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Seems this is the child that got missing on sallah day from his home at Lagos Island.

May he be found. Amen.

It's the full agbada asoke for me.

Always a relief seeing seeing men on properly sewn Agbadas not these our Lagos Agbadas that we manage cloth.

What is Agbada without adjusting both side of Arms, that's the beauty ke and the Ojude Oba men didn't disappoint.

Ojude Oba has always been like that, to show off the money.

I doubt any of these are knock offs, Ijebu people I hail ooo.

But bloggers get time oo, to check individual glasses.

Waiting for the handbag version.

Was still discussing with mum yesterday about Ojude Oba, how this no money we are shouting up and down will not stop anything, it will go down as usual.

It's always the aso-okes combinations that get me excited, see colors naaw, then the horses and all.

See women properly dressed in native attires and looking so peng, you can't even try to wear 'omo wobe' cloth around them the kind bombastic side eyes those aunties will give you ehn.

And we always get to see 'properly sewn' Agbadas on the men.



Kekere Ijebu owoni
Agba Ijebu Owo ni

And then you see the display of wealth.

She said refrigerator not freezer.

Freezing is different from refrigerating.

It's like it's the season of people bashing christains, pastors and christainity.

Lord have mercy.

Whats the essence of the question or the video Gan. All for traffic? Views or what?

For the Jumbo packs
Kiss kids 8500
Nigerian Huggies 7k as at last Thursday in trade fair.

ruffhandu:
For me, na to boil borehole water we been dey do. At some point, she switched to pure water. I didn't trust pure water (she boils the water for the kids). I started travelling to shell water point to get potable water, she go still boil am before giving the children, me I drink it directly because I believe it is clean enough. At some point, it was too stressful for me going to shell. So, she switched to bottle water.

I had to refrain a little to cut down on the frequency of frictions, and, I've been trying to indoctrinate my kids on the needful so it doesn't look like I am the bad parent.

It is well oo, from what you have said your your bore hole water is clean enough to be boiled , bottled water is a whole lot of money in this 700k mata.

Then the bottled water is not necessary at all, kuku boil it. No little baby among your children.


You guys just need to cut off on some things and you will be fine. Pls speak to her everyone is being reasonable with this economy.

ruffhandu:
Thank you my brother. If I am in charge, I go very low, I no send anybody because nobody feeds me.

Yes, she makes fresh juice every morning for their lunch in school. The kids got tired of the fresh juice that they ignore it and return with it sometimes. Now she buys other drnks like yoghurt, chocolate and milkshake. Said she will be alternating them so they still drink the fresh juice when she gives them.

She complains i am too strict, and sometimes go for cheap things at the expense of quality. Always blackmailing me with the kids' health. That was why I withdrew a bit, before I'll be blamed if my kids fall sick. But, no be naija we dey? They still fall sick once in a while. It was in that regards she stopped them from drinking any other water but Eva.

I know some of these are not neccessary, but I just look away sometimes in order not to be 'too' strict'.

For comparison of standard, it's a NO. She knows nobody dares that in my house. Na she just set the standard, which if allowed, i will definitely lower it. Once in a while we dey clash, but you know how e dey be.

For context I am female and I understand how it can be trying to give the children the best especially with food to make them healthy. Health is wealth. Children are always prioritized but some of your children are old enough to begin to understand some things.


If it's drinking bottled water that will make them not fall sick then you guys have no choice but to continue. Now I am assuming water supply in your axis is not clean enough to be boiled for drinking because even the costs of bottled water alone for 4 kids in a month is a whole lot of money. Some snacks can be cut off once once, the fresh juices are still okay it's healthy though expensive.


You guys just have to find a way around the costs, you sound strained already.

Talk to her.

ruffhandu:
Basically food, and any other thing she or the family needs, because school fees is not part of it.

Depending on your families 'standard' considering the cost of feeding and ' every other thing your family needs apart from school fees then 700k is not too much.

Basically what I see here is a standard.

