Politics › Re: Is It Inferiority Complex?: Why Some People In South South Answer Niger Delta by nsiba: 5:35am On Apr 25, 2020 |
Coldie: So u think say if them dae call south south dog go come out . Wetin concern you pricks with south south, why can't you basta-rds mind ur 4kin bizness Chickens nu de talk with dogs |
Crime › Re: They Raped Us As Initiation Into Their Cult — Victims Cry Out [VIDEO] by nsiba: 5:32am On Apr 25, 2020 |
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Culture › Re: Ever Seen An Igbo Begging For Alms?(photo) by nsiba: 5:30am On Apr 25, 2020 |
Coldie: Ibibios beg while walking with dogs. They beg with dogs as there guides . Ibibios roll with dogs while IBOs roll with chickens....ask you father between Ojukwu and Phillip Effiong who was the real General |
Romance › Re: Should I Lend My Boyfriend Money? by nsiba: 5:25am On Apr 25, 2020 |
Coldie: See wetin dog born...lol Na 404 coward de talk self |
Crime › Re: They Raped Us As Initiation Into Their Cult — Victims Cry Out [VIDEO] by nsiba: 5:15am On Apr 25, 2020 |
Coldie: Dog meat how far . Na 404 we de call am but in Ondo and Plateau state na dog meat While for South Korea na national delicacy Shey u don worship KANU dis morning |
Crime › Re: They Raped Us As Initiation Into Their Cult — Victims Cry Out [VIDEO] by nsiba: 4:04am On Apr 25, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: COVID-19: Can Africa Afford Lockdowns? - Charles Soludo by nsiba: 9:42pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Words of a Guru |
Culture › Re: Chanel Chin: Oluwo Used To Beat Me, Cheated With Our Housemaid by nsiba: 9:26pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Drama queen meets foolish king |
Family › Re: I'm Not Happy With My Mom's Behaviour Towards My Adopted Sister by nsiba: 9:19pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Dganji: More than ever am not happy with my mom.
I have this younger sister who was adopted by my dad from his younger sister (her father is late), she's just 10 years of age and I really don't like my mom's attitude towards that little girl. In the past when i was much younger, my mom had many quarrels with the mother of my adopted sister which I really can't give accurate count on who's right or wrong, but for the record my aunty (younger sis mom) is very troublesome no doubt.
She started living with us June last year and I noticed she's always very happy when me or my dad comes home. I was thinking it was because we were very nice to her, not knowing the kind of pressure she was going through at home.
Several occasions I have seen my mom saying too many harsh words to that little girl which I am not comfortable with but I've had to keep my calm. I feel reacting would make my mom hate her more as she might feel the little girl has turned her children against her.
The saddest part of it is that our last born who's 15 years is taking the same part with my mom in frustrating that little girl. Today Ilost my cool and reacted and truth is I'm not willing to continue keeping calm again.
My immediate younger brother (we are 3 boys and no girl) decided to start taking this my little sister out for jugging cos she's too fat. She always returns home crying cos of the pressure they put on her to jug. My mom on hearing her cry today came out and started beating her and saying hatefull words to her, including insulting her mom, calling her mom names which honestly would get any child angry if they are told same about their parent.
Out of annoyance I got up and shouted at my mom to leave her alone that it's becoming too bad for her as a mother to treath children like that. Instantly my mom kept calm and guilt was written all over her face. I'm honestly not happy about disrespecting my mom but I'm no longer keeping my calm.
There was a time when my dad had to take similar action against my mom and it didnt go well for anybody, the little girl suffered more hate from my mom and my dad wasnt really happy with my mom that period.
Returning that little girl back to her mom is never an option as the environment where her mom is very negative and would no doubt worsen her situation.
Talking to my mom calmy about it has been done by me and my immediate younger brother but problem still persists.
My worries are. 1, the little girl 2, my youngest brother who is taking after my mom 3 me disrespecting my mom.
Nairalanders your advice would be appreciated on this situation. I already have what to do in mind already but I will love to hear from those who have experienced similar situation and how best to handle it. . Show this thread to you mum and brother, but don't think of tomorrow? |
Health › Re: 72 Nigerians Tested Positive For Coronavirus In Guangzhou - China Writes FG by nsiba: 9:12pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Chinkos are reptiles |
Culture › Re: Settlement Pattern Of Igbos And Yorubas Shows Their Different Political Culture by nsiba: 7:14pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Some will just wake up in the morning and say to themselves "what RUBBISH am I gonna write today"? |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Iran Launches First Military Satellite Into Orbit After Months Of Failure by nsiba: 6:45pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
ignis: For what? . Baby plenty of things, bokoharam is making nonsense of us |
Health › Re: Bra-Shaped Face-Masks In Japan Sell Out Minutes After Launch (Photos) by nsiba: 6:28pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Sexy men! Just sexy |
Politics › Re: Is It Inferiority Complex?: Why Some People In South South Answer Niger Delta by nsiba: 6:23pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Neef2018: Stop spewing trash, we are all one. There is one south . You and who? You are Okoro from d East, I am not. Seems KANU gave u plenty of IPOB weed to smoke |
Politics › Re: Is It Inferiority Complex?: Why Some People In South South Answer Niger Delta by nsiba: 6:14pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
okpalaAnambra: Is it inferiority complex that make some folks in South south to replace their tribes with Niger Delta.. Just saw a post where ilegend used Niger Delta in association with other tribes of Hausa, Igbo and Yoruba
Fact check, Niger Delta is made up of ijaw, Ibibio, urhobo, itsekiri, Igbo, Ondo, etc...
