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PoliticsRe: BREAKING NEWS :Gov Amosun's Convoy In Road Crash by numen(m): 9:12pm On Oct 13, 2014
shigoslim:
Most of bad comments here are 4rm Igbo. Whereas Amosun is 4rm south-west and his administration is more or less concern you ppl.


Oh i guess he has been pulling down the Igbo shop i see, that is why so much hatred.

Amosun will nt die and he shall live to finish his good work.
Callow.
AutosRe: Respray/repaint Ur Car Making Use Of Oven Baking Technology. Pix Inside by numen(m): 10:37am On Sep 23, 2014
businessdata: I have inbox solution. Check this stuff on picture and contact me if anyone is interested to buy. 24/7 ONLINE
My brother/sister,

Please come out of this life. It is bleak. You know it. I know it. We all know it. Please try and come out of it and may God bless you abundantly as you do so.

Remain blessed.
PhonesRe: Post Your Iphone 6 Funny Pictures Here. by numen(m): 2:40pm On Sep 17, 2014
Elmaxcentini: Yesterday saw the much anticipated launch of Apple’s iPhone 6.

With two screen sizes to choose from, Apple fans all over the world are now faced with the decision of a lifetime. Do they go for the smaller option in order to save pocket space, or do they go big with the 6 Plus and make it look like they’re carrying and iPad Mini around with them?


Well thankfully Man United fans don’t have such a difficult decision to make. That’s because it appears the iPhone 6 Plus is specifically designed to show more of the Premier League table in one go, which obviously means the Old Trafford faithful will be able to see their side’s league position without having to scroll down.



That’s if they don’t slip further down the league table, though…
LOLzzz...This is wicked bro...lol
FoodRe: List Of The Most Expensive Fruits In The World by numen(m): 4:01pm On Sep 15, 2014
maltina: And where is the source of this lie from? Abi Michael Jackson chop out of am before e die ?
http://firstwefeast.com/eat/worlds-most-expensive-fruits/
CareerRe: What Bad Managers, Good Managers, And Great Managers Do by numen(m): 3:16pm On Sep 12, 2014
learnine: Bad managers tell employees what to do, good managers explain why they need to do it, but great managers involve people in decision making and improvement."

There might be more to management to that, but I think that's a pretty good start. "Lean management," or the Toyota management system, encourages leaders to live in that "good to great" range (with apologies to Jim Collins).

Bad managers bark orders. They are directive and tell employees what to do, without any explanation or context. I saw a lot of that style of management quite often during my first two years at General Motors (read my previous post about that experience) and the workplace was incredibly dysfunctional, as a result.

There are top-down, "command and control" managers in every type of workplace, unfortunately. Managers who are controlling and have all the answers want their employees to "check their brains at the door," and often say so quite explicitly — or they spread that message in more subtle ways.

At GM, front-line employees complained that they were "hired for their backs and their arms, not their brains." In hospitals, healthcare professionals (even those with master's degrees) have complained, "They just want us to do what we're told." This is not a recipe for quality, productivity, or good customer service.

A friend of mine lives in a high-rise condo building. One example of "telling" was the general manager telling employees that the doors to the resident gym must now be kept closed at all times. For years, previously, the doors had been left open unless a resident wanted privacy and chose to close them.

My friend asked one of the employees, "Why are the doors closed all of the time now?" The employee replied, "I don't know, [the manager] just told us to."

It's disrespectful to just give directives without letting people understand the reason(s) why. There might have very well been a good reason why the doors were now to be kept closed. Had the manager taken just a few minutes to share a reason why, the employees would feel better about themselves and would more likely keep the doors closed. If employees are following directives out of a fear of being "written up," they aren't in a position to provide great service.

A good condo manager would explain why the doors now need to be closed. And, if there wasn't a good reason why, they wouldn't force the change on a whim.

