GenderMix:
Dear Esteemed Nairalanders of extreme wisdom, I have a 4+ year old daughter who is very curious and sleeps on the same bed with me and wife. Some days ago she almost caught me and wife having sex, so in the morning she asked my wife what I was doing to her…lol. Most times I hug and kiss my wife in front of her and do same to her (in her case, a peck and she reciprocates back). This is our normal lives. Sometimes, when I hug my wife before her, she gets jealous..lol

I think we made a mistake in not allowing her get used to her room from day one. We had tried to make her see reasons why she can’t continue to sleep on same bed with us but it’s all falling on deaf ears. At a point, we forced her to her room and when she woke up around 2am, all hell was let loose, I felt sympathy and told my wife to allow her into our room.


We can’t continue this way, so I need your advice (especially married couples with kids)

1. Did we make a mistake by letting her sleep on same bed with us considering she is just 4?

2. Is it too late to force her to her room?

3. How do we go about making sure she gets used to her room without disturbing us?

4. If she asks what we are doing at night, like the case where she almost caught us, what would be a good reply that would sound logical and educative for her own growth.

5. Is her jealousy normal?

Thank you

First I'll suggest you make her room look like her nursery school, stick glowing stars to her walls. Make it look very inviting with sharp colours that glow at night, design her walls with her artworks things she drew herself, put them to frames and hang them to her walls. And then...
Try as much as you can to always give her yoghurts, The thick one you have to scoop with spoon after her last meal of the day , the result will shock you.

gracyblaze:
I was just lazying around and boom!!!

[color=#990000][/color] please has anyone got any news about the one of Lagos state? Please keep us posted...

You should realise that in business the organisation is also seen as a person, and as a person HE ought to grow and for it to grow a percentage of the profit has to be ploughed back into it... Because a person not fed will die. And one of the purposes of any business is continuity. If the business is meant to continue then at least 30% of the profit should be ploughed back into it and then you, the partners share the rest equally.. *(35%-35%)

Since there are no written agreement on the profit sharing ratio its automatically implies that profit will be shared equally

See What Our Yoruba In-laws Made My Brother Do At His Traditional Marriage.

It was a very pleasant day for Akin aka Mr Handsome and Yemisi aka Funky chef, right in the heart of festac town Lagos state.

PassingShot:
One can only feel for Faleke that the laws conspired against him but there is NOTHING he can do about the situation. Even if he spends his entire savings on this case, I believe Yahaya Bello will be governor.

If not for the Electoral law that specifically demands that a candidate must have fully participated in his party's primaries to qualify for election, APC would have used Faleke as Audu's replacement.

The lesson of this Kogi election is that it's advisable to participate in the primaries that will throw up a substantive candidate (gubernatorial or presidential) even if your plan is to be deputy to the eventual winner. In the event that your principal kicks the bucket during election process, you will easily be made his replacement without much rancor.

No politician will ever make his Opponent at a Primary his deputy. Ever heard of that?

ITbomb:
No need to go, she said she's pregnant

What do really mean by that?

chukwuma0000:
good morning beautiful people of nairaland ,am priviledged by God to talk to you this morning sound and healthy,am chukwuma chris ,from Nri in Aniocha Local Govt Area of Anambra state,i was brought up in a poor environment and wretched family which i know that my condition won`t be permanent,i hussle to carter for myself ,being independent i have so much enthusiasm for eduction which i know and believe is the key that will unlock my inability to reach my destination ,i never thought of being poor that i dreamt so high that i never behave like one from a poor background,but the problem is that i have written jamb almost 2times this year making it the 2nd time but no admission from university but polytechnic gave me admission last year which i ignored, this year the same thing but still contemplating ,the reason why i seek for your suggestion is that firstly bsc is more honored than hnd don`t know why? Only in Nigeria,secondly i know who am , i know where am heading to,to be equipped and make impact in my generation financially,politically,socially and otherwise.so my query is this am i to accept the admission offered to me?by a recognised polytechnic pls no insult candidly suggest.so am graced to be great no doubt,no fear ,no failure .its a secret.happy sunday.

You can accept it after you OND you can switch to a university as a direct Entry student, that way you'll start from Year 2

Keneking:
Ok

- I don't get this
- does NDLEA check traveller's wallet?
- I am not aware of any chip detecting scanner at the airport
- I am not sure this is possible.

I believe the guy didn't want to tip them that's why he's own case is like that, its not something new. Its been on for a long while now.

handsomeclouds:
Must it always be Igbo?
I'm so ashamed to be an Igbo man

Just mix three table spoons full of cement in a glass of cold water and drink, and trust me you'll stop being an IGBO man...

Please, I have an upper credit in HND how do I venture into Lecturing and subsequently rise to the peak of that career. Please I need serious suggestions... Thanks

Please it seems as it stands there are no hopes for Polytechnic and Monotechnic graduates of the country. Please someone respond.

The best thing to do to save the situation is just to keep calm, keep your temper inside and you render as much apologies as required to change her mood because she's the client and as long as business is concerned she's the King you need her to remain in business and she will be the one to tell others of how quick and effective you are in responding to customer's issues which has been observed to be the most effective means of advertisement... And most times such ranting and bragging usually ends up with the two of you becoming fond of each other.

But honestly this is not news the case is even better when compared to the state of other barracks and quarters around the country....


Well this is what someone feels About the Change issue...

IF YOU SAY YOU CAN THEN YOU CAN
IF YOU SAY YOU CAN'T THEN, YOU ARE RIGHT

I stopped watching the main show because it lost its flavour after the first edition.... The part of the show that's usually very interesting is the audition stage where the applicants are asked to swim... When they're asked if they could swim 100% will say yes, so many will just jump into the pool and start gulping water down their throat...

This is really a nice piece...

I think He's saying this because whizkid's name did not appear in the list of people who contributed towards his treatment...

But bro you just have to accept it like that because LIFE's LIKE THAT... The people whom you cherish and love most are the same people who hurt you the most... Take heart, I think the most important thing now is the fact that you're still alive.. All Thanks To God.

Its simply called... ZIP UP

If your mum gives several strokes of the cane and tells you to hold your lips together with your fingers.

EKO FOR SHOW

If its abdominal pains as could be caused by menstrual flow the lady could try taking PEFLOTAB. My sister used it when I was younger and she told me it relieves menstrual and abdominal pains in Ladies.


But she has to adhere to prescribed dosage on the pack because, I also had a neighbor while in school who told me she takes it when she has unprotected sex and feels there are sperm deposits inside of her and she feels she might get pregnant.

When your mum gives one standard loaf of bread to eat up because she caught you begging your friend for a slice... Then you know your mum is from no other place than NIGERIA.

While growing up I learnt that if you keep feeding animals or pets with fresh animals and uncooked meat, it'll get used to it will not find it hard to bite humans and other pets when angered. So I think the owner must have cultivated that habit over time.

I suggest you talk to your Dad about this and he'll find a better way to put your Bro back in line.