SugarPink23: Please I'll like to ask you guys not to judge me. That's why I created this account, because lots of people know me offline from my original Nairaland account. I just want honest advice and opinions. Nobody is perfect. We all have flaws. Let's not be hypocrites.
So there was this guy I met months ago. He's very attractive and very intelligent. He's also very interesting and fun to be around. But above all, I'm very sexually attracted to him. Like I get wet just standing close to him. Almost everything about him turns me on. Our friendship was very short and he ended things with me over text when we had an argument. At the time I felt he was being very immature and being unfair to me because what he accused me of doing, wasn't even true. The end of the friendship was painful for me because even though we hadn't had sex, I sent nudes, had sex chats, and we had feelings for each other. I deleted his number afterwards and vowed not to contact him again.
I thought I'd get over him, but I haven't. It's been 2 months since I last talked to him and I'm still in love with him. I haven't texted him and he hasn't reached out. A part of me is still yearning for him to reach out. It hurts knowing that he doesn't care about me anymore. I think about him everyday and still have dreams of him.
I just started going out with this new guy and I feel underwhelmed by the relationship. My current boyfriend is a great guy that cares about me, but I'm not as attracted to him as I am to the previous guy. Even though I didn't have sex with the previous guy, I feel that sex with him would be more fun and enjoyable than the sex I currently have with my boyfriend.
Sometimes when I'm alone I shed tears when I think about the previous guy and how he pushed me out of his life like I was worthless to him, despite him telling me that I was special. I'm still deeply in love with him and I feel like I'm being unfair to my current boyfriend.
I'm afraid to contact the previous guy because I fear he might ignore me or worse, say something negative that would.make me feel even worse. I don't think he wants anything to do with me anymore.
I'm so confused. I don't know what to do.
Madam,sexual attraction does not mean love oo,don't deceive yourself.. You can have sex with him this moment and the next day the feelings will disappear.
CandyOps: there's an official price around 14k or so but then it'll take ages for the p.port to be processed.
And there's a backdoor option called instant passport. that one na like 30 something then don't know about now. You pay the bribe and they run it for and capture your pic same day.
You can either be a good Nigerian and go the first route or you be a better Nigerian and use the 2nd option.
[s]You go sha need like utility bill receipts I think[/s]
You think?you're not sure and you're giving out the advice. Op you don't need that shirt.
freshgbedu: A 37-year-old man, Abdullah Gedo, popularly known as Duley, has been stoned to death by some unknown residents at Jerusalem, a suburb of Tema Newtown in the Tema region.
The suspect is alleged to have stolen a cat with an accomplice who is currently on the run, on Sunday dawn in the area, when luck eluded him.
According to sources, some young men who were on a community patrol chanced on the suspect with his goodies and started hitting him with concrete slabs and other materials, leaving him bleeding to death. The suspect was found in a pool of blood with a dead cat and concrete slabs beside him.
An eyewitness, Emmanuel Adjei, told Atinka News, he chanced upon some four individuals who were trying to resuscitate the deceased at 4 am during his visit to a public toilet. He said upon further enquiry, he realized he knew the suspect and dashed to inform his family about his predicament. Read More
Very foolish reporting. Can't you simply add Ghana?Or is tema region now in Nigeria?
priceaction: This is a pure scam. I have being in trading in financial markets for 18 years and forex market for 13 years. I know a scam when I see one. Never put hope in this statement. The money has gone for ever. Let him show the world some of the account numbers with the name of the banks and let peopleverify they it was close down. Fg has denied it. Very soon, the investors will forget about it and move on while he hides somewhere in Asia or Europe and enjoy his life and people's money with sluts.
Thank you..I have also been trading since 2002.
And to hear him claim pandemic effected his trades pisses me off..We all knw that we can profit from both falling/bearish and rising/bullish market.So how exactly was him affected? I guess he was using Peter's money to pay Paul..lol
saintdeby: The Ceo of MBA trading and investment Ltd Maxwell has addressed investors in a 15min video where he spoke on the recent challenges the investment company is current facing .
The ceo attributed the the delay of payments to the frustration recieved from regulators and banks since early 2019 . He stated that the sanctions and set backs from regulators has caused the company a lot and is still affecting the company till date . He however assured investors that steps are being taken to ensure the company complies with regulator laws
The ceo Maxwell spoke about the pandemic that hit the continent . He said the company was affected negatively but they prioritized investors and ensured payments were made as at when due .
Thirdly , he spoke about loosing accounts to 6 banks inferring that he couldn’t pay proceeds from those banks due to the fact that their accounts were closed .
He also made it clear to investors that going forward he is going to liquidate all capital and pay back investors pending when the company sorts itself out with regulators .
He adjourned the public not to use legal representatives in escalating the current situation citing previous examples and notably stating that it would halt all operations and most likely investors would not get their monies back if they follow that path .
See,let me tell you the truth.. This MBA forex is not coming back..I listened to the video and the part where he spoke about pandemic affected their resource got me pissed.Every true forex traders knows that pandemic didn't affect forex,the reason is because in falling market you can also profit in forex trading.. That statement clearly shows that he was never using people's money for trading.. So sad
Poloyanabo2: While I support the petition for this man to be sacked for unethical conduct, I'll refrain from blaming him for the paternity fraud that took place that led to tunde Thomas's death,
The hoely woman if she was wise should have used contraceptives like Postinor2 after each meeting to avoid bringing an unknown pregnancy to her husband, but she didn't.... Or was she forced to also give birth to the MDs offsprings?