A great condo manager would involve the employees in coming up with solutions to whatever problem is being solved by keeping the doors closed. The employees, when being posed with the problem, might come up with the idea of "close the doors" or they might come up with something better. Either way, they would feel a greater sense of ownership over the idea since they were involved in its creation.

During my time at GM, the better of the two plant managers I worked for taught us that Lean leaders (in the style of Toyota leaders) will always explain why something must be done, in those rare instances when they have to give a directive. The dynamic changes from "thou shalt wear safety gloves (because I'm the boss and I told you so)" to "you must wear safety gloves (because it's necessary for your safety and we don't want you to get hurt, even though you might think there is little risk)."

Bad managers tell. Good managers explain why.

Great managers go beyond this.

Great managers might engage the employees in figuring out how to reduce the safety risk that makes gloves necessary in the first place. Maybe an employee would suggest that a different, but equally effective, chemical be used. We don't know unless we engage our employees.

In 90% of workplace situations, I'd guess, the manager shouldn't be telling people what to do, even if they are making the effort to explain why. Great managers engage people in designing their work and they continue to engage them in ongoing improvement. As I learned from former Toyota employees and the books of Taiichi Ohno, work procedures "should not be forced down from above but rather set by the production workers themselves."

This mindset and approach requires that leaders set aside their egos and century-old habits. of top-down management. Managers won't have all of the answers. Instead of dictating how things get done (and expecting obedience and compliance), managers need to work together with employees to define how the work is done. Managers need to ask employees what ideas they have for improving the workplace, through the practice of "Kaizen."

Our employees are adults and they deserve our respect. They deserve great leaders who can work together to help everybody succeed and do what's best for their customers (or residents).
https://www.linkedin.com/today/post/article/20140911010334-81312-what-bad-managers-good-managers-and-great-managers-do

BusinessRe: Heritage Bank To Acquire Enterprise Bank by numen(m): 3:09pm On Sep 12, 2014
100Cents: Sycophancy as usual..
Ignorance as usual...
BusinessRe: Heritage Bank To Acquire Enterprise Bank by numen(m): 11:37am On Sep 12, 2014
Anybody knows how much they pay there for Entry Level, Assistant Banking Officer, Banking Officer, Senior Banking Officer etc?
InvestmentRe: Heritage Bank Acquires Enterprise Bank For N56billion. by numen(op): 11:06am On Sep 12, 2014
Omexonomy: Societe general bank =Heritage bank =enterprise bank = fulani awusa people bank.
Where are we going in these country? Sanusi agenda has finanly come to fruition.
Heritage bank is an Ltd and as such will have alot of masked private Investors. There's no way you can categorically call them an Hausa/Fulani bank unless you have the list.
InvestmentHeritage Bank Acquires Enterprise Bank For N56billion. by numen(op): 10:18am On Sep 12, 2014
After a fierce contest spanning over several months for the acquisition of Enterprise Bank Limited, Heritage Bank Limited yesterday emerged the preferred bidder for the commercial bank that is wholly owned by the Asset Management Corporation of Nigeria (AMCON), THISDAY learnt last night.

However, a reliable source at AMCON who revealed this on the condition of anonymity said Fidelity Bank Plc emerged as the reserve bidder for Enterprise Bank.

The source put the winning bid submitted by Heritage Bank for the acquisition of Enterprise Bank at N56 billion.

He also revealed that under the terms of the Share Purchase Agreement (SPA), which would be signed on September 19, 2014 between AMCON and Heritage Bank, the bank would be expected to pay 20 per cent or N11.2 billion of the bid price for Enterprise Bank 48 hours (September 21) after the execution of the agreement.

The balance of 80 per cent or N44.8 billion would be paid by October 13, he said.
Should Heritage Bank fail to meet the payment terms, Fidelity Bank will take its place as the preferred bidder.

Heritage Bank commenced operations in March 2013. The deposit money bank was formed from the defunct Societe Generale Bank of Nigeria (SGBN) and was granted a regional banking licence by the Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN).

