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Gudfadah:
Good evening nairaland.

I am a married man and I have six children. When I met with my first wife she was a single mother of 1 girl she was a years 6 months we got married when she was 5 years old.
We had 3 children together making them 4 unfortunately we lost her in 2016 during the birth of our twins.

Before she passed on she asks me to promise her that if anything happened to her I should never send her daughter back to her family to experience the same thing she went through in there hands.
I have promised her that the child is mine and she will never go anywhere the day she will leave my house will be on her wedding day.
I have also promised her that nothing will happen to her and we will grow old together. Unfortunately we lost her and I have continued being a father to all four children and I have never treated my step daughter differently.

I have since remarried and we are blessed with twins. When I met with my current wife I didn't tell her that my step daughter is not my biological child she knew she was my first child.
She has been a part of me ever since she was 1 plus and I didn't think it was necessary telling my wife she was not my child.

She was treating all four children good until my wicked aunty has spill the beans which I have apologised for not telling her in the first and I have asked her to continue being a good mother she was before knowing the truth.
But she refused saying I didn't tell the truth and the child should go and leave with her mom family. I have explained to her the reason why she cannot stay with them to no avail and I ask her not to tell the child the truth but she has told her.

It wasn't easy for her knowing the truth she asks me if I will take her back to her mom people I said no. She is still my child and she will not go anywhere and I will resolve the problem very soon.

Unfortunately my wife has totally changed so much toward the child and I hate coming home seeing her crying all the time. She feel insecure in the house knowing that she is not the biological child of the house.

Talking to my wife was to no avail she has insist that the child must go back to her mother family or they will be not peace.

I reported the problem to her people nothing was done and we are still dealing with the same thing everyday.

Honestly speaking I hate being in such a messy situation but I will not send her back to her mom family she is my first child and I have made a promise to my late wife that the day the child will leave my house it will be the day she will get married.
Since my wife want her to leave and the child is already depresses.
I have come to conclusion I will not divorce her but I will rent a 2 bedroom apartment for her to be staying with the twins while I continue staying with the four children in my house I owe the house.

I haven't told her anything about my decision yet and I want to know if getting her own house will help the situation. This is where I need your advice nairalanders what do I do in this situation?

Your new wife is a wicked person. Divorce her

Good. Kill them all

Bastardlyrich:
Adeleke has once again proven he is a yoruba Christian.
Are know those devilishh yoru bad fake Muslimnss hate him and wish osun state bad but it will fail in Jesus name.
Wickedd, tribalistik, cowordly yoru bad fake Muslimns

Ignorance is written all over your comment. Even Adeleke will disagree with your submission because without the backing of Muslims, he is nothing in Ede and Osun State.

Centurion101:
We live in a country where there are no emergency services,so all we have is each other.
I'm here with this story today with a sole purpose, please don't ever stop helping people, don't refuse to lend someone a hand if you're in a position to help, I understand that it's difficult to help sometimes In this country because of the baggages that comes with it, for example some people said I should have left him because it wasn't worth the risk that I could go to jail and the police might lie that I killed him if he dies, which is a bit far fetched to me.
Sure I knew if he died the police would have to detain me till they figure out some details,but personally I would happily spend a couple of days in jail if it means giving a human being Thier life back.

I hope if I was ever in that kind of situation someone that values life comes along and help me too

Altruism at its best. This is the real deal and worthy of emulation. I almost cry when you wrote that nobody else was willing to help.
May God bless you abundantly and God's blessings and favour shall be yours all the days of your life in all your endeavors.

MideMrPossible:
A garri processing plant never made it to start up, they said we were joking when we say we wan do farm.

Here is a charm by our entrance.

Indeed people are wicked.
May God keep you safe

HomoSapiien:
Tinubu keeps going higher because he never discards his enemies, rather he forgive and make use of them.

You don’t hate an enemy you’re smarter than, because they’ll always come back to you.

Our incoming President is a baller.

All our PVCs are for you.

Wapgod:
Is this what Nigeria needs right now?

