₦airaland Forum

istoctober:
l had to open this account to tell this story and l know that l will be bashed for this but l really need to get it off my chest.
it was in 2014, that l cheated on him and since then, l have not been myself. l have confessed to Pastors but l can't forget it and my mind keep telling me that God has forgotten about me cos whenever l pray, l find it difficult to concentrate and that's why l want to confess to him.
l know he will send me packing because he said something like that to me and the fear is what is keeping me from confessing to him. l don't want to be disgraced out of my home cos my husband will definitely do it.
l can't blame him for my shortcomings but myself for allowing devil into my home.
l really need your advice for help.... You can curse me but l deserve it for being a loose woman but l seriously need help cos depression wants to take over my life that l think of suicide to escape shame and mockery from people in case he finds out.

Serious!

Please consider the following before you think of confessing, because he will ask you.

Who did you cheat on him with? Better not be his family member, friend, business partner, a lowlife (his driver, gateman etc), your old timer, because these will make it hard (not impossible) for him to pardon you.

Where did you cheat? Better not be in his home.

When did you cheat? Better not be moments when he was sick or had any problem.

Why did you cheat? No reason is cogent enough if you're legally married to him.

Confession is good, but seeking counsel before confession is the best move.

Added: Some praised and some condemned my choice of word "lowlife". I can understand. I wish you will all be there to hear the man speak after hearing the wife's confession, and she actually cheated with his husband's driver. 'istoctober' has apparently heard her husband's voice through me and she's better prepared.

Why didn't she come when I was there last year? Better come again in AUGUST.

meiyol:
I just lost my relationship due to genotype issues..he is AS and I'm AS. We knew abt our genotype incompatibility frm the very first day..we were cool with it or so i thought. We were together for a year nd some months before we switched to long distance relationship cos of his job. I'm a med student, he is a doctor, so we both knew wat it meant. I was cool with it cos the signs were there that God put us together..everybody knows it, his parents, my parents..we ourselves knew it that our paths were ordained by God.. Then suddenly, from nowhere, he comes up with dangers of having sickler kids, the diseases they face, their pain and all..he suddenly stopped talking abt d fact that we may be lucky not to have any of our kids as sicklers, or medical methods we could use like IVF and all..our parents are both aware of the genotype ish, mine are very okay with it. He said he's not sure his parents are okay with it and yet they call me EVERYDAY to assure me nothing will go wrong and to cheer me up and all.. i questioned him cos it made me feel he was looking for an opportunity to leave..and he didnt give me any reply, just stopped talking to me.
Our introduction was slated for next year, he is my first love, I've been so loyal nd i pray for him.. I feel so used and heartbroken..my instincts tell me something is wrong..I'm back to square 1, where would i start from? He was my best friend, my everything..now, it's just me

Thank your star. I know a family, all the 4 children are SS. One died, others are 'olókùnrùn' Forget that 'yeye' line we used to draw in Biology class.

Ngige now a king maker. Life!

They will still have more branches left than many banks combined.

Real Title:

ARMY RE-RECOVERED THEIR OWN WEAPONS EARLIER SEIZED BY BOKO HARAM.

Goddex:

GEJ as president had every authority to approve money for an agency.

So, are Buhari's men that took over from May 2015 telling us that NIA did not return the unspent money back to FG at the end of 2015 and even 2016? or was it GEJ's responsibility again to enforce that even after leaving office?

Buhari and his APC strategists are desperate to cover-up this matter.

Dementia.

When you keep doing what's wrong and you think it's right, convincing others to believe and do same.

Dementia.

Emekayoung:
Wat do i do. My baby boy dries up oil within 2 weeks after servicing. I use mobil XHP 20w 50. Though the engine does not smoke. And i always see vapour coming out of the exhaust tail wen ever i start the car in the morning or wen it's raining. Pls u guys shuld help me out...

