Politics › Re: Anambra Governorship Election: Don Okonkwo Rooted For By Federation Igbo Youths by Notatribalist(m): 10:22am On Apr 23, 2017 |
ExpiredNigeria: Stop this stupid thinking, nothing, I mean not even a thing is worth your life.. You will get over it I know this comment is born out of ur desire to help.thanx a lot,but all I can say is you don't understand. |
Politics › Re: Anambra Governorship Election: Don Okonkwo Rooted For By Federation Igbo Youths by Notatribalist(m): 10:18am On Apr 23, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: Anambra Governorship Election: Don Okonkwo Rooted For By Federation Igbo Youths by Notatribalist(m): 10:15am On Apr 23, 2017 |
gypsey: do you believe the machine will work? have you used it before? have you seek other options? is the machine the answer to your problems? well,I have tried many things that didn't work,and some that helped. But I have never tried this machine.but based on the video testimonies on YouTube by doctors and the fact that it was recommended by a doctor I believe it will work. https://youtube/melzXkH8KPYhttps://youtu.be/melzXkH8KPY |
Politics › Re: Anambra Governorship Election: Don Okonkwo Rooted For By Federation Igbo Youths by Notatribalist(m): 10:00am On Apr 23, 2017 |
gypsey: Bro. if you need someone to talk to just drop me a line i am a very good listener and if there's anything else I could do to help i will don't hesitate to get in contact. thanx for your willingness to help bro,I really need a help.pls I will appreciate if you can support me to purchase fisherwallace radionic machine @fhttp://www.fisherwallace.com that was recommended by doctor elekpleem,a Togolese doctor. I have watched some video on YouTube about it,it seems. |
Politics › Re: Anambra Governorship Election: Don Okonkwo Rooted For By Federation Igbo Youths by Notatribalist(m): 9:47am On Apr 23, 2017 |
Daboomb: So, how many have you bought before.............and why do you still want to be buying more of it? By now, are you not aware that it does not work (at least not for you) and you should try something else? I have not bought I machine like this one.all hav been buying was medications, both western medications and herbal. There were times I had to spend 50k on many occasions to purchase Chinese herbal medication.I got to know about this machine recently by a Togolese doctor.and the videos I watched on YouTube shows that it works.many doctors testified to it.pls help do more research on it,pls. |
Politics › Re: Anambra Governorship Election: Don Okonkwo Rooted For By Federation Igbo Youths by Notatribalist(m): 9:35am On Apr 23, 2017 |
Daboomb: Let us take it step-by-step.
Depression is a result of deep emotions............. but it is SOMETHING tha cause those painful emotions of emptiness.
So, tell me, list it and let me see...those things that make Life "meaningful to you", that were taken away from you.
For example, one of the things l like doing is watching Football....that makes me feel relax. Another is watching my own children (from a distance of say 10ft) as they play around.
Now, tell me what makes you feel good, that was taken away.
Trust me, the moment you identified your problem, it is half-solved. We will deal with them together..man-2-Man.
Am waiting. 1)what I have ever enjoyed most in my life was playing football. I was being compared with football greats because of how good I was,but now the interest is gone.no thanx to depression.the urg and motivation is no longer there.even when I force myself to play,I don't enjoy it anymore. 2)beautiful environment used to give me joy.but now,no way.see en,is just like I am dead inside and alive outside. I can't explain all bro. Recently a doctor recommend radionic treatment for me,(fisherwallace.com)but I can no longer afford it bro.before I got depressed I was financially sound,but I hav spent everything on depression treatment.bro,is not easy. |
Politics › Re: Anambra Governorship Election: Don Okonkwo Rooted For By Federation Igbo Youths by Notatribalist(m): 9:17am On Apr 23, 2017 |
tukdi: What's wrong?  I am empty inside bro.depression is dealing with me.it has taken everything from me.no joy/happiness.No excitement.In fact all the positive emotions are gone.I am left with constant sadness, with empty feelings. Is not easy at all.pls I need help to purchase Fisher Wallace redionic machine . www.fisherwallace.com .I can't afford it anymore, I have spent everything I worked for before I got depressed. |
Politics › Re: Anambra Governorship Election: Don Okonkwo Rooted For By Federation Igbo Youths by Notatribalist(m): 9:01am On Apr 23, 2017 |
omenkaLives: To help, we need to know why you are feeling this way.. bros,is depression o.is killing me bro.I am just empty inside.pls I need help. |
Politics › Re: Anambra Governorship Election: Don Okonkwo Rooted For By Federation Igbo Youths by Notatribalist(m): 8:53am On Apr 23, 2017 |
Daboomb: What suffering are you talking about sef?
