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What is the big fuss about shoprite anyway? Its just a grocery store but I feel that ladies are allowed to dress the way they want. I am sick and tired of Naija men who do nothing but bad mouth Naija women. Some guys were saying that Naija girls are cheap. I guess that includes your mother, grandmother, sister and all female members of your family. May God help my sons if they grow up some day and bad mouth Naija women or women in general for that matter after I have suffered to carry them 9 months and give birth to them! I really don't know what kind of women gave birth to those men who bash women. Thier mothers must have abandoned them in a gutter for them to keep bashing Naija women like that. Here in the U.S, you see young women with their their baby Phat clothes, pure white sneakers, boots and what have you. Does that make them cheap? That is why I am sick of Naija people because we never know how to uplift each other, but rather put each other down. Wonder why we are still a third world country with all the resources God has blessed us with. Nonsense!

Never heared of this slang in my life even though I grew up in Naija. We learn everyday though, what can I say.

stillwater:
Lmao!!!!!! Identity crisis in progress!!!!!

He He He Na real identity crisis

@Poster

What kind of question is this? Is something wrong with your hands? Can't you wash your clothes yourself? Gosh! I hate lazy people! Who is currently washing your clothes as a single man? This are the kind of men that will turn their wives to slaves all in the name of being conventional. Please stay single, do not turn another person's precious daughter into your slave!

ikamefa:
na wah oh ! @ topic this is supposed to be a joke right?

all this amma, g o nn a for wetin?

travel 1st na !

oniyeye!

you neffa leave house sef , you don dey suffer from misplaced identity syndrome! * *

He He He he He He

It does not matter to me as long as it is tasty.

Quite a couple

onyiidon:
After traditional and court wedding,hmmm na waooooooooooooooo
What kind of man is that? any way ,it all depends if you are still young i advice you to quite, after all if your were the one that is preginant for another man, he will pick race. But if you know that age is no more by your side, please go ahead with the wedding because husbands are scares nowadays.[/b]The ball is in your court to play, all the best.

This type of statement in bold above leaves me perplexed. Husbands are scarce where? in Nigeria? Are most women giving birth to more daughters than sons in Nigeria now? Population wise are there more women than men in Naija now? I just don't understand why people keep saying husbands are scare. And even if they were, she should marry a cheat that will tomorrow give her HIV and other STDS in her matrimonial home? The way [b]some women and men think, hmmmm. Also, think of the baby mama drama. Some Naija parents will force a man to marry thier daughter if the man pregnanted her.

@ Poster
If you do not want peace of mind in your home, go ahead and marry him. I believe in peace of mind in my marraige, open communication and honesty. Those 3 vital things already lack in your relationship and you want to go ahead with it? Don't worry. By the time you are forty years old, you will be looking sixty years because you have no joy, peace of mind or contentment in your marraige. Oh, and before I forget, step brother/sister wahala, step sibling rivalry that your children will have to deal with due to the other woman's child, I can go on and on. It's your life sha. Do as you see fit.

finemocha:
what kind of stupid job requires u to run a marathon. what the hell is going on in nigeria for goodness sake

I ask myself the same question

May the gentle souls of the deceased rest in peace.

mishooo:
I personally know a man that fainted during his wife's labour.

I think it could be scary oo!!

Then a man should not pregnate a woman if he cannot be man enough to be by her side when she is about to give birth to the baby he planted in her womb. Its just that simple!

[quote author=khai_khai link=topic=147911.msg2494451#msg2494451 date=1215797018]I think you should read the guys' post history for all the half truths, lies and insults he throws at nigerians. And coming from an AA whom for everyting wrong with nigeria, we can list two wrong with his people. We are in his country and see how they act and know there are in no way better than nigerians.
I don't think there is anyone in this forum who can come out and claim nigeria is a beautiful, model country. Or that the country is not filled with hardship and corruption.


Oboy, you claimed you know everything about africa. It's in your post.
People of every race kiss ass in the US, It depends on the individual. I met AAs who kissed ass at my previous workplace.
What is that nonsense about AAs being bold. You guys arent. You are unnecessarily loud and in peoples faces just because you can. And, that comes from being a freed slave. that is why you do not see it with any other group. You guys yell to let people know you are angry, disturb people at 1 am when they are trying to sleep, or just plain show how ignorant you are by trying to shout a mute point.
As a freed slave, you can now yell all you want at people who otherwise would have punished you severely for such actions in decades past. that is what most of you met your parents doing, so that is what you do. So, don't give me that "blunt and to the point" crap. The educated ones amongst you who have important points to make, do it without being disrespectful or in peoples faces(it is called being civil).[/quote]Khai_Khai,
You have said it all. Do you know this hero of a guy is pretty much a member of most Nigerian forums out there? I still cannot understand why he spends so much time on Nigerian forums especially because he is an akata. I just don't get it. He is like a damn cockroach that just keeps coming back no matter how much pesticide one uses There is nothing, good or bad that we Naija don't already know about our country. We do not need a damn akata trying to lecture us about our country. I see each day in the hospital akata teenagers 14, 15, 16 years old coming to deliver their bastard illegitimate children. Where is the father of the child? no where to be found. At my job, akatas continue to take off from work. My manager keeps firing them due to poor attendance. As a matter of fact, because akatas are such poor role models (drugs, no regards for the institution of marraige, enjoy having illegitimate children, rude as hell, discriminatory, lazy, obnoxious, ignorant, don't know the importance of an education), I will make sure my children do NOT spend most of their formative years growing up in America. Akatas are the most unpleasant set of black people I ever had the chance to encounter in my life I cannot trust them to save my own life. I wish they will just leave us alone. We have nothing, and I mean nothing in common with them except for brown skin and as we all know, the color of one's skin has nothing to do with a person's personality but rather the culture one posseses.