May God bless you so much.
The economy is in comatose and here they are thinking of a cosmetic dressing to a non performing currency.
I don't understand. Should that be our priority right now? And they will waste money on nonsense.
Are those responsible for this in CBN mad or something?

This is the worst performance I've ever watched from any of our teams.

The coaches, especially the head coach, are grossly incompetent. He's very dull and have no energy. He can't talk to the team captain he choosed himself to motivate her teammates.
It all seem as if we have no goalkeeper coach with the nonsense I was watching from our goalkeeper in the penalty shootout.

Well, I'm not surprised since we have a dullard as a head coach, he has infested all other coaches with his dullness. Very useless and an unserious man. Who would employ him with all the rubbish that the whole world have witnessed from him.

No coordination, tactics, motivation and energy.
Nigeria's football administration is in shambles.
It's high time our teams employed the services of psychologists, so as to give them the winning mindset and mentality.

Obi, a visionary leader?
What a joke!
This is an insult to the word "visionary".

Nice one from LASG.

I think Obi supporters have forgot how Obi claimed "infrastructures does not build the economy" and trying to justify the bunkum. Meaning Obi neither believe in embarking on infrastructural projects nor constructing new ones.

keymatt:
I hereby formally announce my support for Peter Obi Presidency of the Federal Republic of Nigeria. Bola Tinubu has payed his dues but I think the time for him to become president has already passed. Let's allow the next generation take over affairs.
Obi is young, vibrant with plenty of ideas, he'll do well as President of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

My Reason: Peter Obi is the only Presidential candidate without any corruption baggage. A milestone that has never happened before in the history of Nigeria. With Obi Presidency, there wouldn't be wastage of public funds and Nigeria will experience transparency/accountability.

Cc: Earthstorms

You're not being honest with yourself.
That's the reason it's called democracy.
Your choice

This one is just joking.
I'm cocksure he must have apologized to Deji for what he just spewed out.
Don't mistake gubernatorial election for presidential election, ditto other elections too.

OLABAMIJI99:
What has that IPOB governor achieved if not to loot his people up and down ..?

Bayelsa with small population with huge allocation yet underdeveloped.. A Christian governor..

And another Christian Peter Obi wants to rule this country ?


Goodluck Jonathan is and will remain the last Christian president in Nigeria..

MAY CHRIISTIAN NEVER RULE THIS COUNTRY AGAIN

It's the fundamental rights of Nigerians to vote and be voted for, whether you're a Traditionalist, Christian or a Muslim, as long as you're a Nigerian.
So, you're absolutely wrong.
If God wills, a Christian will rule Nigeria when it's time and there's nothing you can do to stop it.

9gerian:
Correction.

The hatred is actually towards Yorubas and anything that promotes them or their influence. Check online to see scathing remarks against anything good Yorubas achieve or get recognition for. Everyone online knows that Igbos get triggered anytime Yorubas get accolades/awards/recommendation.

It’s the innate reason they attack Tinubu vehemently. It’s sort of programmed with them, but they won’t take or tolerate Obi being scrutinized objectively, let alone attacked like they attack others.

They say others are tribal bigots but history and online remarks and threads have shown that they are the worst ever tribal bigots in Nigeria. They always dish to others what they can never take, then hope to get away with it. And when caught up with by karma, they cry victimization.

The funny thing is- it is the same open-minded Yorubas (that they are programmed to hate) that gives the most attention and reprieve to their cry of victimization/marginalization. Something they would never do for others.

Thankfully, their attacks on other tribes have reduced a bit because they need support for their indigenous candidate during the presidential election. A good development indeed. Hope it works for them though.

You are very correct on this.
It was on the day a news about Tems winning an award for her song "Essence" was posted on the Front Page that I finally came to realized the extent of the hate these guys harbor for anything Yoruba and they were so passionate about their hatred for Tems.
Hatred is innate in them. No wonder they were being called "children of hate and perdition".

Our Incoming President by God's grace.
Tinubu/Shettima 2023

An own goal has just been scored. Not surprised.
Ire ooo

N3TRAL:
Haters who play the politics of dot in a circle and red marker said that our Asiwaju cannot sign paper

Propaganda in the mud!