Is it lack of money? What are you hoping to BUY for the past 9yrs that you say the "suffering is too much"?
What if l offered you MONEY right now, do you promise to not kill yourself?
Tell me about this your suffering, as someone who has suffered before....l am very interested.
I am waiting o. is not about money bro.is about my emotions. I have been suffering from depression since 2008.everything that make life meaningful has be taken away by depression. I have no joy/happiness.I don't even remember how it feels like to be excited.I am always empty inside of me.in fact,there is no life in me anymore.the worse part is no one understands.I am tired bro. |
Politics › Re: Anambra Governorship Election: Don Okonkwo Rooted For By Federation Igbo Youths by Notatribalist(m): 8:33am On Apr 23, 2017 |
dadabashua1: relax bro, don't allow depression to weigh u down OK....suicide is not the way out...trust me u will come out on top if u don't give up....its well bro come out on top after waiting for 9years?u will not understand how miserable my life has been for the past 9years.no one in his right senses will want to end his life,but what will u do when the suffering becomes too much? |
Politics › Re: Anambra Governorship Election: Don Okonkwo Rooted For By Federation Igbo Youths by Notatribalist(m): 8:18am On Apr 23, 2017 |
Depression is killing me, somebody pls help.I am lost,someone should pls save a soul from commiting suicide.I am on my knees. |
Politics › Re: Zahra Buhari And Ahmed Indimi Loved Up At Rahma's 40th Birthday Dinner by Notatribalist(m): 3:20pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
10 Things People with Depression Want You to Know in Mind Young Scot, Dionne McFarlane shared with us her experiences of living with depression. For people suffering from depression it can be difficult for people that are close to understand. Depression is the most common mental health issue in the UK. Through my experience of living with depression, this is what I think is important for people to know and try to understand. 1) We can't just snap out of it This can be frustrating to hear, and it shows that the person you're speaking to really doesn't understand how you're feeling. You can't just snap out of depression - it’s impossible. I'd describe depression as feeling like drowning - no matter how hard you try to fight back it overpowers you and there's nothing you can do about it. Depression feels like a constant battle and it's exhausting. 2) We don't always have a reason as to why we’re feeling depressed This is something I've noticed others find hard to understand. To someone who hasn't ever experienced depression it can be easy to assume that it's caused by an event in someone's life. Depression can be triggered by life events such as bereavement or losing your job, but there doesn't always have to be a reason as to why someone is depressed. Depression can affect anyone and it's an illness. I used to find that before people were understanding about my depression they used to expect there to be a reason as to why I was feeling low and having a bad day when there wasn't a reason and I couldn't explain why I felt the way I was feeling. 3) I don't want to hurt you For friends and family it can be hard to watch someone you love suffer from depression, and it can be difficult to understand how to help and what to do. Depression is a very selfish illness and I find that often we can push people away in order to protect them. With depression there is also feelings of guilt and fear of letting people down. We may take things personally or say something that is horrible but we don't mean it. It can be hard to love and care for someone with depression but standing by someone and showing them unconditional love and care is one of the best things you can ever do for us. 4) Depression and being sad are not the same thing Depression and sadness mean two different things. Sadness is a normal emotion and if something bad was to happen then you may feel sad, but that sadness will lift after a few days. However, depression is a persistent sadness - it can last for weeks, months or even years. It can affect you in various ways such as changing your personality, interests and the way you see the future. 5) Depression isn't a choice We don't choose to be depressed. It can affect various things in your life such as relationships, work and education. We don't choose to have a low mood all the time and find everything an effort. Depression is out of our control we can't do anything to stop it from happening to us. We aren't weak because we have depression. 6) We can feel like a burden and that we’re too much to deal with undefined Depression can cause us to feel like an inconvenience to others, leading us to become feeling isolated and finding it difficult to talk to others. We can sometimes feel that we're too much to deal with and that we’re bringing others down. When feeling low we can avoid other people in order to hide how we feel from our family and friends. This is when friends and family need to be compassionate and reassure their loved ones that they're not a burden to them. By letting us know that we can talk to you about how we are feeling, we can gain a sense of safety and support around us. 7) Achievements that you see as small are big to me Achieving goals that we set for ourselves makes us feel proud. Other people's goals may be to get high grades or get a job but sometimes just getting out of bed or talking to someone about how you're feeling is an achievement. Be proud of us when we achieve these goals. These achievements bring us a step closer to recovery and some day we will be able to achieve bigger things, but for now it's about putting one foot in front of the other and achieving little things to give us that sense of accomplishment.  