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FashionRe: Mr Nairaland 2016 - Grand Finale by Oahray: 5:32pm On Aug 06, 2016
JoeBlocks:
Ray, come on. You betrayed a fellow poet. grin LOL.
lol. Betrayal? How sah? grin
RomanceRe: How Possessive Parents Behave When They Suspect You're Seeing Someone by Oahray: 5:31pm On Aug 06, 2016
ivyy:
Naa man utd grin
na Barca fit you pass
FashionRe: Mr Nairaland 2016 - Grand Finale by Oahray: 12:19pm On Aug 06, 2016
I em... lipsrsealed
I vote
Iamkingzlee
Cc NLjega
RomanceRe: How Possessive Parents Behave When They Suspect You're Seeing Someone by Oahray: 11:06pm On Aug 05, 2016
ivyy:
What I do? embarassed
You make that jersey look good. Barca fan?
RomanceRe: How Possessive Parents Behave When They Suspect You're Seeing Someone by Oahray: 8:44pm On Aug 05, 2016
Chai... Ivyy.
RomanceRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 8:03pm On Aug 05, 2016
LuveU2:
Ancient promise? sad
yes
RomanceRe: Airtel Nigeria Gets Flirty With Sexy Female Customer On Twitter (snapshot) by Oahray: 7:59pm On Aug 05, 2016
lexiconkabir:
That moment when you let the demon of laziness use you and you are like, "lemme pay my school fees via my UBA mobile bank app on my android tab which i registered with an airtel sim" and you just finished doing the e-portal transfer stuff and received a message from AIRTEL saying....."Thanks for subscribing to the 3 years 450gigabytes plan for N70,000, nice doing business with you"...... shocked shocked
hahaha... grin grin grin

I go kee person o.
RomanceRe: How Smart Do You Think You Are? by Oahray: 7:47pm On Aug 05, 2016
O man
A rgentina
H onduras
R ussia
A rmenia
Y emen

How does this even prove someone is smart?
RomanceRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 7:32pm On Aug 05, 2016
LuveU2:
Oahray i just want to thank u for voting Fal over and over again. smileysmiley

Haven made it ti the final, i plead for your vote once more come saturday. Dont say no embarassed
Awww... Can't say yes either. I'd be breaking an ancient promise.
RomanceRe: Caning, Spanking Your Child May Cause Him Problems Later On by Oahray: 2:19pm On Aug 05, 2016
sinaj:
@ Oahray, u don't have to spank a child to discipline him/ her.

Most of the unruly adult or aggressive adult weren't born that way, they actually got aggressive by resisting spanking.

Like the secondary sch I wnt to, we were flogged at the slightest provocation, and at a point we got so used to it that we felt no pain whenever we were flogged.



Instead of spanking, there are other measures u could use to discipline a child such as different types of reinforcement
I never said spanking is the only form of discipline there is, as you are implying I did. I said "discipline your children. Spank if necessary." In other words, discipline is a must, but spank if and only when necessary.

Just like words, spanking can be misused as a tool for discipline. You think striking a child indiscriminately is the only way to ruin his self-esteem? Words can hurt too. So maybe we should never criticize a child's actions, but praise them whether good or bad so they don't feel bad.

Unruly behaviour is not necessarily aggressive and is not caused by resisting spanking. More often than not, unruly behaviour is caused by extremes... Either a lack of discipline or an excessive use of extreme methods.

Even as a relatively gentle child there were times I earned some good spanking. Till tomorrow I appreciate my parents for not trying to 'spare' me.
RomanceRe: Not Pleading The Fifth On Our Fifth by Oahray: 1:57pm On Aug 05, 2016
Awww... *sniff sniff* smiley
RomanceRe: Is It Right For A Girl To Talk Bad About Her Ex? by Oahray: 1:53pm On Aug 05, 2016
So there are girls that talk good of their exes? Just hearing this for the first time. I've never met any such girl before sha.

As far as I know, if a girl isn't painting her ex evil, it's because she isn't talking about him at all. I dunno if it's right, but I know it's the norm.
RomanceRe: Caning, Spanking Your Child May Cause Him Problems Later On by Oahray: 1:44pm On Aug 05, 2016
A 1.5% chance maube, when such spanking is excessive and an outlet for a parent's pentup frustration.

Please parents, discipline your children. Spank if necessary. I see too many unruly kids and adults everywhere.
RomanceRe: Men,how To Approach A Total Stranger And Start A Conversation With Them. by Oahray: 12:16pm On Aug 05, 2016
Well, I don't see a girl and get attracted immediately. My own dey slow wella.
RomanceRe: Do You Think Its A Wise Decision To Ask Your Girlfriend Or Wife About Her Past? by Oahray: 8:03pm On Aug 04, 2016
Yes. Big yes.

I ask questions alot. If you think I can't handle knowledge of your past actions, what makes you think I can handle your future actions or a future revelation, especially from an external source?

If your past is too confidential to tell your partner, take a walk and marry yourself abeg.
RomanceRe: Inferiority Complex Induced By Low Social Media Approval by Oahray: 7:47pm On Aug 04, 2016
Hmmm... Very true. The average human belongs to a social herd and constantly craves approval from the herd. Social media is by no means the only setting in which it manifests, although it's very much obvious there. I find it funny when I see people toiling to earn likes or hustling to get on frontpage or striving to be seen as badass e-warriors.

Only a few persons learn to break away from the herd and are comfortable outside it.
RomanceRe: 18 Pictures Showing That The World Is Not Such A Messed Up Place. by Oahray:
Awww... Nice. I really liked the soldier bridge pic.

The world is still a very messed up place though. These pics are exceptions and not the rule.
FashionRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - Semi-final by Oahray: 11:53pm On Aug 03, 2016
Na wetin go make this guy come third on Saturday e don do so smiley
RomanceRe: My Collection Of Camouflage Body Paints (Pics). by Oahray: 8:30pm On Aug 03, 2016
mizzbouqui:
Not Photoshop, they are body paints
yeah, f**kin incredible
RomanceRe: 10 Pictures Every Womanizer Can Relate To by Oahray: 6:09pm On Aug 03, 2016
KissChris:
Hehehe grin
this pic cracks me up everytime grin
RomanceRe: My Collection Of Camouflage Body Paints (Pics). by Oahray: 6:08pm On Aug 03, 2016
Wow! So awesome I don't even believe it's body paint. Photoshop maybe.
RomanceRe: See What A Girl Wrote In Her Withdrawal Slip (see Pic) by Oahray: 6:06pm On Aug 03, 2016
Hahahaha grin
I know that feeling. But na MTN don do me strong thing like that.
ProgrammingRe: 5 Programming Communities You Need To Join To Make You A Pro! by Oahray: 1:27pm On Aug 03, 2016
Add Hackerrank and github jor.
FashionRe: Mr. NAIRALAND Contest 2016 - Semi-final by Oahray: 10:35am On Aug 03, 2016
I vote

Fynestboi
Falconey
Photoshoot
Kinginvahala
Iamkingzlee

Cc NLJega

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