Your engine actually smokes but not at start up or low speed driving.
To confirm, get into a tail car behind your car and let someone drive it in front of you at high speed, say 120-140km/hr.

Reason, your piston rings are intact but your oil sealant rings below the piston rings are chopped off a little bit. Repair work is very tedious cos your engine has to be dropped.

To manage it, drive at low speed and avoid a drive pattern that engages high and low gears intermitently especially when trying to overtake.

Cornel101:
Hahaha.. E pain am.Ozekhome is really a torn on the flesh of this clueless, clandestine govt.Based on logistics ozekhome has always bettered Efcc in courts with facts and stronger arguments.BMC can only rant online as usual.you ve the media but he owns the court.we actually know who the real scum is and not ozekhome.

Forget! That man is a fagģot.
He's Aondoakaa's brother. Watch out how he'll end.

adanny01:
That's farther than I expected. That's Zaria road. Should be up to 155miles from Abj. Guess ur cat is well and your car fuel trim is running on closed loop.

Mine is on open loop with bad cat and bad O2 sensor. It used to be well until the cat got blocked and the mechanic killed the O2 by hitting it.

Anyways, not a good thing to do though you weren't on high speed. You know fuel pump cools itself with the fuel it sits inside, such low fuel for that distance would reduce the life span of your pump considerably.

T'was a risk taken too far.

adanny01:
By my calculations, Zuba to Kaduna all things being equal should consume at best N1,650 - 11.4L of fuel and N2,350 16.2L at worst.

2003 Honda accord is stated to have a 67L tank. Usually, the pumps clicks for me at the range of 50-55L depending on how low on fuel the car is. By my assumption, 10L should be the reserve.

10L should get you 90 miles at very best and 64 for worst case. Usually it cuts it somewhere above mid way so 80miles would be probably it. If you add the 60miles you traveled before the light came on, you will get 140 which should get you around Abj junction in Kad.

That makes your estimates right. You make me wanna take the risk sometime.

It took me to Total Filling Station in Kawo where it stopped and refused to start for a while.

adanny01:
You mean you did Abuja to Kaduna starting from reserve? Wow!

Anyway, I believe it because I use like 2k fuel from Zuba to Kad. My normal speed is 140km/hr. I usually buy 2.5k fuel and will get to any location in Kad. I have never emptied my tank.

Kaduna to Abuja is 185km
Kaduna to Zuba is 165km.
The Low fuel indicator came on about 60km into the journey.

I don't know but Honda Accord of ALL cars travels the longest distance (75km/hr) as soon as the low fuel indicator light comes on.

I have tried it with my '03 Accord. I travelled a distance of 90km and then drove into a filling station and put off the engine, the car refused to start until after a while.

My speed never exceeded 100km/hr, I wind up all my mirrors to eliminate drag, did not use AC, was alone in the car, no heavy loads in my trunk, maintained one gear and never braked hard. Well, the road was good - Abuja to Kaduna.

Eyeballs soaked in tears already.

IamAirforce1:
She got what she deserved.

All you peeps who derive joy in tarnishing people's image, may such fate befall you guys.

OAP FREEZE is next. He'll be away for a much longer period.

Teensway:
Please NLders,

I'm still a teenager but through with my high school. So i decided to look for money and i got this job to work as supporting staff at a microfinance bank. I worked there for 4 months and stopped working Yesterday after receiving this month salary. I travelled today to register for jamb from my salary and when i got back home, my mum said my boss came looking for me that i must submit my resignation letter. I wrote the letter and gave it to him, he collected it and returned it telling me that i must return the salary. He said i should have given the company one month notice before i would have been eligible for my salary or else the company will come to our house and seize some property. I told him to show me where those terms were written in agreement i signed, he got angry and started calling me names and threatened me. Please what should i do, abeg help me.


