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Celebrities › Re: Super Hot Lady Sets The Internet Ablaze With Her Curvy Shape And Big Bum (pics) by Oahray: 12:49pm On Aug 02, 2016

Excess fat. It's not my idea of curvy.

Romance › Re: What Do I Do? by Oahray: 12:45pm On Aug 02, 2016

splendidhyke:
Thanks so much everyone your contribution, @Oahray, on the course of me asking her out some time ago she once told me she has a health issue, then thought she was tring to scare me away with that because then she was having a complicated time with choices, and i never saw any signs of her having any issue that are health related until when we had some arguments and she told me her chest hurts, i thought it was probably normal and she complained again afterwards and i had to go into knowing why the chest pain persisted and she opened up

hmmm... Ok. She isn't the very confidential type.

See... There's nothing like a normal marriage, don't let anyone make you think otherwise. Every marriage is unique and has its challenges, some obvious even before tying the knot. Trust me, a medical condition isn't the worst thing that can happen to a marriage, although it makes stuff really complicated.

Be sure to know as much as you can about her condition. Here's my suggestion... Imagine you are already married to her and she develops this condition after wedding. Then do some thorough online research on it for a week. Check up medical forums if possible. At the end of that week, ask yourself if you are willing to take that extra step... You'd get your answer.

All the best.

Romance › Re: . by Oahray: 12:29pm On Aug 02, 2016

lilyqueen:
Yes I agree with you

Romance › Re: What Do I Do? by Oahray: 12:26pm On Aug 02, 2016

Marriage is serious business and requires lots of self-sacrifice. If you know you can't handle her condition, don't bother. If you know you understand the complications involved and still want to be with her, go ahead and lay your bed.

Wait o... How come you just got to know? You guys aren't close or she's just extremely secretive?

Don't talk about love. You have no idea what it is.

Romance › Re: . by Oahray: 12:18pm On Aug 02, 2016

lilyqueen:
Before Love takes place there must be a reason.

thank you. No love is unconditional. Whether it would turn out to be loyal, selfless or enduring is a different matter entirely.

Romance › Re: . by Oahray: 12:11pm On Aug 02, 2016

lilyqueen:
It is unconditional because It is without limitations, it doesn't change and it is genuine.

the love is because he died for mankind. If there's a reason it exists, it's pretty much conditional. It seems unchanging because the condition has already been met and cannot be undone.

Romance › Re: . by Oahray: 11:41am On Aug 02, 2016

lilyqueen:
If he hadn't come to lay down his life for mankind I wouldn't have known he existed.

and you can't love those whose existence you are unaware of. So how is it unconditional when it is HINGED ON his sacrificial death?

Romance › Re: . by Oahray: 11:30am On Aug 02, 2016

lilyqueen:
YES

what if he didn't die for anyone, wasn't the son of God, and there's no eternal reward for anyone? Would you still love him that much?

Romance › Re: . by Oahray: 11:25am On Aug 02, 2016

lilyqueen:
True love is in Jesus. Love Him unconditionally

so you love Jesus unconditionally?

Fashion › Re: Mr. Nairaland Contest 2016 - Elimination Round 2 by Oahray: 10:34am On Aug 02, 2016

I vote

Falconey
Fynestboi
Photoshoot
KINGinVAHALA

Cc NLjega

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Romance › Re: . by Oahray: 10:11pm On Aug 01, 2016

Your question isn't exactly clear to me. Are you asking if love exists at all or if it can be mutual or if two persons can love each other equally? You seem to be jumping from one to the other.

Fashion › Re: Light Skinned, Run From Shea Butter Oooo by Oahray: 9:56pm On Aug 01, 2016

LuveU2:
U shd know i was exaggerating bt i was worried a bit.

Ok. What
other condition

no other condition. You've done your part. Minus final round sha.

Fashion › Re: Light Skinned, Run From Shea Butter Oooo by Oahray: 9:54pm On Aug 01, 2016

KINGinVAHALA:
Okpia, shey you they try me? make I nor see your votes for me starting from tomorrow and see if I won't go to Esan and call for a family meeting between me and you.

lolz. You wan call family meeting for small pikin? Baba no be so o.

Fashion › Re: Light Skinned, Run From Shea Butter Oooo by Oahray: 9:27pm On Aug 01, 2016

KINGinVAHALA:

sah?

Fashion › Re: Light Skinned, Run From Shea Butter Oooo by Oahray: 9:24pm On Aug 01, 2016

LuveU2:
Why, i almost cried. Lol you owe me one what?
apology accepted tho

lol... Almost cried? Hmmm...

Vote na. The deal is still on.

Fashion › Re: Light Skinned, Run From Shea Butter Oooo by Oahray: 7:17pm On Aug 01, 2016

LuveU2, abeg no vex. I totally missed today's voting; was hooked up all day. I owe you one. sad

Romance › Re: Girls Are Leaving This Section! by Oahray: 11:55pm On Jul 31, 2016

Soldier go, soldier come...

