Family › Re: Help Me With Budgeting.... My 400k Salary No Longer Takes Me Home. by obinna58(m): 1:08pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Sirchiboy: And my salary is 25k with 5 kids. Chai It shall be well  |
Family › Re: Help Me With Budgeting.... My 400k Salary No Longer Takes Me Home. by obinna58(m): 1:06pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Angelfrost: I get 37G from MTN with 6K every month... Na me even dey waste am sef.
I can do Online courses, stream games, and do my Freelance work too! If it gets exhausted, it is usually toward the validity date, or if I go wild downloading large files like Movies and TV shows!
Sometimes, it could be the settings of your devices or your network provider is messing with your data! Chaii mtn get special customers, share me code abeg make I try my luck but still 6,7k na still de same thing na |
Family › Re: Help Me With Budgeting.... My 400k Salary No Longer Takes Me Home. by obinna58(m): 1:00pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Essenza01: I really don't know anymore, i just did my budget for the month and i am scared, i have cut from everywhere possible and i fear for my self.. i dont have a GF, Wife, Children.. my salary is N400,000 and i have added side businesses and one or two's to even survive.. but with this fuel increase, what else is left... zero savings..
- Rent - N108,333/mth (1,300,000/12) - Fuel for car - N180,000 (36k for 5-6days) - Auto maintenance - N30,000/mth (service/repair) - Fuel for generator - N50,000/mth (20ltr/wk) - Feeding - N62,000 - (N2,000/day) - Health miscellenous - N5,000/mth - Dstv - N4,500/mth - Data - N7,000/mth - Recharge card - N3,000/mth - Dry cleaner - N4,000/mth (Starch/iron) - Hygiene maintenance - N10,000 (body spray/perfume, roll on, soap, cream) etc.. - Gift to people - N10,000/mth - Family House contribution - N20,000/mth - Eko electric - N10,000/mth - repairs and maintenance - N12,000/mth - Clothing, footwear etc - N10,000/mth - Outings, restaurant, sit outs and provisions - N30,000/mth
Total = N556,500...
My rent is average rent for where i stay, its a two bed flat, i use the other room for home office..
Feeding is N2,000/day.. its not anything out of the ordinary.. tried cooking and spent more with time wasting.
Fuel for car is at the new rate of N500/ltr, my car is a 70ltr car tank..
Auto maintenance is basic brake pads, shocks, service 2mths, tire guage, police pr, tire purchase if any, minor touch ups etc... nothing major.
Fuel for generator is 20ltr/day (2hrs or less daily)
I need help.... how are you people doing it, what am i doing wrong? The rat race is killing me.. You’re judging based on basic healthy life forgetting an average Nigerian can only dream being in your position Many Nigerians feed unhealthy diet daily, chop bread morning and drink garri for night Also pack your belongings to the trenches and stop inviting visitors Sell your Benz and buy mini copper or picanto Forget dstv Use 200 Dey sub mtn 1gb per day ahh I forget say na still 6k monthly  No do giveaways again or contribution You no count hookup money, are you a virgin? My god we no get rich people again o except for politicians |
Family › Re: Help Me With Budgeting.... My 400k Salary No Longer Takes Me Home. by obinna58(m): 12:51pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Angelfrost: Your budget is quite indicting and indicative of someone clearly living above and beyond his means...!
Cut down your cost of living as a matter of urgency and sincerity... Cut off wasters in your life!
For instance, to be using 7000 for data in a month, what exactly do you do online??!... I know people who use 5k monthly and earn more than your monthly salary from Freelancing!
Just look at what you are paying as rent for a single guy! Come on... Get real sir!!!!
There are people earning twice that and paying less on rent! Everything is about direction and purpose! Who are you trying to impress??!
I'm glad you made a detailed budget... That's the first step to curbing bankruptcy! Now, commit to financial prudence!
