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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Tottenham Hotspur Vs Manchester United (2 - 0) On 19th August 2023 by obaidan: 7:32pm On Aug 19, 2023
its official...Machester United is the chelsea of this season
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Tottenham Hotspur Vs Manchester United (2 - 0) On 19th August 2023 by obaidan: 6:48pm On Aug 19, 2023
this No 7 na kpef....manU just dash chelsea money
PoliticsRe: 'I Am Enamored By Yoruba Culture': Reno Omokri Recreates Obasanjo's 1977 Outfit by obaidan: 12:06pm On Aug 19, 2023
Alchemy528:
I don't fancy Yorubas
i'm not sure yorubas give a hoot
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Flaunts His Beautiful "Oyinbo" White Girlfriend (pics/video) by obaidan: 2:24pm On Aug 18, 2023
Jennyclay:
Another unfortunate broke foolish man looking for green card again.

Biko, you nonsense men shouldn’t kill me with laugh cheesy
No be d boy say make e hard u to find man o
PoliticsRe: Ibrahim Babangida Celebrates His 82nd Birthday Today by obaidan: 1:01pm On Aug 17, 2023
If you like don't use your head to vote right, when its time to vote stay in your house, dont go and vote, be following ur daddy GO and be praying for Nigeria and the wicked leaders u elect, God should touch their heart, God should direct them. Enemies of Nigeria should fall and die... see one of the biggest enemies of Nigeria doing 82nd birthday, e still fit reach 100 as e dey go...
Instead of praying for God to direct your leaders to do the right thing, why not let God direct you to the polling unit on election day to vote with your brains
CelebritiesRe: Isreal DMW Shares Photo Of Ex-Girlfriend Who Dumped Him In 2001 Because Of ₦150 by obaidan: 12:55pm On Aug 17, 2023
He's still pained.... she was wrong, and you were wrong too because I don't know what u were doing in a relationship with a Nigerian lady if u don't have the means...u know for. majority of them, money is the key...if you don't have money and you must date, look elsewhere, not the circle of Nigerian ladies...because your chances of getting dumped and abused is 8 out of 10.
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Has Collected The Iphone He Bought For Me by obaidan: 4:30pm On Aug 15, 2023
Excuzeme:
She is not a Child, she don dey phuck Boyfriend.
She is an ADULT and Adults need to Work and provide for their own needs.
Period.
you also have valid point......but if she no get job and cannot afford her lifestyle, she should run to her parents not her boyfriend
EducationRe: Subsidy Removal: University Of Ibadan Reduces Staff Workdays To Three by obaidan: 2:05pm On Aug 15, 2023
Essentially we are reducing productivity because Tinubu wants to kill us.
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Has Collected The Iphone He Bought For Me by obaidan: 2:05pm On Aug 15, 2023
Karen2024:
Few days ago I celebrated the iPhone my boyfriend bought me, but today I'm here to let you know that he has taken his iphone.
This was how it all started, he said he have a very urgent problem that I should help him with the phone so he will sell it. I gave him he sold it but I don't even know what the problem was. If I ask him he will only shout at me.
Truly, men are all scums. cry
Is your daddy jobless, or dead or in prison.?Does ur daddy have no source of livelihood?Are you jobless with no income? Is your mummy earning nothing? Those are the ones with responsibility to take care of your needs, not another man's son. The people that had sex and gave birth to you are the scums, not another man's son.
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Has Collected The Iphone He Bought For Me by obaidan:
Rokiat:
This is why you shouldn’t date broke dusties.

Smh.
And this is why parents need to work hard to provide for the needs of their children...so that their daughters will not be saying rubbish like this thing up here
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Has Collected The Iphone He Bought For Me by obaidan: 1:58pm On Aug 15, 2023
Karen2024:
Truly, men are all scums. cry
your daddy cannot buy IPhone for you, that you now degraded to the level where you think someone's son has the responsibility of taking care of you. My dear, your daddy is real scum
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Has Collected The Iphone He Bought For Me by obaidan: 1:53pm On Aug 15, 2023
That's a real Gee...his head is correct..go and collect ur next iPhone from your next boyfriend if your income and your daddy cannot put resources together to buy one for you
SportsRe: Chelsea Announce British-record Signing, Caicedo With Nigeria R&B Music by obaidan: 1:36pm On Aug 15, 2023
maticar:
Having played only one season the price is ridiculous.