Asiwaju showing them how to bend and sign. Holding the paper with his left hand and signing the paper with his right like a president he will soon become!

It's like you don't know atikulated zombidiots.
They will tell you the picture was taken in 1900.

koolaid87:
Omo eni ki n se di bebere ka fi ileke si idi omo elomi

Far from it bro. You should have other reasons for choosing him.

As for me, I'm not voting Tinubu because he's Yoruba or a Muslim, but because he is the best among the candidates for obvious reasons with verifiable facts.
Tinubu/Shettima 2023 all the way.

The officer is a real man.
I like his approach.

sonature1:
Nigerians, probably members of Igbo or Yoruba secessionist groups, are behind it.

It can't be a Yoruba group because the tone of the ads is similar to how a known separatist group in Nigeria operates.

But I'm still surprised Tinubu wasn't blamed in the ads as it's their usual way of blaming Tinubu for everything.

Throwback:
LOL!

This is the effect of 3rd class capacity.

Obi wanted to lie but his brain was preventing him from lying.

So a struggle ensued between Peter Obi and his brain.

But a truth was finally revealed.

This is "not just a physical mess".

It is also a pathological and spiritual mess if you remember the curse APGA placed on him for his lack of integrity.

Peter Obi almost got Nigeria banned by FIFA when he lied by referring that Nigeria played a semifinal when we actually crashed out of the quarter final. FIFA would have likely had to investigate if Nigeria had not tried fixing the quarter final match for a Presidential candidate to be referring to a Semifinal that did not happen.

The only solution for Peter Obi is that he must die for APGA as promised, else he quits politics as the also promised alternative.

Lesson for the youths here is to avoid lying where there are elders taking note. Especially when such an elder is about to pass away like Ojukwu.

Cognitive Dissonance is worrying Peter Obi.

Peter Obi just scored an own goal.

Honestly, it is amusing how obidients think that anyone supporting Tinubu/Shettima is being paid while they (obidients) are supporting Obi out of love.
Just know that whatever it is that's motivating you to support Obi is also motivating us to support Tinubu/Shettima. Let that be clear.

Obidients are out of touch with reality. I hope you guys don't start calling Yoruba "betrayals" when the results start coming in.

I'm flabbergasted.

ImperialYoruba:
@OP,
Thank youfor highlighting the points clearly. I hope this thread circulates across Yorubaland and as well every region to awaken Nigerians to the reality and the steps ahead.

You said above that going by the volume of hatred from a weakened Ibo to Yoruba in their daily utterances, it is not hard to imagine what they would do to us when power is in their hands. I continue to campaign daily that Obi does not wish Yoruba well and particularly he will change the fortune of Lagos if he ever becomes a President of this country. Under Azikiwe, commanding the powers of President, he usurped authorities in Yorubaland, then clipped our wings by throwing Awo in jail. Yoruba wrote all kind of articles and analysis, but what effect does newspaper article have against bullets and bayonets of the federal might? None.

Obi will rig an Ibo Governor into Lagos and possibly another Yoruba state to demonstrate Ibo is supreme and then transfer an everlasting political supremacy to be controlled by Ibo into the forseeable future of Lagos. Any Yoruba traditional power or politician that so much as say Ah will find himself in Abuja on trounced up charges of planning Nigerian destabilization. Ibo has watched Fulani treat us any kind of way and our weakness at retaliation or opposition. They will do us same way, our response is predictive, articles, blogs, shouts, street protest...that's it, nothing meaningful. They also know we do not die with our heroes. If someone stood up to be our voice, they will pick him up, and thats it our noise will fade away. That's the end of that.

So our emotions because Tinubu did not support us against Fulani, or support youths during Endsars, or his VP is Muslim are all child's play when compared to the imminent atrocities and suffering of our people and Yorubaland under an Ibo president. Our people need to wake up and be told what could happen to them under Obi, rathern than their misplaced priority and diversion of a Muslim-Muslim ticket in Tinubu. Tinubu is just one person behaving badly in his fatherland, Yoruba, but with Obi there will be millions of ibos behaving badly in our fatherland Yoruba.

