irenmwinfo:
Is it a sin for Christian couples to have sex on Sunday before going to church for worship even when the bible says observe to keep the Sabbath day Holy.

Some denominations fast every Sundays and break after service. If you belong there, you can not do it. If you are not bound by such doctrine "everyday is a good day"

But I know some women will not agree for the fact that the semen will keep irritating them from inside, and the fear of any embarrassing stain.

She's the man in the marriage. You have refused to grow up despite your marital status.

The last time I checked, DANGOTE's resumè is one of the shallowest. Nevertheless, he's boss.


My advise, the choice is yours to make.

praizblog:
nice concept

OrestesDante:
What is nice in the concept now? Is it until they fall inside water catch river blindness?

The optimist sees the doughnut, the pessimist sees the hole.

Interested party will call you today.

erico2k2:

Saying never use the book to service your car is equal to saying an ilitrate is driving a car, and That is the plain truth, cars come with service history/records.Why on earth will you give or tell a person not to follow instructions as per service on thier book is beyond comprehension.
Now, Oil disintegrate as per usage and does not brake down due to heat alone that is constant as specified in your Engine spec.(Normal Operating temperature)
Weather you are driving at 300 miles per hour or 100 miles per hour you Engine temperature is constant once you reach optimum operation.
Now cars like the range rover have a webasto to heat the Engine coolant to make it warm up quick in cold weather.
Reasons your Engine Oil will brake down
Oxidation
Moisture
Viscosity loss
Fuel dilution
High Heat
Manufacturers of these Oils know at what mileage this will all occur and stipulate when to have an Oil change 3000 miles minimum, even synthetic can go for 5000 miles or more, the 5W30 can go up to 10000 if full synthetic in some models.

Oga mi, this theory is good for a robot that does everything correctly.
I service my '03 Accord every month cos I fire it through 3000kM a month, and when I drain the oil, it's as black as charcoal. But I barely service the '014 corolla cos it scarcely goes far. Even at 7000kM the oil is still golden.

erico2k2:

Bro sincerely how does ur high speed and long distance affect interval of oil change ? All literatures point to milage only and time scale.so do U have any evidence of your stated reasons ?

If you do not know you ask.
Oil is depleted at high speed even with a very sound engine, the fraction may be negligibly small for brand new cars.
Oil is heated up and blackened at high and sustained speed making it to lose its predesigned viscosity.

If you own a car, never use the 'books' to service it. But rather, consider it's intensity of use if you do not want to damage your engine very quickly.

begwong:

Duration should be about 1000km. My opinion though and stand to be corrected by the gurus in the house.

5000kM interval, except for high speed/long distance travellers.

1234IKECHhukwu:
who do u think u re 4 u to call some one who earns a descent pay from his daily hussle a low life.

Well, the person concerned gets my point.

Jadonjack:


I shld insult you but I really do not see d need... Guess yu just need sm enlightnment...

What do you mean by LOW LIFE... People like yu will kill a driver or security man assignd to yu because of #100 because, to you, being a driver or a gateman makes them less of a man...

Well, I need not preach to yu... All I need do is plead with you to please treat people arround yu with respect no matter dere status... Who knws, that driver today may be yur boss tomoro cos NO CONDITION IS PERMANENT...

NB: I'm not supporting infidelity, I'm just trying to correct the person behind this moniker for the wrong choice of words

Good Counselors don't dance around problems by garnishing it with sweet words. I have merely spoken like I expected of the husband if and when he hears his wife's confession. I have helped the woman more that way.

MsJackson:
So drivers and gatemen are lowlives? YOU STUPIDITY KNOWS NO BOUNDS.

You needn't insult. A good counselor thinks like the troubled. I spoke like the husband would speak so as to put the woman in the light of the aftermath of her confession. It's my job.

Mbariga1:
your question makes no sence which age brankate is good for adultry

A good counselor advises based on age and other observed parameters. You're not. I am.

istoctober:


it will shock him. Am even worried about him hating me including other women entirely..
Definitely, he will send me packing for that.

I suspect he is a good man and you're genuinely sorrowful. I also have no doubt that you're truly repentant. Nonetheless, come out of your prison. Things will eventually fall in place with time.

istoctober:


l was 29, when l cheated

You needn't be precise. Well, there are over 500million 32 year old women out there.

istoctober:


l lost my three months preggy cos of my depreesion in Jan, 2016. Ever since, l have not been myself. l keep seeing myself as not worth living.
Each time l look at him, l have this guilty conscience that l have disappointed God and my parents. I cry in my lonely hours and it has made me to stay calm even in my right at home, l felt that l deserve everything that is happening to me.

