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RomanceRe: Why Many Young Nigerians Are Not In Relationships by Odebayo4010(m): 6:40pm On Jul 22, 2023
Almiron:
In this, “it will favor me and my family economy”
This is the language that brought Nigeria to this Condition,the language of "it will favour me and my family,so other should be suffering abi?, poor follwership
RomanceRe: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Odebayo4010(m): 8:20pm On Jul 17, 2023
talented321:
You go funny well well i swear. The chats just dey burst ur head, take it easy things are bond to happen and we have to accept the reality. U don't know if u confront the aunt and she might get evil plans agains u because
1.she will be afraid whether u will tell her cousin, which will result to everybody hearing the update including their family.
2.she is working under this man so if the news fly it might affect her work.
And u know ur gender anything that will stop their chopings they are ready to die for it. So it is also a very dangerous task for u as well.
You better take this advice of OP,if you take step to inform them about there unusual,you will later blame your self
RomanceRe: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Odebayo4010(m): 8:15pm On Jul 17, 2023
IconicR:
I can't especially if it's against humanity
You're very good Man,I so like you with the steps you take, please never try to call anyone of them to attention to it because is dangerous for you oh, anyone of them can go extra mile to do you Evil, but one thing is that you have to train you mind harder that nothing in human behavior can shake you or move you
RomanceRe: She's Dating Her Cousin's Husband, It's Eating Me Up by Odebayo4010(m): 8:09pm On Jul 17, 2023
sslcrypt:
That means you can't work in espionage.
You Fail to realize that espionage agent was once ordinary person before they train him/her to that professional
Nairaland GeneralWhen To Be Silent(photo) by Odebayo4010(op): 8:47am On Jul 13, 2023
WHEN TO BE SILENT

1. Be silent - in the heat of
anger.
2. Be silent - when you don't
have all the facts.
3. Be silent - when you
haven't verified the story.
4. Be silent - if your words
will offend a weaker Person.
5. Be silent - when it is time
to listen.
6. Be silent - when you are
tempted to make light of
holy things.
7. Be silent - when you are
tempted to joke about sin.
8. Be silent - if you would be
ashamed of your word later.
9. Be silent - if your words
would convey the wrong
impression.
10. Be silent - if the issue is
none of your business.
11. Be silent - when you are
tempted to tell an outright lie.
12. Be silent - if your words
will damage someone else's reputation.
13. Be silent - if your words
will damage a friendship.
14. Be silent - when you are
feeling critical.
15. Be silent - if you can't
say it without screaming.
16. Be silent - if your words
will be a poor reflection
of your friends and family.
17. Be silent - if you may
have to eat your words
later.
18. Be silent - if you have
already said it more
than one time

