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There's an Indian film I watched abt 3frds, one is the most intelligent. At the end of their final year in school when their results were displayed, the other two searched for their friends name on the result sheet but couldn't find it and dey felt sad.Meanwhile they were looking at the last for their most intelligent frd later, they looked properly at the top and saw their frds name at the top and they didn't feel better either. What am I saying in essence! We feel bad at our friends failure and feel worst at their success(am quoting the film) but looking at it in reality, is the fact. There are element of jealousy in human being, it now depends on us to suppress or allow it. But, I believe I have never envied anybody, so any body that wil envy me is calling upon envy to himself.

Don't worry dear with time you will start enjoying sex. Say from 3months. If you start it will take time before you start having that feeling. Just chilax

RIP Vivi. May your soul rest in the bossom of the Lord.

Thanks to all the pple that are contributing to this trend is very helpful to all intending wives. Baby mama, CC and the guys thanks. Pls guys can you quit the argument to enable the trend progress abeg

For those that said they wouldn't let their wives no how much they earn, probably cos you earn more than your wife. Let me ask the men this question, what if your wife earns more than you; would you hide your salary frm her? + would you love it if she hides how much she earns?

Was coming back one evening, entered keke that was going to my area. Someone picked a quarrel and I entered another one (I was d only in the keke) later a man entered d keke and didn't reach a stone throw in front of a hotel as he was stopping, he tapped me and said young girl ur face looks familiar, do u stay in a ABJ I said no (is an elderly man lik 50s) he now said what's your name. I told him a name I don't use English name. As if he hypnotized the driver, he waited as the man was asking me Question. Why I was answering him is cos is an elderly man. The last Q he asked is am I frm Akwa Ibom and I told him if he wouldn't go were he's going to and he jokingly tapped me again I was lik biko what kind of tapping is this. He tapped me lik thrice. At night that same day, I couldn't sleep, when I later slept, i was seeing scary monstrous faces of different types.I woke up and prayed then, went back to sleep. I slept for like 1hr, (this is nt tale by moonlight pls) and I felt myself been lifted up to like 5ft above just like 9ja movie as in probably my spirit but that's how I felt. I started struggling till I came out. If you see how I prayed eeh like never before that was ard 2am. I didn't sleep throughout that night. Said my rosary, powerful prayer by Fr Mbaka, chaplet of mercy then prayer warrior prayer. Since then, if you want to ask me Q on the rd be it a child or adult, wouldn't reply and am usually very harsh. This world is more spiritual than physical. You can imagin what wil happen had it been the man have my details. Put my God put him to shame.

Things happens bliv me nairaland. Mine happened in adulthood last year wil com bk and gist you guys

Happy birthday to all the october babies. Wish all the best may God grant you your heart desires.Mine is 21st.

My dear, women are adviced not to use anything in their private parts. Women pp have a pecular smell that's how nature made it. But, ask of lactacyd and famfresh they smell very nice but the side effect is what I don't no. As for all the teenage boys in this trend pls go and watch cartoon network this an adult section

I will come back to share mine by the grace of God

Amen to your prayers @ Byvan.One of my colleagues was this runs girl before she married.One day, we were discussing about coy's transfering their employees to another state and what wives are suppose to do,follow their hubby or stay put.She quickly said that she can never allow her hubby to stay alone before sharp girls will take over.for my mind I said like seriously.So, she could guard her own jealously and didn't expect her hubby to cheat while she was hovering everywere with other pples husband.Bad begets bad period.

The issue of infidelity should be blamed on the two parties other wise Oga Coogar,you're been biased.If you're a single girl and you stay in ph without having a married man that's taking care of you,then u must be highly principled.theirs is like a curse without respecting their wives.They bring out time like single men razzling girls almost pleading with you.To the extend that some lie about not staying with their wives either divorced or their wives cheated.(They are never at fault)I believe in Karma and I know that good begets good.If you have slept with a married man by mistake or with your eyes open,Karma awaits you.I asked one of my customers that was asking me out if the wife cheats on him,how he will feel?He didn't even allowed the question to come but,he expect me to cheat on my fiance.One, even told me that if I agree,he will follow my rules so that my fiance will not suspect us and that when I fix my wedding date that's when he will leave me imagine the insult.Sugar daddies may your daughters sleep with your age mate IJN.NL know it that bad begets bad,evil begets evil.

Some of you guys are just stingy.the OP doesn't sound like a gold digger,she's concerned on how the man will take of her.Every woman including our mothers love it when her man do some things for her.Am independant too but,at times,I do ask my fiance make him no forget his responsiblities.@ some guys,we are help mate not spend mate OR breadwinner Tho.

Just to ask cos am a prospective mum.is shea butter good for prevention?cos I just want d stretch marks to remain in dt bombom and nt to spread to any to part of my body.