NB: I left because of my boss(branch manager) and the remaining loan officer started asking me to do jobs that were not part of

Let met be plane to you. Your boss is right. You should have submitted NOTIFICATION OF RESIGNATION 30 days before. Someone got sued in my former office for causing losses and damages worth 5 million naira for this same incident. His parents came begging but the man refused to forgive him. You don't just run away from your employers.

To prevent ENGINE KNOCK, always look at your dash board for unusually lit indicator light.

Car Engine knocks very fast when you;

1. Drive at high temperature for too long without knowing. This is caused by leaky radiator, forgetting to return the radiator cover after filling with water or checking, bad water pump, bad radiator fan, etc.

2. Drive at high speed with very low or near-empty oil level.

3. Drive with bad oil pump.

What do you do?

Engineers can share office with architects/builders/surveyor.
Professional relationship matters.

Abuja Mallams are unwilling to buy at 390/$
They have incurred huge debts from the millions of dollars they bought from crooked bankers at outrageous prices hoping that TB Joshua's '650/$' prophecy would come to pass.

No matter the amount, if your rent is more than 35% of your annual salary and transportation is more than 20%, it's not a good salary.

Say:
Monthly salary = 100,000
Annual salary = 1,200,000
Rent; not more than 400,000
Transportation; not more than 240,000

A saving of not less than 20% must be guaranteed on the total package for you to consider the pay as good pay.

'Dollar is crash'!!!

It is finished.

FMary:
I just called abok I men that buys my dollar in Abuja.

The first guy said NGN 450 to $1 initially and I called a second man thinking it was a joke and the second person said NGN 410.

To my surprise I called the first man again after 30mins and he said it's NGN 420.

This dollars I made from blogging and hopping to sell high, my adsense payment just came it yesterday 23rd.

Na waoooo.... I will wait until next week, it will surely stabilize and go up again.

You still don't get it. Nigerian Government is ALL out to destroy black market completely. By the time the government is finished with black marketers, they will be finished completely!

I have a brother friend whose business is to buy wads of dollars for keep and wait for a rise in the value, and then sell in bits. He is among millions who are causing artificial scarcity and forcing the market to operate erratically the way it is right now.
Many unscropulous Nigerians will roll out their hidden dollars before it completely loses its profit and becomes a depreciated currency if the government can sustain it's effort to meet dollar demand of legitimate users.

All is well that ends well.

Deadvalley001:
brainless Afonja pig, Ibadan and Oyo are still the same, same brown roof republic.

Awka and Anambra are the same! Issorait.

Oyo State Landmass = 28,454 sqm
Anambra State Landmass = 4,544 sqm

What's the fuss?! I stood in a train from Surrey Quays to Heathrow: a journey of one hour.

nikkypearl:
which one be awosika shirt

awosika kor..ogberisebi ni

The opposite of "awosika" is "ogberiserere"

efilefun:
Stop displaying ur ignorance on here, its a project approved by ur otuoke god, and this administration refused to release funds for it

What's my business with who signs and approves what. I'm merely catching fun with mathematics.
I belong to no party, mr "know all"

obamabinladen:
OSIBANDE your VP's official resident's gate is been constructed for #250mil.

Three more gates and they are at par!

...shows how even more stupid the husband will become.

One or a combination of these factors may be the reason why wives bear children of other men in marriage.


1. Delay in conception. Woman looked elsewhere to double check and it clicked.
2. Old sexual relationship continued into marriage.
3. Office sex, especially between woman and her boss. Very common.
4. Culture. Unbelievable but true. A woman was caught having sex with a so-called brother who usually visited from village. All previous children belonged to him. Reason: the seed must carry their blood.
5. Extra marital affair.
6. Rape. The last thing a victim would want to talk about.
7. Deceit into sex by a trusted person from whom a woman had sought protection or help; priest, etc.
8. Perversion. Wife lusting after handsome, young, rich or strong men.
9. Sexual advance dangerous or consequential if resisted; from lecturer, public figure, etc.
10. Solution to poverty.

There's no reason under heaven that can make evil permissible. Evil is evil!