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uwakeminent:
Thanks for the quote. Atleast i'm feeling better now becos of this write-up. I think something is just wrong wit my mind

Change your perspective.
You’re a nice person

uwakeminent:
I just can't imagine what happen this evening. I went out to buy food n eat, on my way back i saw a very nice looking girl n was just passing her by when she greeted me and said "please excuse me, please can u help me with 500naira" na so i just put hand for pocket comot 1k give am, even follow am dey waka for shops dey look change. After collecting the money, she thank me and departed just like that. I no even collect number, i no even ask her name. Make una enlighten me more. I can't continue simping like this. Right now am angry wit myself. I just dey waste money anyhow ontop girls matters without kpanshing

You were simply kind. Stop helping people for something in return. And don’t help based on gender. All the women I’ve help in my life proved to be very ungrateful and useless for the records

You ought to be ashamed of thinking that way

Stayingtrueee:
Good day nairalanders! Please I have a serious issue at hand and I just need different opinions.

I met this guy sometime in November infact the day we met we spent the night together it was more like a hook up thingy and he paid me my money and I left the next morning. Later that day I wrote him to know his whereabout and he said he was at home and I asked if I could come over cos I really enjoyed what we had that night. So he invited me over and I spent two days with him, along the line we grew fond of each other and we became really close. Infact I was always going to his house it was more like we were dating.

January this year I noticed I was pregnant but I wasn't sure so I actually waited till I'll see my period in February but my fear was confirmed. I was pregnant! I told him and he wanted the baby infact we both wanted it.

Fast forward to last month I came to visit as usual and I spent some weeks with him, he was really facing some financial challenges and he started transferring aggression on me. I tried to calm him down that it was only a phase and that it will pass. He loosened up a bit.
I traveled back to my state cos I live in Port Harcourt and he's in Abraka Delta state, we're both from Rivers though.

So he was expecting some funds on Monday which he promised to send something over for me for my upkeep, the money came in and he never sent a dime for me. I tried calling him to remind him and he started giving me attitude, putting up some flimsy quarrels. Then I asked him hope I'm not in all this alone, the answer I got from him was however I want to handle myself was solely my business, I should do what ever I want.

Right now I'm so confused, I'm thinking of traveling to Delta state to go see him at least he should say all these to my face. If he wants me to terminate the pregnancy which is still not late I have my own conditions to give him. I'll stay at his place and we'll both go together to have an abortion, I'll stay at his place till I'm perfectly fine and he has to pay me for damages.

What do you guys think? Am I doing the right thing

Pardon my typos please!!!

Clap for yourself ma

So one unfortunate man will now come and marry you after that abi

2saviourfriday9:
I got enough thing to do wat the offence

Was a friendly advice bro…chill

Albertone:
These days,the way I'm craving for a girlfriend is alarming.Every girl is literally attractive to me.Something that doesn't happen before.
I'm 19 years old and about to be 20 in may.I've never dated before.

I read similar stories here and everyone says "Go and read your books and forget women","Go and focus on making money and leave women".Well, I'm a student in a polytechnic, above average in grades.I am dead broke and still dependent.I am not idle as I am learning a trade.
But this feeling of craving for love is so strong.
When I was going through puberty,it was mostly sexual urges and infatuations.I was done with puberty at 16 and this feeling is very different from infatuation.

I am a very handsome dude,atleast both male and female compliment me so.I get a lot of greenlights but inexperience and shyness make me ignore.


What do you suggest I do?

Lol bro I’m slightly older than you. So ik how you feel..part of me wants to advice you to date so you can get broken and man up …these girls won’t freak you anymore after that. But it’s very painful. But the finest lessons are learnt painfully.

Don’t let ANY woman get in your target and path to success. It’s not worth it. No matter what you do , or how you treat them they always seem to be a waste of time. Don’t date till you’re in your mid 20’s. You’ll be more matured then.

