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RomanceRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 10:11pm On Jul 25, 2016
Laveda:
Lol I didn't share nudës and of course nudë wasn't uploaded here, someone obviously posted pictures I uploaded from my dp.. Anyways the person's loss

"Let the female without sin be the first to throw stone"

Good night.
madam stop explaining jare. The persons taunting you do not really care what you say (actually, I don't think anyone cares), they just want to know their attempt to make you feel bad is getting to you. Why are you not getting it? undecided

Stop giving people psychological weapons to use against you.

Let them talk... Today's headline is tomorrow's stale news. Just learn your lesson (if you like) and move on.
RomanceRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 3:34pm On Jul 25, 2016
makydebbie:
but wetin I do you na chaiii...see my lifegrin
nothing. I'm a big fan cheesy
RomanceRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 3:25pm On Jul 25, 2016
vicstar:
bae come ma give u money make u go do plastic surgery for that NOSE grin cheesy
hmmm... Why? Like this, she's pretty and she NOSE alot. If you ask me, that's Beauty and Brains.
RomanceRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 2:26pm On Jul 25, 2016
princeakins:
Oga i foh for dz ur pickupline o.. grin

I wan learn more ibeg grin
ah... Baba, no be pickup line o. Na just compliment inspired by em... by awe smiley
RomanceRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 1:52pm On Jul 25, 2016
makydebbie:
Ju.han wey you dey come see ooshockedshockedshocked
chai! Babe, when you inhale, you take our breath away, and when you exhale you sweep us off our feet. Heaven NOSE you are wonderfully made cheesy
RomanceRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 1:47pm On Jul 25, 2016
LuveU2:
Sorry dear its bern postponed to next week embarassed So sorry
oh. Ok.
RomanceRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 1:34pm On Jul 25, 2016
LuveU2:
smiley
where's the thread? Can't find it.
RomanceRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 1:32pm On Jul 25, 2016
Kenneth205:
Pls Guys vote and support me 4 Mr NL
serve? This isn't a presidential election bro. No one serves anyone on NL. Just give good reasons why you should be the one to eat the prize money. We know that's what you all are after.
Christianity EtcRe: Do You Believe In Superstitions? Like These Ones... by Oahray: 8:52am On Jul 25, 2016
YoursGEJ:
Didnt you say voices radiate through the atmosphere at 670mph? So you are now admitting that radios/phones do accelerate speed of communication. I thought you said they merely sift out noise. Mtcheww
lolz... Don't mind the guy. He pretends to know what he's saying. He probably thinks sound is an electromagnetic wave.
FashionRe: Light Skinned, Run From Shea Butter Oooo by Oahray: 8:32am On Jul 25, 2016
LuveU2:
Lol i just copied the post without modifying. Its today , Monday cheesy
thought as much tongue
FashionRe: Light Skinned, Run From Shea Butter Oooo by Oahray: 8:16am On Jul 25, 2016
LuveU2:
Helo dear voting starts tomorrow @10 am to 6pm in the Fashion section.

Dont forget luv; format to vote is; "I vote Falconey Cc NL Jega" Thank u so much!!!! cool

TEAMFALCONEY
Alright... Tomorrow Tuesday 26th? You wrote this 12:22am today.
Science/TechnologyRe: From Vhs To Vcd To Dvd To??? by Oahray: 9:24am On Jul 24, 2016
Focus is shifting from the media player to the display. Perhaps up next: holographic television displays and virtual reality media devices.
Christianity EtcRe: Do You Believe In Superstitions? Like These Ones... by Oahray: 8:37am On Jul 24, 2016
oglalasioux:
Very intelligent response. I've never said I don't believe in God. But it's not the god the religions preach. I've got my reasons and evidences.