We can still have some good days We aren't always having bad days we can still have a good day. We can still have days that are hard but we can also have days when we feel okay and are able to do things. People think that depression is all about having bad days. Truth is, moods fluctuate quite a lot and on good days we can feel like we are in control and that we can achieve something, even just going out with a friend for a coffee. Depression is a mixture of good and bad days. The quote that is one of my favourites is this: ‘ Every day may not be good, but there is something good in every day.' 9) We appreciate your kind words and how you're trying to help It can be hard to know what to say and what to do to help. Sometimes offering some kind words can be helpful and we may not seem like we appreciate it but we really do. It can be hard for us to show feelings of gratefulness but the kindness shown really does mean a lot to us. 10) We’re trying our best to get through it Depression is something that we have to work through. I've learned that recovery isn't something you choose once - you have to choose it over and over again. We can't just let go and ignore depression, it has to be treated appropriately by a medical professional. If we have to use therapy and/or medication as a way of working through our depression please do stand by us. There's no shame in asking for help. Depression can make us feel isolated and lonely and having someone by our side can make us feel less a |
Crime › Re: Allwell Orji's Body Recovered From Lagos Lagoon, Family Identifies Him by Notatribalist(m): 8:23pm On Mar 22, 2017 |
vizkiz: Only cowards take their own lives. Rip to the dead you never see something. |
Crime › Re: The Mother Of The Medical Doctor Who Committed Suicide Yesterday At The Scene by Notatribalist(m): 10:25am On Mar 21, 2017 |
BetaThings: I am sorry if you think I don't understand. I don't really know how it feels because I am not feeling it But don't think I am trying to belittle it
I am not even talking about financial help. Since you have seen doctors how I wish you could get people around you who will try and make you happy and forget the feeling of emptiness
This now has to with social and spiritual Are there people close to you who try to make you happy, distract you from things that make you unhappy, make you laugh etc Spiritual - pray and attend events that will force you to pray. As a muslim, I know it is easier to worship and pray when you are in the midst of fellow muslims than when you are alone and "want to quickly get something done before saying the prayer" And in Islam, we are encouraged to look at people below us so that we can see there are others with worse problems
I see people living with disability who can only pray with difficulty but try to do it. This is motivation for me I have seen people who are on their back for months in the hospital - I wonder how they feel. This is also motivation for me
Of course I am just trying to tell you how somebody who is not in your position can deal with it But if you are an FX trader, you can do it I know this because I am into Finance and I know that fx trading is not the area that most people rush into
Just hang on day by day 20 years ago, being HIV positive was a death sentence even in America Today even in Nigeria, I know people who have been HIV positive for more than 10 years Infact there is hope that a cure might be found not long in the future
Ebola used to be like that - over time, it has got to the point of being managed/cured Just believe that very soon you will get to solution
Let me tell you what a guy does to avoid temptation from sex with somebody he is not married to "I will be intimate with her tomorrow" He tries to fool his mind to think that he will have his fun and he is just waiting a little - there is nothing stopping him, it is entirely in his hands and he would get round to it the following day
In all, I wish that you get over this as soon as possible thanx a million times for your encouraging words, God bless u.u have really helped. |
Crime › Re: Dr. Alwell Orji Attempted Suicide Four Years Ago by Notatribalist(m): 10:15am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Missmossy: He attempted to commit suicide before, so he has been suicide years back. Its really painful, only God knows what made him to jump into the Lagoon. He must have been suffering from severe depression. Such a tragic loss
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Crime › Re: Dr. Alwell Orji Attempted Suicide Four Years Ago by Notatribalist(m): 10:07am On Mar 21, 2017 |
izzy4shizzy: Suicide is not the answer, No matter how bad it is u clearly don't know what depression is.