Try and find something to do

LedRock:
Four over four months now, just want a break from relationship drama, I left my gf cause she calls and visit too often, it's annoying when someone just evades your space regularly.

Just say you’re tired of her

6 months. It’s gonna be a long time before I go after any girl again. Like long long time

FERNANDEZISBACK:
What a boy you are..
You prolly got sacked cos of ya body odor..

It’s hard to control your feelings but in the interest of professionalism you must keep those feelings at bay unless you’re ready to look for a new job...Dating your boss is the quickest way to get you and your boss fired not to mention the fact that everyone in the office will know your personal business...

These things rarely end well because if/when things go sour they Really take a turn for the worst...If you thought that attraction was worth pursuing the best thing to do was to find a new job...The reason that so many companies have a No fraternization policy is to keep relations in the office strictly professional and to avoid potentially messy situations...

Well you f'ed up.. go get a new job and next time learn to control your feelings..

Gbam

IyaTola:
12 EXPO FOR MEN IF YOU WANT TO MARRY SINGLE MOTHERS.

1. Most Single Mothers are good cooks and God fearing.

2. Single Mums are SEX SATISFIERS. They will lock you down in bed for good sex so you don't look outside to avoid stories that will touch the heart.

3. 90% of SINGLE MOTHERS are faithful in marriage and wouldn't pull infidelity string to damage the engine of TRUST in the marriage system; they feel you have sacrificed enough to win their trust and faithfulness.

4. Single Mums treat their husbands as LORDS for the sacrifices they make, and easily forgive them no matter the gravity of what they are.

5. If you marry her, do not discriminate the child in your children's budget, see them as equals so you don't sprout the seed of jealousy.

6. Single Mums are SUPERWOMEN. For a woman to play the role of both parents and bear the responsibility of raising a child/children, don't joke with such a woman, because even if you die in future she can take care of your family.

7. If the child is a female child you will have less parenting to do because female children easily relieve parents once they are adult or even get married.

8. If you want to WIN her, love her child first, and you will see that she
will LOVE you with her last breath and blood.

9. Don't forget that as a woman that has put to BED before, there's 85% assurance that she will conceive without toiling from one prayer house to the other to conceive; the baby is evidence of her fruitfulness.

10. Single mothers that made mistakes do bring total SUBMISSION to the table of marriage once they know that the man is honest and sincere, because they will see marriage as a classroom where they must correct the mistakes the made in the past.

11. If she is a single mum as a widow you may not have problem but if the child's father is alive, Sign an agreement from the beginning on welfare and information management. Don't deny the father access to his child but put a password before he can have access to your wife;

12. Ensure the child is in the same school with your kids, if not that child's educational setbacks will influence your kids negatively when they play together. If the father supports good, but if he does not, be
ready to train the child alongside your kids for uniformity.

Nigerian men do feel they are doing women favour when they marry them as single mothers, but it's a paradox and a social myth that must be educated. 90% of single mothers are BEST wives in the marriage market.

SHOUT OUT TO ALL SINGLE MUMS WORLDWIDE!

https://twitter.com/madamkofo_/status/1200310181357338625

God fearing indeed

IyaTola:
Can a Man reject Sex even when offered to him?

Me …yeah
She still feels bad till today

Male/female bestie = another way to waste your time

Semiaddict:
So i took jamb again and i scored 195, I'm beginning to feel even more suicidal.