Don't take Schrödinger's equation for granted. It has interwoven with string field theory to prove that our universe is nothing but a hologram from the bottom of a black hole from another universe. Multiverse is real. It's okay if you disbelief. 400 years ago no one believed Leonardo da Vinci or Galileo Galilei. But solid science is taking the place of religious beliefs. No matter the fight against it, the days of religion is numbered. The world as we know it will soon come to an end and sanity will take over.
open a thread in science and technology. I'd like to know how the speculative multiverse is solid science.
Christianity EtcRe: Do You Believe In Superstitions? Like These Ones... by Oahray: 8:10pm On Jul 23, 2016
oglalasioux:
Let me give you a little insight about Schrodinger's equation.

The equation states, correctly, that the subatomic particles that makes up everything can exist in more than one place at the same time. Experiments show this is true. So scientists argue that since subatomic particles are the building blocks of everything, then what they built up can exist in the same way.

The saliva you spitted out of your mouth is therefore still connected to you in the subatomic state. If it comes into contact with a disease, quantum mechanics prove that disease can affect you.

Also consider telepathy. When you hear a little voice it means someone far away is talking behind your back. This also is true. How does your GSM work? Or let us use a simple wireless microphone as an instance.

Our voices (and thoughts) radiate and flow into the atmosphere at 670 million miles per hour. So when you speak, it takes a second for your voice to reach as far as the moon and it continues to travel forever in all directions of the universe. The path the voice follows is electromagnetic waves. So if I have a magnet, it can attract your voice in real time and you can hear it loud through amplifiers. That's how microphones work and interestingly your GSM.

When you make a phone call to someone in USA, it's not the phone that took your voice there. Your voice is already radiating through the universe. The phone simply sifts the voice out of trillion others because you and the person you are talking to are on the same frequency.

I took time to explain this to you because that's how television works too. And shockingly, it's what our brains pick when we sleep which we know as dreams. People we call prophets and miracle workers just have the privilege of higher brain frequencies. When Einstein died, it was discovered that his brain was different. It's still in a jar at Princeton University.

Without messing with your belief, I must tell you that 90% of what religion do which we term miracles is actually solid science. The white people know but they won't just blow it up yet and expose religion because the existence of the state of Israel hinges on the belief that a being somewhere is controlling the universe. The contrary is the truth.
funny how you've taken Schrödinger's highly redundant equation to be rock-solid scientific law. Then you apply it in a way that shows you don't understand it at all (well, neither do I). It's a speculative hypothesis that doesn't tell us anything different from what Heisenberg said in his Uncertainty Principle, a philosophical jargon dressed up as science just like related theories like multiverses (which you are subtly implying). Every particle exists in many places as a wave but contracts to a position when about to be observed and then collapses back after after observation? You seriously believe that? Yeah, a white scientist said so, so it must be true.

Then the cat Paradox... Both dead and alive in different realities until observation. In other words, nothing happens unless it's being observed. It's like someone telling you that a falling tree both makes noise and yet makes no sound (at the same time) if there is no one to hear it.

Your write-sounds smart at first glance, but then it's just another blind leap of faith. Interesting to see someone in this clime with a passion for science-based theories though.

PS: Your last point about white people choosing not to expose religion is nonsense. There are still white scientists who believe in God. Stop worshipping the white man like he is the keeper of some sacred secret.
RomanceRe: For All The Men Worried About Exposed Cleavage by Oahray: 5:04pm On Jul 23, 2016
foolinlove:
No. The pronouns.

Like Miss v. Mrs. He and she.

Miss and Mrs indicate marriage. But there is nothing to indicate same for men. Tell me that isn't sexist.

Some people are fighting to stop saying he/she, him/her etc. because they don't identify as either gender.

Gender is really only important for medical reasons anyway.

You really need to read some stuff. Find out about people and their experiences.
if it's not going to help save lives or feed malnourished kids worldwide or cure diseases afflicting MANkind, I'm very much uninterested. There are better things to do than read stories of squabbles about pronouns by gender-insecure persons. Thank you.
RomanceRe: For All The Men Worried About Exposed Cleavage by Oahray: 4:35pm On Jul 23, 2016
foolinlove:
Mansplain away. I don't care what you think of feminists. People are in the process of ditching pronouns as we speak.