RomanceRe: Dating This Type Of Ladies Would Reduce Your Lifespan by Odebayo4010(m): 3:04pm On Jul 10, 2023
Realthruth,go and ask Sule Suebebe,he spent his money on Woman and Materialistic, Now he's now sucking his Garri with ground but, people should realize that the fear of brokenness is the bigining of wisdom
CelebritiesRe: Nollywood Actor Sule Suebebe Apologises To People He Offended, Seeks Forgiveness by Odebayo4010(m): 12:11pm On Jul 10, 2023
seniorgozman:
You don't seem to understand, it means that our nollywood does not pay well
They're paying well, go read what he said about his lifetime,he claims he spent his money on Woman and Materialistic which lead him to that stage
You fail to realize he's suffering from consequence of his past
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls Like This by Odebayo4010(m): 12:01pm On Jul 10, 2023
Styluss:
Lol, make friends with guys who have many babes, I was adamant, I believed in true love till they showed me shege. Just put yourself first, be the MAN, the moment you start compromising and acting like a woman, you will be taken for granted.
Be considerate while you do the above, dont be too mean or rude, the bottom line is respect yourself and you will be respected. The golden rule is that, dont make them feel too important, even if you love them so much, never show it, give some love and give some I dont care vibez, if they act crazy, show them you can always get someone else. Remaind them everyone is replaceable, above all, Dont be Broke!!!
Even ig you dont spend on them, make sure that you are a man of VALUE, either with money, education, or prospect! There must be something of value they can hold on to!
Thanks for the guidance,I really appreciate 🙏
CelebritiesRe: Nollywood Actor Sule Suebebe Apologises To People He Offended, Seeks Forgiveness by Odebayo4010(m): 10:08am On Jul 10, 2023
seniorgozman:
I have never seen this one. But why are our actresses richer than our actors
You fail to realize that Woman are the Receiver while Man are the Giver,so in my statement judge the area?
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls Like This by Odebayo4010(m): 9:56am On Jul 10, 2023
Styluss:
Quote me here bro, will respond
You just want you to teach me game
RomanceRe: Turning Point by Odebayo4010(m): 11:39pm On Jul 05, 2023
Nice one can't wait to read next chapter
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls Like This by Odebayo4010(m): 10:28pm On Jul 05, 2023
Styluss:
You did it wrongly, you dont know the game
Let me share a short story with you,
There's this girl I met..
I met this girl online, she is so pretty, Sure she is every man's dream, she was in another country and as fate would have it, work took her here. I called her for a few days while avoiding a date her made her fall in love first, she was asking for a date which I stylishly ignored, I made sure she had 100% of my attention and late at night we talk about sex and how we going to have fun when we meet. The euphoria was in the air, 2 lovers who had never met. We fixed a supposed date but we landed in the hotel where I drilled God forgive me on her pusssy.
We got to our various abode only for her to be shouting that I fcccked without asking her out. She kept asking for a date and I kept postponing, not on till one day she threatened to end the relationship, thats when I took her seriously.
The motive of the story, before spending a dime, confirms the intentions. Make sure a Fuckcc is certain and given the chance, don't disappoint us. Girls don't like good guys. They only like to marry SIMPS, they don't love them.
Bro let have a conversation
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls Like This by Odebayo4010(m): 9:56pm On Jul 05, 2023
Ketapu:
I was initially feeling sorry for you because you are just another victim of the matrix. You behaved exactly how you have been conditioned to behave.

However, my sympathy for you vanished after seeing your message I quoted. I see you are still not ready to learn.

Well, I still hate seeing guys getting hurt like you did. I've been there before and I won't allow any such disrespect to me again. Due to that, I will still give you an advice.

Read Alan Roger Currie book titled The Possibility of Sex.

That's the solution to your problem.
Where can I get the book, direct me?
RomanceRe: Why Are Girls Like This by Odebayo4010(m): 9:54pm On Jul 05, 2023
thesilentman:
You treated her like she's some kind of prize from the onset.And the reverse ought to be the case.The more you invest in a girl,the more entitled she feels-35k?When last did you gift your own mum that amount?Follow me let me teach you how to scatter any woman toto on credit.
Bro I need orientation
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Executive Scam: Does It Make Sense For Government To Publicise Job Vacancies? by Odebayo4010(m): 6:43pm On Jul 04, 2023
1Alex:
I got a graduate job on grade level 08 without knowing anyone.

After like 2 years, I also informed some people about new recruitments and one of them also got the job without knowing anyone
Your Ancestor they your back
RomanceRe: "My Wife Is Not My Family"- by Odebayo4010(m): 9:09pm On Jul 03, 2023
This is totally Nonsense,Men will only Realize that my Wife Is not my Family when he goes Blind or become cripple Bad circumstances hit him, that's when he will realize, Woman will Leave you for another Man,I know a Man in my street,the Man was part of administrative in a Big organization,And circumstances hit the Man suddenly, he go Blind his wife bear it with him for some years but later dump him for another Man,I will always say this to my people that your Wife Is not your Family, until Bad things happen to you na then you will realize the realthruth
RomanceRe: I Have A Feeling That My Wife Will Cheat On Me. Here's Why by Odebayo4010(m): 8:23pm On Jul 03, 2023
labake1:
You are cheating on her and you didn't respect her by letting her to know, you don't have any right to complain. If you do me, I go do you.
Men will be feeling on top of the world with their sins and crimes. Na you want use your hand destroy your marriage.

