Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 3:28pm On May 13, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Another Undisputed Fact To Proof Chicks Are All Bitches...see4 Urself by Oahray: 3:11pm On May 13, 2016*. Modified: 9:51am On May 14, 2016 |
PaulKillerman: ma Nigga fork that shit mhen .. How do u think studies are done? Do u test every body in that population? U take a pilot study, take a cross section of members and do your study .... If a population, 90% of women are bitches , only out for men they only fork and expect money in return , without offering any valuable thing to the mans life , what do u call them? The day u stop giving them money, that's the day they break the relationship and brand you all kind of names.... Brotherly... 95% is enough to draw up an inference and a conclusion as a corollary .... Leave the lies ,deal with the truth , that's what we got to do, though it's bitter, its a pill we must swallow... here we go again... Ifs and more ifs. Every relationship is hinged on something. That something exists in different shades depending on the nature and purpose of the relationship. However you, PaulKillerman, believe that something is exclusively money. Here's why you think the way you do... You have no sense of loyalty yourself, and so you go about trying to tell yourself that you aren't the only one, and that everyone is like you. Haven't you ever been in a relationship where at least the girl thought it was serious? Did that stop you from bedding other girls? Just answer in your mind. You can't convincingly tell yourself a lie even if you wish to. The way you view the world is mostly influenced by your own perception of yourself. A person with zero loyalty would never trust anyone because he knows he himself cannot be trusted. If you start a relationship by luring the girl with money, it's stupid to expect her to stay when the enticement is gone. But what makes you think every guy out there got every girl they've ever been with by flaunting cash? Magas like you exist, and so do misers. Philanderers exist and so do prudes. In between both extremes in each case, are persons of all shades. Just as not every guy would foolishly give a girl 20k for sleeping with her, so also some girls think nothing of your 20k. If there's as little as a 5% chance of finding a girl that wouldn't fall into your generalization then, despite your trashy explanation, you are wrong when you say 'ALL'. Seriously, get your mind some depth. |
Romance › Re: Another Undisputed Fact To Proof Chicks Are All Bitches...see4 Urself by Oahray: 2:17pm On May 13, 2016 |
This is so wrong. Yes there are very loose girls around but they don't represent every girl out there. Same way unfaithful men do not represent all men.
The shallow mind cannot handle the depth of possibilities that reality affords and so likes to generalize everything. Get your mind some depth! |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Drawings Made With Nigerian Food Ingredients by Oahray: 9:24pm On May 12, 2016 |
Chai! That Fela (e be like Fela) own dey blow my mind.  |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 9:09pm On May 12, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 5:31pm On May 12, 2016 |
Fynestboi: Who six packs don epp.?  Those girls wey dey reason the packs. I'd like to see how the contest pans out. Voting never even start and there's bad blood everywhere. |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 2:55pm On May 12, 2016 |
Maxi112: Until she snaps with the Ankara with a proper blue Biro hand written, then I will take her serious
FTBOY, keep on with the good work why una dey do like this sef? It's the same person, and the truth is there in ink now. |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 2:53pm On May 12, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 2:50pm On May 12, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 11:39am On May 12, 2016 |
Hmmm... This babe serious for this 50k sha. |
Phones › Re: Some Funny And Fustrated Response For Ignored Text Messages by Oahray: 10:35am On May 12, 2016 |
juhan: its not jare maybe you were busy and forgot to reply. Doesnt necessary mean the person isnt important to you. if you can 'forget' to reply what you have read, it's because it doesn't rank high on your priority list. That one no be excuse. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Should I Pay My Tithe Or Pay My Brother's School Fees? by Oahray: 4:14pm On May 10, 2016 |
Pay your brother's fees. Tithing is not binding on Christians. Under the Mosaic law it served a purpose that is now outdated.