Well,the rate of immorality is very high.As I girl I don't even know how to describe it so that I wouldn't look as if am holier than thy.For me,I choose to live a good life not cos am in love but cos I wouldn't want a tanished integrity.Not to be judgemental but in the part of nja am in,is a norm to date a married man infact my colleagues change them like b/frds and am yet to understand how comfortable they are when they are with them.Part of the blame will also go to the men who can't keep to their wives but prefers sleeping with their daughters(shame on them).The only way to live a good life is to be industrious, self control and been contended.is not really easy but in the long run, it pays.

My friend's younger sis asked her when she was very sick with high temperature if she's cooking cos is only food that's on fire that's hot.lol

I don't know why some people are so backward.The worst is that most people that's discriminating are christains and even call themselves believers shame on you and may almight God judge you for calling his creature names.Secondly,to say Osu people are not allowed to play political roles and even sell in the same market shows that you're still living in the caves that's were it was practiced and that was like 3 centuaries ago.Carry your reincanted self and receive jesus as your personal lord no be for mouth.Ewu hausa

Well,am not married but am engaged to a man that loves his mother and they are close but not like attached.I saw how close they are and I got myself involved oh.(Don't want to be left out)And she's a single mother(lost the husbands yrs ago)My fiance had to bend himself to make his mother happy and I love him for that cos the mum really went through stuff.My dear what am I saying,go closer to you MI.Take the advice CC, and others gave you.you can't even competite with her.The earlier you get closer to her the best.Your closeness to her will even bond you with your husband trust me.Men love you more when you're close to their mother.except that person no like him mama

My sweet father,he's a good disciplinarian(retired principal),calm and calculative,he made sure he pays our school fees on time to avoid embrassment.He accomodated lots of my relatives that came to stay with us without complaining cos he always says he loves large family.When he's angry with us,we prefer floging than his long shouting and lectures.(Atime ur legs go begin shake.I even prefer morning assembly)Then,his unending lectures will be so funny but serious and you are not allowed to laugh(na for your mind you go dey do am)Aha am I forgeting about how he made us to know how to ask for favors,you don't tell him to give you money if anything finishes cos he will remind you that you didn't give him money to keep for you.You just tell him that a particular thing is finished and he nos what wil do.Is it his unending advice especially to my brother both seated uninteruptably in our sitting room at the end,my brother will turn to a new leaf for like 2wks b4 another seating.What I love about him are just countless.I love him so much

When in Rome,Notebook,when harry met sally,You've got mail,sleepless in setteale,time traveller's wife,bride and prejuice(india)beauty and briefcase,goodmen is hard to get,the family that preys,infact I have seen uncountable Romance movies

Father Lord!@OP is only prayers that can change the heart of your hubby.The God that changed my dad from he's believe(AMORC)can do it for your husband.When we were growing,my dad refused going to church but never stopped us from attending,he doesn't follow in family prayer(Am a catholic)he always believe to work is to pray and speak it in latin.In 2004,my dad had a very bad health challange that even his Oga at the top couldn't do anything.there's no place we didn't take him but,He who sitted in heaven and made the earth his foot stool healed him;infact he was almost a goner.I thank God today my dad denounced and recognised the fact that it might be occultic cos he entered when he was in the university.@OP my dad is almost like your hubby in terms of argument cos all these Jehova witness self no fit win am for argument(then,we use to enjoy his argument with Jehove witness and he reads awake and also encouraged us to read it).but,at the end,he knew that the supremacy is the almight God.Then,there's no prayers in Catholic that he can't prayer name it.The one he prays most is chaplet of divine mercy cos is only the mercy of God that kept him going.pls@ Aithiest did you guys fall from the sky?educate me on how you came into existence.

Bia Mekaboy go and sit down biko.why not go and get your self an Abuja runs babe wey don see all and how your married life will be.Then,come back in 3yrs time and jist us how you are.Since chastity has become an abomination.I knew a loose girl that have slept with lots of men and married a politican yet it was that same sex that brought her home.Biko go and invest your time wisely and stop giving us devilish research.

Guys,pls stop all these critics cos most times gurls learn the hard way.Imagin been faithful to a guy when he has nothing and when he's made,he just remembered that he's been missing out.To be truthful not all girls can wait and endure with a man(they are few good girl)so if you have them,hold them tight.Not to paint myself good,but I havnt cheated on my man for the past 10yrs we dated and is not easy to be faithful when the man don't have money(I know am taking risk dating for a long time;so did princess Kate daughter inlaw of late princess Diana soa am not alone.take the risk and join the millionarias*wink*).Is only the love I have for him that have kept me faithful to him.Believe you me I work in a company that see eligible men single and married every other day.but,is only self control,the love for your partner and the fear of God that can stop you from cheating.(Noing that am already committing sin)Not because he's my first b/frd that's stopping me but cos he's a good man;yes there are still good men in Nigeria and so are good girls.You have to use your inner eyes and look beyound phyiscal appearance and material things.I believe I will surely reap the fruit of my labor IJN

@OP did your cousin checked all this before venturing in this kind of marriage?if the man didn't have any issue,it will be a different ball game.I think she's leaping before looking.the best thing is for her to leave the country with the hubby.but OP anybody that hears this will believe that your cousin is heartless knowing fully well that four children are involved(grown ups for that matter)I just pity her cos she has a very long way to go.Atimes if you dey fall love,use your head.sorry if am a bit blunt but that's the simple truth.

