tho

Just as obi cubana helped chief priest to rise career wise etc, some of us have benefited from people who are not related to us/have anything to gain from helping us. How did you come in contact with this person?

As for me I have been going to chill at 4/5 star hotels in Lagos since I have been jobless. It actually motivates to see all those classy cars parked and the expensive wine.

So how/where did you meet your big god

Who can guess what I will be doing tomorrow morning? �

Humanoid01:
I know exactly how this feels. I'm sure you had a bad experience with peoole today, and you couldn't help overthinking about it when you got home.

They may not tell you to your face that you are proud, but their actions suggest that. I get that a lot, yeah.

Don't forget you are in Nigeria, a society where the masses don't give a damn about your personality traits, they always expect everyone to exhibit customary social traits and please them.

They just don't understand. Bro no matter what, don't fake yourself for those people to accept you. If they judge you without giving you a chance to explain yourself (if that's even a thing), then they sure as heaven don't deserve your attention.

finally someone with sense shows up. I appreciate yo contribution bro and I will always pay deaf ears. Just that it can get worse when you overthink it with time which might lead to anxiety

Monogamy:
Wetin you self dey find upadan and you called yourself an introvert?

Probably dressing to impress or oppress

looking good is a business bro

Doja2000:
Okay but e no concern nairaland

na your papa get nairaland?

You read that right. Since the system have been designed to keep us jobless I will keep pounding yo sisters and daughters ferociously.

Ginaz:
You guys will not hustle to leave your bro house , it’s whose girls that are classier to Bleep# that is the bone of contention.

Fuc***kin in house that ain’t yours and no shame whatsoever.

please I'm not the man that took your virginity under dangote trailer

Because I dress good, looks cute and like to mind my business doesn't mean I am proud. People who have never spoken to you conclude that you are proud and therefore get defensive when you interact with them. I am an introvert who chooses his moment to interact. The ideology you guys have that handsome cool guys must be proud is bleeped up.

Cerebellum:
Eleribuu OP sha plenty for this platform

Otü mma gi eleribuu

I am thinking of cutting ties with him

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So I have known this guy for years now. We literally went to the same college and university. Our relationship kicked up when we went to Uni and we were in the same faculty. He was in the hostel while I stay off campus. During those days he had access to bang his gals in my room. I always gave him space and made him feel comfy. Fast forward to now and we both are in Lagos not far from each other. We also live with our respective brothers but the difference is that mine is married. His brother works on the island so he usually come on weekends. He is usually the only one at home lashing all these cheap sales and call girls. I feel he is envious because I lash cuter and classy girls. He is of the opinion that all girls want is money and will rather wait until he has enough before going for classy ones. The last time I went to his place with this fine ass girl he was giving me attitude and acting around. My girl had to foot hotel bills with the money I would have collected from her when I had a friend who stays in a three bedroom flat he is not paying for . its not my fault he doesn't have game or confidence. Its not my fault banging the kinda girls he is soapying to. It's not my fault the girls he dreams of kissing suck my dick clean.
Why jealous a Nigga cos he is banging cuter and classier girls more so a friend.

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How do you sex yo girlfriend?

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Kuriosmynd:
I think this shit is happening to me. After certain incident that happened to me, I promise to only bed women that are up to my standard, or the ones I really want.
....I've been getting gals that could have been easily lay, but I turn them down, cos fvking them doesn't bring that satisfaction u crave...yet I've not got out there to invest in getting the gals I really love to straff...and I'm sort of demotivated to do things as it seems IV lost feminine tonic

there was a time it was so for me. It started as avoiding girls below my class and before you know you know it, it ruts in. I think you need to bang a girl below yo usual standard just to get it off yo chest then go for those you want

Goldbw122:
I will go for the one that wants me, because I don't like stressing myself in a relationship I don't have time for begging and begging continually, it affect my pride so I protect my worth,

that sounds like settling for less bro. I know we all fear rejection but you can drastically cut that down if you approach in a good manner. There's this unexplainable energy that comes with fucking that girl you saw and like. You will feel ready to conquer the world

This might be too long for some peeps pls bear with me. I noticed this section is popular so I will put this hear. I finished school 2019 rounded up service 2020 and came to Lagos around this time same year. I'm 24 years old. I came over hear in other to further my career. Getting a good job has been hard and the other jobs I did get even tho slightly lucrative where not good for my mental health. Dealing with a toxic boss and senior workers was hectic.I feel they were threatened by my cuteness and some almost got physical amidst small alterations. I quit the other job because I was literally spending hours in the traffic going and returning. I'm kinda on the introvert side of life so I get overwhelmed spending roughly 6 hours in traffic per day.

