Check their online fbnquest.com. The mutual fund is managed by same group that manage the money market fund. Or better still call any first bank help/contact line, speak with a customer service person and they will give u info

sinceraconcept:
Women should also stop cheating on men that paid their bride price and takes care of them and their children. Some men are vindictive and would take their pound of flesh for every cheating they catch their women involved in.
Even if a man cheats,must you? 2 wrongs can never make a right,men are naturally polygamous,don't try to cheat on your man as a revenge if you don't want to bleed. Just keep praying for him to stop the cheating and be successful in his endeavours. He's the head and provider for the family,stop comparing yourself with him. This recession period has gotten a lot of men into depression and their wives are flexing around

Your comments above make you sound just like "the husband JOHN" that she described.
According to the story
1. She DOES NOT live with the husband anymore - has not lived with him for 2 YEARS!
2. the husband has NOT PROVIDED for her /her children for the 2 years - has only just started visiting (EYE SEEING/ SPENDING TIME) with his kids
3. Even if she has taken to prostitution to enrich herself - HE GAVE UP THE RIGHT TO REACT THE MOMENT THEY STOPPED LIVING TOGETHER + HE STOPPED PROVIDING
4. She DOES NOT owe him any explanation for her choice of friends (male or female) and her movement - GET IT, [size=14pt]THEY ARE SEPARATED[/size]
5. Are you saying the man has been celibate for the 2years?
6. Vindictiveness/ polygamy / revenge is not reserved for men only neither is the option of prayer reserved for women only.

Notice, i have chosen to paint the woman the completely promiscuous one in this case just to drive home a point.

It still does not permit the man to touch her.

If she had been living with him and this happened, the whole world would have blamed her for not moving out/ahead and facing what so ever life has to offer outside without the said JOHN!

Now she moved OUT and MOVED ON and she is STILL AT FAULT??

What would have been ok?
1. for him to come find her living under the bridge?
2. for her and her kids to die off cos the man isnt with her anymore?
3. for her to be miserable and cry everyday cos she is no longer with her husband?
4. for her to turn to a NUN and quit sex because the man she took exchanged the marital VOW/OATH with isnt with her anymore?

My grandma does not know her birthday. But to make her part of the fun, we let her choose a date we celebrate for her (am guguessing my dad's date is also a fixed date... Not the real thing ). Now pls someone tell me that cos they were NOT EXACTLY born on those dates, when we celebrate the birthdays, we r doing something wrong??

25th Dec, 5th March, June 11th, Sept 30th I can go on and on .....
The Que is what's d reason for d celebration? As long as you bear Jesus in mind and DEDICATE d day to his birth, pls let grow beyond this "they said , they fixed, a catholic priest, a pagan god" and give adoration and importance to one worthy of it!

D fact that he is still worthy of this much attention& discussions over 2000yrs after his death....... Stop fault finding and love him already

We are CHRISTians which means CHRIST LIKE,

Put in this contest, what would CHRIST HAVE DONE?
I tought that Christ preached that we should give to those who have no capacity to give back and given with a good mind (not expecting repayment)? if i am already sowing seed in anticipation for something else, does it still follow this principle?

Christ had it all, BUT POSSESSED NOTHING!!!!!!!
let us remember that in alll our lives, doings, thinking etc.

For those of us that always stick to - talk not about men of God, Let God judge them himselve, THey are God's annoited so you should live them alone etc.
IS that WHOLELY what the bible and CHRIST tought us Was David not God's annointed? yet he was judged, caution etc by a man, The disciples /apostles in the new testament, did we not record of corrections / admonitions they received? or is it recorded that they waited for judgement day for God?

Forget not that the person may just not know what he/she is doing, but your word of correction MAY (i repeat, may) just help save/correct the person.

Finally, i pray tell, whose words do you hang on to? WORD of GOD or Word of MEN of GOD
For he said, before you were born, i knew you by name, i know the number of hair on your body.