Literature › Re: The New Story Of Harry Potter And The Cursed Child by Oahray: 9:31am On Jul 31, 2016

Mubby4luv:
Anybody that has never watched at least one part of Harry potter is either lying, from a terrible village or a toddler

bro, you only use 'either' when presenting two options not three like you did.

Btw, your claim is rather narrow-minded. Not everyone cares much about glorified sorcery.

Romance › Re: Can U Let A Girl U Dont Know Spend A Nite With U?? by Oahray: 5:37pm On Jul 29, 2016

I can but I won't inconvenience myself for a girl I don't know. Even the ones I know, e go hard. Girls aren't the most grateful of persons, and some acts of kindness can turn around to bite one in the butt.

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Crime › Re: Warn This Scammer If You Know Him (photos) by Oahray: 3:14pm On Jul 29, 2016

Nurse-cům-NLqueen-cům-detective cool

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Romance › Re: by Oahray: 2:10pm On Jul 28, 2016

itzmejerry:
guy you don smoke that weed again? he did not mentioned murder or stealing its just your behavior or attitudes towards people get dat into you fucking skull

You must define your terms when they are vague or they can be interpreted in other valid ways you don't like.

An impression is made both by actions and attitude. But attitude is abstract and can only be perceived by actions. See why I said he's making everything black and white? You talk of good and bad. If actions like murder or stealing do not fall into the bad category, where do they fall? Good?

Or you think those actions cannot make an impression?

Romance › Re: Never Trust A Nairalander Completely - He'd Be Your Doom! by Oahray: 11:43am On Jul 28, 2016

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]Well, I've met over a dozen nairalanders in person. In fact, as I'm typing this, I'm eating in a Nairalanders house. Nairalanders aren't bad. Nairaland cliques are bad.

The problem with most of you is that you extend the right hand of friendship to someone else while holding a dagger in your left hand. . . Evil begets evil. You're both chatting and "screenshoting" each other's conversations for "future use", and you gossip your "friend" to another "friend", who gossips to another "friend". What do you expect?

Nairalanders will keep on making friends and meeting with Nairalanders. It's the heart's motive that counts.[/color]

thank you jare. Cliques are bad everywhere. They never end well.

Una go do una stuff privately, then come play victim for public. undecided

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Romance › Re: by Oahray: 11:34am On Jul 28, 2016

Em... First of all, I think you should change your "first good/bad impression" to "good/bad first impression." When you say 'first good impression', you are talking about the first time you make a good impression, which could be after several bad impressions. However, a 'good first impression' refers to the (good) state of your first impression, which is what your post is about.

As for the content of your post, well... It's largely based the assumption that everything is either black or white, with nothing between. A poor assumption if you ask me.

When you say bad, why do you make it seem like there's only one level, which is harmless? Imagine saying "bad people are not really bad." Seriously?

My broda, bad pass bad. If you pass a first impression of being a ruthless murderer, only a few persons (if any) would give you a chance to show glimpses of good.

I acknowledge that what you have written up there is an opinion. I agree that it is true to an extent, a very small extent. Persons perceived to be good are judged by higher standards which they may at times fail to meet. But should that make someone strive to be of poor character just so he can be praised when he turns good?

Christianity Etc › Re: ''anybody Putting On 'attachment' Is Putting On Snake In The Realm Of Darkness'' by Oahray: 3:13pm On Jul 27, 2016

Fanatical nonsense undecided

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Poems For Review › Re: Clash Of Two Pens: Laveda Vs Jigsawkillah by Oahray: 11:50pm On Jul 26, 2016

ShaqFu:
LOL. Give yourself more credit Ray.

ok... 0.00000000099%

Bottom line is, levels dey. If I good like una, na poetry I go take dey answer people for road cheesy

Poems For Review › Re: Clash Of Two Pens: Laveda Vs Jigsawkillah by Oahray: 11:42pm On Jul 26, 2016

ShaqFu:
Really, and to think I think myself a learner. Hmm.

that's the human capacity for self-improvement. The man who is satisfied with his position remains stagnant. It's a good thing.

On the flip-side, it means I have a 0.00000000000003% chance of catching up. sad

Poems For Review › Re: Clash Of Two Pens: Laveda Vs Jigsawkillah by Oahray: 11:32pm On Jul 26, 2016

JigsawKillah:
seems like both I and Ray share the same views on that!

yes o. The both of you are top dawgs.

Computers › Re: Why You Need To Upgrade To Windows 10 Before 29th July by Oahray: 11:29pm On Jul 26, 2016

I no dey upgrade. Can't start battling OS bugs at this stage.

Poems For Review › Re: Clash Of Two Pens: Laveda Vs Jigsawkillah by Oahray: 11:11pm On Jul 26, 2016

ShaqFu:
Hmm I see Jigs. Never knew poets now have levels.

Oahray, who sayeth thou?

lol. Yes o. Me and some other persons dey the lowest rung.

Damn! Jigsaw is a killah! Your lines mehn... Your own enemy. Totally different perspective from the norm. See flows sha... I like!

Laveda, your imagery came on very strong, although the rhyming seemed somewhat forced. Nice on the whole.

Looks like voting is over

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