People harp on it because they see it as a gateway to blessings if paid or punishment if missed (yeah most persons are all shades of selfish). People want to buy more money and other blessings with a fraction of their money, as if God is some sort of lottery machine. Many pastors know the truth but they would never tell you. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Ghosts, Spirits, Paranormal Entities, Are They Real?(Warning). by Oahray: 1:11pm On May 10, 2016 |
jmichlins: You called them facts and same time asking if they are real. lol  |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 11:42am On May 10, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 11:27am On May 10, 2016 |
Deejavuu: Shey?. Please vote for me  lol. Ok... Beht why should I vote you? I don ask some contestants this question and dem go just keep quiet face the other side. I no wan talk wetin dey my mind sha. What happened? |
Romance › Re: Ladies, If A Guy Spreads A Rumor That You Had Sex With Him, Do This (Snapshot) by Oahray: 11:01am On May 10, 2016 |
You'd only have succeeded in confirming his claims. Foolish in the long run. |
Romance › Re: Miss Nairaland Contest 2016 - CAMPAIGN THREAD by Oahray: 10:59am On May 10, 2016 |
Una don kill the fun vibe with locked threads, better find a way to resurrect it o. When is the contest starting sef? |
Romance › Re: Simple Advice For Ladies by Oahray: 11:53pm On May 09, 2016 |
Hyinkar97: Would you marry a liar? is there any human of marriageable age that has not told lies at some point in his/her life? If there is, please show me. If there isn't, it simply means men and women have been marrying liars since the first man married the first woman and I can't possibly be an exception; neither would the woman who marries me. |
Romance › Re: Simple Advice For Ladies by Oahray: 11:23pm On May 09, 2016 |
Did she also tell her not to marry a liar? Why are you trying to sell the theme of deception to us?
This rubbish tale serves no real purpose as its lesson is whatever you choose to draw from it.
If the single woman dies at 86 and some married women are beaten to death at 36, who says the single lady is unfortunate? Each person would be gone someday anyway, married or single. |
Family › Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Oahray: 10:26pm On May 09, 2016 |
Etfash: I don't think a sane person should go physical with anyone !
Having said the above, I want to point out that: women have succeeded in craftily winning the sympathy of peoples all over the world. Today, the media is awash with some slogans like: 'say no to domestic violence'; 'fight against dehumanisation of women' and so on. But, I dare say that women have not stopped using their strength and defence mechanisms against the male folks. Women are powerful 'talkers'; they have unusually great strength to insult and run their men down. And, of course, when they do these, the society regard it as mere words, in fact, it is said that 'whatever isn't written never happened'. The man on the other hand has limitations battling with words; like a prey foolishly crawls into a trap, he engages his own strength which leaves evidence.
In my opinion, men have remained fools uptil this day. The female folks are crafty. Haven't you noticed that most children will choose their mother a thousand times ahead of their fathers? You think it's because of men's irresponsibility? No! Even many men who gave their all for their wives and children are still robbed of the affection of their children by the children's mothers.
Men respond to women directly! That is a wrong move if you ask me. It's better to do the exact opposite of what their action requires. For instance, If you are insulted: don't reply; play the fool; keep quiet. They begin to cry and expect to be petted; avoid them. When she suddenly begins to expect that you wouldn't care, show her the greatest care of her life. Bottom line: don't react to her actions; respond to it.
Lastly, the women folks are the smarter; they cause the problem, smartly feign innocence and weakness; explain why men should have manned up and prevented the problem in the first place; they cry and win the sympathy of everyone around. The truth is, it is the women's world: the burden of having to till the ground was transferred to man; even though some women cater for the financial needs of the house today, if they dont , nothing happens. But if men fail to do so, he is described as being irresponsible. Sarai told Abraham to impregnate Hagai, her maid. It is very easy to say the poor man wanted to do that all along, but I just hope people will imagine the pressure Sarai must have put on that great man of faith. When Sarah eventually had her own son, she asked Abraham to send Hagai and her 14 years old son out of the house. Abraham wanted to protest but even God supported Sarah. Time and space won't let me mention the rift between Jacob and Esau and even the unending war in the Middle-East today. So, men should wise up; realise that they will have to bear full responsibility for everything they do or refuse to do to their women. Even God will not justify them. well said! You have a good head on your shoulders. |
Family › Re: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by Oahray: 10:22pm On May 09, 2016 |
Hmmm... All I see are emotional rebuttals with the victim-card an ace up angry sleeves.