On commencement of business, its shareholding structure was 80 per cent core investor, nine per cent legacy bank, and 11 per cent of depositors’ funds.
The bank has continued to portray itself as an SME-focused financial institution.
Confirming Heritage’s emergence as the preferred bidder, AMCON in a statement last night by its Head of Corporate Communication, Kayode Lambo, said: “The completion of the transaction is subject to the fulfillment of the conditions precedent as stated in the Share Purchase Agreement (SPA) that is to be executed between AMCON and HISL (the investment vehicle owned by Heritage Bank).

“In the event that HISL is unable to complete the transaction in line with the payment terms and other provisions of the SPA, the SPA entered into with HISL would be terminated and Fidelity Bank would become the preferred bidder.”
AMCON said the process for the sale of Enterprise Bank started with interest shown by 24 parties cutting across local and international bidders.

“The emergence of HISL and Fidelity Bank as preferred and reserve bidders respectively resulted from a rigorous and competitive bidding process, which was coordinated for AMCON by Citigroup Global Markets Limited and Vetiva Capital Management Limited (Financial Advisers) and G. Elias & Co. (Legal Advisers),” AMCON said.

In a related issue, following its successful divestment from Ecobank Transnational Incorporated (ETI), with the sale of its 12.5 per cent minority stake in the bank to Doha-based Qatar National Bank (QNB), AMCON yesterday disclosed plans to divest from more banks and quoted companies before the end of next month.
The Executive Director, Finance and Operations, AMCON, Mrs. Mofoluke Dosunmu, said this while commenting on the corporation’s 2013 financial results made available to THISDAY yesterday.

The results, the corporation’s third full operational year since it undertook its mandate to stimulate the recovery of the Nigerian financial system, showed that AMCON once more recorded a total comprehensive loss of N636.79 billion in the year under review.
Also, while AMCON’s total assets stood at N1.75 trillion, its total liabilities in the year under review stood at N5.21 trillion. AMCON’s net fee and commission income in the period under review was N1.27 billion.

Shedding light on the loss recorded by the corporation, Dosunmu explained: “If you look at the track record of resolution vehicles across the world, the turnaround time is around 10 to 15 years and so it will take some time for AMCON to start making profits.”

Responding to a question on the likely impact of the ongoing sale of Enterprise Bank Limited and other assets on AMCON’s balance sheet, the executive director said: “When you sell an asset, it doesn’t go into profit. The only time it would have gone into profit is if you made a margin on the sales and I am sure you know how much we put into those banks to bring them back to profitability.

“However, there would be cash flow from the sale that would help us in the bond repayment.”

According to AMCON’s financial statement that was prepared in accordance with International Financial Reporting Standards (IFRS), AMCON’s bonds of N4.5 trillion face value were redeemed in December. The bonds were partly refinanced by a loan of N3.8 trillion from CBN.

AMCON is expected to redeem the third tranche of its bonds held by private investors valued at N866.73 billion by next month.
After the redemption next month, the CBN would be the only bondholder in AMCON.

The corporation’s bonds held by banks and other private investors, which amounted to N734.09 billion, were redeemed on December 31, 2013, in line with the terms of the indenture, while bonds of N3.51 trillion held by the CBN, were restructured into a N3.80 trillion note at six per cent, with a 10-year tenor.

The Eligible Bank Assets (EBAs) acquired by AMCON also stood at N2.37 trillion as at the end of December 2013, down from N2.72 trillion at the end of June 2013.
Also, restructured loans amounted to N374.35 billion as at December 31 last year, of which 55.75 per cent were performing, while 44.25 per cent were non-performing.

Similarly, total recoveries at the end of December last year were N164.5 billion.

Source: http://www.thisdaylive.com/articles/heritage-to-acquire-enterprise-bank-for-n56bn-fidelity-is-reserve-bidder/188819/
BusinessRe: Chinese Auto Company Shaanxi To Assemble Trucks In Enugu:buys ANAMMCO by numen(m): 10:27am On Sep 10, 2014
pazienza: From that article, we can now see how important an international airport, no matter how sub standard it might look, is very vital to the South East. Thanks to Enugu international airport, our people in Asia can bring in investors directly to Igboland,without having to stop at anyother part of Nigeria.