Why are you cheating? Olojukokoro okunrin iranu
You fail to realize that Men were Polygamous in Nature, Wife should be where Husband place her
RomanceRe: I Have A Feeling That My Wife Will Cheat On Me. Here's Why by Odebayo4010(m): 8:16pm On Jul 03, 2023
Wow I like your statement (that's the End of our Relationship) you're a real Man,not Simp,
CrimeRe: How A Techie Was Attacked By Robbers Led By The Motorcyclist He Sent On Errands by Odebayo4010(m): 11:57am On Jul 02, 2023
alphabbey1:
Go and be watching Investigation Discovery (Channel 171) on dstv. You will see evils you've never thought exist...
What of Gotv is there channel like that their
CelebritiesRe: Cheating Scandal: Speed Darlington Advises Davido To Use Withdrawal Method by Odebayo4010(m): 8:04pm On Jun 29, 2023
What does he mean by withdrawal method,can someone explain to me? although I didn't watch the video,run out of data
Christianity EtcRe: You Have 14 Days To Apologize - Celestial Prophet To David Ibiyeomie by Odebayo4010(m): 7:04pm On Jun 27, 2023
madridguy:
Pentecostal pastors are worse... They are just perfect in hiding their fetish package.
Dey Play
Christianity EtcRe: You Have 14 Days To Apologize - Celestial Prophet To David Ibiyeomie by Odebayo4010(m): 4:21pm On Jun 27, 2023
You better get off,you this Evil Churches,the Man said the truth, Celestial and Babalawo were the same both of them were patronize leku leja as well plugging leaf
Jobs/VacanciesRe: What A Man That Earns 100k+ Told Me When I Wanted To Borrow N500 From Him by Odebayo4010(m): 4:16pm On Jun 27, 2023
Am in your shoes also, but God will help us through, things were not moving well for me,am also undergraduate too,as well working
CrimeRe: Man Kills, Beheads Younger Brother In Adamawa State by Odebayo4010(m): 9:20pm On Jun 25, 2023
Animal better Igbo people oh, don't ever marrry them oh
RomanceRe: How Can I Woo Opposite Sex? by Odebayo4010(m): 7:04pm On Jun 25, 2023
Godfather898989:
I have difficulties keeping relationship with the opposite sex,for clarity I'm heterosexual male....I'm single, I need help brothers and sisters
OP search this channel on YouTube,(edris tips) I believe you will find solutions to you problem
HealthRe: Help On Permanent Cure For Bad Breath by Odebayo4010(m): 7:22pm On Jun 24, 2023
Tell him to brush his tongue well,and he should be using Oral B as toothpaste
Christianity EtcUnbelievable This Happened, Reason You Most Read This by Odebayo4010(op): 11:15am On Jun 10, 2023
This sacrifice was made for sports and it's called “for the love of the game”, if the same is done for God it will be called “craziness and mental slavery”.
Some of us will be crazy and mentally enslaved to God forever 💕

