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FamilyRe: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Treat Their Wives Like Maids? by obyann(f): 11:16am On Jun 08, 2009
Please tell him
PoliticsRe: Fashola Insists On State Police • Wants Special Status For Lagos by obyann(f): 4:55pm On Jun 05, 2009
State police?

My questions are:

What is the qualification?

Is adeqquate training guaranteed?

Hope they'll not recruit Agboros and touts e.g LASTMA and

hope the recruitment will not be done based on "put aburo mi"
PoliticsRe: Fashola Insists On State Police • Wants Special Status For Lagos by obyann(f): 4:52pm On Jun 05, 2009
State police?

My questions are:

What is the qualification?

Is adeqquate training guaranteed?

Hope they'll not recruit Agboros and touts e.g LASTMA and

hope the recruitment will not be done based on "put aburo mi"
PoliticsRe: What I Would've Told Yar'adua If He Was On Nairaland by obyann(f): 5:02pm On Jun 03, 2009
Libra38:
I will tell him to master his pronounciation of 7 points Agender - not 7 point I DANGER as he is always fond of pronouncing.
grin grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Gov. Daniels Cook Caught With 400 Million Naira by obyann(f): 2:01pm On Jun 01, 2009
oohh. thats very good

Hotel and catering management is a lucrative course. any vacancy in any of the Governors house pls?
FamilyRe: Is It Proper For A Woman To Build Her Own House? by obyann(f): 1:28pm On May 20, 2009
sugabelly:
OH! I just read that your husband beats you or used to beat you.


Oya, Aunty, buy that land and build that house QUICKLY!!

And don't listen to this rubbish of Mr. and Mrs.

All certificates should bear YOUR NAME ONLY. In fact, they should all bear your MAIDEN name if possible.

Anyone that tells you different is being wicked.

If your husband doesn't agree don't bring it up again. Do it behind his back and never tell him.

Whether you stay together or not, you will always have a safe place whether you end up ever needing it or not.

That's wisdom not competition.
Gbam!
FamilyRe: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Treat Their Wives Like Maids? by obyann(f): 1:11pm On May 20, 2009
Chuck Ba$$:
For those who didnt have the pleasure to read my posts on it, here is a recap and full summary:

,
Stupid Topic angry

Are they not naturally born as maids?
No.

Chuck Ba$$:
For those who didnt have the pleasure to read my posts on it, here is a recap and full summary:


Who delievers the children?

Who breasts feeds them?
Women of course

Chuck Ba$$:
Who is perpertually doomed to be in the kitchen till death do you part?

Who cleans the house 24/7?
both of them

Chuck Ba$$:
Who washes the clothes and Dishes most of the time?

Who nannies the kids 24/7?
Husband/wife. or House boy/house girl.

Chuck Ba$$:
At the end of the month, dont men or husbands give them money for the week or month to buy more food stuffs and cleaning utensils which in other wards serves as their monthly wages for being a housemaid only that she wears a wedding ring?
No. It's the other way round now. Except few ones who wants to be house-wife, it'snot applicable to carrier women


Chuck Ba$$:
How many house husbands do you know? Rathe there are millions of house wives. Is that not a glorified title for a House maid?
so many these days. what about glorified house boys
FamilyRe: Why Do Most Nigerian Men Treat Their Wives Like Maids? by obyann(f): 12:26pm On May 20, 2009
Chuck Ba$$:
Stupid Topic angry

Are they not naturally born as maids?

No.

Who delievers the children?

Who breasts feeds them?


Women of course



Who is perpertually doomed to be in the kitchen till death do you part?

Who cleans the house 24/7?

Who washes the clothes and Dishes most of the time?

Who nannies the kids 24/7?


Both of them


At the end of the month, dont men or husbands give them money for the week or month to buy more food stuffs and cleaning utensils which in other wards serves as their monthly wages for being a housemaid only that she wears a wedding ring?

No. Its the other way round now. Except few ones who wants to be house-wife, but not applicable to carrier women.

How many house husbands do you know? Rathe there are millions of house wives. Is that not a glorified title for a House maid?


so many these days. what about glorified house boys?


Abeg make una go siddon jare!

Psssf. . . . angry
hisssss
FamilyRe: Is It Proper For A Woman To Build Her Own House? by obyann(f): 11:25am On May 19, 2009
davidt:
I do not see anything wrong with it. I'm curious though. Why do you want to build a house? If you are looking for things to spend money on, why don't you invest your money most likely in shares.
No please, Those of us that invested our money in shares are regretting it. Shares is depreciating every day.
RomanceRe: Would You Stop Your Married Friend From Cheating? by obyann(f): 5:36pm On May 18, 2009
savanaha:
Well according to some here without balls they wouldn't tell him his heading to the middle of an express road to lie down because its an unwritten men boys code.
Abi?
RomanceRe: Would You Stop Your Married Friend From Cheating? by obyann(f): 4:46pm On May 14, 2009
I'll tell him to stop cheating his wife. This is not a matter of full grown adult or not. what if he's drunk and head to the middle of express road to lie down? You'll allow him abi?
RomanceRe: Can U Pack Condoms In Your Husband's/bf's Travel Bag? by obyann(f): 4:52pm On Apr 07, 2009
No.
packing condom in my bf/husbands bag? it simply means I'm encouraging him to sleep around.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Mobil Test - Confirm Your Center And Date Of Test Now. by obyann(f): 4:52pm On Apr 01, 2009
Nice 1
RomanceRe: She Dumped Me And Now. by obyann(f): 12:21pm On Mar 31, 2009
agabaI23:
The epistle according to topup
Very funny grin
FamilyRe: As Nigerians: Pregnant Daughter Or Gay Son? by obyann(f): 12:22pm On Jan 19, 2009
I don't pray for any, but will rather choose a pregnant daughter!
FashionRe: Is this Nigerian Model good enough to get your vote? [pic] by obyann(f): 1:39pm On Nov 28, 2008
Just hope she wins grin grin grin
PoliticsRe: Naval Officers Beat Up A Lady And Stripped Her - Watch Video by obyann(f): 3:39pm On Nov 11, 2008
palmwine:
iIcalled  a freind of mine in the navy to find out what really Happened.