Once the five SE governors and our resourceful people,come together to find a way to pull funds together and make the Obuaku seaport a reality, and getting the Enugu-PH express road in a good condition, as well as the railway connection, then we must have laid the foundation for industrial revolution in the SE and increasing the IGR of the SE.
Great minds think alike. Very good comment and foresight.
BusinessRe: Chinese Auto Company Shaanxi To Assemble Trucks In Enugu:buys ANAMMCO by numen(m): 10:23am On Sep 10, 2014
Good development for Job creation. To all the people that worked hard in one way or the other for this deal to see the light of day, I say God Bless You all.

gift01: You are right BUT the problem is Ibo men takes competition to the extreme. To a point where they leave co-operation and start antagonism. Then other tribes will be settling brotherly conflict that shouldn't be in the public
This is an unnecessary comment. I am Igbo and I don't antagonize....
Music/RadioRe: When Last Did You Buy An Album & Whose Was It? by numen(m): 3:45pm On Sep 08, 2014
mako007: So I read on why wizkid's album might flop and I was like "Wetin concern me, I dey buy album?"

Frankly speaking the last time I bought an album was 2007, CV & The Entertainer by the defunct mo'hit all stars.

For those of us that download/transfer muiscs and movies, when last did you buy an album and whose album was it?
2014 Phyno
PhonesRe: Samsung Unveils The Galaxy Note Edge With A Curved Screen (Photos) by numen(m): 6:04pm On Sep 04, 2014
uihebom: so if your girlfriend see am you go curve hand inside pocket buy am for her. I wonder how my fellow guy dey bend hand inside pocket bring out N50k+ take buy fone for a girl. if I try am , make I suspend for Air. guy. you Sef think am na, even if she and native doctor use your pictures dey fan themselves for forest .
ROTFLMAO...

One of the craziest comments here....damn hilarious @bolded

abeg bros, you won't suspend in Jesus's name!! lol
Foreign AffairsRussia Says Sanctions Won’t Affect Arms Sales by numen(op): 5:21pm On Aug 13, 2014
(AFP) – Western sanctions against Russia will not affect the country’s multi-billion dollar weapons sales, the state-owned arms export company said Wednesday.

“Sanctions haven’t changed our markets,” a Rosoboronexport spokesman was quoted as saying by the Interfax news agency at a weapons expo held on the outskirts of Moscow.

The company’s deputy director, Igor Sevastyanov, said the sale of land weapons, which account for 10-12 percent of total exports, could increase.

“Local conflicts don’t always require aircraft, submarines, anti-aircraft systems,” he told Interfax at the OboronExpo-2014 show. “Tanks, artillery, machine guns and assault rifles are what are needed.”

Rosoboronexport expects to sell around $13 billion (9.7 billion euros) of weapons and equipment this year, an amount similar to last year.
The European Union and United States have imposed sanctions on Russia over its annexation of Crimea and alleged support for pro-Russian separatists in eastern Ukraine.

The EU sanctions include a ban on new arms sales to and purchases from Russia.


SOURCE: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/08/russia-says-sanctions-wont-affect-arms-sales/
PoliticsAmaechi Laments Poor Funding Of NYSC by numen(op): 5:14pm On Aug 13, 2014
BY JIMITOTA ONOYUME
PORT HARCOURT: GOVERNOR Chibuike Amaechi has enjoined the federal government to effectively fund the National Youth Service Corps, NYSC.

The governor who spoke yesterday when the National Governing Board of thr NYSC paid him a courtesy visit in Government House, Port Harcourt said state governments were being made to shoulder responsibilities of the federal government.