Polytechnic should accept that. Learn to be versatile

walkbrazil4k:
The white men are smart they told us cannabis is bad, they spent alot of money to fight drug wars in South America that killed alot of people and today it is legal in their countries, as we all know cannabis cures and helps with alot of sicknesses

https://www.walkbrazil4k.com/2022/05/look-at-nuns-that-deliver-cannabis-to.html?m=1

Too much of everything is bad. There is an extent I smoke to (around half blunt ) I become very alert, I remember and memorize things quick and fast, and I barely fall ill since I started smoking a bit regularly (compared to when I wasn’t ). Which makes me believe that weed is medicinal but don’t over do and go for only natural weed not the synthetic type

obembet:
https://www.goal.com/en-ng/news/fa-cup-final-fans-fault-tuchel-for-not-replacing-mendy-with-kepa-/blt2aa6b4c3e71444a9

I always say Chelsea fans are mostly stupid people. Mendy caught one penalty ffs

ncchris569:
Nairalanders a good friend of mine Chibuike (real name withheld) told me how he had gone to Alaba Market on Thursday 12th of May, 2022, to get an android phone, he had been using a Symbian phone (Nokia e5). He was so attached to this Nokia phone that he didn’t see any reason to get an android phone even when Whatsapp stopped offering service to Nokia’s low end devices. I made fun of him most of the times about his phone and we laughed over it. But when his Nokia phone started to develop fault, he informed me of his desire to get an android phone I was glad that he was going to get an android phone. I even promised him that I will take him to where he would get a good android phone. On Thursday very early in the morning, he called me to inform me that his Nokia phone had finally broken down. I knew that he had been using that phone for about 8 years now, he told me that he intended on going to the market to get an android phone that morning. I also informed him that I was going to write my professional exams that same day and that I would be back before 3:00pm. He agreed to wait for me, but I was unable to meet up with to our agreed time. He called me but I didn’t pick up his calls so he decided to go and get the phone on his own.


He narrated to me how he had met some phone dealers at the market whom he claimed had displayed their mobile phone on a table, unknown to him they showed him their personal android phone that worked, he selected the one that he liked among them. They prepared the receipt for him and asked him to write his name and sign on the receipt. He had given them the money for the phone. Then the phone dealer told him that they needed to remove tracking from the phone. He then gave them the phone so that they could remove the tracking, the phone dealer took the phone and handed it over to one of his colleague in his shop who informed my friend, that he had to pay some money to remove the tracking. He informed the phone dealer about this and the phone dealer talked to his colleague to assist in removing it at the price He agreed to pay him. As soon as he had paid his colleague in the shop. The phone dealer told his colleague to confirm that the phone was charging, after he had confirmed he told my friend that the phone was not charging. He decided to confront the phone dealer for his money. The phone dealer promised to give him another phone that was working. He told the phone the phone dealer and his colleague in the shop that he was not going to accept any phone that wasn’t working. The phone dealer went to the display table picked a phone and gave it to his colleague in his shop to confirm if it would charge. My friend was satisfied that the phone was charging. So he thanked the phone dealer and left the market as it was already getting late and the market was about to close.


When he got to his apartment, he took his keg to go and get some fuel for the night because there was no light and he had to charge his new phone. My rented apartment was in the same building with him, I saw him coming back with the fuel that he had bought for the night. We greeted, and he told me that he was able to get an android phone from Alaba market on that day. I asked for the receipt of the phone which he handed over to me, while I was reading the information on the receipt it indicated that the phone was non-tested, there was neither a phone number, nor specific address of the phone dealer. Even the name of the phone on the receipt was uncommon among popular android phones. He didn’t finish primary schooling, so he was ignorant of the details of the contract he had entered into in the receipt. I got angry because I knew that he had been defrauded of his money. I asked him if the phone was tested he told me that they had tested the phone in the market that it was charging and the phone dealer told him that the battery of the phone was down and he needed to charge it. I then went ahead to informed him that what was written on the phone’s receipt was non-tested, but he insisted that the phone was tested.


