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oh, I love Suya! Its the best!

Hmmmm, So if you guys should get married and have an argument at home, this is how he will judge you to all his friends and family members? You will be in the marketplace and see the women wispering to each other as you pass by because the whole world will know your business and there will be no privacy in your home Anyways, never stay with someone or marry someone who has a personality trait that you cannot live with for the rest of your life. Keep in mind that marraige suppose to be a life long committment. It is true that no one is perfect but as human beings, they are some bad habits of a person that we can deal with and some that we know very well that we cannot deal with. I personally can't deal with someone like that because I don't like my personal business all over the place. So, the ball is in your court. Keep in mind that you cannot change a person because change is something that comes from within. If your boyfriend sees nothing wrong in what he is doing, he will see no need to change.

Do what you gotta do.

morenike09:
so your own juju has finally catch up to you. . .well, it was better soon than later

LOL  

@Poster

I am sorry to hear this. Please go to a pastor to pray for you. You must be careful in this day and age because you don't know who is who Take it easy. It shall be well.

The cigar to me is the turn off

Too much make up. Some of them are fine but the excesive make up is hiding their natural beauty.

Submit what? No way Jose, no can't do. I worked for the money so when I get the pay for my hard earned labor, I can't just hand it over to someone else. We are adults and not child and parent.

We still dey dis topic? ok oh!

@Exponent/Hero

Since you dislike Nigerians so much, what the hell are you doing on our forum? Please learn a thing or two from Ms. Lurker. You see how she has been answering our questions the non confrontational way. But as for you, ewu nama, you keep going on and on. You have refused to accept you people have a problem. Atleast, Nigerians know we have a problem. I told you already, if you are not going to answer the questions that were asked, tuck your tail between your legs and hurry along. Do not annoy me this evening Since you have no problems with other Africans but just Nigerians as you have stated, what are you doing in our midst? Bloody hypocrite, anuofia like you!!

Stupid Hero started a thread and then runs away, foolish idiot! and then keeps switching IDS back and forth. I don't know what type of retard you are. Ezigbo ewu slaveship!

joshjosh:
adultery is a kwale thing on nairaland? seun has a lot to answer for. why are we suggesting that this girl is not faithful?

@nwando you surprised me here.

kwale people are very nice people. i was in their area for 2yrs. there are loads of sexual activity in that area that may have lead to this thing but why should people be unfaithful in the first place.

i beg go marry th guy and learn how to eat their food

Na so we see am my brother I am just speechless.

[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=119436.msg2066469#msg2066469 date=1205804724]exponent, you've still yet to answer our questions. You're boring me.[/quote]of course not! the ode won't answer He is instead sitting there quoting statistics! advanced case of bipolar disorder

Oh boy! You should talk to your friend and be honest about it. Hmmmm, Na wa o!

@Exponent/Hero

You are still changing your name back and forth after we all know that you are the same person? Stop being a coward! your intention as AJ already rightly mentioned was to ignite a fire between Africans and black americans That is all you are good at mr. i-know-more-about-Africans-than-they-know-about-themselves. Hopping from one Nigerian forum to the next to cause trouble, ewu! Go and find something better to do with your time. Posting all those Aids statistics is a waste of time. As Africans, we already know what our problems are and do not try to blame whitey for it like you and your people.

By the way, have you already seen to it that America gives all those your jailed brothers their voting rights back like I asked you to? Presidential election is coming Stay here and keep vomiting rubbish from your mouth. Next time, if you are not going to answer questions honestly without changing IDs back and forth like a bloody retard, then do not start a thread like this! You think we are stupid on this board? Stop being a bloody coward and say what you have to say with your real ID. If you can't, just run along with your tail in between your legs and stop wasting our time!

stillwater:
This thread was posted in 2006, now its 2008, are we still lonely ?

lol, who knows.

Msugh o! I salute una. I went to borading school (JSS1 - SS3) in Katsina-Ala which is 30 mins away from Gboko. I love Tiv yam and I miss Julie and Peter mango. Those were the days. Tiv people are good people too. Just wanted to pop in and say hello


@Hero

If you have nothing pleasant to say then keep quiet! I am sick and tired of your I-know-it-all attitude. Now, you a black american knows more about Tiv people than Tiv people know about themselves? ode!

EXPONENT:
No I'm not.

I came in here to DEFEND what was said on the first page about AA's. As you know, the best defense is an offense.

No offense.

Of course we AA have some SERIOUS issues. Too numerous to name.

But I can tell you this.

With a STROKE OF A PEN this government can remedy them ALL.

America likes a underclass, no matter who they are. Black, mexican, puerto rican, pakistani, chinese, latino, etc.

It's who she is. Americans LIVE to compare themselves to others and get a false sense of superiority.

This behavior has been passed down onto AA's, Africans, African Immigrants, etc.

Americans in reality are a bunch of sick, fearful, bitches living on psycotrophic drugs.

Don't believe the hype.

ok, if you say so

LMAO!!

Again, everyone has already said what needed to be said. Well done my people

@Exponent AKA Hero

Since Africans are so ugly, what are you doing on their forum? And for your information, we owe you guys nothing so get off our backs!!! Your sorry asses would not be in America if not for slavery. America is what it is today because of the whites and not because of you lost negroes! Why has there not been in a black american president? White americans don't want you turning their country into detroit, michigan! They don't want crack in the white house! Ewu nama! I do not need anybody educating me about your sorry behinds. Even my white American friends are always complaining how racsist you people are! Again, do not lie to yourself. Hurricane katrina exposed the poverty you people live in. It's funny how the whites were able to pack their stuff and flee when they were told a hurricane was on its way. You black americans however could not flee. You people stayed there and the hurricane messed you people up! Why could your people not leave if it was not for poverty? Poverty-stricken black faces adorned the front pages of American newspapers and to make matters worse, the press showed pictures of your people loothing the stores and you want to preach to us Nigerians about corruption and 419!