Continuing, governor Amaechi who called for more attentio for the NYSC said the seeming neglect from the federal government was making corps members go through challenges,

“I don’t know if you realise that NYSC is a Federal scheme. If you know it’s a federal scheme, why are you transferring responsibility to the State government? Even the allowances we are paying, we are not supposed to pay.

I served in Abuja, nobody paid me one dime outside what the Federal Government paid us as allowance. The vehicles the youth service was using in Abuja were bought by the Federal Government, why then do we transfer Federal Government responsibility to the States?” Amaechi asked.

“We are virtually funding all Federal agencies in the state. If we don’t want NYSC then we should say we don’t want NYSC, but it solves a lot of problems for us and when I say us, I mean the nation, including the fact that it creates temporary employment for corps members for one year.

“But the most important thing is that the Federal Government should stand and take over their responsibilities, because at the end of the day, we would all go to the Federation Account meeting and everybody will take their own share; and then they transfer their responsibility to us. “, he said.

“I am not saying we would not assist NYSC, we have always done that but what I am saying is that most of these responsibilities are Federal Government responsibilities.

So when you finish addressing me, please go and address the Director General of the NYSC board to simply ask the Federal Government to make funds available to you or to the NYSC,” he added.

Earlier, Tijani Adekambi who led the NYSC delegation thanked the governor for the support to the NYSC, adding that they were in the state to inspect facilities of the scheme.

“I wish to express deep appreciation for the support your government has given to the NYSC scheme and which you have continued to give. “, he said,


SOURCE: http://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/08/amaechi-laments-poor-funding-nysc/
PoliticsEnugu State Deputy Governor Sunday Onyebuchi, Collapses At Impeachment Trial by numen(op):
Deputy Governor of Enugu State, Mr. Sunday Onyebuchi, collapsed at about 11.35 this morning while giving evidence at the sitting of the Impeachment Panel probing allegations of misconduct against him.

According to one of his counsels, Mr. Peter Eze, the Deputy Governor collapsed after three hours of testifying before the panel and five minutes after the Chief of Staff, Mrs. Ifeoma Nwobodo and the state Attorney General, Mr. Anthony Ani, SAN, came into the court.

Eze said that Mr. Onyebuchi commenced his evidence at 9.30 am and continued until 11.35 am when he suddenly slumped and was rescued by his wife, children and others present at the secret trial holding at the Enugu High Court Complex.

https://theadvocatengr.com/new/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/Onyebuchi-Deputy-Gov1-285x300.jpg

Journalists waiting outside the court hall saw when the Deputy Governor was assisted into his car and rushed to an undisclosed hospital for emergency medical attention.

His wife and children were seen crying as they quickly boarded their vehicles and drove out of the court premises.

Mr. Eze told our reporter that the proceeding of the panel was stood down till 2pm to enable them get words from his family to determine whether he would continue with his evidence which commenced today.

The Chief of Staff, Mrs. Nwobodo was accompanied to the court by the State Attorney General in response to her summon by the panel to give evidence on some issues which they Deputy Governor considered vital to the determination of the matter before the panel.

The panel is expected to resume sitting by 2pm.




SOURCE: http://theadvocatengr.com/new/enugu-dep-gov-onyebuchi-collapses-at-impeachment-trial/

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/08/impeachment-enugu-dep-gov-onyebuchi-slumps-testifying/
PhonesRe: Infinix Alpha Marvel X502 Disccussion Thread by numen(m): 10:26am On Dec 14, 2013
eaemmy: wait my pal,don't u have any other life aside coming to troll over discussion at nairaland ?.....gay!
Grow up.
CareerRe: 150 Sacked At Enterprise Bank by numen(m): 3:22pm On Dec 03, 2013
Shekson: Is there any month dat is good for retrenchment? Whether Jan, feb, Apr, Jun, Sept or Dec, sack is sack. No good period to be retrenched.
Termination of appointment is never sweet, but there are months that are better. It would be more humane to terminate appointment within the first week of the first month immediately following a quarter i.e (First week in April, July, October, January). By so doing, the affected staff would've received their salary and collected the benefits/allowances that are paid quarterly, giving them some liquidity to brace the termination.