After several hours of charging the phone, he came knocking at the door of my apartment, I then opened the door for him and welcomed him, he informed me that the phone had refused to come on and that I should help him to put on the phone. I collected the phone from him and tried to put it on but it would not come on. That was when it occurred to him that he had been defrauded by his own people in the market. He begged me to go to the market with him the next day, I was angry with him but at the same time I knew that he was just ignorant. I was giving a two weeks leave to prepare for my exams, my leave was to end on Friday 13th of May. I left for the market with him very early that Friday morning since I had finished writing my exams. When we got there the phone dealer wasn’t yet around and his shop was closed. I decided to explain his situation to other traders in the market to get more information about what was really going on. They informed me that he would never get his money back, and that at best he would be giving another phone, I didn’t really know why they said this yet, so I decided to speak with about ten other phone dealer in that area and they all said same and that if we insisted we would be disgraced and driven out of the market by the phone dealers and his colleagues who sold the phone to him. These dealers even had the guts to offer their phone to us for sale trying to use the same trick that had worked on my friend but we declined all of their offers.


While we were waiting for them, my friend told me that he wanted us to get the police involved in this matter. I told him that I really didn’t trust the police, because I have had a bad experience with the them. I also brought to his attention that the receipt says non-tested. I told him that at worst if they refused to give him back his #22,000. We would have to leave, and that I would get him a new phone with my own money. Once the phone dealer opened his shop for that day, we approached him and told him that the phone he had sold to my friend was bad. For the first time the phone dealer told my friend that the phone he had sold to him was non-tested and that they don’t refund back money. He offered us another phone but we rejected and insisted that we wanted to get his money back. The phone dealer flared up immediately and he called his colleagues, whose numbers were growing arithmetically. As soon I noticed that they were about to do to us what other phone dealer had told us would happen. I informed my friend in anger that he had just lost his #22,000 and that we should leave that place immediately. I then took him to a Nokia store at Alaba International market where I got him a new phone costing #45,000 out of pity.


On our way back I informed him that those dealers had built large network of fraud stars in that area, I then explain to him what had actually happened to him on the day he had gone to buy that phone. I told him that the phones been displayed on the tables of these dealers where all damaged phones, and that they knew that they were damaged. I informed his that they deceived their prospective customers with the pretense that they had working phones by showing them their personal expensive android phones in pretense that they were going to sell it to them. But as soon as they got hold of their money, they played another scheme of deception by offering customers their damage phone displayed at their tables. In deceit that they were all working phones. I felt sorry for my friend that’s why I decided to write this here so that we would be aware of what’s happening at Alaba International Market.


Nairalanders, these guys defraud hundreds of people on a daily basis, and they then share peoples hard earned money among themselves, claiming to be legitimate traders. They are really giving the phone business at Alaba international market a really bad name. Personally I have decided that I would not buy any used phone at that market anymore because of the ordeal I and my friend had passed through. Those guys are wicked.……..

You see what “school na scam “has caused

TheScientist:
I met a lady about a month ago. She's about 25years old. She lives with her parents. Everything about her seems to be perfect except one thing... SHE DOESN'T ACCEPT THINGS FROM ME. She is currently unemployed. Each time i offer her money or gifts, she politely turn down the offer. About 2 weeks ago, i gave her 8k to make her hair. She collected the money, removed #500 and dropped the remaining #7500 on my table. She made the hair. I have no idea how she did it.
Yesterday, i offered her 30k to support her upcoming birthday but she rejected the offer. I'm worried because she buys gifts for me everyday(mostly fruits) and if i reject it, she gets angry. Please, does anyone understand what is going on here? Is she up to something? Got so many questions on my mind. How is she getting the money she uses to buy fruits for me? Has anyone had similar experience before? Please, how did it end?

Don’t looseguard
They always want sth in return

Oyindamolah:
A girl who:
- Has no pride
- Doesn't party every weekend
- Dates one guy at a time
- Doesn't go sleeping around coz she respects her body
- Has never done abortion
- Is busy chasing her dreams not men
- Is indoors right now with 0% alcohol in her body..
That's a Wife Material




A man who:
- Has no pride
- Doesn't party every weekend
- Dates one girl at a time
- Doesn't go sleeping around coz he's a man - Has never assisting or abating in doing abortion
- Is busy chasing his dreams not women
- Is indoors right now with 0% alcohol in his body..
That's a husband material

Do you agree?