I feel for you.

A healed wound would always leave behind a permanent scar. Please relax and deal with your feelings of guilt to heal the wound. Talk more to him on relevant, insensitive matters for the time being and give no room for suspicion. At the right time you can do the needful. Remember however, the scar won't go away, confession or not.

istoctober:


l have asked a pastor and he said l shouldn't confess but am worried cos he told me on Sunday that his uncle who is a native doctor will know if l am cheating on him.

I think you're giving him enough room to suspect you already. It seems to me that your confession won't shock him but will rather confirm his suspicion. Woman, sorry to ask, how old are you? (Give a range: above 25, above 35, etc)

istoctober:
l had to open this account to tell this story and l know that l will be bashed for this but l really need to get it off my chest.
it was in 2014, that l cheated on him and since then, l have not been myself. l have confessed to Pastors but l can't forget it and my mind keep telling me that God has forgotten about me cos whenever l pray, l find it difficult to concentrate and that's why l want to confess to him.
l know he will send me packing because he said something like that to me and the fear is what is keeping me from confessing to him. l don't want to be disgraced out of my home cos my husband will definitely do it.
l can't blame him for my shortcomings but myself for allowing devil into my home.
l really need your advice for help.... You can curse me but l deserve it for being a loose woman but l seriously need help cos depression wants to take over my life that l think of suicide to escape shame and mockery from people in case he finds out.

Serious!

Please consider the following before you think of confessing, because he will ask you.

Who did you cheat on him with? Better not be his family member, friend, business partner, a lowlife (his driver, gateman etc), your old timer, because these will make it hard (not impossible) for him to pardon you.

Where did you cheat? Better not be in his home.

When did you cheat? Better not be moments when he was sick or had any problem.

Why did you cheat? No reason is cogent enough if you're legally married to him.

Confession is good, but seeking counsel before confession is the best move.

Added: Some praised and some condemned my choice of word "lowlife". I can understand. I wish you will all be there to hear the man speak after hearing the wife's confession, and she actually cheated with his husband's driver. 'istoctober' has apparently heard her husband's voice through me and she's better prepared.

Why didn't she come when I was there last year? Better come again in AUGUST.

meiyol:
I just lost my relationship due to genotype issues..he is AS and I'm AS. We knew abt our genotype incompatibility frm the very first day..we were cool with it or so i thought. We were together for a year nd some months before we switched to long distance relationship cos of his job. I'm a med student, he is a doctor, so we both knew wat it meant. I was cool with it cos the signs were there that God put us together..everybody knows it, his parents, my parents..we ourselves knew it that our paths were ordained by God.. Then suddenly, from nowhere, he comes up with dangers of having sickler kids, the diseases they face, their pain and all..he suddenly stopped talking abt d fact that we may be lucky not to have any of our kids as sicklers, or medical methods we could use like IVF and all..our parents are both aware of the genotype ish, mine are very okay with it. He said he's not sure his parents are okay with it and yet they call me EVERYDAY to assure me nothing will go wrong and to cheer me up and all.. i questioned him cos it made me feel he was looking for an opportunity to leave..and he didnt give me any reply, just stopped talking to me.
Our introduction was slated for next year, he is my first love, I've been so loyal nd i pray for him.. I feel so used and heartbroken..my instincts tell me something is wrong..I'm back to square 1, where would i start from? He was my best friend, my everything..now, it's just me

Thank your star. I know a family, all the 4 children are SS. One died, others are 'olókùnrùn' Forget that 'yeye' line we used to draw in Biology class.

Ngige now a king maker. Life!

They will still have more branches left than many banks combined.

Real Title:

ARMY RE-RECOVERED THEIR OWN WEAPONS EARLIER SEIZED BY BOKO HARAM.

Goddex:

GEJ as president had every authority to approve money for an agency.

So, are Buhari's men that took over from May 2015 telling us that NIA did not return the unspent money back to FG at the end of 2015 and even 2016? or was it GEJ's responsibility again to enforce that even after leaving office?

Buhari and his APC strategists are desperate to cover-up this matter.

Dementia.

When you keep doing what's wrong and you think it's right, convincing others to believe and do same.

Dementia.