The players you mentioned bar Antonio have experience of EPL and their country for years

But time will tell if the price is justified
We are just supporters and all we want is to enjoy victories and trophies...if the people running the finances of the club think the price is good, then it's good...we can't love their finances more than them.
FamilyRe: "Marriage Will Forever Be One Of Life's Achievements" - Jullie Cassie by obaidan: 1:22pm On Aug 15, 2023
mariahAngel:
Permit me to throw your question back at you; what is your ultimate goal in life?
Honest answer please.
Very few and I'll tell you.
1. To be in a position to help as many poor kids have a better future.
2. To be in a position to afford any luxury I desire,(to be able to afford luxury, basics Is not a problem)
3. To have the means to fund aspiration of my children. I.e. if my child desire to attend the most expensive school in the world, or undergo the most expensive training in the world, let funding not be the issue.

So will you answer my question now
FamilyRe: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by obaidan: 4:27am On Aug 15, 2023
be like na ur papa u go go marry finally.....ur dad was wrong, u were wrong, but u know who wrong pass for this matter, na that ur husband, u should give him this pet name Fabrizio SIMPano...if he asks u what it means tell him its what they call wise people in Croatia
FamilyRe: "Marriage Will Forever Be One Of Life's Achievements" - Jullie Cassie by obaidan: 4:20am On Aug 15, 2023
linearity:
So what has the 16 years old teenager who was married by her parents in Norther Nigeria to an elderly rich man in the community who has promised her family lands, cattles and food achieved?
you know like i said, marriage may not be an achievement in such cases of forced marriages. But i am inclined to believe that what happens in the north is that these little young girls are brainwashed to think what they are doing to them is nice and honourable and at that point they begin to desire it too. Ofcourse there are some who will not want it but i want to believe most of them want it after they have been brainwashed and in such cases, although they have been manipulated, but getting married at that age has become their desire too.

You know its not like these 16 years old girls cry and look unhappy on those wedding days too...they are also joyful and celebrate it with their friends......most times their elder sisters did same and its just the life they know, so i will even say for most of them, it is their desire(unfortunately they were manipulated by their loved ones and things around them to have that desire)
FamilyRe: "Marriage Will Forever Be One Of Life's Achievements" - Jullie Cassie by obaidan: 4:06am On Aug 15, 2023
linearity:
Again, marriage in itself is not an achievement. making marriage work is an achievement....Not everyone that marries put in effort, and courage and not everyone that gets into it sets it as a goal.

For marriage to be an achievement, that statement has to be universal and true in all cases. Young adults get into marriage every day in the North, but marriage was not a goal for them, they did not put any effort into it and it is not a success by any standard as far as they are concern.

Many people sit and waits for the right man to come around to ask for their hands in marriage...there was no achievement on their part.
If making marriage work is an achievement, then getting married is an achievement.....we agree that graduating from uni is an achievement, but something has to be achieved before u get admitted to the university i.e. passing JAMB and other entrace exams which is also an achievement. You've got to achieve one thing to have a chance of achieving the next. Ofcourse it is obvious that making marriage work is the bigger/ultimate achievement but that doesnt mean getting married or even building a stable relationship with ur partner is not an achievement. It may not be the ultimate, but its still an achievement.

I will disagree with you that for marriage to be an achievement, it has to be universal and true in all cases. Achievements are basically personal, what's an achiement to you may not be an achievement to me. What i think is universal is that, whatever goal u set for yourself and meet is an achievement. And about the North marriages u talked about, i agree with u marriage isnt a goal for those people u cited hence its not really an achievement for them, but for those that set goals of getting married or staying happily married, getting married is an achievement... There are milestones in life...we dont just wake up and become a butterfly and if u meet one milestone, its an achievement.