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Crime › Re: Dr. Alwell Orji Attempted Suicide Four Years Ago by Notatribalist(m): 10:04am On Mar 21, 2017 |
jonaifame22: I can't kill myself pray not to ever get depressed,because in depression suicide seems to be the only way to end ur suffering.
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Crime › Re: Dr. Alwell Orji Attempted Suicide Four Years Ago by Notatribalist(m): 10:01am On Mar 21, 2017 |
rawpadgin: instead of me to kill myself let the problem kuku kill me
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Crime › Re: Dr. Alwell Orji Attempted Suicide Four Years Ago by Notatribalist(m): 9:59am On Mar 21, 2017 |
amynah94: Was thinking about the fellow that jumped into the lagoon yesterday and I just couldn't help but feel sad....I spent time wondering what could have moved the young man to such an action. Heard on radio this morning that he was just 35 years.... At 35 he was a doctor...had a car, and even a driver...from the Nigerian standard that sounds like a successful young man in all ramifications. There probably were lots of his secondary school mates or his university mates envying him. But truth is no one knew what he was going through..... I concluded that he was having a bout of depression and it took a bad turn. I will ask some pertinent questions. When last did we check on a friend that we haven't heard from in a while? When last did we visit some one we knew was finding things difficult? When we see someone who had it going so well and all of a sudden is finding it hard to make ends meet, do we make fun of them? When was the last time we called the names of particular people in our circle during our prayers with our creator, to intercede on their behalf ? The economy is tough and truly people are finding it more difficult to survive. I have noticed personally an increased number of destitutes in Lagos lately.
We need to watch out for each other.......we need to call, we need to visit. I am hoping we check in on others from time to time ( physically). We never know who needs just an ear to listen to all the problems he/she is going through.
Let's be more caring..... To at least call someone per day just to say hello!
Lets ponder on this for a few seconds and decide to assist each other psychologically& spiritually today.
#copied#
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Crime › Re: The Mother Of The Medical Doctor Who Committed Suicide Yesterday At The Scene by Notatribalist(m): 8:41am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Lucasinho: sorry for the late reply....
lol...U can never be my slave bro. God truly exist.. All U need to do is to identify God as your only Saviour..
Have you discuss this problem with your pastor or any family member? If yes, what was their reaction?
You can start to experience the inward renewal that the apostle Paul experienced when you come to God with your suffering. God seems far away when we suffer. You believe that He exists, but it seems as if He is too busy with everything else, or He just doesn't care. After all, God is powerful enough to end your suffering, but He hasn't.
If you start there, you'll reach a dead end pretty quickly. God hasn't promised to explain everything about what He does and what He allows. Instead, He encourages us to start with Jesus. Jesus is God the Son, and He is certainly loved by his heavenly Father. Yet Jesus also went through more suffering than anyone who ever lived!
Here we see that love and suffering can co-exist. And when you start reading the Bible and encounter people like Job, Jeremiah, and the apostle Paul, you get a sense that suffering is actually the well-worn path for God's favorites. This doesn't answer the question, Why are you doing this to me? But it cushions the blow when you know that God understands. You aren't alone. If we know anything about God, we know that He comes close to those who suffer, so keep your eyes open for Him.