You referenced marginalization of Yoruba under GEJ, who were the people in Jonathan's ears during his administration? It was three people - Madueke, Iweala and Obi, all Ibos. Obasanjo was responsible for the inclusion of Ibos in government - Iweala, Soludo, Ihekirija, and many Ibos. Ibos were responsible for Yoruba marginalization under Jonathan. Remember that till today they are still bitter that we, not North, kicked GEJ out, and they have succeeded in equating Jonathan government as a Christian throne and Jonathan himself as a Knight fighting Christian cause. So they are now preaching to Yoruba using christianity as a divide to separate us. As one we are indivisible and powerful force, but as christian and muslim they can buy alliance of Yoruba christians to defeat Tinubu, who they label Yoruba muslim and anti-Jonathan (the Christian Knight). Do you see the connection? Many Yoruba have now been converted to see Tinubu as anti-christian. Obi is promoted as pro-christian and successor to the seat vacated by Jonathan, the Christian Knight. Anyone Yoruba who is opposed to Obi is therefore condemned as anti-christian and Yoruba christians are indulged to distance from them. We must teach our own brothers that when Nzeogu entered Ademulegun' s room in Kaduna, January 66, and gunned down husband and pregnant wife he did not see them as fellow christians, he regarded them as Yoruba. When Ibo knocked on Akintola's door and killed him they saw Yoruba, not christian. When Azikiwe theew Awolowo in prison, he was dealing with a Yoruba, his christiany did not matter. When Ibos told Kumuyi they will kill him if he stepped foot in SE, they knew him to be christian and they don't care. Ibo is cunning, when Obi urged Jonathan to marginalize Yoruba the Yoruba Elders upfront negotiating with Jonathan were christians, prominent in that force were Pa Adebanjo, Pa Fasoranti, Pa Falae. All christians. Why didn't Obi whisper in Jonathan's ears these are Yoruba Christians, let's give what they want?

Yoruba must desist from supporting Obi. Line behind Tinubu, his atrocities against Yoruba is tiny and he is just one person. Obi is backed by millions of atrocities already occupying Yorubaland just waiting to activate.

Yoruba wake up! You are not christian or muslim, you are Yoruba and a force to be reckoned with.

Wow! God bless you abundantly for this piece.
Also include Victor Banjo that Ojukwu killed.
Ojukwu was so desperate to have him executed despite the fact that the first tribunal Ojukwu set up didn't found him guilty.

Yoruba wake up!
You are not Christian or Muslim, you are Yoruba and a force to be reckoned with.

The blackmailer is so dumb. So that's what they have to counter this pics below

Prinxzona10:
Let me just open up a very vital secret now and I would want everybody to pay attention to every details because it came from three different sources that were present in the meeting.

Northerners never wanted to contest for any presidency buh what they did was to first,called Tinubu in a meeting to give a South Easterner a chance buh Tinubu refused,after some weeks,they reconveyed another meeting and repeated the same thing and Tinubu bluntly refused with a serious anger this time and they asked him to at least,allow a South South buh Tinubu also blatantly refused again...

Atiku held a meeting with Wike with few others about the South Eastern candidate though majority bought the idea buh Wike was undecided because his reason was that APC will field Tinubu,Osibanjo or Amechi,so since they are all from South West and South South,he has an equal right to contest,which is partially understandable then..

Then Atiku held a meeting with Tinubu to convince him to support a South Easterner buh he refused again and all these while,APC was looking at Ogbonnaya Onu and Dave Umahi buh by extension of the South South,the only candidate they have in minds was Rotimi Amechi while PDP was rooting for only Peter Obi because PDP never thought about extending it beyond South East.

Remember that Osibanjo and Amechi etc don't have much resistant power because the first decider was Tinubu..

So, when all the pleads for Tinubu to allow a South Easterner a chance in APC failed,Atiku then started strategizing on becoming the president and Tinubu's resistant also emboldens Wike to come out in full force and started preparing himself for the presidential primaries under PDP.