Logically, the op is right although tactless. I believe in action and consequences. I can't raise my hand on a woman I love unless she's trying to kill me and I'm trying to survive (yes, there is an unless). However it would be presumptuous of me to speak for every man out there. We have varying levels of self-control. A wise woman ought to know this and try to avoid the avoidable.
Ok so you realize you married a wife beater (a beast) why do you still keep hurling stones at him? Why get shocked that there's a reaction?
Well, it's fashionable these days to absolve the woman of the consequences of her action or inaction. No longer surprised when I read something as stúpid as "never lay hands on a woman NO MATTER WHAT SHE DOES." It's based on the fallacious assumption that women aren't capable of evil actions worthy of strong reactions. I say rubbish! |
Romance › Re: 10 "Unpopular" But Extremely Beautiful Nairalanders by Oahray: 7:41pm On May 07, 2016 |
thatNUPEboy: Bro, Unpopular is an ambiguous word that could mean "not popular (as in not known by many)" or "not liked"..it depends on how you view it. no, it's not ambiguous. Check a dictionary. Good thing you have now put it in quotes. |
Romance › Re: What Would You Do If You Saw This In Your Girlfriend's Kitchen After Eating? by Oahray: 5:07pm On May 07, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: 10 "Unpopular" But Extremely Beautiful Nairalanders by Oahray: 4:52pm On May 07, 2016 |
Anyway op, an unpopular person is one that is disliked by the majority (not one that is not known by many). Careful with the words you use. |
Romance › Re: This Is What Happens When A Man Enters The Kitchen.....lol Photos by Oahray: 4:37pm On May 07, 2016 |
Ouch! AlphaDex, please have mercy on the guy. His arrogance is birthed by ignorance. |
Romance › Re: 10 Most Beautiful Ladies On Nairaland Romance Section by Oahray: 4:28pm On May 07, 2016 |
Maxi112: that babe is cute, not only barca, even some arsenal fans are like.. as for Chelsea! I reserve my comment.  |
Romance › Re: 10 "Unpopular" But Extremely Beautiful Nairalanders by Oahray: 4:25pm On May 07, 2016 |
thatNUPEboy: I mean Unpopular  ok, so what does unpopular mean to you? I'm trying to understand the thread. |
Romance › Re: 10 "Unpopular" But Extremely Beautiful Nairalanders by Oahray: 4:23pm On May 07, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: 10 "Unpopular" But Extremely Beautiful Nairalanders by Oahray: 4:08pm On May 07, 2016 |
thatNUPEboy what do you mean by unpopular? |
Phones › Re: The Criminals At Airtel! by Oahray: 4:02pm On May 07, 2016 |
Naijji: I just called an NCC rep now, and the semi-literate lady was asking me what I want to be done about the issue. She said it's btw me and Airtel.
This is a clear case of false advertising.
Press 2 for 3 hours unlimited plan @2h. You press 2, then you're charged 1k!
If this is not fraud, I don't know what is can you imagine? NCC is the big reason these mobile operators keeps shortchanging Nigerians with confidence. When this results in public outrage, they would pretend to be doing something about it; probably one useless fine that does no real justice to the aggrieved. |
Romance › Re: 10 Most Beautiful Ladies On Nairaland Romance Section by Oahray: 3:46pm On May 07, 2016 |
Maxi112: this post is inconclusive with out juliaann
https://www.nairaland.com/juliaann na Barca fan na. Barca fans dey alway fine. Whether na the fine lead to the Barca fan or na the Barca fan lead to the fine, I never still know  |
Romance › Re: 10 Most Beautiful Ladies On Nairaland Romance Section by Oahray: 3:43pm On May 07, 2016 |
Chai! Make I no talk wetin dey my mind sha. There may or may not be prettier ones, as beauty is subjective. On your list, Oliviaarims and Ivyy should be at the top. Arrange the others like a table under them  |