Keep your heart open to the fact that the Bible has much to say to you when you are depressed. Study those verses of the bible..I will remember u in prayers. i appreciate your concern.is really nice to know somebody cares.well,I spoke to my parent #the beginning of it all,and they really care,but one fact is that you can never understand depression if u hv not experienced it.my parents showed concerns and even followed me to do many checkups.but they are old now.i don't want to disturbe then again with my problem.once again thanx for ur concern. I will keep pushing my life,let's see where my depleted strength will take me to. |
Crime › Re: The Mother Of The Medical Doctor Who Committed Suicide Yesterday At The Scene by Notatribalist(m): 7:56am On Mar 21, 2017 |
BetaThings: Your passionate plea is moving I am a muslim and will hesitate when somebody says he will become a slave - no need to go that far, no human can on HIS own eliminate your challenges So the glory must go back to God But enough of preaching
Let us consider the problem, after 9 years it is obvious you have the mental stamina to deal with the issue Have you seen any doctor on this matter? I can introduce you to one in Lagos is far better to be a slave to somebody than to be in my predicament. U clearly don't know how it feel like to have lost all the positive emotions. Well,I am not asking for financial help,I just want somebody to feel oblige to carry out research on how to get solution to my problem, because I have clearly run out of ideal.have u ever tasted soup without salt and pepper? That's how it feels like to be depressed.as for seeing a doctor yes, I have seen many in 2008 and 2009.all they offer was anti depressant, which helped a little and stopped working entirely.having mental stamina? Well there's always a limit to everything. And now I have reached the limit where I have no stamina to bear it anymore. |
Crime › Re: The Mother Of The Medical Doctor Who Committed Suicide Yesterday At The Scene by Notatribalist(m): 8:14pm On Mar 20, 2017 |
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Crime › Re: The Mother Of The Medical Doctor Who Committed Suicide Yesterday At The Scene by Notatribalist(m): 7:02pm On Mar 20, 2017 |
Lucasinho: what is ur occupation? I am a forex trader bro.pls if u can help me bro,I will be your slave forever. I am not missing words bro,I will happily remain ur slave forever.I can't explain how depression is dealing with me.imaging living for 9years without 1munites happiness. I have wondered if God truly exist.pls I NEED A HELP PLEASE. |
Crime › Re: The Mother Of The Medical Doctor Who Committed Suicide Yesterday At The Scene by Notatribalist(m): 4:04pm On Mar 20, 2017 |
Lucasinho: Good to know dat u r a Xtian 
Depression is the physical and emotional result of hopelessness – the ‘feeling‘ of hopelessness. We live in a world devoid of hope, and depression is the emotional product of that reality. The only thing that will actually change one’s life sufficiently as to destroy the cause, mechanics, and effects of depression is God’s hope and His word of hope. The answer is to get God’s hope back inside of you.
Hope will let you again see the ‘future positive possibility’ of your life. Without seeing it you will have no motivation or strength. The good Word of God, and the good word of others to you, can change the outlook and condition or your heart. Fight for God’s outlook with all you have. Fight it with the Word of God. (Also, confess the scriptures on Hopelessness.) Anyone who is among the living has hope.
God’s hope encourages, motivates, and keeps you on the road to faith, peace, and victory. And if you suffer from deep ongoing depression, seek out and get help. And please read this – Helping Others Is God’s Prescription for Depression. Send me a comment, we love you and we want to help you. You are important and you have value. You are not alone. With God’s help, you will climb out of this hole.
Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs it down (depression), but a good word cheers it up. Proverbs 12:25 Holman Christian Standard Bible
These scriptures on depression will give you hope and will build your faith. Confess and meditate on them to win the fight against depression. The key is not losing Hope. Allow the hope of God to seep back into you. Remember, there is a real Person (God) behind each and every one of these promises. He promised them to you for a reason – to help you.
Deuteronomy 31:8 – The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.
Deuteronomy 33:27 – The eternal God is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms.
2 Samuel 22:17-22 – He sent from above, he took me; he drew me out of many waters; (18) He delivered me from my strong enemy, and from them that hated me: for they were too strong for me. (19) They prevented me in the day of my calamity: but the Lord was my stay. (20) He brought me forth also into a large place: he delivered me, because he delighted in me. (21) The Lord rewarded me according to my righteousness: according to the cleanness of my hands hath he recompensed me. (22) For I have kept the ways of the Lord, and have not wickedly departed from my God.