If he (GOD) can look after the wild animals, plants etc, He will give u WHAT U NEED!!

Remember the guy that was born blind? when the apostles asked - whose sin it was, Jesus replied, nobody, it s for the will/ power of God to be shown.
Now if that man was of this generation, he will be made to feel he hasnt given God enough, thats why his blindness is not cured. Is that christianity?

ok, where was d isrealites homeland before the holocaust?

since they were re-settled in the present day isreal/palestine after the holocaust, say 1948.

Or put in another way, did the isrealites exist in 1900? if yes, where was thier homeland?

[/b]chei see "beafing"
Private jet on the list - DOES IT MEAN THEY BOUGHT IT?
y have people not considered - things i will like to do in life list - fly on private jet - check -[b]accomplished

dem buy the jet, dem hire the jet, dem pose for the jet, bottom line - dem dey inside private jet while some good old years back, they never tot they wld get to that stage - check - BABA GOD NA UR HAND WORK EHHHH - so in happiness they twit - another one on the list done - private jet.

If e too vex u, enter your own, take foto, twit am, paste am for facebook, infact frame am sef..

some people are here counting thier sales of 100 copies or 100mil copies, - they are busy counting the money coming in.

but shaa, if them buy private jet for private use - chei dat one go be money drainer oooo, not a wise decision oh

Truth, none. Of this story is d complete truth. A lot of loop holes can be found from both ends BUT there lessons to be learnt from this story and that's what the masses shld keep. 1. In Nigeria (@least if not anywhere else in d world) the one that has d best interest of the partners at hearts Are the PARTNERS. Most comments or hints from outside will either be inclined towards the wife or the man depending on how close u are to d person.
2. You may forgive your spouse and move on, but the people u have told or accepted their advise will not want you to move on. They won't forgive.z
3. Again in Nigeria, it's d woman that suffers the most for marital problems, so women!! Know when to love from a distance.
4. The man stuck with the lady (@ least for quite some time) thru d illness . Kudos to him. I wish he could have capped it by his effort some how (i wander how) by being there to the last.
5. Now a ques dat lingers in my mind., WHO WILL LOVE& LOOK AFTER THESE KIDS TRUELY?? - pls tell me not d man, cos when he is off to work, he will not know how whichever woman in d house will treat d kids...... But with these family issues already, will both families put the best interest of the kids first?

Hmmm,
Tu face = after 5 with 1 on the way, in short call it aafter 6,
But Is he married to any one?Even abroad sef, all those divorce and marry , dem no born before,

Yea, I believe he should grab a hold on how he spreads his seed,
But, PRAY TELL, WHY should any lady BLAME ANNIE for accepting??
All those ladies that marry Alhajis that are already married nko?
All those I born a man (but he didnt end up marrying me nko - y we never kill dem finish)
All those 2nd, 3rd, 4th etc wives nko??

Please, YEs we should say - [b]HOPE HE CHANGES HIS WAYS AND TRIES TO FOCUS ON THE ONE HE HAS CHOSEN.[/b]But then again, it takes 2 right?
The one wey born 1, e no marry u, u still open leg carry 2, wetin u dey think, - (maybe u can hold him down with the no os children u have for him)? - then u go for no 3, abegiiiii abegiiii,

truth be told,
Na competition all of them Baby mamas dey - Grand price = become Mrs Idibia.

And the Winner became Annie, una want make she drop the trophy
Talk true, some people wey de nairaland here de pray make she drop am make them for RUSH am,

Oya, Donald Trump na past , children, If he proposes, una no go RUSH greee?

@Pappville,
You still did not give a clear answer
1. At WHAT AGE, (you gave me a quote that i can interpret in any way i want),

2. Why was Jesus NOT baptised BEFORE or AFTER 30? (If we follow the theory of immerson in water for baptism because that was how Jesus was baptised), then Everybody should be baptised at 30 No more No less

3. It is okay to alter the dressing for baptism (by not wearing the type Jesus wore) but it is not okay to Sprinkle water instead of immersion? I thought it is you either follow the bible to the later or you are commiting a sin or has that changed?