Thank God no weed �

Wahala Dey o. Call him and apologize madam ���

Wahala Dey o. Call him and apologize madam ���

Kriss216:
I can sell all my family lands for C

That’s why you’re an unrepentant and indisputable simp

BoredBerry:
Three days ago... My specially cooked, undeserved yet expected breakfast was served to me...

A whole me simping for a man! My feminist maternal great grand mother would be rolling in her grave...

I attempted suicide my NL family... Your own daughter nearly died! By now, you all would be invited to my burial to eat rice and cow meat... But almighty God prevailed! The lord is good...all the time!!!! Amen...

So... I'm a very intelligent human being... And I would not die an ordinary death... Though that was not my intention (this suicide attempt wasn't premeditated)... I'll explain in the next paragraph...

I was not exactly happy... Not miserable, but sad enough to ditch social media for two days... And I was bored af! I had lost someone I loved... He didn't care for me though... But that's not important...

Back to the topic... I decided to conduct an experiment... (I am a sscientist)..

I had a sachet of Hypo and a sachet of Hypo Toilet Cleaner ... The chemical composition of Hypo is Sodium Hypochlorite (NaCLO) ... And the composition of Hypo Toilet Cleaner is Hydrochloric acid (HCL) ...

I'm not a genius... But when you mix both, the gas Chlorine is realesed... Which is poisonous...

I did that... And waited... While Hypo is a colourless liquid... Hypo Toilet Cleaner is a thick green liquid... The mix was a white... With a gas (I mixed them in a transparent plastic bottle)...

At some point, I decided to open the bottle and smell the gas to test if it was chlorine... And it literally knocked me off my feet! It made my eyes water and I kept on coughing... For hours... It was horrible, I thought I had damaged my lungs! I slept thinking that night was would be my last...

But I recovered!

Ps...Chlorine gas ain't no good way to murder an ex...


I'll continue my research...

Women and lies 5&6

Ogbenro:
Pardon my errors, sometimes last year I met an old school friend of mine, same set but different department, we were close but not too close, she was a friend to one of my course mate. I ran into her late December last year at a mall and we exchanged numbers.

Truth be told I used to like this lady a lot, but I thought she was way above my league then and I was kinda reserved when I was in uni, I didn’t really know my way around women then. Infact, I never had a girlfriend.

Man is doing good now although not perfect but I get one or two things going. My confidence is so much better now and I have been in and out of quite a few relationship.

My interest was reignited with this lady and we seem to flow well, she is presently in youth service.we were very close and we talk almost everyday. I was losing my mind and I really fell hard for this girl. Maybe she noticed it and decided to play on my intelligence she would see my messages and keep posting on her status without replying. She would never text first I text all the time. I do the calling all the time too. Anytime I ask why she does this she would say she just come online to upload status bla bla bla.


My curiosity led me to ask her out properly and she told me she can’t date me, I was pained asked why and she couldn’t give a tangible reason. I kept asking and telling her how much I’m serious about her but this girl would not have any of it.

Some weeks later she came over to my place. She is serving in Lagos and I work in Lagos too. One thing led to another and we had sex. One of the best I have ever had in years the sex was very good. After the sex I still asked her if she would be my gf her answer was still No. and she is very much single.

I God tired of asking and we just be some normal freinds, I stopped talking entirely about it. Communication seized for like a week as I was very busy with work, girl came into my Dm and started guilt tripping me telling me thank God she didn’t say yes and she wanted to know how truthfully my intentions were.


Mind you this same girl said there would never be a relationship and even said I should go ahead and date any girl I like. And to be honest I moved on pretty good. Why the blame now? I asked you out you said No on three different occasions spanning into 3 months. Isn’t that enough to get an answer?


Ever since then the girl would not fail to remind me how I missed on a good girl bla bla bla. Telling me there are no good girls out there. Truth be told I can’t go back to her, I would never settle down as a second option. I think she was seeing someone when we weee together but the guy didn’t take things serious so I was the back up plan.