I don't think the sack was up to 150 persons. But people were asked to resign based on performance. Also staff that are 55yrs old and are not Managers either by rank or position were also asked to resign.

Source: I work there(I lost two friends/colleagues...it was painful)
RomanceRe: She Slept With My Best Friend by numen(m): 2:42pm On Dec 02, 2013
[quote author=IGBO-PRESIDENT]I helped wake her up. When she regained consciousness,she didn't just know what to do or where to start confessing or how to start pleading for forgiveness.
I categorically told her it was over between us. I collected the dubai necklace I gave her(which was a symbol of our engagement). She pleaded with me but I told her it was over btw us. I left.

The following day, she came to my house with Veron my best friend who betrayed me. They said they came to beg for my forgiveness.

She said it was me she loved, and that it was a mistake what happened btw her and Veron. Veron was speechless.
I told them to go and never come back because I don't ever want to see their faces. I left there.
My girl kept coming. I neglected her. She kept calling me. She called me again yesterday which is why I'm writing this.
Should I forgiver her?[/quote]Forgive her and your best friend. But NEVER you have anything to do with both of them. Simply downgrade them to insignificant acquaintances. That your best friend is as evil as your ex-girl(regardless of what some previous posters have said)

This is a positive tragedy for you...cos you probably would have been raising/training another man's children if you didn't catch her. Woman need a "defined hand." If allow her back, the chances of her doing it again is like 99.9% cos she has done it before and convinced you to accept her back(she wouldn't mind attempting suicide just to win ur empathy/sympathy).

All guys regardless of how many brothers you have, still need 1 or 2 reliable friends. That your friend is pure EVIL.

All the best
FIRST COMMENT = BEST COMMENT SO FAR

Onyeka

Best Comment
brosss: Well, my friend, suck it up, hold your head high. I empathize with you. Seee, I have once had a cheating girl. It took a lot to break free from her. What was her reason, she couldn't give. I forgave her a couuple of times until the camels back broke.... She visited one afternoon, I had already made up my mind. She sat unsuspecting and I took my box guilter and played her a goodbye song. By the time I was done, she was in uncontrolled tears. It was a sponteneous song emmanating from a broken heart(wished I recorded it), seee in the song, I made her understand that I wasn't reaking her heart, I was breaking mine. I gave her one last peck on the chick and walked out. Didn't bother, I knew by the time I am back, she'd have left... Today , I am better off. And will never regret my decision.
So move on, she and ur friend can go ahead and seee how far they can go. You true girl is out there, find her and when you do, give her everything. I found mine and she is my completion...

All the best bro
Art, Graphics & VideoRe: 30 Most Powerful Photos Ever Taken. The Kind You Never Ever Forget by numen(m): 12:14pm On Nov 29, 2013
Bane vs Joker: It just dawned on me how ungrateful I've been all my life. Please God forgive me.
(I was crying on my desk in a bank) My sentiments exactly. How ungrateful and unappreciative I've been. God please have mercy and forgive me.
WebmastersRe: The New Layout Of GtBank's Internet Banking Portal by numen(m): 11:18am On Nov 29, 2013
Dual Core: I have spent just about 5 minutes on it. What are your reviews? I am not impressed (I cannot see any new functionality), the site's page load time just went up by about 10 times. Things which took about 2 seconds or less to load up in the former interface now take several seconds. In fact I refreshed nairaland about 9 times on a different browser tab while waiting for my transaction page on the internet banking site to load once.

On login I am taken to a dashboard that says nothing about the balances of my accounts, I then have to spend one more click and wait for the terrible load time before I see my account balance.

The interface is nice, catchy and more informative but sacrificing speed for looks is not the way forward, this should be fixed.