Conditions should favour everyone. Equality of opportunity has not been achieved. Which is why ppl still fight for it.
being called woMAN makes you disadvantaged? Lolz...

Ok, are going to stop being feMALE and huMAN too?

Chai! Thank goodness all ladies don't think the same way.

Adios.
RomanceRe: For All The Men Worried About Exposed Cleavage by Oahray: 4:12pm On Jul 23, 2016
foolinlove:
Your statement regarding opinion is getting tangled. It makes no sense.

I am not a victim. I am a fighter.

And I will not accept blame for being raped simply because of what I wear.

Rape is caused by rapists.

The world will change because strong people fight for what they believe in, no matter the opposition. So that everyone can be treated like a human and be afforded the rights they deserve.

Feminists have changed the world. They fought for women's right to vote and to work outside the home, for example. They won. Deal with it.

Time to stop mansplaining the world to me.
lol. Don't call yourself a woman then. There's MAN in it. Ditch the pronouns 'she' and 'her' for having 'he' in them. Feminists are far less logical than I thought. In constant battle with their imagination.

I said you have a victim MENTALITY, not that you are a victim. It means you see yourself as a victimized fighter (against the world) at every turn even when conditions favour you more than you care to admit.

I think I'm done. You can go and make your cleavage contribution to the world.
RomanceRe: For All The Men Worried About Exposed Cleavage by Oahray: 4:00pm On Jul 23, 2016
Na wa sha. While people are brainstorming on the next technological innovations that would help mankind move forward, our sister here is only interested in the right to bare her cleavage as if it's punishable by law.
RomanceRe: For All The Men Worried About Exposed Cleavage by Oahray: 3:51pm On Jul 23, 2016
foolinlove:
I do take responsibility for my actions.

I refuse to accept the blame for other people's actions or thoughts as a result of my dress. Uou may be interested to know women wear niqab and still get raped. Conventionally unattractive women are raped. Rape is seldom about sexual satisfaction, it's about power.

And feminists have already changed the world. It will keep changing. Whether you like it or not.
If you take responsibility for your actions, you'd have admitted that your actions can influence your public image. But no... You prefer to blame onlookers for forming an opinion.

You still aren't getting the point. "It contributes to..." doesn't not translate to "It's the reason why..." I wonder why you are mixing them up. Are you doing that on purpose? The lady in a niqab who gets raped is the unfortunate victim of a person without self-control pushed on by a mind influenced by the media that you ladies have helped sexualize. There's no sole ingredient in any cooked meal.

Oh... Please. Feminists didn't change the world. Humans changed the world in every century. Popular ideals change with time. People don't travel on donkeys anymore, monarchy has lost its power... Times change, but Man has always formed opinions since the moment he realized he has a mind. That would never change...

The world isn't going to change FOR YOU because you have a victim mentality. Interpret that any way you wish.
RomanceRe: For All The Men Worried About Exposed Cleavage by Oahray: 3:22pm On Jul 23, 2016
foolinlove:
Stop excusing rapists.

Go and watch Mad Men. Tell me if women are solely responsible for their own sexualisation.

I tire of talking to people who fail to see logic.
this is exactly why I had to add that a reason is not necessarily an excuse. Still you managed to fly over the point. Impressive!

Whether you like it or not, there is a reason for every action, but it only becomes a valid excuse when the reason justifies the action. In the end, every action contributes to some reaction. Some of you like to deny reality because it is unpleasant.

Don't even try to go strawman on me. That fallacy is ol'skool. No one is sexualizing anyone. When Nicky Minaj raps about her butt, and guys focus on her butt, whose fault is that? Our male ancestors? You ladies are the ones sexualizing yourselves by highlighting body parts that arouse men by nature.

My points thus far since you have a knack for missing them...
1) Your dressing influences how you are viewed. You can change how you are dressed, you can't change the human tendency to form an opinion about your actions.