People are thriving on less than your monthly income! No Jokes! This one shock me, how much are you using on data monthly and tell us how you’re doing it, na only fb and nl I normal Dey yet 1gb Dey burn daily basis 7k monthly is wey too cheap |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Does Not Last Long In Bed, Please What Can I Do? by obinna58(m): 12:12pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
degreee: I don't care if it's true or not,, all I'm concerned about is why doesn't she stay longer. And by the way, jeep the simping to your pocket, I'm not in that group Be deceiving yourself, one thing is certain, you’re under her control and you’re thinking it’s ok, it’s either she uses u so badly and dump your sorry ass or she traps you and destroys your life, reality will open your eyes |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Does Not Last Long In Bed, Please What Can I Do? by obinna58(m): 10:18am On Jun 01, 2023 |
degreee: No, she's not. But she told me I'm the 2nd guy she's met A simpish society, you’ll learn and become wiser |
Phones › Re: I Finally Got The Infinix Note 30pro by obinna58(m): 4:35pm On May 31, 2023 |
A whooping 175k on G99 infinix
That phone no suppose pass 60k |
Romance › Re: Please How Do You Unlove Someone You Loved So Much by obinna58(m): 3:40pm On May 31, 2023 |
DearGorgeous: Of course, I am a female. Why did you ask? I’m surprised you’re not bashing him already, are you believing what he wrote |
Romance › Re: Individuals From Broken Homes End Up With Broken Marriage? How True? by obinna58(m): 3:33pm On May 31, 2023 |
Goodlady: Very untrue! Broken home is a shiny red flag on the female side, you probably from one judging by your activities on NL You’ve got nice photo, I bet it’s likely you, reminds me of stubborn ruthless greedy Nigerian girls ready to give it to anybody hot! hot! hot! hot! hot! |
Romance › Re: Please How Do You Unlove Someone You Loved So Much by obinna58(m): 3:21pm On May 31, 2023 |
DearGorgeous: That's easy nah.
1. Delete all their chats and messages. 2. Stop doing those things you were doing because of him/her, or doing together in the past. 3. Stop putting on those wears s/he specifically liked. 4. Stop going to those places you used to hang out together in the past. 5. Stop listening to his/her favourite songs/musics. 6. Replace the time you usually accord them, doing things that you fancy. 7. Purse your passion. Get closer to God and His works. 8. Be extremely busy, to get you distracted. 9. Don't stalk them. 10. Avoid his or her friends that remind you of them.
When you heal fully, and you no longer regard them as before, you can begin to relax gradually on the aforementioned.
Finally, STOP falling in love. Try reciporate on exact same measure you were loved. Don't do pass your self so you wouldn't share premium tears when breakfast is served.
For me, apart from the Love of God and that of my parents, I don't even believe in anyother kind of love.
Hope this helps. Aren’t you an f gender or are you disguising |
Romance › Re: Please How Do You Unlove Someone You Loved So Much by obinna58(m): 3:14pm On May 31, 2023 |
Finnese001: I don see sege for her hand, she doesn't care anymore, I don't think I exist to her, she's been acting up and can't apologize, I'm watching once a sweet lady became a total different person, still a wonder to me  We’ve all been there Clear her from your memory, anything making you remember her, delete it, don’t view her photos, don’t talk to her, silence and time will heal you Never show them you love them, never show them they’re too important to you Hold the exist door by yourself |
Phones › Re: My problem with Oraimo Power Banks by obinna58(m): 11:17pm On May 30, 2023 |
atheistandproud: Since 2019
But Romoss fakes don full market, I'll not advice anyone to get it. Bought it already from trusted dealer, it been good so far 19 is a long time, seems I’m not going to have ic problem anytime soon  Oraimo failed me so hard that I made up my mind never to use powerbank again, I remembered I used ramozz before and it never had any problems except for the type b charging port, I say make I try again |
Phones › Re: My problem with Oraimo Power Banks by obinna58(m): 9:14pm On May 30, 2023 |
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Phones › Re: My problem with Oraimo Power Banks by obinna58(m): 2:50pm On May 30, 2023 |
OKOATA: Try this. This one na obvious fraud na |
Phones › Re: My problem with Oraimo Power Banks by obinna58(m): 2:49pm On May 30, 2023 |
yetdam4ril: how much did you buy and can I see the pack I bought two of this One 14k, one 11k None reach 3months, ic problem Ramozz have been serving me since then
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Romance › Re: My Elder Brother Is A Chronic Sex Addict by obinna58(m): 2:46pm On May 30, 2023 |
1Sharon: You seem to be jealous of your brother because he gets more girls than you do.
Your brother is an alpha male and men are polygamous in nature.