SportsRe: Chelsea Announce British-record Signing, Caicedo With Nigeria R&B Music by obaidan: 3:30am On Aug 15, 2023
Ejiakusmith:
£115 this too outrageous
I hope every single match he played from now till 2031 he will be scoring or else 😡😡😡🤔🤔🤔
have u said the same about Declan Rice
have u said the same about Antonio
have u said the same about Grealish

or it is only chelsea that deserve your reproach for spending big. The person that bought him knows why he bought him. Meanwhile the right value of a commodity is in the utility you desire and derive from it....i wan buy land them tell me make i bring 50m, u go there offer seller 60m...doesnt make u stupid....na as u desire am reach matter
SportsRe: Chelsea Announce British-record Signing, Caicedo With Nigeria R&B Music by obaidan: 3:25am On Aug 15, 2023
BoldBrainz:
Caicedo is good though. Just a bit overpriced, in my opinion.
not the problems for fans and supporters..he's not overpriced for the person spending the money.....as a fan yours is to enjoy football and hope your team will win games and trophies.....few years back it looked like City was overpaying for players. If you ask me, did they overpay? YES. Did it yield result? YES. DId the owner struggle financially? NO. Did the spending give their fanbase more joy? ABSOLUTELY.

Investments will always pay off somehow in football. The spender of the money who is successful business man and has quite a number of successful businesses knows better than you and I about value of the asset he is buying. If you say he is new to soccer, he has advicers who are experienced than u and I in football business and will know better than us as they have successfully performed same role in football business in the past....

So dear fan, your own is to watch your team play football and win games
FamilyRe: "Marriage Will Forever Be One Of Life's Achievements" - Jullie Cassie by obaidan: 3:16am On Aug 15, 2023
mariahAngel:
As a man, you're incomplete without a woman.
what does this even mean.....please if i may ask, what's your ultimate goal in life
FamilyRe: "Marriage Will Forever Be One Of Life's Achievements" - Jullie Cassie by obaidan: 3:13am On Aug 15, 2023
linearity:
How is marriage an achievement?
Because it is reaching a goal. Achievement is defined as a thing done successfully, typically by effort, courage, or skill. So do you now get why it is an achievement.

If u dey wear size 14 before and u wan do size 10 by december, when u reach that goal, u have achieved something and it is an achievement.
If you set goals to help the needy and maybe in few months u relaize u have helped one or 2 persons, it is an achievement
If in your heart of hearts, you hope to get married someday, when u get married it becomes anachievement...while you remain unmarried, u have not achieved what u set out to achieve.

However that you have not achieved your goals does not make you a failure and shouldnt make u unhappy, infact you may still have many who have achieved lots of their goals looking up to you.
FamilyRe: "Marriage Will Forever Be One Of Life's Achievements" - Jullie Cassie by obaidan: 3:07am On Aug 15, 2023
Samantha124:
I totally disagree.
do you wana share reasons why you disagree
FamilyRe: "Marriage Will Forever Be One Of Life's Achievements" - Jullie Cassie by obaidan: 3:06am On Aug 15, 2023
abbey621:
It's an achievement just like graduation, celebrating 40, 50 , 60 years or more. It's an achievement just like having a baby, securing a good paying job, losing weight or stop smoking! An achievement is an achievement regardless of opinion!
Very correct...I think people are expanding the meaning of achievement to be something else..... Changing wardrobe sef na achievement, looking better than u looked before is an achievement, improving you health and wellness is an achievement.
FamilyRe: "Marriage Will Forever Be One Of Life's Achievements" - Jullie Cassie by obaidan: 2:53am On Aug 15, 2023
It is not wrong to say marriage is an achievement......people just need to come to terms with the fact that all human beings cannot achieve the same things in life...Like she said graduating from school is an achievement, but some people did not graduate from school and they are role models to people who achieved the graduation.....