So back to the heading, my brother is not being nice with me. He's putting too much pressure on me knowing I just came to Lagos and starting life. He has money but doesn't want to empower anybody. He's of the opinion that everyone should suffer or in his words hustle before they get anything. I have seen a family where one brother makes money and uplifts all his FAM either thru business or further education. I have dreams of doing my masters and achieving goals but I need space to think out ideas and figure stuffs out. Right now I feel he's choking me with constant hassle and the energy he is emitting just ain't good for my well being. I don't know why he feels I am not doing enough. Everyone mustn't do Yahoo or according to him "be in the streets" to make it. Everyone's path In life is different and I know I will achieve my goals but It will be tough doing so in his place. My environment influences me and I positivity and cheerfulness isn't present I tend to get drained. Especially now that I don't have a job and need to figure my steps with a clear head. I would have left his house but I don't have elsewhere to go unless I head back to my state Anambra. I was hoping on getting a job that comes with accommodation like a hotel so I can clear my head from there but its been difficult getting on around this parts cos some are even retrenching there staff.

Please how do I go about this. Considering this negative energy and toxicity should I still put up with it or head back home. I really value my mental health and calm head



PS. He has a wife and three kids. I feel the wife is crooked and not straight forward. I don't really blame her

Bola146:
You need a serious help before it's too late blaming your brother and his wife maltreating is totally wrong!!!!! Haba! A man with 3kids!!! Do you know what he too is going through? What if you don't have any brother in the city If you could gather energy to write this episode, use the same energy to plan for you life! Pray to God to grant you good job. Don't destroy their home please, face your dear life.

i don't blame my brother for anything but he's putting unnecessary pressure on me not considering the fact I'm still trying to figure my life out. That's unfair

This might be too long for some peeps pls bear with me. I noticed this section is popular so I will put this hear. I finished school 2019 rounded up service 2020 and came to Lagos around this time same year. I'm 24 years old. I came over hear in other to further my career. Getting a good job has been hard and the other jobs I did get even tho slightly lucrative where not good for my mental health. Dealing with a toxic boss and senior workers was hectic.I feel they were threatened by my cuteness and some almost got physical amidst small alterations. I quit the other job because I was literally spending hours in the traffic going and returning. I'm kinda on the introvert side of life so I get overwhelmed spending roughly 6 hours in traffic per day.
So back to the heading, my brother is not being nice with me. He's putting too much pressure on me knowing I just came to Lagos and starting life. He has money but doesn't want to empower anybody. He's of the opinion that everyone should suffer or in his words hustle before they get anything. I have seen a family where one brother makes money and uplifts all his FAM either thru business or further education. I have dreams of doing my masters and achieving goals but I need space to think out ideas and figure stuffs out. Right now I feel he's choking me with constant hassle and the energy he is emitting just ain't good for my well being. I don't know why he feels I am not doing enough. Everyone mustn't do Yahoo or according to him "be in the streets" to make it. Everyone's path In life is different and I know I will achieve my goals but It will be tough doing so in his place. My environment influences me and I positivity and cheerfulness isn't present I tend to get drained. Especially now that I don't have a job and need to figure my steps with a clear head. I would have left his house but I don't have elsewhere to go unless I head back to my state Anambra. I was hoping on getting a job that comes with accommodation like a hotel so I can clear my head from there but its been difficult getting on around this parts cos some are even retrenching there staff.
Please how do I go about this. Considering this negative energy and toxicity should I still put up with it or head back home. I really value my mental health and calm head

PS. He has a wife and three kids. I feel the wife is crooked and not straight forward. I don't really blame her.

There's a big difference in regards to fucking the girls you want and the ones that want you. Lashing the girls you want breeds a special kind of confidence which acts as a springboard for your goals. Fucking the ones that want you can be draining emotionally unless you have ulterior motives like gaining favor,money hitting that big ass from behind or nutting on her big breast. No matter how you think of it we men seem to do most things or go out the way for the women they want. Subconsciously We get and chase money to impress the girls we want and admire and not necessarily to turn up. Lashing the girls you want can really do wonders for you if you are chasing a goal or dreams as you start seeing obstacles as intriguing challenge. Go hit on that girl you thought will never settle for a guy like you.

Might hit this weekend before July runs out.

Just wanna get my D sucked. Nothing much

nwaezeemmanuel:
Don't know why men don't care about their lives when sex is involved. If you're not sure of her medical condition, never give cunnilingus. I can bet you've penetrated her raw too. Please, your health first before pleasure.

Bros e never why you come dy para. You never lash post pandemic?

JovialJune:
It is very much ok dear, eat and be filled....

you been getting yours eating right