So what are you doing amidst 419 people? you negroe with no origin and no destination, go and get a life! Go and find a way to get all those your jailed brothers their voting rights back before you vomit rubbish out of your mouth, bloody steroid-filled agbaya!

Sweet T:
Come to think of it, Colin Powell is an AA. Gosh, that is a real man !

Keep in mind that Collin Powell is of Jamaican descent. Bred in America but his parents are Jamaican

@topic

Hell No!!! Na craze?

[quote author=D-reloaded link=topic=120247.msg2060106#msg2060106 date=1205611869]who is stopping you from marrying an illiterate?[/quote]Thank you my sister!

Na wa for this thread o!

I have just one question. Since you black Americans have nothing good to say about Nigerians or Africans for that matter, what the hell are you doing hibernating amongst Nigerians?

I am getting very sick and tired of you people coming to our forum to vomit rubbish. As Nigerians, we already know our problems. We don't need any black american to list our problems to us. And personally, I enjoy being an African. The guy who said being a black american is better than being an African don kolo finish!. Atleast, I can explain why I have a brown skin and I know where on God's green earth my roots lie. It is a disaster not knowing where the hell your roots lie. No origin and no destination! How can you know where you are going to when you don't know where you are coming from?

And for your information, white america does not want you here anyway! Hurricane katrina anyone? see how long they took to come rescue you? If white americans had their way, they would send you out of this county. If they loved your presence here, why did they do all those dispicable things to you before the civil rights movements?

And the original poster of this thread has now decided to get a double ID. I thought I was the only one who noticed. Its funny though, almost all Nigrian forums that are out there, Hero is a member of. As a black american, you sure like to spend alot of time on African forums. I wonder why? do we owe you anything?

Na una know! If you lack self discipline do not get married, if you lack self control, don't get married. Marraige is a commitment and if you can't honor that commitment, then stay single. Chikena!

LOL @ "missing rib worldwide"

Very nice write up. Loved reading it.

Its like that everywhere you go. The United States is probably worse when it comes to being fake. They smile at you but say negative things behind your back. All I can advise is, do not trust anyone. Just focus on your work and do the best you can.

presido1:
@naija4life
Ehh so they have legalised same sex marriage in Nigeria. Too bad. A girl from Anambra marrying a girl from Kano State.
Wonders will end soon.

LOL, I was wondering the same thing!

Heavenly father, I thank you for waking me up this morning, I thank you for the gift of life, I thank you for your provisions, I thank you for family and freinds. May your Holy name continue to be Glorified in Jesus Mighty name, Amen.

nwando:
who are you mad at?
The girl that wants to marry and come to America or the men lying through their teeth ?
People should just be honest,that's all.

If a man lives in an efficiency/studio apartment meaning the type where im parlour,kitchen and bedroom all dey one place,make im tell the girl so.
If he's flipping totillas at Taco Bell,let him say it.
A woman that loves you will still love you.
Why tell a girl you're this and that and she comes here and finds out she's been lied to.
That's so unfair.

any girl that was deceived this way should actually wonder what other lies they've been told.
His birthday may not even be real

Very true. I agree

Not necessary but some cultures demand an expensive funeral especially if the person in question held a chieftancy title.

I get something to eat

Awwwwwww! Congratulations! Your baby is soooooo cute! Thanks for sharing baby's picture with us.

almondjoy:
The good thing is that no one of us is God! Since you say I am unfit--God has been successfully raising them and will continue to raise them without my help! No wahala then. They have the best baby sitter they can ever wish for.

Well having written all that, all a can say to you is goodluck. The last time a checked, I still had my wedding band--not ring ooooooooooooooh, I said band. If you know what that means. Until I cease to have it--all you can do is make your noise and question with all that you wrote up there. Till then, I am still bonafide and sanctified! We are not dealing with rings any more. I said BAND!

I am glad you expressed yourself extremely well concerning your sentiments about me, my children, my husband and my marriage. You deal with yours and we shall see who finishes last in the end even where it is not a competition. Thank you also, for citing all ma previous posts to show you have been keepin' up with me on Nairaland--even where most of them have no relevance to what is being discussed here. I must be very special to you! I am very flattered.

As you already know, I do not have poor communication skills and do not get offended because of peoples opininons about me or ma posts, unless I really hate your guts. Frankly, you are of no consequence to ma Nairaland being. If you are looking for a cheap fight on Nairaland----I am not in the mood. You can pick another to show your skills. Not interested--having too much of a good time right now!

On that note, it was nice meeting you on Nairaland.

Happy Sunday to you!

_{To the recycle bin--where only thrash can go!}

Gbam! I like the way you answer posts so concisely and eloquently. You hit the hammer right on the nail. I enjoy reading your posts no be small. You reason just like me for the most part. Its just that after working so hard at work, my fingers no fit type too much again. However, you pretty much state what I am thinking too.

uchetobi:
@Uchkochi please take out your picture

I prefer tall guys but I have to find him physically appealing. Besides, it is what is in the heart that counts.