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Banilla:
That gay men don't have sex in public... No one has witnessed it. So why are straight men so interested in what goes in behind closed doors?

Na imagination wan kill them....
They are better off with their sane thought..
Because after that experience, once you see a man, you will just get flashes ASAP.

I pray my waka no go jam that kind thing

Banilla:
So you don't care about them cause it's not happening where you live but you're obsessed with the gays in countries you'll never travel to.

No one is imposing anything. All you life, have you been forced to date a man? To kiss one? Have sex with one? I'm sure not. No one has either. Heterosexuals hold hands and kiss in public... The men molesting girls and women, aren't they straight as a pole? You're talking as if straight women don't dress semi-naked, like straight men don't go aboit exposing themselves... Have you witnessed a gay couple having sex?

Why don't you adopt the children then... Or your church... Gay couples give them a loving home, something you can't offer. Heterosexuals couples give birth to gay children and gay couples raise heterosexual children. Obviously, no one is being influenced. Are you gay?

Homosexuality has existed since the beginning of time. If it's contagious, why aren't we all gay?

What point where you trying to pass across by asking this question??

and why should I witness coitus between to beard contenting homosapien...

God Abeg

Banilla:
I regret creating this thread... I hate doing this (insulting people)... Don't know why I came back to this toxic forum.

They made you de-rail from your original intent .

Now you see why I told you, you where calling for shots.


Besides I feel majority (few people opinion on this thread says otherwise) cant really differentiate between having a friend and been in a relationship.

Concerning the insult I go need hire you when they wan banter me for G.C

Banilla:
treat yourself first.


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omale88:
you are still quite young to understand these things, tho your mental age could be high up,its quite sad that most boys in your generation have no drills or skills in wooing a lady, all they know is shawarma,grills and bills.besides that they know nothing about compatibility,besides the physical compatibility aspect,back in the day we would rehearse lines, write poems just to try to get a lady unto our creative aspects,we only had dictionaries and sex was at the very least of what comes up in a conversation because we value friendship before getting intimate,but these days getting intimate isnt as sacred at it used to be,its not even a big deal. you are a smart lady to be able to know and figure these moods about you,but the question you need to answer is if your standards and your personality are in synch?if not it could be the reason for the conflict . you would need to find a balance between who you are and what you are becoming.the challenge with smart people is they overthink stuffs in return they override.and grow trust issues. stop trying to read people just let their acts of conversation appeal to you,fact is you are most likely to fall in love with people who are intellectually compatible to you.but that is not enough, since you are a smart girl I'll give you something to play with.its called biorhythm clock you can get it on Google play store,it took me a while to find this specific app due to its accuracy.this app would help you understand how connected or bonded you are to people based on certain domains.it would also let you get to know people before they get to know you.its not 100% acurate but you can trust 85% to work for you. also do not use it to judge people.good luck

I just installed the app you talked about and am seeing -93.6% on spirituality hope is not what am thinking....

Can you enlighten me a bit rabbi please

Banilla:
I don't want reliable friends... I need friends who aren't simple/basic/predictable/boring/typical... A boyfriend too. Most Nigerians are stereotypical.

Continue your search... I hope you find what you seek.

Don't forget to let us know the outcome

Banilla:
Oh. I'm detached all the time. The older I get, the worse I feel.

I think this is normal...
It's shift of focus. I bet you won't be detached if you met someone that had a skill/similar interest that you have been trying to develop /learn

Banilla:
You didn't give me one advice.

Seems I'll have to lower my expectations.

Advice I forgot I was supposed to give one....

However, it depends on personality.
From your write up, you will prefer to have friends who are very reliable irrespective of situation. (I think this is the major reason why I have fewer friends) .


Regardless, You will figure things out you just need time

You are literally calling for shots .
Its normal to feel detached for a while (I feel the same).

But either way, dey play

FemaleOutsider:
Hi

I just feel like pouring out my thoughts here cos there's no one to tell.

I'm turning 26 soon and I think I might kill myself one day.

Ever since I was a teenager, I've always had difficulty fitting in everywhere. My dad actively discouraged me from making friends, so I don't really know how to.

I just find it hard to be around people (I work from home). Whenever I go outside, I feel like I will have a panic attack. I can't get my face to relax. I start unconsciously frowning.

What's worse is that I'm not that pretty; I also have veiny hands due to lifting buckets of water. No one told me I was supposed to carry them on my head like a woman. Maybe if I had a female friend, she'd have told me

I just don't know what to do with myself. I feel suffocated. Can't turn to family. It's just too much

Everything feels so pointless. Like we're stuck in an endless loop of commerce and consumerism (earn, consume, earn, consume). How are you not losing your mind?

And please don't say pray to God, cos I'm an evolutionist, not a creationist. I believe that there is a source, but I don't believe in the Christian interpretation of it as a vengeful spirit that will make me burn in hell for eternity for something as trivial as wearing trousers.

Do you have any helpful advise?
I'd be glad if this can reach front page for more input

Calm down and take the Things of this world gently...
Let me use pidgin "you too serious with life'

Take some time out and take a walk within your environment.
This might be a motivating force.

Cheers better days ahead.

ogbenimax007:
lols am also a machinist

Boss I would like to do a refresher on machining. How do I get involved.

If you are within warri, effurun and it's environs and you want to clean /wash your Solar panels you can reach me out.
Oh lie oh seas lie lie lie fine seas fine one or search for DNM Solar and solar Cleaning Service.

See you soon

Incognito21:
I don’t know if this is the right section for this, Won’t bore with long details, but ever since i stopped hustling, and going legal, life has been difficult, I have been feeling what every Nigerians feels every day, country frustration, how I spend with legal money now, is different on how I spend yahoo money and honestly I love yahoo money, imagine waking up to 5k$ in the morning, sometimes 100, 500, 300, 200, 50$ gift cards from diff clients, then doing some conversion to naira, most of my money was invested, and you know, you can only ball with yahoo money and not the hard earned money, I don’t ball anymore, use to buy slippers of 50k shoe of 65k up, I don’t even experience power outages cause it’s gen 24/7 even when the lights is on, I command respect cause I bribe way in, imagine now I won’t even on generator cause of fuel price, not that the money is not there but I don’t have yahoo money again, let me not bore you with details…. But i definitely miss yahoo money… and I’m seriously thinking of going back to it…..

talk true,

The effort you put in while bombing is it the same effort you are putting now that you are legitimate

osayuwamwen:
How many volt 250watt solar panel am I to buy

Just tell them 250w panel(i can't tell you the voltage because it varies ). As much as you want to save money, it's advisable you get an installer and pay him some money to leverage his knowledge base.

It's very important.

doyouknowjohnny:
Op May you get more sales. Not patronized yet but already impressed with the way he provides answers. I hope to do one this year.

Would love an estimate for a 2.5kva and 3.5kva set up.

Amen

This is a large system looking at it from the budget stand point. It's should cost 1.5m to 1.7m

I will list the items anyway and try to attached the best possible price (my price are affected based on location)

2.5kva inverter (150-170k)
250w x 4 (65k /1)
Quanta 200a batteries 260k (you can go for 100a battery if you are on a very small budget but your backup hour would be very small.)
60A controller pwm (30k)
DC breaker
AC breaker
Wire

So this few days I have been thinking and I need your opinion on it please Share your thoughts.

How much is /was your budget when you Where planning on going solar.