2) Indecent dressing is one of the MANY THINGS (others include social media, movies that glorify channeling one's frustrations and aggression through sex) that CONTRIBUTE to vices like rape, even though a lack of self control by the rapist is the main culprit.

Keep on being obsessed with patriarchy all you wish. You have a right, just as others have a right to form opinions about you and your dressing. It's a crazy world, don't expect it to change for you; it won't. You better start taking responsibility for your actions.
RomanceRe: For All The Men Worried About Exposed Cleavage by Oahray: 12:43pm On Jul 23, 2016
foolinlove:
Dress codes apply to everyone. But dress codes are more strictly regulated for women.

But socially, only dress codes exist for women. Women's personalities are judged entirely on their dress. Men do not suffer same.

I do not presume men can control their sexual thoughts in any situation. What I am saying is sexual thoughts are the problem of the person thinking, not the person they're thinking about.

Women wearing niqab still get raped. Dress can't prevent rape or sexual thought.

There is no excuse for mistreating people based on their state of dress.
You haven't answered my question. Would you view two different presidential candidates the same way when one dresses like a ceo of a corporate organization and the other dresses like a drug-addicted gangster?
So how is it you say men aren't judged by the way they dress?

You are trying to argue that a person's dressing doesn't matter and should never attract negative opinion. I am saying you are wrong.

Again, having sexual thoughts isn't the reason for discrimination based on dressing. I wonder why you aren't getting it.

Rape? Lemme tell you something all of you are trying hard to deny. Since time immemorial, there have always been persons without much self-control. That is why rape exists at all. But it's not the sole reason it has become so prevalent (take note that a reason is not necessarily an excuse).

The world glorifies sex, the media is awash with it. I've seen a matchbox with a female in a sexy pose. Tell me what that has to do with match sticks. These things matter.

When you dress with all parts showing, you might not get attacked because whoever gets aroused has self-control or because the conditions aren't favourable; but you may have contributed to the rape of the next person the brute catches in a favourable condition.
RomanceRe: For All The Men Worried About Exposed Cleavage by Oahray:
foolinlove:
Yawn.

I am not physically unattractive to a lot of men. You would probably label me so because you dislike my personality.

If you support equal rights then you are a feminist, that's the definition.

Everyone has a right to do what they want without judgement. You see women dressing in a way you perceive as sexual and all you can think is that she's doing it to attract you.

How do you know she's not doing it to attract other women? Or some other reason? Men on this forum are ao egocentric. Like everything a woman does is to serve men.

My case in point.
That's what feminists like to think. Feminism isn't really about equal rights. If a man faces some sort of discrimination or even abuse, feminists would look the other way or even gloat over it. When it's a lady on the shorter end of the stick, you all remember to cry foul.

You feminists have no idea what equality means, or maybe you are just being devious. If you do, you wouldn't open a post arguing for a woman's right to go bare chested yet denying a man's right to have an opinion about it. That's all shades of silly.
RomanceRe: For All The Men Worried About Exposed Cleavage by Oahray: 12:06pm On Jul 23, 2016
foolinlove:
I'm not telling anyone what to think.

I'm telling you to stop making women responsible for what you think. Stop shaming women for YOUR thoughts.

Don't call women slvts because you had a sexual thought about them. Or any other "reason" you think of.
those men ( whether in the minority or majority, is inconsequential) who do such don't call ladies _sluts because they feel sexual attraction to them. It's usually because they feel the ladies are dressed or behave like the professional ones seeking customers.

You think men cannot have sexual thoughts about ladies who dress modestly? If you do, you know far less than you think you do. However they wouldn't address them the same way they would a scantily dressed lady.

Tell me, would you think the same thing of a suited presidential candidate and another dressed like a hippie? Dressing leaves an impression. It's not rocket science.