Go through these verses also:
2 Samuel 22:29 Ecclesiastes 9:4 Psalms 9:9 Psalm 27:14 Psalm 31:22,24 Psalm 34:18, 19 Psalm 37:23-24 Psalm 43:5 Psalm 55:22 Proverbs 12:25 Isaiah 26:3-4 Isaiah 35:10 II Corinthians 7:6-7 Philippians 4:6-7 James 4:8 James 4:10 1 Peter 5:7 1 Peter 4:13 1 Peter 4:12 2 Peter 2:9 i really need a help o,I won't lie.I have done everything within my power with solution. I hav vow to became a slave to who ever help me out of this condition, is not easy to be depressed at all. |
Crime › Re: The Mother Of The Medical Doctor Who Committed Suicide Yesterday At The Scene by Notatribalist(m): 4:00pm On Mar 20, 2017 |
Lucasinho: Good to know dat u r a Xtian 
Depression is the physical and emotional result of hopelessness – the ‘feeling‘ of hopelessness. We live in a world devoid of hope, and depression is the emotional product of that reality. The only thing that will actually change one’s life sufficiently as to destroy the cause, mechanics, and effects of depression is God’s hope and His word of hope. The answer is to get God’s hope back inside of you.
Hope will let you again see the ‘future positive possibility’ of your life. Without seeing it you will have no motivation or strength. The good Word of God, and the good word of others to you, can change the outlook and condition or your heart. Fight for God’s outlook with all you have. Fight it with the Word of God. (Also, confess the scriptures on Hopelessness.) Anyone who is among the living has hope.
God’s hope encourages, motivates, and keeps you on the road to faith, peace, and victory. And if you suffer from deep ongoing depression, seek out and get help. And please read this – Helping Others Is God’s Prescription for Depression. Send me a comment, we love you and we want to help you. You are important and you have value. You are not alone. With God’s help, you will climb out of this hole.
Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs it down (depression), but a good word cheers it up. Proverbs 12:25 Holman Christian Standard Bible
These scriptures on depression will give you hope and will build your faith. Confess and meditate on them to win the fight against depression. The key is not losing Hope. Allow the hope of God to seep back into you. Remember, there is a real Person (God) behind each and every one of these promises. He promised them to you for a reason – to help you.
Deuteronomy 31:8 – The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.
Deuteronomy 33:27 – The eternal God is your refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms.
2 Samuel 22:17-22 – He sent from above, he took me; he drew me out of many waters; (18) He delivered me from my strong enemy, and from them that hated me: for they were too strong for me. (19) They prevented me in the day of my calamity: but the Lord was my stay. (20) He brought me forth also into a large place: he delivered me, because he delighted in me. (21) The Lord rewarded me according to my righteousness: according to the cleanness of my hands hath he recompensed me. (22) For I have kept the ways of the Lord, and have not wickedly departed from my God.
Go through these verses also:
2 Samuel 22:29 Ecclesiastes 9:4 Psalms 9:9 Psalm 27:14 Psalm 31:22,24 Psalm 34:18, 19 Psalm 37:23-24 Psalm 43:5 Psalm 55:22 Proverbs 12:25 Isaiah 26:3-4 Isaiah 35:10 II Corinthians 7:6-7 Philippians 4:6-7 James 4:8 James 4:10 1 Peter 5:7 1 Peter 4:13 1 Peter 4:12 2 Peter 2:9 first I hav to thank u for taking your time to send me this,it shows that u care for me even without knowing me in person. is supper difficult for me to pray fervently or study the scripture.you see,nothing can be done without motivation, without urg to do it.I hav no urge to even read at all,not to talk of all this verses u asked me to read.anyway,I will force myself which I know it will not be easy.thanx a lot. |
Crime › Re: Woman Jumps Into Lagoon From Maza-Maza Bridge In Lagos (Photo) by Notatribalist(m): 3:01pm On Mar 20, 2017 |
Temidayo9: Hnmm, Suicides is never a solution to depression, infact both depression and suicide re of the devil.... Bible said we should rebuke the devil and it will flee away from us. Pray so much bro, May God help you. thanx but no interest in prayers, the urge is just not there. U will not understand what I am going thru. |
Crime › Re: The Mother Of The Medical Doctor Who Committed Suicide Yesterday At The Scene by Notatribalist(m): 2:57pm On Mar 20, 2017 |
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Crime › Re: Woman Jumps Into Lagoon From Maza-Maza Bridge In Lagos (Photo) by Notatribalist(m): 1:54pm On Mar 20, 2017 |
I don't blame them at all,if u have never bn depressed u will never understand how it feels like to be depressed. I cry for help everyday but no one cares to listen,I just hope I don't end up commitin suicide.is it stands now my life is just miserable. |
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