Is your family the rice krispies, peak milk only, expensive cereals type? No akamu once a while? (even akamu sef is costly)

Feeding is crazily expensive, all groceries are crazily expensive. Does she make fresh juices for your children etc etc. It all depends on the standard. Is the car taken everywhere instead of entering Keke sometimes? Every other thing needed for the house too is crazily expensive these days.
Do you guys subconsciously feel you need to meet up with a particular standard in the area you live?
Do you guys have to run Gen always once there's no light etc etc.


All These above are factors. And all these big big amount has little value these days. Full tank of 60liters plus is a lot of money now.


What I will advise you do is talk to her on how you guys can reduce cost, since you are feeling strained already reduce the standard a bit, so that some cash can be squeezed out, good thing you don't have toddlers your children are of the age they will understand small small, some extras can be Withdrawn. Most families are now joining heads together on how things can work finaincially these days.

I am more than certain that it is food that takes a large chunk of that amount. What we put in our mouth costs so much more these days.


It is well bros.

General upkeep, fueling and maintenance of car.

What is general upkeep?

List what it consists of?

Daryl123:
Good afternoon mummies in the house, I'm sorry for posting this here, my husband doesn't allow me to take our children to the village, this is the only issue I have with him.
My parents are in the village, don't I have right to take the children to go and see my parents..?
Please I need advise before I take decision that I wil regret.
Is it something I should worry about ?
His reason for not allowing me is to avoid the children being attack spiritually. Please mummies and daddies help me.
P.S I'm posting it here get the views of matured people, I don't want drama in the family section, please pardon me. Thank you.

Let it slide, since it's not like he's against your family personally, he's scared of village people and young children can be vulnerable.

Some peeps don't take their young children to either parents villages till they pass the young stage.

You can do video calls with your parents till they grow older. I can understand your pain but it's not worth it.

It's the reaction for me loool. Wait like this happened during a church service. The one I watched on FB had people dragging down roofs and using sticks to break down walls. Loool. Na real wa ooo.

How safe is it for people to break walls, if it falls on someone's head nko?

Church sold a property probably to move a bigger location and the church who bought it is reacting like this. On top one property?

If a church want to sell their property Does it not even make sense to sell it to another close by church who would need the expansion? Why does it now look like one kain victory. Is it today churches will be buying properties?

Let's wait for those who will drag MFM G. O on this one.

Generally this season is when tomatoes is costly (may June and a bit of July till the watery species come out) but seems this year's own is not just the normal tomatoes scarcity season, there's more to it because pepper Bawa Tatashe is also expensive.

Maybe the rains plus transport costs but then transport has been expensive since beginning of this year.

This is terrible, can't believe this it has to be a skit.

She can't even listen to her mum talking sense to her.

The mama sef dey yab persin sha lool, iyawo onijekuje, Awon to ma gba oko e ti duro.

Persin wey buy obuko this season na oga oo.

The rate at which some of these Ogas harass women at work especially in the MDAs or whatever is so nauseating. Even the younger level guys are not left out too anything in skirt

Especially small small girls on IT and Corpers those ones will now feel on top of the world an be disrespecting their bosses because they are sleeping with Oga at the top.

The more shameless ones always extend their shamelessness to married women.

One married with 4 children was harassing an IT student in my unit, very decent girl oo, that one reported to me, by the time I asked they said that's how he does she should just avoid him, shameless men everywhere looking for young innocent girls to prey on.


Kati Kati.

If it's a Nigerian church now, the church will be dragged for not forgiving, if it's a church founded by a man the leader will be dragged and dragged.

My cousin lost her subsequent babies twice back then early 2000s, not knowing there was an error in her blood grouping it was done again and it was realized she was B- she has only one child till date, he graduated from the uni and has finished serving.

I think the damage had already been done before they realized the real blood group.

Sahara reporters and Pastors. He's always there in defamation matters.

Franchising killed the brand, they should have just maintained the way it was.

The one that used to be at bode thomas/ adeniran Ogunsanya intersection was our goto place then.



I was still humming their 10th anniversary song today sef.