What manner of gross irresponsibility on her part. 600yrs for her anywhere she runs to.
[s]Dunno why FTC is way too easy for me these days[/s].
Your mates are celebrating millions you're here celebrating FTC.
allgoodlight: There are some things you shouldn't be seen doing as a guy. If you want to be respected as a gentleman, and you want to protect your self-respect and dignity, there are some rules when it comes to social relationships that you should not break, no matter how much you like a girl.
Girls like guys that have self-respect, and that explains why you should never break these six rules, no matter how pretty a girl is, or how much you like her.
1. If You text a girl on social media and she doesn't respond, don't text her again
This is the first rule when it comes to social relationship. You don't want to appear as being thirsty or over-demanding, you have to remain classy even when you're texting a girl for the first time, which explains why you shouldn't text her multiple times if she doesn't reply the first text.
2. When a girl accepts your friend request on a social media platform, don't go into her dm and start typing, "Thanks for accepting my request" or "Thanks for following me back", if you do so, you'll make her feel too important, and she'll start seeing you as being immature.
3. Before you enter a girl's dm, make sure she's the one that asked you to.
Don't just enter a girl's dm without seeking her consent, she might not respond to you if you don't seek her consent first. And since you want to appear as being classy and cool, you need to seek her consent first, before texting her for the first time.
4. When chatting with a girl online, don't bote her with too many questions
You don't want your conversation to turn into an interview, so when chatting with a girl, make sure you don't ask too many questions. And if you'll be asking any question at all, make sure they are not dead-end questions, that is, yes or no questions.
5. Don't be all over a girl's social media pages
Just like I said earlier, you don't want to appear as being thirsty or over-demanding, so you shouldn't be all over a girl's social media pages, liking her pictures and commenting on all her posts. You should never do that, no matter how much you like the girl.
6. Don't always be the first to initiate the chats
You need to know if she's interested in having a conversation with you, and the only way you can get to know is to wait for her sometimes, and let her initiate the conversation.
THANK YOU,THANK YOU,THANK YOU...The numbers 6 is my new law,I should not be the only one initiating a conversation.. And when conversing I should not also be the only one who brings up topic.
aylipple: An Atlanta, US-based lady has accused the richest black man on earth, Alhaji Aliko Dangote of breaking her heart.
The lady - who goes by the name @iambealewis on Instagram - in a post to her over 2,000 followers to mark the end of 2020, claimed the Nigerian multi-billionaire broke her heart "in 1,000 pieces".
In the same post, she however credits him with changing her perspective on work ethic and patience.
She also said she learnt more from him than any person she had ever met.
She further uploaded a close-up photo of her with Dangote & a Valentine Card purportedly signed by him to her.
TheManofTomorrow: As this year comes to an end tonight. A lot of appreciation to friends and loved ones, best wishes for the coming year are flying around. A lot are optimistic about the coming year.
It has been the best year for some yet the worse for many others.
I won't like to bore you all with happenings of this year. But one thing is for sure, we all agreed that this year had been one of a kind thanks to brother Corona and Chief ASUU especially.(for students )
We succeeded at some things, failed woefully at many others but above all we learnt and got more experience.
I learnt a lot of things and I'm sure we all did. Here are some of the core lessons 2020 succeeded in teaching me hardcore
1. Never to be afraid to taking risk especially when it comes to financial liberation. So long a business/investment is in good standing, go for it(wisely) if you have the financial muscle. That might just give you the financial breakthrough you have been hoping for.
2. To always try to get out of my "comfort zone No matter how comfortable your comfort zone might be, always strive to "be more" and uncomfortable. Trust me, that's the only way you can grow.
3. To build my network. After all, in this age and time, your NETWORK determines your networth. No long talk about it. We all know where Nigeria tilting towards and how things are being run
4. To always stay informed Omo, information is power, this year was the year I knew the worth of that popular saying. Information is sometimes what differentiate the Middle class from the rich. Information has a way of placing you one step ahead amongst your peer. Trust me.
5. [s]Not to stay depressed for too long. Depression is a state of mind we all have experienced on occasions in our life regardless of the reason(s). Always pick yourself up, dust your sneakers and get back on the track . Life continues and you can't get the most out of life by staying depressed.[/s]
Okay, Nairalanders, let's hear yours too, hopefully someone picks a lesson or two.
What you described here is sadness not depression.. Do you know what depression is?you think you can just dust yourself up from depression like that?
paddyDIGITAL: There will always be a way out. Who knows if another platform will emerge in 2021 to beat Whatsapp.
Telegram is there already. The only WhatsApp has that telegram does not have is status.And telegram can be used to send over 2 hours video, unlike WhatsApp
Psalmy2cute: I see no point in demolishing the hotel... we have too many leaders with poor reasoning capacity.... theres alot of homeless northerners loitering the street.. take them off the f#cking street for f#ck sake..
you suggestion is as worse as Hell rufia decision. Is sex party a crime?If it is is demolition of the building the penalty?Like hell rufia like wike..wicked governors
seunmsg: PDP got backdoor victory in Bayelsa and Zamfara and heaven did not fall. If the court do APC the same Favour, heaven will still not fall.
Instead of trying to denigrate the court over a judgement that has not been entered, tell Obaseki and Shaibu to go and present their original certificates in court. Nothing else would save them.
And IMO state abi?you deliberately omitted that right? Shameless being.
Romance › Re: I'm In A Relationship, But I'm Still In Love With A Guy I Never Dated by Notatribalist(m): 10:33pm On Jan 05, 2021
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. Life continues and you can't get the most out of life by staying depressed.[/s]