4. my question was not IN WHOSE NAME, but BY WHO, , anybody? Please is it written in the Bible that ANYBODY can baptise?


We christians should learn to live by LOVE not by LAW. You can never too law abiding, you can never be without fault when you live by the law, but LOVE. Its a whole different ball game.

Hi ya,
Please can Nairalanders help recommend a good secondary school for one to send one's child to.

Please for each school recommended, can you say
a. name and where it is
b. how old it is and the benefits
thanks

@plappville ,
So please explain to me (if not to others), according to YOUR understanding of the bible

1. at what age should baptism be done
2. at what location should it be down (River, Stream, swiming pool, bowl, etc)
3. In what method (immersion, drowning, sprinkling, touching etc)
4. with what attire (dress code)
5. by who (John the baptist - represented by, , the apostles represented by, , Christ represented by, etc)
6. in the presence of who?

Finally, just for the sake of it, please which sin is commited when you baptise an infant

The catholic church has its faults and down sides - just like everyother church in the world today,
but i tell you,

if you spend your life looking for a way to condemn what they are doing instead of practicing what this same bibles you quote teach you - which is (in summary)

1. Love for GOD
2. Love for your Neighbour

You will be shocked that these so called catholics (or whatever religion it is) that you condemn may get to the desired destination before you.

Dont be too busy telling people the walking style to the bus that you miss the bus. you can limp, run, crawl, swag whatever, just get into the bus before it lives, ,

They argue, we are to follow the bible word for word and anything u do that is not in the bible in black and white is wrong, ok i say

1. please can someone show where it is int he bible that WE SHOULD NOT BAPTISE INFANTS.
2. in the bible when Jesus performed miracles, it is always written that men were there, e.g he fed 5000 men and recovered 12 baskets of left overs (no mention of women and children), does it mean there were none there or better put women and children shouldnot be around in such cases?
3. The people that dat believed and where baptized with thier household, please can someone categorically say what the household is made up of.
4. Jesus was baptised by immersion in the river and clothed in so if i follow your theories, everyone should be baptized dressed in same kind of attire too,
5. Jesus was alive but not baptised from birth till he was 30yrs of age, therefore, ANYBODY that is not baptised AT 30. is doing the wrong it, or [font=Lucida Sans Unicode]did the bible give the age grade the baptism should occur?[/font]


Why are we ever so sterotyped into condenming and finding fault[size=12pt][/size]in others instead of LOVING, CARING and WELCOMING others, irrespective of their belief. maybe - just maybe, your love could change them, for all the bible quoters - learn from the bible Jesus did not condemn the woman caught in adultery, rather challenged anyone without sin to be d 1st to cast the stone, that singular act, neither condenmed nor encouraged the adulterous act rather gave the woman an oppurtunity to change.

when u forget that u are supposed to be kicking ball and go after legs (kicking, tugging and pushing)

then i forget am supposed to be running on my feet (with the ball) and start rolling on the floor,
Dont hate the player, hate the game,
imagine that stud was shown to CR, hmm, u wld have known wot diving is all about,

The only reason inter won the cup last season is cos they played all the rough (kicking and tugging @barca) but Barca ignored and played real football. once beaten, twice shy,
they learnt from the best (JM's team)


Another food for tot,
while JM was with Chelsea, chelsea became too rough and took loads of cards, he has left them and wot happened? they same group of people forgot how to be rough

same with inter,
now RM,
hmmm, moreover, b4 d match, JM criticed Pep for crticizing good referee decisions, y cant he accept one now ennnhhhONE GOOD TURN DESERVES Aanother

same BBC that interviewed Yar'Adua??

i went to vote and yes there were party agents present (PDP, ACN and CPC mainly),
Even old iliterate men and women came out,
the turn out was shocking (most people went out of thier way and treckked far distances when they had to come and vote) and yes I SAW, dats y the voter turn out was ninety something percent, everyone was shocked.