Emekayoung:
Wat do i do. My baby boy dries up oil within 2 weeks after servicing. I use mobil XHP 20w 50. Though the engine does not smoke. And i always see vapour coming out of the exhaust tail wen ever i start the car in the morning or wen it's raining. Pls u guys shuld help me out...

Your engine actually smokes but not at start up or low speed driving.
To confirm, get into a tail car behind your car and let someone drive it in front of you at high speed, say 120-140km/hr.

Reason, your piston rings are intact but your oil sealant rings below the piston rings are chopped off a little bit. Repair work is very tedious cos your engine has to be dropped.

To manage it, drive at low speed and avoid a drive pattern that engages high and low gears intermitently especially when trying to overtake.

Cornel101:
Hahaha.. E pain am.Ozekhome is really a torn on the flesh of this clueless, clandestine govt.Based on logistics ozekhome has always bettered Efcc in courts with facts and stronger arguments.BMC can only rant online as usual.you ve the media but he owns the court.we actually know who the real scum is and not ozekhome.

Forget! That man is a fagģot.
He's Aondoakaa's brother. Watch out how he'll end.

adanny01:


That's farther than I expected. That's Zaria road. Should be up to 155miles from Abj. Guess ur cat is well and your car fuel trim is running on closed loop.

Mine is on open loop with bad cat and bad O2 sensor. It used to be well until the cat got blocked and the mechanic killed the O2 by hitting it.

Anyways, not a good thing to do though you weren't on high speed. You know fuel pump cools itself with the fuel it sits inside, such low fuel for that distance would reduce the life span of your pump considerably.

T'was a risk taken too far.

adanny01:


By my calculations, Zuba to Kaduna all things being equal should consume at best N1,650 - 11.4L of fuel and N2,350 16.2L at worst.

2003 Honda accord is stated to have a 67L tank. Usually, the pumps clicks for me at the range of 50-55L depending on how low on fuel the car is. By my assumption, 10L should be the reserve.

10L should get you 90 miles at very best and 64 for worst case. Usually it cuts it somewhere above mid way so 80miles would be probably it. If you add the 60miles you traveled before the light came on, you will get 140 which should get you around Abj junction in Kad.

That makes your estimates right. You make me wanna take the risk sometime.

It took me to Total Filling Station in Kawo where it stopped and refused to start for a while.

adanny01:


You mean you did Abuja to Kaduna starting from reserve? Wow!

Anyway, I believe it because I use like 2k fuel from Zuba to Kad. My normal speed is 140km/hr. I usually buy 2.5k fuel and will get to any location in Kad. I have never emptied my tank.

Kaduna to Abuja is 185km
Kaduna to Zuba is 165km.
The Low fuel indicator came on about 60km into the journey.

I don't know but Honda Accord of ALL cars travels the longest distance (75km/hr) as soon as the low fuel indicator light comes on.

I have tried it with my '03 Accord. I travelled a distance of 90km and then drove into a filling station and put off the engine, the car refused to start until after a while.

My speed never exceeded 100km/hr, I wind up all my mirrors to eliminate drag, did not use AC, was alone in the car, no heavy loads in my trunk, maintained one gear and never braked hard. Well, the road was good - Abuja to Kaduna.

Eyeballs soaked in tears already.

IamAirforce1:
She got what she deserved.

All you peeps who derive joy in tarnishing people's image, may such fate befall you guys.

OAP FREEZE is next. He'll be away for a much longer period.

Teensway:
Please NLders,

I'm still a teenager but through with my high school. So i decided to look for money and i got this job to work as supporting staff at a microfinance bank. I worked there for 4 months and stopped working Yesterday after receiving this month salary. I travelled today to register for jamb from my salary and when i got back home, my mum said my boss came looking for me that i must submit my resignation letter. I wrote the letter and gave it to him, he collected it and returned it telling me that i must return the salary. He said i should have given the company one month notice before i would have been eligible for my salary or else the company will come to our house and seize some property. I told him to show me where those terms were written in agreement i signed, he got angry and started calling me names and threatened me. Please what should i do, abeg help me.


NB: I left because of my boss(branch manager) and the remaining loan officer started asking me to do jobs that were not part of

Let met be plane to you. Your boss is right. You should have submitted NOTIFICATION OF RESIGNATION 30 days before. Someone got sued in my former office for causing losses and damages worth 5 million naira for this same incident. His parents came begging but the man refused to forgive him. You don't just run away from your employers.