PS: I like how you presumed to know me. Presumptuousness is mostly blind. For the records, I don't call ladies _sluts, but if a lady (this applies to guys too) comes for a job interview bare chested (or nearly), she can forget about the job. undecided
RomanceRe: For All The Men Worried About Exposed Cleavage by Oahray: 11:42am On Jul 23, 2016
Tenkobos:
Politicians are criticized in almost everything they do but does it stop them from contesting in the next election?

You lied when you said that you go for what you want because criticism doesn't deter people who go for what they want.

Nobody is gonna clear road for you because you're a woman. Yo gotta stay behind if you can't fight your way through.
thank you. Make dem dey there dey play victim.

It's funny anyone would think other people's opinion can put holes in their favourite skimpy dresses. The freedom to criticize is a big part of the free world we desire. If they care so much what people think, dem never ready to bare chest. grin
RomanceRe: For All The Men Worried About Exposed Cleavage by Oahray: 11:23am On Jul 23, 2016
LuveU2:
I go for what i want all the time. Tell men to stop standing on the way of other women with their silly bags of criticism.
If women choose to bare their chest, others should shut their mouths up and face their "manship"
lol. Do you live in Nigeria? Walk bare-chested and see if it's the men that would criticize you the most. Many of these ideas we attribute to patriarchy are enforced the most by your fellow women.

Guess who usually performed FGM on girls in past generations? No, not a man. Guess who wouldn't let a couple rest without a male child? No, not the father-in-law. Guess who attack girls the most for wearing trousers? Hint: they wear long shapeless skirts and feel righteous inside.

Ladies mercilessly slut-shame fellow ladies too, and with an air of self-righteousness. Yet you have to blame the men who even enjoy the sight.
RomanceRe: For All The Men Worried About Exposed Cleavage by Oahray: 11:08am On Jul 23, 2016
Ok, so you believe women should not be told what to wear or not wear but men should be told what to think or not think of it?

Your choices shouldn't have consequences because you are female, right?

On instagram, you know what I noticed? The most creative of guys showed off their art and innovations, while most ladies showed off their scantily-clad bodies and twerk videos. Tomorrow you'd wonder why ladies aren't taken seriously, and blame patriarchy for your own choices and their consequences.

Truth is, you can rant all you wish but the average person would always have an opinion about your actions, and it's something you can't take away from him/her. You have a right to walk about with boobs spilling out, and I have the right to think whatever I please about it.
RomanceRe: An Interview With Golor, Piperson, Fynestboi, Zikdochi & Iamkingzlee by Oahray: 8:29pm On Jul 22, 2016
[quote author=TamedWolf90 post=47795567][/quote]wow! Awesome art! cool
RomanceRe: An Interview With Golor, Piperson, Fynestboi, Zikdochi & Iamkingzlee by Oahray: 7:39pm On Jul 22, 2016
Cc Deejavuu grin
RomanceRe: An Interview With Golor, Piperson, Fynestboi, Zikdochi & Iamkingzlee by Oahray: 7:30pm On Jul 22, 2016
Chai! Romancelanders play the dirtiest kind of politics sad
50k wey the winner go finish just now just now undecided
PhonesRe: Whatsapp Users Can Now Change The Font Of Their Messages - See How It Is Done by Oahray: 11:44pm On Jul 21, 2016
cozy7:
Someone brought a reasonable info, u dey talk nonsense. Where is yours? Who u epp?
dude... Don't rush into battle just because your armour is shining. That's not how to change a font. When you embolden or italicize or strikethrough, you are changing the font STYLE. It isn't the same as changing font. The topic is misleading.

If you must pass info, do it correctly or don't do it at all. It's high time we stopped celebrating mediocrity in Africa.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Sandoski, we miss you by Oahray: 7:55pm On Jul 21, 2016
Una too like drama for this section sef.
PhonesRe: Whatsapp Users Can Now Change The Font Of Their Messages - See How It Is Done by Oahray: 7:49pm On Jul 21, 2016
So when you italicize or embolden or strikethrough a word, you've CHANGED the FONT? Smh.

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