Sticking with a man for 10yrs now and waiting for him to be made.He doesn't have any job for now but I know his future is very bright(he took a certification that I know will change our lives)Meanwhile,am a pretty chick and am working.I don't want to start saying what I have done for him cos I love him and am in love with him.Even though it delays I no it will surely happen this year.Guys is not easy for us I must confess.But,is easier with you when you love the person and he makes you happy.There's a saying that goes like this, you know a girl that loves you when you have nothing and a man that loves you when he has everything.He knows me am waiting to know him.wish you us luck.

@OP,to come clean and accepting your wrong is not easy I must applaud you for that.First of all, you must reflect and acknowlegde the reason that made you to fall for a married man cos I believe in Karma.Often time,is always money that makes single girls to fall for this temptation;Gurl,I wouldn't judge you but will tell you the simple truth.YOU DON'T LOVE YOUR BOO cos if you do,you wouldn't dare sleep with another man not to talk of a married man;temptations are bound to happen especially if your Boo no too hold cos you wouldn't tell me you will sleep with a pauper married man.Once you are in love,you wouldn't want to hurt that person even if he's a pauper.I don't want to compare myself with you but,in the company were I work,is just like a competition dating a married man (I mean they can intimidate you with their dressing and not that they are finer than mua)but am not by any means pertubed.If you give room for any man be it married or single,they will come in and even occupy your bed space.My dear,even a Nun can fall into temptation if she allows herself.So,try and know why you fell for him and work on that cos when the situation arises a second time,who knows.

Started dating him in my late teen and we have dated for ten years now aren't easy oh.the virginty thingy was was then sha.

This is the bitter truth to us all.I think at a particular age,probably at (18,though not all girls oh)we girls don't understand the meaning of good men until a particular age(20s and 30s)we realise that that our exs are the best.but in my own case,I had a good man and at the same time I wanted to you feel free(cos I was already feeling trapped.he's was and still is my ist b/f)is funny but he gave me the opportunity to go on dates and with other guys knowing fully well that I was a virgin(I think that made him to give me the leverage).Then,he felt he caught me young and if is only us,we will be suffocated lol.So, I embarked on been friends with other guys(you know exploring) and I jisted him everything;in my 3rd year,he placed a stop to the dating and we concentrated on ourselves.but did I stop? for where free buzz dey sweet pass.I continued my taking out even his friend caught me on dates with other guys and reported me to him and that finally stopped my taking out lol.All this while,I was still a virgin cos if I wasn't,I believe he wouldn't risk me.He gave me a free hand to choose the kind of life I wanted to live,he tamed me though I wasn't wild even the good girls needs taming cos they can be very bad when they turn bad.But,I realised on time that I have a good man and I respected the fact that he gave me more than a free hand.infact,I learnt so many things from him and am still learning.is not easy to date a man for so many years but I believe that by the special grace of God,we shall be husband and wife this year.

For doubting thomas,I just asked by sis that's a lawyer and she said you can go to customary court if the bride's price refused to be taken.Ireading and do less of commenting.don't like talking much.but before I continue with my reading,I hav a word for the $man.I think you are one of the hiden bad husband that refuse to show their true color till they marry and may God caste you out in open place and unveil who you really are and stop hiding as $man yourself with your real name;so that good women will not run into you like Solomon Akiyesi.I pray God will give women the inner eyes to recognise the kill joy as husband IJN.

@OP you must be a very difficult man for countering all the advice given to you here.you are simply mean.go and divorce to prove you point.which kin heart you get.thread closed pls.mtchewwwwwwwwwww

What my fiance told me years ago will forever be in my memory.Ours,is a long term r/ship and we have dated for like 3years then without sex(was a v then).So one faithful day,we decided to have it.I was so nervous,anxious and scared at the same time.He saw how unprepared I was and he said"baby,I don't love for the sex you for the sex,if you are ready,I will always wait till you are ready pls wear you clothes.I fell in love with him again.I love you my BOO.You are one of the few men that are what emulating but you are not perfect ooh.

@OP,this na jist.I hope you really mean what you have posted if not,God is watching you on plasma tv.The percentage of faithful married men are so few that you can't count but,I believe we have good men out there.All I know is that I can't count the numbers of married men that i have encounter with that doesn't ask me out.(They are lucky they met a girl like me cos anybody that goes to fetch an ant infected wood welcomes ant)If you ask them for a favor like helping you get a job,na there u don find trouble.Does it mean they weren't favored with jobs by their friends?can they ask their follow men for sex in exchange for job?Men have this at the back of your mind whatever you sow in this planet earth so shall you reap.@OP don't just go there because the ratio of promiscous men to hawky girls are 10:3 period.