Hero is so obsessed with Nigeria and Nigerians that it is not even funny. What the Bleep does he care? And then coming to claim his ancestors were Igbo. In your dreams dude, in your dreams. Igbos will never produce annoying, shameless akata decendants like Hero! It can never happen. Tufiakwa!!

Genny is prettier but Stephanie has a more model like figure.

I like Jennifer Hudson. I have been her fan since she was a contestant on American Idol. Dream Girls was a very good movie. I saw it on christmas day, the same day it was first shown in theatres across the United States.

@Poster

Wow!

Hero:
419 Day!! Humm, just joking. But aaaah, doesn't Nigeria have an independence day holiday?

Yes, just like your people celebrate baby mama / jailed black men day every day!

No, Nigeria has no independence day. The Queen of England is our president and we are not an independent country but rather a subsidiary of Britain.

Stupid ignorant goat!

TOH:
Your wife

LOL, good answer

TOH, each time him see light skinned African woman, him body go begin shake like Jello pudding.

ovadose:
It is a wonder, why so many Lebanese and Indian people are camped out in Nigeria, and eeking out a serious living. Wonder why China town sprang out of no where in Lagos? hmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

China town? In Lagos?

I don't know what to say

These stupid idiots by the name of exponent and hero have started again! Why are you giving yourself headache over what Nigerians are doing? So, you have nothing better to do with your dull, miserable lives than to worry about what Nigerians are doing? Are you done lecturing your fellow fucking black american men to be fathers to their dozen illigitimate children and all their baby mama drama? Are you done releasing all those jail birds that clutter American jails due to drugs? Have you preached to all those crack heads that I see standing at the street corners? Who says you are getting your shit together? Think again! White america never wants you here anyway. Why do you think they lynched you people and roasted you on a stake like we roast goats? Don't get me started you ass hole with no origin and no destination. All other Americans know where the hell they originated from. You akatas are the only ones who don't know where the Bleep your origin lies and you are here running your stinking mouth!

I am so sorry for your loss. Stay strong. Will keep you in prayer.

genius33:
Really I'm aware of the risks, but my question is if you were in a relationship with someone, is it something that would put you off them?

Yes, it will. A relationship is hard enough much less with someone who is schizophrenic.

Thank you for posting Mohawkchic. I really needed to read that. God bless you.

Its hands all the way abeg. Can't be bothered with fork and knife. I just won't enjoy the food, period.

Leilah:
yeah that ogiri thing, i actually was very worried that it came from a dead corpse.

Wow! What a weird thing to say. Where in the world do people in corpses? Do you eat corpses in your country?

You can teach your mom how to cook.

I rate myself a 10. I am very, very good at cooking. Started cooking at a very young age.

omobabs:
The discussions were one sided. They paint the man as the one who is ALWAYS the guilty one. I had some personal and first hand experiences to share, in the hope that young people would learn from it. We live in Europe and my wife brought two of her siblings over at our expense. When I later made a feeble attempt to assist one of mine, she brought down hell fire. She wrecked everything as a result.

When I came to Europe, I had a circle of six friends. Many years agos, one of the friends brought his fiancee to Europe, the woman left him after ten months, leaving him to nurse one month old baby. Because she had no time for a struggler.

Another friend got married shortly before he came over to Europe, then close to two years later, succeeded in securing visa for the wife to join him, but the wife arrived three months pregnant. Another one of us, whose wife had one child and didn't have another one for several years got us all worried, thinking it was due to a medical problem. Neither the husband nor the rest of us knew that she was on contraceptive, because she was busy raising money and arranging visa for her lover to come over from Nigeria and didn't want to have another child for the husband.

The wife of one the six, who was the closest to me, was bringing a boy friend home, calling him her uncle. The man had free access to the house and was visiting several times per week, even when the husband was home. He would walk straight upstairs to the bedroom. He spend the night with them on many occasions. Trouble erupted and the matter burst into the open when the wife of the so called uncled couldn't bear it any longer. But it had gone on for many years.

About a year ago, a man who had to walk across the North African desert to reach Europe, recently succeeded in securing the permanent right of abode, after several years of pain, brought his wife and children over. And guess what, within two months, the wife called the police to chase him out the house. Such is the power of woman in Europe.

Am I suggesting that men are angels and women the devil? Not at all. I just want to draw attention to the fact that every coin has two sides and every story of man, woman relationship has two sides to it. So, men are bad, and women are no angels either. Women have the capacity to make men as good or as bad as they want. Women control men. Men labour for women. Men live to die because of women. I hope I make some sense.

God bless you all.

I am sorry to hear all this sad stories but there are several stories out there too where the woman is the victim, whereby she stood by him but after he made it, he leaves her to marry a young wife back home. It goes both ways. You have good and bad in each gender. One just has to pray that one finds the right person to spend the rest of one's life with. Chikena!

This topic is too funny. I don't really know what to say. If you feel uncomfortable dating her, then be with someone else. Or are you scared she may smack you upside down the head?

Tosbi:
@4Her
my God, the pix in your profile is damn terrible. i hope that is not your real pix if not, i think u need to take your case seriously. i don't think i can eat 4 2days wit what i ve seen in your profile.

May God help us in this country, where there are so many strange things

LOL, you seriously do not believe that, that is her pix now, do you?

@Poster

Hell yeah! or do you want me to tanda there till he sends me to an early grave?

[quote author=blue-sky link=topic=142284.msg2376008#msg2376008 date=1213545992]your boyfriend calls u mom in public. . . oh my [/quote]LMAO