So for this very Oba that said the power must come to the south,he's a very cunningly dubious and hypocritical man because they've seen that Tinubu stands no chance( via at it stands now,the presidential election is between Peter Obi and Atiku),he then started to lament and his useless lamentation is not about the south buh it's all about the south west through Tinubu.

Some of these people are very wicked,selfish and ignorantly hypocritical in nature hence the reason they are not stable and wouldn't be truthful for once in their lives about justice,fairness and equity especially when it comes to the presidential turn in Nigeria.

So because Tinubu wouldn't get it,then they will resort to Oduduwa agitation via their second option and this was the reason some brainwashed urchins hates Mazi Nnamdi Kanu and Chief Sunday Igboho..

Lastly,take it or you leave it,if they(the Northerners) do not rig Atiku in,then Peter Obi will definitely win because the handwriting is on the wall already.

NB: if Atiku become the president,the blame should go to Tinubu by extension Wike...
These two men scuttled the chances of the Southerner especially Tinubu because he was the architect of all these just to satisfy his selfish and wicked ambition buh lets see how his evil ambition will come to fulfillment..

Make an inquiry about my revelation and don't just try to sound woke to gaslight my statement because it doesn't suit any narrative you're pushing especially when it comes to the choice of your presidential candidate.

I rest my case..Gracias!!!!

Nice script. Please what's the title of the movie?

Iykenuwa:
BATSHIT Spotted

I'm surprised you tagged him a Tinubu/Shettima supporter. But you're wrong by a mile.

God1000 is a supporter of Peter Obi.
We know the candidate whose supporters are allergic and hateful of others for expressing their opinions.

Komu1048:
I grew up with people who doesn't think much about rape, they even claim there is nothing like rape cox once d dik slip in, the victim will start to enjoy it. So I only see rapist as low-life people who r too worthless I don't see them as criminal.

But the day one of my friend during service was raped by an Okada rider in Ikirun was the day I knew what it means to rape. I can't believe what the girl turned to after the incident, since then I've join those calling for castration or killing of rapist once caught

Care to share with us what she turned to?
I don't support castration for rapists but death, as in a brutal death.

They don't deserve to live anymore. They should be killed immediately.

iSense247:
Many people who are probably not resident ipinle Omoluabi erroneously believe that Tinubu would win Osun in 2023. How possible? This is far from the truth on ground here.

I from Osun State (Tinubu's state of Origin). I can confidently tell you that Asiwaju cannot win my state, Ipinle Omoluabi. The mood of the people here towards Tinubu is not encouraging at all. As a matter of fact, he is one of the reasons why we voted out his cousin (Governor Oyetola).

On one occasion in 2018, Tinubu arrogantly insulted our Obas with his wealth saying he is richer than Osun State. Most people believe Tinubu is collecting some percentage of Osun State monthly allocation through his cousin. I don't know of other states in Oduduwa Republic but I am sure that Tinubu would come third here.

I am a card carrying member of PDP but my vote is for Peter Obi come 2023. Majority of PDP and APC members are ready to vote for Labour Party during the presidential election. I belong to different whatsapp groups of APC, PDP and LP. Serious activities are going on in PDP and LP platforms but absolutely nothing is going on on APC WhatsApp platforms except sharing of links by local bloggers.

APC is completely in disarray in Osun State. No amount of money will revive them. By the time Governor Oyetola would hand over in November this year, even APC members will perform the trending 'Sai Mun Bata Wuta' ritual in Osun State.

Majority of Osun Christians and some muslims are going to vote for Peter Obi.

Delusion of grandeur.
Wallow in your self-delusion for now.

iSense247:
On the eve of 2019 presidential election, bullion vans were sited entering Jagaban's house and a crowd of people waiting for the share of the national cake. Now that Asiwaju himself is contesting, how many bullion vans do you think he would release for Nigerians to enjoy?

During the recently concluded Osun State Election, APC distributed #1.2m for each polling unit and #2m per ward. Now that Tinubu himself is contesting and this is only chance because of old age and mental health challenge, we should be expecting about #10m per polling unit. What do you think?

This is obviously a cock-and-bull story.
And some people will believe this. SMH