Women that are yet to get married should close thier legs or quit.

U no get Sense

That is one of the man who participated in extraditing nnamdi kanu to Nigeria, safe journey.

I can't ignore my mum

I no dey see men here o

Bro, that lady is not ur wife silently find way to send her back home, She has other things in mind that will later hurt u.

When u saw him playing around wrong place, why didn't u take him off at the moment.

Don't have that plan to arrest any of ur parent, no matter thier action just play deaf ear and hold ur self strong, instead if the problem persists, just get close to ur Rv or pastor and report such matter so that they can help u as well.

This one tall pass AY.

Buhari again

Rachel98:
Merry Christmas Everyone. I promise to be brief. Pls Pardon any typo errors. I'm so confused right now. Pls I need mature advice

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He's gentle (he talks only when needed, and he listens more), good looking, hard working and smart. He stays in a well furnished apartment. He don't smoke but drinks alcohol only occasionally. Everyone in his area respect him alot elderly, young even little children of age 4 and 5 calls his name and waves at him. I would be like how do this kids know you. He will laugh saying "me self tire". I'm faithful to him and he loves me. Despite my parents are strict, I always find ways to be with him.

Yes, We do have intimacy in our relationship. Now here is the problem. He prefer to have sex with me in an Hotel, which I hate so much. If we're together in his house, he will just say let's go out, the next thing we're in a hotel. He wastes his money on hotels. I don't like it. Maybe we can go there to eat in the restaurants, swim or drink but not to sleep over. Me personally I don't like it. But I have talked to him about it yet he won't listen. I angrily asked him if he's an occult, ritualist, or something.....Or will he die if he have sex in his house. He said God forbid!!

What he displayed yesterday got me really angry like I'm fed up.
I'm an auditor in my uncle's firm. My uncle celebrated his birthday/end of the year party in our firm yesterday. There was food and drinks. We the female staffs were the ones that prepared the food. I reserved like 4 take-away packs of rice nd chicken, cake and 3 5alive drinks for my boyfriend. So I called him that I would bring food for him. When I got to his house I gave him the food, he was happy as usual. So He said I should follow him to his car, he tried to touch and have sex with in his car like I'm a prostitute. I told him to stop. I was so angry, I took my hand bag and I went home. He has been calling me since yesterday (16 missed calls now) I haven't pick.

I don't know if I should end this relationship. He behaves like I'm a prostitute or something....I need a good advice I'm confused.

Thanks to the few people that gave me mature advice. Seriously, with some comments here most nairalanders are really frustrated and bitter.

Please nairaland mods should try and control these frustrated people. Ladies are suffering in this great forum. How would a foreigner feel when going through all these comments??

this is just the right time for u to make amend to his life style. If he cannot stand with that let him go.

Some of them that went to school felt superior in thier eyes, and secondly few last long in marriage.

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

You are nothing but a betrayal.

Thunder kill u for there.

Giftlove11:
I was being blinded by love to the extent that my boyfriend and I took a blood covenant, that was about some years ago..

The truth is that I was so madly in love with him, and when he brought out the ideal, I thought that was the only way he will be mine forever. So I agreed with him, and we made the convenant.. We use needle to cut out blood from our thumb, and we made a vow never to live each other or make love with another person..

i've been discussing with him to end this convenant, but he always refuses. We took the convenant when i was 17yrs, and Its been 8years now, and i've loved only him. Even though i don't love him again, i'm afraid to have or make love with another person.
he say we can't end it and that we must mary each other.

I already found someone else i love, i'm planning to report him to the police or his parents if he dosn't give me a chance to go away..

*i don't kno if it will actually hurt me if i love another person.

i really want to go away from him

talk to ur pastor, he'll break the so called covenant

devigblegble:
Someone should just injure Mo Salah for me, is that too much to ask for �

they need to reset ur memory

U go do plastic surgery be that, so that young generation can as well have their way

Just imagine, woman that actually want to stick around her husband and be in supportive finicially is very hard to get in this country, many have turn to baby Mama's and some are still coming home, so she is welcome

Let us hear ur own prophecy for 2022

They will help u out.

Thanks God for 2yrs of studying him and u actually graduated with master, u should be celebrating and waiting to go for next level.

From last line of police statement here Stated that (they arrested him for house breaking with the intention to rape and rape.)

This oba is targeting another bicth

Yes nah, she have the pace centre.

People address u the way u address urself

U want beard, u got it

HardMirror:
my mum is nobody's business. I give her her dues. This girl is my employee she deserves are salary, it is just funny to my how she attaches her lunch to mine. She won't order food until I order mine even though she does not ask me to pay, I just have to cos she had waited till I ordered lunch...

the way u put ur bed is how u will lie on top, most guys this days are the one creating problem for them self. From this ur msg I discovered that u started it first, cos u pretend to play along from beginning and now u want to wildraw. Best wishes bro.

Hope this guy is not lazychef, help me observe him well

HardMirror:
It seems Nigerian girls are indeed created, designed, configured, trained, programmed, predetermined, orientated,... to collect collect and collect.

I started dating this girl and by our standards this girl is as good as they come. She is truly a good girl with good character. I cant be dashing her money, so I asked her to come and work for me. Already had 4 employees but her work experience would be valuable to us and honestly she has been an asset and worth the money i am paying her. But what surprises me is how she still manages to get me to buy food, airtime for her everyday ....

Naija girls.. una matter no be here

what is need asking for advice when her work experience is worth the money, it's also worth the airtime and food. And if I may ask, how much have u be given to ur mother monthly or annually

Even thou she has 20 kids for me, and misbehave towards my siblings or try to put my friends away, that will be the end of the marriage. Such person can poison u and Walk away with the kid.

Let them carry out authospy on the guy before any conclusion