Edit:
For those saying its a network thing, have a look at the video in the link below placing GTBank's online portal side by side with Nairaland and other sites and watching them load.

http://www.webpagetest.org/video/view.php?id=131129_0cc4c5fde6464c572c09f255d2752ce367132c94


From the video: It took 0.9 seconds to load the first page of this thread. While it took 35 seconds for GTBank's online banking page to open. Both started loading same time.
nairaland uses http:// while GTBank uses https:// which is slower than the former but more secured.
PhonesRe: Infinix Alpha Marvel X502 Disccussion Thread by numen(m): 12:26am On Nov 26, 2013
eaemmy: seriously ,u need get a life.All I know is dat de phone is jst cool.
since u r too dumb to figure...it's an opinion/view/perspective. Choose one. You need to check into a ward.
PhonesRe: Infinix Alpha Marvel X502 Disccussion Thread by numen(m): 9:04am On Nov 20, 2013
How hard was it to make this phone a "Dual SIM" with an "Expandable Memory?" People got to great length to make decent phones just to spoil it by omitting key features.

Slim Phone with 1.5GHz, decent 5" screen. Why can't you just make it a dual sim? It just beats my imagination. I guess I have to revert back to HTC one dual sim unless the purported Tecno Phantom A III makes my day.

Learn Infinix...Learn.
FamilyRe: Banned From Speaking My Language To My Baby by numen(m): 10:57pm On Nov 09, 2013
chineloSA: Personally, how I would treat this is, my child has to know all his father culture, language etc before mine.

Though I do not think the guy may have meant bad, but he meant it. The son is his son hence he bears his surname.

I think you overreacted, since you said the child can still learn Yoruba either way. Teach your son all his fathers culture before yours. Your son may blame you when he does not fit in, in future. Your son is not Yoruba, he is Esan.
Even with names, he has a right to deny you to give your son a Yoruba name, its his Esan son, not Yoruba son, so you were just pushing your luck.

Are you sure you are not pregnant again cheesy cheesy cheesy
Complete answer. There's a reason he paid your bride price. Since you're in southwest, just focus on teaching him your husband's culture cos he'll mos def learn your tongue growing up. He might just be a tad more traditional than insecure. I myself will want my children to know my culture and tongue first. So don't work yourself up much and enjoy your marriage and your hubby.

Remain blessed.
RomanceRe: Ugly Girls Have Better Guys, WHY? by numen(m): 10:46pm On Nov 09, 2013
@OP...I want to believe you've gotten answer to your question. To those making fun of her Dp, grow-up and stop displaying your insecurities.
Christianity EtcRe: Rosary For Nigeria. Let Us Pray! "For Believers And Prospective Believers" by numen(op): 6:10pm On Oct 08, 2013
Ave Maria!
Christianity EtcRosary For Nigeria. Let Us Pray! "For Believers And Prospective Believers" by numen(op): 11:12am On Oct 08, 2013
My brothers and sisters in the Lord. I was reminded of all the great things the Rosary can do by a brother/nairalander italo @ https://www.nairaland.com/1468705/famous-rosary-miracles-believers.

It got me reminiscing on all the great things that I have received by reciting the rosary and I thought countries, families, cities, people etc that were liberated by the Rosary had one thing in common..."They made a conscious effort to pray the rosary together for a purpose"

We can do the same for our country.

And so by this thread I call on all believers in the Holy Rosary to indicate their interest to join in the "Rosary for Nigeria" prayer program by replying with the following bolded sentence..."I want to join the Rosary for Nigeria Prayer"

Once we get at least 50 replies, we can start. A schedule is already in place that will be comfortable and flexible for everybody who has 20mins a day to say a decade and some prayers.

As you reply and call others to join and reply, may God bless you immensely and may our Blessed Mother, The Most Holy Virgin be with you always.

Join me as we make history today to liberate our country through praying the Rosary as it has been done in other countries.