Why then do some people hide their tribal identity under Niger Delta, is it inferiority complex? Why can't they mention if they're ijaw , urhobo or Ibibio etc . Why do IPOBs rats like talking nonsense? Why are IPOBs rats so obsessed with South south? Ibibio man talking.... |
Crime › Re: IBEDC Staff In Ogun Beaten For Distributing Electricity Bill (Disturbing Pics) by nsiba: 6:01pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Did guy na real MUMU dem no beat him well |
Politics › Re: Lati Raheem Is Dead! Tinubu's ‘Most Trusted’ Aide Dies After A Brief Illness by nsiba: 5:58pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Highorbit7016: No I placed the bet from money I deposit. I placed my bets clean and I won. They are pained I won so they want to force me to lose . If that be the case copy CPC NLRC( lotto commission) and EFCC on Twitter and Facebook then go to merrybet social media handle and paste it there too Men no dulling, no wasting of time |
Politics › Re: Lati Raheem Is Dead! Tinubu's ‘Most Trusted’ Aide Dies After A Brief Illness by nsiba: 5:47pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Highorbit7016: OK, I'll mail them now. Lagos state lottery board gave me a lawyer, she was the one that mailed me and she copied some other people. Thank you much. Merrybet are fraudulent! I'm honestly surprise they can be this way . If d terms and condition isn't broken bro fear not.... Still copy CPC |
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Politics › Re: Lati Raheem Is Dead! Tinubu's ‘Most Trusted’ Aide Dies After A Brief Illness by nsiba: 5:35pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Two very ugly things |
Politics › Re: Abba Kyari Tried To Clean Up Nigeria, Says The Economist Of London by nsiba: 5:32pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Nigeriawarlord: Abba Kyari was a good man. He was a true patriot!
He sacrificed ALL for our dear country!
The sacrifice of our hero (Abba Kyari) will NEVER be forgotten!
Posterity will surely remember him for good.
Rest well Mallam!
NigeriaWarlord.......For The Defense Of The Nation
. He tread where he ought not to and DIED of oversabi |
Romance › Re: South African Lady Calls Nigerian Girls 'prostitutes' And Calls Out Nigerian Men by nsiba: 5:18pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
And this made front page! Seun and the mods is are goats, wish I can use em for Ramadan sacrifice |
Education › Re: ASUU Salaries: Use Of BVN Will Expose Lecturers With Multiple Jobs – FG by nsiba: 3:56pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
FG representative always USELESS |
Crime › Re: Nene Steve & Joy Aboel: Housemaid Tortured To Death, Hanged To Fake Suicide by nsiba: 3:52pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Tiheanacho: You are an idiot. . And you the Chief of all idiots |
Phones › Re: Which Network Provider In Nigeria Has The Fastest Internet Connection? by nsiba: 12:54pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
kayo80: I'm tired of my Glo... Sometimes it will be okay (not fast), and sometimes it will be annoyingly slow.
After midnight, I can download a 100 mb movie within 2 minutes, but it will take 1 hour to download the same movie in the day time.
I also have Airtel line, and it is a bit faster than my Glo, but they zap data like crazy. Sometimes, they don't even warn you before your data finishes... You can have 400mb one minute, and the next, you get message you don't have data again.
I don't know how Etisalat and MTN are. Guys, which Network do you think I should go for? I really need fast internet connection cos of what I do on Instagram... Using Instagram with my Glo can be so frustrating. Sometimes I feel like throwing the Sim away, but they give some really good bonuses when you recharge a lot. . Glo is d best for me but if u like itself get all network |
Islam › Re: Is The One Who Dies Of The Coronavirus Disease A Martyr? by nsiba: 12:38pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Mightymanna: When you try confused religions with so many contradictions like 3 in 1 one god, you will reached this conclusion. But no sane person has ever tried Islam and left, Islam is the true religion God despite all the blackmails many people are trooping daily to accept Islam, with only only follower 1500 years back today we have 1.5 billions followers and it is just the begging. . When u marry 4wives and what do u expect? |
Crime › Re: Nene Steve & Joy Aboel: Housemaid Tortured To Death, Hanged To Fake Suicide by nsiba: 11:12am On Apr 24, 2020 |
IPOB loyalist just look at d very wicked face |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu's Statement About Apostle Suleman & Igbos Worshipping In His Church by nsiba: 8:36am On Apr 24, 2020 |
KANU....once a fool always a fool |
Education › Re: Police Summon The Angry Zambian Father Who Beat His Son Over Poor Result by nsiba: 6:34pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Chidonc: If this video was released by the wife, I swear I will throw her out. . If she is the one then what a shame, I will understand if any man react in ur direction |
Education › Re: Police Summon The Angry Zambian Father Who Beat His Son Over Poor Result by nsiba: 3:58pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
stanliwise: no now you know I haven’t done so. Even me would discipline my child. But I am trying to make you understand that your child is a human on his own. For the fact you’re his father makes him your son and not your slave so you technically don’t have an ultimate power over him. Instead you have the power of a father. The video that brought up the discussion ain’t bad in my own view but I suspect the video recording is a problem. Why throw that in the public . Wives are partners while children are our responsibilities The purpose for d viral video is what we don't know |
Education › Re: Police Summon The Angry Zambian Father Who Beat His Son Over Poor Result by nsiba: 3:00pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
stanliwise: Do you know Nigeria has the child protection Law/Act? Have you read it?
This same ideology lead a father to sell his child because he taught no one can question what he does to his child. . Omo na was for you! How can you be drawing up such conclusion? You just want to paint disciplining a child very evil just for whatever reason Now I see u r simply bent only on the negatives |