₦airaland Forum

Offpoint1:
I was not talking about loan...

Offpoint1:
Bro let's not justify such acts, remember life threats everyone differently. 1k might not be nothing to you, but there are people 1k to them seems like 1 billion. There are people that once they call one or 2 persons in their contacts for urgency/help, they'll get positive respond shortly and there are people who can call 100 people in their contacts with no hope.
Don't pray life to happen to you, a man dying of thirst and in desperate need for water will do/sign to quench his thirst.

Bea1234:
Did you send him money?

Bea1234:
https://www.nairaland.com/7900699/testimony-after-boss-sacked-me/5#down

https://www.nairaland.com/7894356/got-sacked-after-asking-four


If you think the handle that created the above post is being sincere and have at any point in time rendered financial help to her, sorry you have been scammed full time.

I will post evidence later cos I'm busy now. Too many scammers lurking around here. That's if she doesn't get to see this post and deactivate before then.

fotadmowmend:
You started well be got it wrong at the end..... Who are you to judge? Are you the most righteous? Tell me that you are perfect in all areas you hypocrite

Blitzking:
Women are always the one making their children hate their fathers...but for a woman to mess up that her children hate her ...she sef go know say she Bleep up..

Dancebreaker:
At bolded, the man get mind o. The wife fit kpai am to cover everything. The man's family not knowing might seem good to protect his family, but puts him at risk. She fit kpai am before his family finds out. Because if his family knows first, inheritance wahala go shele.

I hope the hubby has done DNA test on all his children.
Nor trust any woman no matter how "godly" or innocent she pretends to be,

Wallade:
Does your husband have a trusted and close friend or someone he respects a lot. Identify such person and assess if that person likes you or can protect you. It could also be someone in your church or mosque who can be very confidential and respectful of your marriage and husband.

If there is any one that meets the descriptions above. I will suggest you confide in the person and request that the person should help to appeal to your husband.

You need to genuinely seek his forgiveness and your children's forgiveness. Flee from adultery, respect your husband and protect him.

It is obvious that he can't trust you anymore. You need to start working on earning his trust and love again.

Jewessgratitud3:
"Sir, should I divorce or remain subject to this punishment for my infidelity? Or leave and start a new life without my family? What should I do ?

I am a married woman. I have no problems in my marriage. My husband had just been posted to another city. But I knew a young man when I was younger. We got back in touch. As chance would have it, we ran into each other one day when we were leaving the hospital.

We called each other regularly and saw each other. But I couldn't imagine it could reignite the flame still inside me. Unknown to my husband I told him out and welcomed him home. One day I introduced my husband to him. Everything was fine.

One day I fall so low by sleeping with him in my home. The children returning from school accompanied by my husband caught us in the act.

My husband and the children didn't say anything and my friend also left. Since that day neither my husband nor the children speak to me. No one eats the food I make. No child accepts that I even touch them for their shower. No one asks for my help with their class assignment. My friend also abandoned me.

I begged my husband for forgiveness but nothing. It has already been 11 months that I have lived as a stranger in the house. Their silence weighs on me. I told my parents about this.

My father no longer speaks to me. My mother occasionally only insults and calls me a harlot and stupid. I don't dare tell his family exactly. My husband also didn't tell his family.

I'm so ashamed of what I did. I broke my home. I do not know what to do"

Princewill1:
Nigerians are bad with loan repayment but these loan shark companies are still making profit with their hyper interest rates. If not dey for don close down since.

This is how it works:

Example with capital of 100k, gives 10 people loan of 10k each to payback 16k in 7days or 22k in 14days. If after 14days 5 individuals defaulted and only 5 persons repaid the loan, you're still at profit of 10k. Imagine when there capital is 100m, the profit will be 10m. This is why they're still in business because not all Nigerians are bad.

Lee99:
Uku Ji 3500... For those who don't understand Igbo it means her leg is like ₦3500 yam

Morbeta11:
Proper representation of your current situation.....

JasonNOTStatham:
There are banks can give at such rate, get your papers ready.

Illegal1:
omoh...........be lyk na church biz sure pass for dis country ooh

Ejyksneh:
Companies all over the world employ any competent person whether they are husband and wife or not.

The only reason why companies hesitate to employ husband and wife is because they are from south wast.e, head slammers or yooroooba line age, lovers of tasteless watery and peppery soups

yarimo:
Anambra state house of assembly looks very dirty, developers and dirtynes are like 5 and 6

Rapture2021:
Before I saw one thing my wife has abused the hell out of me,she was such a calm and reserved person before we married,but today at the slightest of misunderstanding she begins the insult,even getting close to my face telling me to beat her,I have never laid a finger on her,but she is tempting me to do that. How can a woman calls a man fool, idiot, animal? I have reported her family severally and yet she is not changing.

I opened a boutique business for her last year,now she said she wants to sell baby things,and I have done it half way,I had to just prank her that the other money I was expecting hasn't come, immediately she began the insult again to my face,as it is the prank is getting real because I will not give her the money anymore

CandyOps:
Not so much if you have a roof over your head every night and don't have to bother about rent. If push gets to shove with me here, I'll sell off everything I have here -- my gen, TV, 1 AC, bed, tables, washing machine and go squat with a friend.

But then accommodation no be my problem. Na how to be earning money here without spending so much on paid ads

You no how much I done spend on NL ads, and FB trying new market and cheaper goods?

All those are money spent never to return

AchrafHakimi:
With which magic?

duduade:
Okay na Master Professor continue to possess

Shijawesss:
Can't u chase Ur mother out of the house ..

Your father house is Ur house...

elonmuskbaby:
Good morning nairaland ladies and gentlemen.i will go straight to the point.why do people always assume that every lady who sets boundaries and does everything possible to avoid insults, disrespectful snide comments, shades,minds her buisness and keeps her friends minimal but sticks to her job,why are such ladies seen as arrogant, proud, someone people should not move close to. some people Will even assume they know you so much as to give you unsolicited advice you didn't ask for, deliberately incite or bring drama or provocation directly to your doorstep to see how you will react and when you show your displeasure you're automatically labelled rude.

So my question is,is it that you shouldn't have boundaries at work,allow people to come to your office and gist endlessly and not have time to face what you are paid for, allow senior colleagues to Bully or intimidate you before you're considered accommodating, friendly and calm?

mamagee3:
He came back on Sunday and told me he almost got tempted by other girls, What do I do?

VinnyBaba:
NO!.

The Day, you have Misunderstanding with Her, she will call her Colleagues to lock you inside Guardroom.