HEAR THEM.

The body of the ladies car was hitted by one of the naval police to have her give way.
But instead she took a horse wip from her car to flog the hand of the Naval police.


This is what really enraged them.

Well you are free to say they over reacted!

but what is a lady and indeed most Nigerians doing carrying horse wip in their cars.

I am sure she must have wipped a number of men and gone free before this.

Well don't jump on me yet, I just gave you the other side of the story.

You can make up your minds.

I don't support the action of the Naval police though
Thats not true. Remember there was a camera. The Naval officer has used the horse wip on the lady so many time before she collected it from the naval officer and wipped him. The lady did not deny this.

Your naval friend, sure will come out with stories that will favour his collegues. Come to think of it, if the naval police actions were right, why did they distroy the camera's of pricewaterhousecopers.
PoliticsRe: "Resign Now!", Pastor Bakare Tells Yar’adua! by obyann(f): 4:58pm On Sep 09, 2008
Believe it or not, Pastor Tunde Bakare is a man of God.
RomanceRe: i want to konw. by obyann(f): 4:32pm On Sep 03, 2008
First of all ask God for forgiveness, then avoid the married man with numerous girl friends and everything about him.
Jokes EtcRe: Husband Writes: 100 Kisses by obyann(f): 3:45pm On Sep 01, 2008
it's really funny smiley smiley smiley
FamilyRe: Your Wife Or Your Extended Family by obyann(f): 12:56pm On Sep 01, 2008
Roughlen:
It all depends on the situation in which i had to make the choice.

On my scale of preference, my wife and children comes first.

however, There are instances when i attend to my extended family needs before that of my wife.

For example, when my wifey needs me to buy her some expensive clothing, take her on an expensive outing or organise an expensive birthday bash for her or our child and my younger brother is at the verge of being thrown out of school because he couldn't pay his fees, i'll surely pay his fees first.

Or my parent is lying critically ill in a hospital and treatment is denied him or her because she couldn't afford the initial deposit, i'll surely ask my wife to wait.

Dat goes even for friends and people i'm meeting for the first time.

But don't get me wrong, if it's my wife's or children's school fees against that of an extended family member, then i'll pay my wife and children's own first.

Same thing goes for the "lying critically ill in a hospital" scenario.

In conclusion, it all depends on the basis of comparison. cool
Your have a point
Jokes EtcRe: Black Condom And Panties by obyann(f): 4:29pm On Aug 28, 2008
sunej:
Do black condoms exist  huh
please help me ask helplee
Jokes EtcRe: Track Your Partner by obyann(f): 4:12pm On Aug 28, 2008
This will cause heart attack ooooo grin
Jokes EtcRe: Re: Toto Dey Talk by obyann(f): 3:54pm On Aug 28, 2008
Mr. Moderator, please delete this post. I beg you
RomanceRe: Should A Woman Love Her Man More Than God? by obyann(f): 3:30pm On Aug 28, 2008
My answer to this question is capital NO.
PoliticsRe: Yar’adua Sick, Hospitalised by obyann(f): 2:54pm On Aug 28, 2008
Kobojunkie:
Wishing him SPEEDY recovery so what happens next? What about the lives of the many poor people in Nigeria suffering from the same sickness as he is? Should we also pray for those ones who can not afford the same level of care the president seems to afford himself? I mean is God the one to fix it all for us when we have a president who is supposed to CARE since he is afflicted with the same?  We might as well hold vigil in here daily for the millions in Nigeria who are suffering today and have no access to good hospitals with professionals that can at least diagnose their problem, let alone help them understand how severe the case is.

I don't know why I should be wishing a man who spent 8 years as a governor, dealing with this same ailment but never understanding that building a world class health care center in his own state would be a good way to go, so he can in his sickness, help others at the same time. It does not compute. I am not wishing him evil but I am sure not having sleepless nights here.

I wonder if you also prayed for Abacha to rise from the dead back when we heard he died. Since it is the same God that raises people from dead. grin
Point
Jokes EtcRe: This Will Mess With Your Mind! by obyann(f): 4:16pm On Aug 27, 2008
hypnotized:
what nonsense? i tot this was spose to be a joke section nd no you want teach us maths abi, no offence but uv lost foccs. angry
lol
CelebritiesRe: Kim Kardashian And Her Lovely Ass! by obyann(f): 4:56pm On Aug 26, 2008
hmmmmmm lipsrsealed
CelebritiesRe: Nollywood’s Sexiest: Genevieve, Ini Or Mercy? by obyann(f): 4:51pm On Aug 26, 2008
I give it to Genny.
Jokes EtcRe: If Ur Friend Have Mouth Odour, What Would You Do by obyann(f): 3:51pm On Aug 26, 2008
Just kiss her 1,000 times a day. She will get your message

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