Remain blessed.
Raphael
Christianity EtcRe: Famous Rosary Miracles (for Believers). by numen(m): 10:50am On Oct 08, 2013
First of all, I'll love to thank my brother in Christ italo for this thread and the wonderful memories it has reminded me...Remain blessed italo!

Our Mother, Queen of Heaven and Earth, The Blessed Virgin Mary has been instrumental and involved in life from a very tender age. I have always re-coursed to Her and have deep love/adoration for Her. She has conversely been there for me through thick and thin. Always interceding whenever I call on Her.

The power in the rosary cannot be effectively verbalized or written. You have to pray it and experience it to understand. The devil will always tempt you with laziness when you want to pray, but all you need is to make the initial effort and start, and God will surely give you the strength.

It takes ordinarily 15mins for a decade, at most 20mins. If we start now to inculcate the habit of saying at least a decade a day, things will surely change for the better personally and collectively.

Please if the opportunity ever presents itself to spread the devotion to the Holy Rosary, please do! You'll be richly blessed. Thank you once again italo. May the Blessed Virgin Mary continue to intercede on your/our behalf. Amen!!! God bless you all and our country.
Science/TechnologyRe: Lethal Tanzanian Lake That Turns Animals To Stone by numen(m): 6:55pm On Oct 07, 2013
But that picture of a bat nawa oh. Bats don't hang upright. They hand upside down. They do every upside down. U sure say this lake na authe? #randomThoughts
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Access Bank demands N1M For Employment, GTB Asks For Obituaries. by numen(m): 10:03am On Oct 07, 2013
lorretta u: I think that question is irrelevant

Would anyone want to be se.xually harrassed?
Your guess is as good as mine

I think the correct question should be why do men make everything in life all about sezx and their own satisfaction?
Why won't you people just let women be?
If you make advances and she says no,why not let it go?
Must you risk the ruination of her life and marriage just for your own sezual satisfaction?
Selfsih much?

If she stays home:war
If she goes out there:war

What is wrong with you people? undecided

I went for a movie audition recently and the men there were very proud and fulfilled in telling me that there's no way for an attractive lady to make it in this present day nigeria unless she's ready to compromise
I.E sleep her way to the top.so I'd better think well before I decide if I want to succeed or not.
Same thing happened one time I was busy with a project in my PPA LGA.no guy wanted to help unless I'd lay down for him.something I was doing for the community with ny sweat and skills.yet no one can offer to help unless I was willing to part with some arss.
How many men will a woman sleep with?
Who turns around to start sceaming 'W*hore' ?isn't the men?
Do you people even have any atom of conscience? I guess not.
Always thinking with ur dycks.
Please don't be quick to generalise. I am a banker and I can tell you that men too are exploited by rich madams. Though I'll stay its more often for ladies, but be rest assured that men are not exempted.

Note: Not all men are like the way you described above. Just like not all women are as loose as MOST nowadays female customers who wants to sleep with every banker! There are female bankers in my branch that will sleep with any man willingly to get deposit while there are some who will rather loose their jobs than open their legs(vice versa)
Science/TechnologyRe: Brazilian Family Live With 7 Tigers In Their Home by numen(m): 8:59am On Oct 01, 2013
iamOdino: Ary Borges, who cares for seven tigers and two lionesses, at his family’s home in Maringa, Brazil is in a legal battle with federal wildlife officials to keep his endangered animals from undergoing vasectomies and being taken away from him. While Borges does have a license to raise the animals, Brazilian wildlife officials say he illegally bred the cats, creating a public danger.

Borges also has two lions, a monkey, and a pet Chihuahau named Little inside his makeshift animal sanctuary, where man and beast alike live together in his spacious red-dirt compound, separated from the outside world by tall metal fences and high wooden walls.
MOSSAD II: He wrote while dreaming! ha ha ha ha!
Alongside previous posters who are fast to put down someone...grow up! The post mentioned lions. You don't have to advertise your ignorance cos you're hiding behind a handle.

Use this opportunity you have to interact with people to upgrade yourselves. READ before you castigate. Kids!

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