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Have you ever heard of, or worshipped with the Church of Christ?

Find out about them. There's still a few out there who follow the Scripture.

Double red cards for Nigeria. Bad.

I don't think your weight loss, and feeling tired often is a direct result of your sexual habit. What I think is that you may have health issues and that, visiting the hospital to be attended to by trained doctors might be the best step for you to take.

Best wishes.

My PC has been giving me this same ish, and this method has always worked for me...still using it till now.

pepperdemzombie:
If your keyboard is working,
Press F10
Next page, click system configuration
Click booth option
Press Enter
Click Legacy support
Press Enter
Choose Enable
Press Enter
Choose Yes to save changes
Press F10
Next page, you will see 4 digits with Enter
Input the digits and click Enter.
Windows will start.
Let me know if it works, I use it and it works.
If the keyboard didn't work, use an external keyboard
@starkid3010

Can you please have a little bit of self discipline? Because if you don't, you end up getting embarrassed and disgraced.

Self discipline. And Prayers. Confess to someone close to you, and ask them to help monitor your improvement.

Chelsea FC, Respects!

Hala Madrid!

Bravo, Villarreal!

This is your husband we're talking about. This is a private, family affair. Should there be any understanding, love and maturity in your marriage, your first move would've been to discuss this matter with your husband and get to know his reasons for keeping such records, instead of bringing it to a public place like nairaland.

No offense intended.

Vivian16:
Read all the psalms from psalm 1 to psalm 150, psalms are powerful prayers for deliverance read like 5 chapters everyday before the months runs out you must have read the whole psalms and you will never remain the same, it is the holy spirit that delivers people not by your own strength.

Interesting.

Here are few tips to consider:

1. Stop isolating yourself. Loneliness is a trigger. Try to be in the company of loved ones.

2. Find something to do to keep yourself busy. What I mean is, get a side hustle, learn a skill...just anything that will help concentrate your energy elsewhere.

3. Get a confidant and open up to him/her about your condition. Please let that person be someone who's matured emotionally, that wouldn't judge you. Your religious leader, best friend, girlfriend or boyfriend, or a lived one fall in this category. Ask the person to help monitor your improvement, and be honest enough to tell them whenever you default.

4. Everything good requires determination, sacrifice and faith.

5. Never rule out the place of God. Become prayerful.

Best wishes.

Help her, Man. The fact that you broke up with her doesn't mean you are now enemies. From your write-up, I can see it's borne out of a clear conscience... simply the humanity in you. Please help, BUT NEVER let the handshake go beyond the elbow.

Best wishes.

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Thank me later.

ellizy:
Thank you so much. The OP is not the only one in this mess…

True. The OP is very courageous. So many people are in this mess.

Good news is... Gambling can be stopped.

@OP, I'm going to write this with all honesty. You see, when it comes to Gambling and the resultant effects it leaves on you, you're not alone.
Few years ago, if anyone had told me I'd get roped into gambling, I'd not have believed him/her. Fast-forward to 2020, a year after my NYSC. The right job I wanted didn't land; hustle wasn't clicking, needs and many needs weren't met, colleagues and friends were way ahead of me, and WORST OF ALL, my savings of two years (2019 and 2020) was all gone as a result of wrong investment. I was devastated. Then, just like you, I read something online how someone made millions in gambling using just a token... Bro, I was all in - as in , completely in!

I opened a mobile account with BETKING using my phone. Any cash that came my way went into that. Bro, I can concur with you that the worst form of gambling you can ever get involved in is VIRTUAL BETTING. Cut one, re-betting to cover your loss... All that shit! My entire earnings of 2021 went into Gambling... And I got nothing out of it. I ended up borrowing from loan apps, and worse of all, my younger ones... I even used up the savings which members of my family had put together. I was all a MESS! USELESS. HOPELESS. All of that!

How I OVERCAME...
I discovered these after some serious thoughts:
1. To STOP, you need DETERMINATION; I mean a serious one, as if your life depended on it.
2. You need to avoid LONELINESS. the very moment you're lonely and indoors all through, that thought would start coming. Find a person you love, a skill you like and get engrossed with the person/thing. It'll help refocus your energy somewhere.
3. You need a CONFIDANT. I mean someone close to you... Confide in the person, open up completely. Ask that person to help monitor you, and be honest to that person if you've gone back or not.
4. Seek spiritual help. Pray. A lot.
5. Love yourself. Believe in yourself. Understand that everyone makes mistakes. FORGIVE yourself!

I overcame it. You too can. I do bet occasionally on Sports Bet with an amount that's negligible, but that's a million times better than Virtual bet.

May you win this. I'm on your side. Get in touch for some encouragement.

Let wisdom lead!

Whatever you plan to do, let it be out of a desire to right your wrongs, and not to take revenge or bring anyone down.

You mentioned that you "do not fear death" if it comes... I think you're not thinking straight.

Here's my suggestion: Get in contact with the relevant agencies (EFCC, FBI, INTERPOL) via their social media accounts or websites. Then furnish them with the necessary information... If they do well to make arrests, fine.

But no go dey beat chest dey form King Kong. Hide your identity. Receive Sense in Jesus' name.

Here's my suggestion:
Go to an individual that your boyfriend respects very much and obeys; his parents, pastor, mentor or relative... Open up to them about the covenant you entered into, and WHY you want to end the relationship (please have a good reason for this).

Beg them to talk to your boyfriend on your behalf, and make him see why the two of you cannot continue the relationship anymore. When he's convinced it's for the good of both of you, then I'm sure he'd break the covenant voluntarily.

Try that.

Mmadu2:
How difficult is it to just block him and totally stop talking to him. If you truly see a yahoo guy as what they really are, you won't be talking to any let alone have a close raport with one.

A yahoo boy is 100% a threat to your life. They will use you and you either commit suicide or become useless when they're done.

Meanwhile they become more rich from sleeping with you.

I have my own brother in campus back in the day. He joined cult and I stopped every form of relating with him except goodmorning and nothing more. If I could be that way with my own brother to avoid entering a trap how much more you.

You are 100% the problem here and not him. You don't want to let go.

Abi oooo. If you don't want to have anything with him, what's the point still talking to (and maybe hanging out) with him? If you said NO, then let STOP having anything in common with him. You're playing with fire ooo

My dear, why would you go through such stress and many lies that could backfire? See, tell him to his face that he's a fraudster and that you can and WILL NEVER have anything to do with such a person.
Keep drumming this to him until he's fed up. In the case he doesn't relent, well, maybe you will take the extreme option: BLOCK HIM.

The illegal checkpoints on the Southeast roads were really cause for concern because of the level of extortion that were carried out by State's operatives.

Last January, I traveled from Ikot Ekpene to Benin, passing through Aba-Owerri-Onitsha road. I was so angry and mad that you can not even drive 500m without seeing a checkpoint, and the least amount they'd take from you was N200.
To my greatest surprise, the Immigration and even Road Safety personnel we're also taking their shares.

Somehow, all this has to stop.