Stay in your lane, pray unceasingly, humble yourself and ask him questions, so you too can get hitched and get your own harem. Be my girlfriend |
Politics › Re: Subsidy: Queue In Port Harcourt (video,pictures) by obinna58(m): 1:57pm On May 30, 2023 |
Money must be made  Society of pretence |
Politics › Re: Hilda Baci Recognized By Umo Eno At Akwa Ibom Inauguration Ceremony (Video) by obinna58(m): 1:27pm On May 30, 2023 |
BloomingDale: Envy is the root of all evil. Be warned. No, Money |
Politics › Re: Hilda Baci Recognized By Umo Eno At Akwa Ibom Inauguration Ceremony (Video) by obinna58(m): 9:11am On May 30, 2023*. Modified: 1:32pm On May 30, 2023 |
A slay queen whose record hasn’t been certified yet getting all this attention says a lot about the society
Her customers are majorly politicians which is pushing her forward, can only imagine what goes on behind the scene
A slay queen will never have such strength to break Guinness record, Guinness will disappoint her, they’ve already seen she manipulated her way in resulting to such long delay announcement, violence Nigerians will take it in when their energized momentum for vawulence have be suppressed |
Phones › Re: My problem with Oraimo Power Banks by obinna58(m): 9:09am On May 30, 2023 |
I bought two oraimo 20000mah, they both got spoilt under 3months
I’m suspecting fake products and it can’t be from oraimo |
Family › Re: Why Do Women Knowingly Marry Deadbeats? by obinna58(m): 10:19pm On May 27, 2023 |
Adaisback: I have said it before and am saying it again. I am all for those people they call simps. I want to marry a simp man. Am beautiful and won't allow one yeye man to lay his filthy fingers on me. Team simps If you are a simp, am all for you biko. Even if you no sabi do, no yawa, I go dey do the do and we will communicate effectively and that will make our relationship an everlasting one Redpillers are only for lucky women, competent men are very rare |
Romance › Re: My Experience With Nigerian Police. by obinna58(m): 3:32pm On May 27, 2023 |
Binspector: Next time, until you have been given your bike and been duly cleared, do not take down the evidence you have on us. I say "us" because I'm a police officer myself. It's just an advice, glad no one pulled a quick one on you after deleting them. Officer, really? Inspector honestly to just slap you for no reason Dey hungry me Babalawos abeg tell me again how persin fit send spiritual slap to another person |
Family › Re: My Personal Observation About Nigerian "Adults" by obinna58(m): 2:55pm On May 27, 2023 |
taylor89: Keep your observations to yourself e no concern me
Meanwhile Seun if Nairaland don tire you to run sel it out or give another person to handle it for you
What’s all these pop up ads always discomforting me whenever I visit this page?
If you wan run ads why not run as a thread in front page
To even think I saw a Corn advert this morning my mind just fly
I’m not a child of corn Abeg no dey finger my brain It’s been for days but you waited for 3k likes before you can complain Na you Dey run ads na |
Celebrities › Re: Hilda Baci Meets And Hugs Tony Elumelu At Africa Day Conversation by obinna58(m): 10:12am On May 26, 2023 |
 Women what do you want? I want what I can not afford myself, I want people who wins every time, I’ll only have to offer my puxy and always look very sexy so I can attract even more powerful people who are even winning bigger and be with them until I have more options I have only my puxy and my puxy will be enough to get me all I need Men is this true? Simps: that’s perfection |
Politics › Re: Meet Engr. Kemi Elebute-Halle, The First Female Governorship Candidate In Ekiti by obinna58(m): 8:34am On May 26, 2023 |
Considering the situation of Africa a woman cannot lead
Men are terrible but women will be disastrous, doom, their best place for now is kitchen and ze oza room |
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Education › Re: Ogun Poly Student Commits Suicide After Losing His Tuition Fee To Gambling by obinna58(m): 5:40pm On May 25, 2023 |
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Phones › Re: How Much Data Do You Use On Daily Basis(photo)? by obinna58(m): 5:37pm On May 25, 2023 |
1gb daily at 200, mtn and airtel |
Sports › Re: Skipping Challenge: Philip Solomon Breaking Guinness World Record (Video) by obinna58(m): 5:31pm On May 25, 2023 |
eepeepook: Nairaland is full of bots and trolls. Every topic has the same comments posted. Prove it |
Family › Re: Does This Make Me A Polygamist by obinna58(m): 5:27pm On May 25, 2023 |
westlius: Every baby mama get angry when the father of there child get married to another woman It’s called gameover  Op no go understand, when it’s gameover reality comes into play |
Properties › Re: Auction: EFCC Invites Nigerians To Bid For Forfeited Landed Properties by obinna58(m): 5:16pm On May 25, 2023 |
Na people wey get am go still buy am with a fresh look and new name
Gang owned properties
Go buy gang property and pay for it |
Romance › Re: I feel like dying by obinna58(m): 3:20pm On May 25, 2023 |
I started laughing when I heard “girlfriend” What a simp She’ll mount another dck on her birthday  |