But the shocking part was,

ALL the agents around were encouraging people to vote for Jonathan,
By this, i mean an old woman wanted to vote for APGA and was looking for "okuko" when d ACN party representative corrected and said and i quote "NO MA, IT IS UMBRELLA FOR TODAY".
The woman said no, dat she does not want the current governor again so does not want umbrella, and the agent went ahead to explain to her dat noo, this one is not governor but president so she shld put umbrella.

Is this wrong, ans = YES, but if u call it rigging, then say this,
In the SE and SS, not a party, but the PEOPLE rigged (here irrespective of the party they belonged to, including CPC encouraged ALL to vote for PDP)

and note too. this waas done for THE PERSON (JONATHAN) noy the party (PDP)
Now whose fault is that?

For

pls all this people allerging rigging, did any of u actually go to the polling units to vote?
if yes, pls how did / wot was d method of rigging? (telling people the party to vote for or actually thumbprinting in more than ! ballot papaer[size=10pt][/size])
pray answer d above before u talk about the rigging again,

Again that video on FB,
hmmmmmm,  for a semi-open ballot system??
was the no of accreditated voters not annouced/pasted before d voting proper?
where were all the other party agents?
where all the party agents not there to count the no of people that came to vote, thereby ensuring the finall voting results tally with those that were actually present??

Talk and castigating  is easy, but please lets be realistic,
i have not said that there was ABSOLUTELY no rigging, but of the magnitude posted on youtube /facebook, please
its only someone who has not being to the polling unit that will believe that.
for those of u abroad, please, before u concur, ask for someone who was there or in a similar environment to tell u if it was possible.

finally, from that video, HOW can one know d party that wass SUPPOSED to be rigging??

GBAM!

census with thumb-printing verification ohhhhh

yess with ELECTRICITY Nigeria and Nigerians will achieve/develop soooo much in sooo short a time, u will be amazed

then we also need a free and fair census (population count) so we know how in this world a desert enchrouchment can have more population than a busy tropical region, ([s]no wonder they have less than 60% turnout for election in most of d northern state, [/s], hm,mmmmmmmm i guess the freeness of the election made it diff for the non-living humans to appear @d polling stations)

give us a break joooo, we are not yet there , WE ACCEPT
we are on our way okay, so give us electricity

afterall, they are even spending the billions now and we are still not seeing anything, let the president of 2011-2015 give us electricity and census,
in 2015 we will demand something else from the then president,

afterall Rome was not built in a day, we accept to take ONE STEP AT A TIME.

whats all this talk about MEND!!!!!!!!!

Which one of u posting actually stays in the Niger Delta,
If there is one, can u please confirm [size=14pt]if there have been millitant activities since the amnesty, [/size]
(key word here is MILITANT activities attributted to MEND, not individaul criminal activities)

Remember at the time of Amnesty, Tompolo actually challenged ANYBODY that says he is part of mend (other than them that were there) to come out/ speak out. HOW COME NO ONE DID, speaks volume.

If truely MEND activities still exist, there should have been one before now.

If u know what these so called ex-millitiants are enjoying now (FREEDOM TO LIVE LARGE AMONGST PEOPLE AND SPEND THIER MONEY), compared to when they were in the creek, u will know they are not interested in going back there.

What happened in Abuja is just a pollitically motivated activity and the easiest group to blame is MEND.
This will tie the hands of GEJ, cos anything he does, he will be seen as being against his people,

Finally, if truely MEND activities are still that on, do u think that they would not have blown up enuff facilities now just for the mere arrest of Henry Okah?