Mr biggs is 10 come share with us lots of fun and excitement.........

vanitybutiwanti:
No biggie, I met sanwo olu in one of the MFM branches in lekki in 2018, he was not governor at that time.

I wonder oo, in SR will accuse everyone they can now it's Sanwo they want to drag simply because he's the governor.

If they make a wrong statement now and they get sued they will still say it's MFM.

Sanwo was not even governor during the the major case flying around SM.

Lool, now it's Sanwo Olu they want to drag on this matter. Sanwo was the governor in 2009 - 2016 when one of the cases happened right?

So the man cannot attend church services in peace again.

Sahara reporters should choose their words one wrong statement against Sanwo olu and they can get sued by the governor and they will still blame Mfm for it.

It's well, in some areas if you want to carry bag of rice you better wrap it with that black waste Nylon.

Now sef some neighbors are being careful if you go food shopping you can reverse your car totally to your entrance and quickly transfer your items to your apartment without prying eyes if you live in a general compound.

All this depends on where you live sha.

Seems the kind of compound envy is now those who can feed comfortably 3 times daily.

Technically she just needs to pick up the items strewn on the floor, fold the clothes and do the dishes. I thought it was worse than this.

Something as simple as washing plates immediately after eating will solve the kitchen sink issue.

E no reach all this video he's doing up and down and posting online to disgrace the wife. His choice of words are cutting deep and she will never forgive or forget them. He's immature and this won't solve the problem at all. He might come hone to a text book clean house but he might have a bitter wife.

Or better still he can help her out and they do it together after all women make money and still tidy the home after coming back, even when some men are at home doing nothing, it's no big deal.

bukatyne:
Both parties hands are not clean in this case.

It is just that the pastor & wife has lost the support of their major patrons hence the exposure.

Well

He should still have taken the posting calmly, not resigning. I personally don't fancy when people resist church discipline.

I actually watched a clip of the press conference on YouTube. Interesting..

They have addressed the issue the proper way - a press conference.

The parties involved were there at least we have now seen the face of the Mr Gbadamosi CSO and he said has never been to ogbomosho before.

The church is right on this one thing though, they had to report to the law enforcement agencies.

I hope NL resident poster of the allegations against MFM. OLAADEGEBU will post this press conference in his updates.

I won't even be surprised if Sahara reporters ignores this.

And naturally this won't go viral as bad news about CHURCHES spread faster.















https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vguCzkE-A44?si=bTt7xVuefZePERiG

Now later if this man starts saying nonsense about the church people will be saying it's true.

Lots of Nigerians christains are not Christlike pastors included.

If you cannot take discipline, you really are not a christain.

Ordinary posting - resignation lool.

If it were some other churches Gan just for his wife inviting flavor to her birthday. Both of them will be suspended and sit at the back of the church for long and he will do it in good fate because it's discipline.

G. Os are trying honestly. When churches begin to grow with many branches different fruits begin to yield, the wolves will join the sheep and the greedy nature of Nigerians begin to show. How many places G. O want to be.

The hypocrisy on this thread is sickening.


Take your mum to the hospital, tell the doctor what you suspect and they will test and confirm and she will know her status and start treatment, let's hope it's not late this one you are saying shes terribly sick.

I am even shocked you have not done the above already.

She has a right to know she got it from your father though, but we all know he won't tell her.

Women should protect themselves, as they are saying don't judge the father that's how they will say it.

The comments on the 1st 2 pages are mostly terrible.

Shey she doesn't have brain Injury like this?

What is people's issue with this?

It's a min of women affairs programso it's for women only for those pissed that it's women getting the Keke.

This is not different from sharing grinding machines, hair dryers etc.

Women ride Keke and korope in Lagos already so what exactly is the problem with some people shouting up and down about women riding keke.

Keke that is not small money? As if they will not collect if they have the opportunity.

This woman has used her office for a lot of good health related projects over time (Infant and maternal health)

She's doing well.

Those that take alcohol should better be drinking palm wine at least even if that one will be fake na water the tappers go add.


That baby food own still shocks me till date.