buying a car is an achievement
buying a house is an achievement
giving birth to a child is an achievement
becoming a teacher is an achievement
becoming wealthy is an achievement
having a personal relationship with God is an achievement
infact being able to sexually satisfy your partner is an achievement

the only thing is that everybody will not achieve the same things in this life and that u Mr. A did not/have not achieve what Mr B has achieved does not make u a failure. Mr B is probably admiring some of your achievements too

Marriage is an achievement, However being unmarried doesnt make u a failure.
RomanceRe: I Regret Not Making My Marriage Work, And Now My Husband Is Happily Remarried by obaidan: 5:21pm On Aug 14, 2023
Loooool
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija: Venita Reveals How She Was Physically Abused By Her Father by obaidan: 3:09pm On Aug 14, 2023
kokoA:
She wee not tell you her own part o.
Abi
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Liverpool (1 - 1) On 13th August 2023 by obaidan: 1:23am On Aug 14, 2023
Kk0nsults:
Enzo can’t shoot
Yes in terms of shooting, definitely not on lampard level but he is decent. Same as level as fabregas when it comes to shooting...these are players that use brain instead of power...his shooting may be rusty from playing really really deep last season...he takes decent shots
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Liverpool (1 - 1) On 13th August 2023 by obaidan: 6:43pm On Aug 13, 2023
For those doubting Enzo Fernandez....that's the answer.....now we plug Caicedo in that middle....replace Sterling with a reasonable winger, then we are good for the season
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Liverpool (1 - 1) On 13th August 2023 by obaidan: 5:34pm On Aug 13, 2023
Viridis:
That used to be an excellent footballer when he was on loan to crystal palace.
I still respect him for that season I am crystal palace fan
sadly he isnt good enough for chelsea
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Liverpool (1 - 1) On 13th August 2023 by obaidan: 5:19pm On Aug 13, 2023
I am so loving this...apartment from Gallagfher that I dont ever want to see in a blue shirt again..he is stealing an income as a footballer to be honest
RomanceRe: She Wants Me To Apologize All The Time by obaidan:
the fact you are even asking if you are right or wrong for not apologizing when u are not wrong shows she is a manipulative and a control freak and you are the best candidate for her
Deenillah:
I'll just go straight to it.

My girlfriend of 2years gets upset when I don't apologize even when I'm not at fault. , saying I don't care about her feelings.

I'm this person who believes that everyone is responsible for their actions and should shoulder the consequences for thier actions.

I don't apologize except when I know I'm wrong and I try as much as possible to avoid things that will make me apologize unnecessarily except of course for the ones that happen coincidentally.

But she wants it to be that at every little instance, I apologize even if she's at fault which to me I find unacceptable and this causes quarrels between us when it happens.


MY QUESTION IS

Am I wrong to want to apologize ONLY when I'm at fault?
FamilyRe: How Some Men Package For Marriage And Deceive Women by obaidan: 8:30pm On Aug 12, 2023
the Boldened points are the reasons ur friend's sister) got married to him......weytin she sabi chop dun hook am for throat now......i dont even know what to say to her but definitely no pity for her ........I am not saying she's a prostitute o but Her values are not different from those of a street prostitute

if i may ask, in what class class would you rate her upbringing, she dey act like weytin yoruba people dey call "omo oju o rola ri" ...... instead of her to focus on herself and how she can use her own sweat to buy house in Lekki too for herself and her parents, she wants to become wealthy and live in Lekki by putting her vagina to use
Born2Freak:

The husband in question is from a rich family
but he spends money recklessly and borrows recklessly. His family was covering up for him and she thought that the man is responsible.

The point is that the woman (my friend's sister) was fooled by her husband's rich family and big house in Lekki. The family has a house in Lekki while the man rents in Ibeju Lekki.

But can we only blame the man? If my friend's sister was wise enough to do investigation into the man she was marrying, she would not have married him. She saw a rich family and didnt ask questions. The man does not really have a job. He just helps to manage the family's properties. [/b]The man also parties like a wild animal. [b]But because he spends on her, she believed that he was a "big boy"

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