Bottom line:------- a group of people were politically used to cause the bombing,
---------------- there is a big possibility that the executors are from niger delta or NOT
------------------the easiest group to blame is MEND
----------------- any group divided against itself CANNOT succeed / stand so for MEND to be divided, if its them, u will her names soon.

@idifu abeg oh! Amaechi of Rivers state has impacted on people's lives oh,

At least primary school pupils and teachers can attest to it

The fact that pele played in an era where media coverage was sooooo diff (unlike maradona)yet his name still sends sparks flying says a whole lot.

Face it u judge maradona as best cos u can see at least 80% of his plays n video and judge for urself. Most of pele's video clips are not there for all u know, he might also have single handedly won a cup. U can't say cos u have not seen it all, yet his name won't go away.it only goes to show,
The guy MUST BE D BEST!!!!!!!!
Its almost like the case of beckky and jay-jay. If not for english media hype can u differentiate the 2.

@knowall,
1. Any adult having sex with an under age (which includes 13, 14, 15, 16) is against the law with or without the consent of the underage,
[& for those that cite the man that impregnanted his dasughter as example, pls also cite where there are people defending this act!, for those that cite that there are 13 yr old mothers in the west, pls also cite where this act is supported widely or praised, for those citing that there are under age prostitutes, please also cite where poeple public support this act / scream down at those supporting it]

2. if u accept the right of some group to break the lwas of the nation because of their geographical location / religion, THEN please, all those HELD FOR OKIJA SHRINE incidence should be appeased, afterall IT IS THEIR BELIEVE.

3. also my religion has no holds back on what i wear and where i wear it to, so my dress code, (be it pant only to work) should also be respected and above the law as MY RELIGION PERMITS ME.

Really, is that the kind of nation u want,

There are soooo many diverse religions here in nigeria,
if we choose to break some laws cos it what some religions want, then we had better get ready to break more and more religious groups will tell u this is what thiers accept.

@ bluetooth
u actually ask for the diff b/w the governor and Anambra and that of Abia?
Now y do i remember Sarah Palin thinking Africa was a COUNTRY,

Under what ever guise u want to put it now, that question is , sooooo,

during omugwo, the person that comes to do the omugwo takes over MOST of the house hold chores and responsibilities.
cooking (for both husband and wife), cleaning, carrying the baby while the new mum rests, from my side, at night, the new mum actually sleeps while her mum or whoever is there for omugwo stays awake with the baby,

Pls there is a lot to it, every new mother looks forward to someone close to her to come for her omugwo.

@indie22, if someone comes to spend a month with u for holiday, its only a nigerian tradition that u buy that person something to go back home with not to talk of someone that came to labour for u for omugwo. i dont think its right to let the person go empty handed + women NEVER go for omugwo empty handed,
They go with all sorts of food stuffs.

BUT,
am not of the school of thot that u shld spend ur 1 month salary on her gift, but at least show appreciation with a gift. its the tot behind that mtters not the gift itself

its funny how most of the things we call unnecessary cultural taboo actually have 21st century link to good living.

21st century will say:-
wash ur hands b/4 u eat, make sure of the chemical u are handling or use gloves if u must, wash the food u eat, there is detergent / soap and water everywhere to handle this.

oldendays:- to fetch water, u will need to go to stream 1st, which is of course another mile's journey + the hill u will climb (unless u are a niger deltan0

Traditionally, left handedness was frowned upon



i tend to agree with ChinenyeN on this,

thank God for iinternet and media of the 21st century. Else this would have been a buried case.

The fact that this is being discussed at all shows Nigeria is heading forward,

Imagine if there was no public outcry and face book / nairaland/ sahara reporteers carrying of this, the woman would have been another dead and buried case,

Agreed she is not d cutest/ finest/ best actress.

Then again neither is she d ugliest/ worst looking/ worst actress.

Bottom line, something about her makes people tick (either liking or hating) and DAT is the star quality.

Am sure that's wot the MUD (wot cosmetic company will name itself mud?) is utilizing