If she weren’t an old school mate I would have blocked her, her daily sermons about how she will make a better wife irritates my soul. She wanted to visit after that for a sleepover but I have been avoiding her at all cost.

What would you do if you were in my shoes, pardon the errors was typing fast and I didn’t want to proofread anything

You’re on the right track sir
What’s the stupid idea of playing hard to get when you’ve already fallen ?

Even if you block her. You’re clear of any accusations

Ge0grapher:
Guys, omo make una no dey simp for these streets ooh. Most Naija babes are average, some are even way below average, for real!!.

E get one of my guy way enter Canada seven months ago, Omo, if u see top shelf babes this guy dey parole.. u go shock.. Mixed, white, Latina, black sef dey . My other guy way enter Rwanda, As I see him babe, my hands no fit type. if you see body eeh, you go know say most Naija girls no reach.

I come dey reason, we way dey naija, most of us just dey simp on top low grade oo..

No get me wrong oo, fine girls dey naija but guy, beauty pass beauty.. As for me I no dey sure say I go marry naija babe oo, cos if I marry am come travel out, oboy I fit cheat oo. And no be good thing.. wetin una think?? Abi I just dey ment??.

Unfortunately they won’t listen

Prettygirl200:
So as the topic implies am in a need of a boyfriend, when I mean boyfriend I mean real one, not all those broke ass redpillers ooo. He must have these qualities:


Must be rich
Must be handsome,
Must be tall,
Must be intelligent and above all must not have a body count that is above 3. Thank u!!

How much you go pay ?

Rita5:
Your the one that need glasses oga. Go back to the first page and read his messages. Your experience is your own, and that's not the topic of discuss so keep it to yourself. Focus on what has been said

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Rita5:
You see how your hate for women dey smell. Op literally said he slept with several women but you won't see it. Na home depressed and crying you go see. They broke up because he was abusive according to him and she got another guy possibly to rebound and deal with the pain but she's a hoe. The 1 who slept with only one other person is a hoe the one that slept with so many other people is a saint sitting in his house crying

Lmao goan read what he wrote up there again. Do it with glasses this time

Plus I’ve experienced what he’s experiencing last year October. Y’all are just hopping about looking for a better person only to end up with the worst.

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

Now I am set to marry a virgin girl, she is humble and intelligent.

I met her on dec 25 2021, I couldn't believe that I can still see a virgin girl in this 21st century.... Thank God I found you.... I did everything yesterday to have my way but it was paining her, my smallest finger was paining her, my prick refused to enter even with the much force that I used in pushing it....

She was crying and shouting and told me sgey you were doubting me?........... I am sorry for doubting you.

I did everything but the pain was too much for her, she is a city girl that was why I was afraid.

I later spoiled her with over 40k yesterday.

Mugu

6pack:
I broke up with my ex 3 months ago. I have not been able to get her out of my mind.
She moved on got dumped by the guy in less than one month and she contacted me 5 days ago and I responded today. I tried settling it out and she said I responded late. That it can't work now. She even said she was going to see another guy . Like wtf.
What type of useless mind game is this please.
The fact is I love her so much. She is not the type that is after money or material things.
And I don't believe in double dating. We have been moving alone for 5 years now. I don't know how to get her off my mind. I have watch countless YouTube videos on how to get an ex off your mind but non is working. I have tried having sex with different girls just to get her thoughts off but its not working. This thing is affecting my hustle seriously.
Damn , let me drink some beer.
Life has been unfair to me relationship wise

She’s a hoe. Think of it this way
You’re home ,depressed and crying over her
She’s out there hoeing around. Enjoying with another guy.

Channel that energy you used in loving her to love yourself and chase the bag. Time will do it job.

Try blocking her too. Man tf up. She’ll come begging someday

I don’t believe in love anymore tho I hope I get back in track later because love is actually cool

Depends