Christianity EtcDon't Fail To Read This, It's Serious Case by Odebayo4010(op):
*Several years ago, a preacher from a distant town accepted a call from a church in Leeds. Some weeks after his arrival, he had an* *appointment that made him to board a bus to another part of the town. When he sat down, he discovered that the driver had mistakenly given him his balance in excess of 50 pence. As he considered what to do, he thought within him, 'You'd better give this money back. It would be wrong to keep it'. Then another thought came, "Oh, forget it, it's only 50p; who would worry about this little amount, afterall the bus company makes so much money on fares; they will never miss it. Accept it as 'a gift from God' and keep quiet. "When he was getting down from the bus, he paused momentarily at the door, and then handed the 50p to the driver and said, 'Take; the balance you gave me was in excess'. The driver, with a smile, replied, 'Aren't you the new preacher in town?' 'Yes I am', he replied. 'Well, I have been thinking a lot lately about where to go to worship. I just wanted to see what you would do if I gave you a balance in excess. I'll worship with you at the church this Sunday. When the preacher stepped off the bus, he grabbed a nearby electric pole, looked up and said, 'Oh God, I almost sold your Son for 50 pence!'. Our lifestyles are the only Bible some people will ever read. This is just a subtle example of how much people watch us as Christians, and will put us to test! Always be on guard -- and remember -- You carry the name of Christ on your forehead and shoulders, once you say you are a Christian. 'Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits; they become character. Watch your character; it becomes your destiny'. I'm glad a friend forwarded this to me as a reminder and I chose to forward it to you. If you don't pass this on to anybody, nothing bad will happen to you; but, if you do, you would have ministered to someone today and God will bless you
RomanceRe: 9 Married Women Talk About Their Affairs Outside Marriage by Odebayo4010(m): 12:02pm On Jun 09, 2023
DIntegrity:
Well, I didn't need to got through all of them but I know one thing...the aim is to destroy family which is the bedrock of a society.
Young people don't know they're being programmed for disaster unconsciously.
Funny enough the human vessels that convey theses News don't know what they're doing is contributing to disaster as long as they get the reactions and feedback they want.


The truth remains that there are good marriages everywhere. True no marriage is free for quarrel but not as toxic as they make it look.
If you feed on these evil news all the time you're programming yourself for disaster in time because for everyone you meet you'd have suspicion no matter how genuine they seem. Even when there's nothing to worry about you'd worry and you'll just be living without peace and that's where devil wants you to be.

There's nothing new under the sun.
There is a defined path to a successful relationship/marriage/family life . It only depends on what you decide to believe and expose yourself to.
Countless genuine materials out there to feed on.
So guard your hearts else you'll be influenced by nonsense.

We've come to the point that if someone said my marriage is a bliss, he or she would be tagged a liar.

we expect bad things unconsciously.
Let's be careful o

Well, I don't care what anyone says.
Their experiences are bespoke to them.

With Intentionality you can and would have a good relationship if you want to.

T for thanks
Wow thanks for your advice,you really spoke well, you're wisdom Man,it left for everyone to decide what he/she wants in life
RomanceRe: 9 Married Women Talk About Their Affairs Outside Marriage by Odebayo4010(m): 11:41am On Jun 09, 2023
blaise26abj:
I believe it and I don’t believe anything . In my short experience and interactions , I have heard things from the mouth of married women that I can’t post . All I will say is that most Nigerian men and women ( married or not ) deserve one another . None is holier than the other .
Please share what you heard from the mouth of married woman,I wanted to learn
RomanceRe: 9 Married Women Talk About Their Affairs Outside Marriage by Odebayo4010(m): 11:30am On Jun 09, 2023
They all practice the life of Nollywood
RomanceRe: 9 Married Women Talk About Their Affairs Outside Marriage by Odebayo4010(m): 11:25am On Jun 09, 2023
Reminderz:
stories not new, next!
it will continue happening over and over again..

and btw, this just proves further that the redpill does not lie... reading through some of the stories, it validates some redpill sayings below:

1) never ignore red flags..
2) you can't negotiate genuine desire, you can't buy a woman's love.
3) women are moved by emotions and how they feel at the moment.
4) hypergamy doesn't care how long you've been together.. she will leave you when she has weighed her options...
5) do not be naive when it comes to the nature of women and what women are capable of before considering having a relationship with them...
6) never rely or trust any woman...
7) do what you want to do as a man, women will always whine..
8 ) trying to impress her might work for a short while, but will haunt you in the long run..
9) women know what they are doing...
10) always make sure the woman you're in a relationship with have something to lose...
11) women don't love men, she's only in the relationship for her selfish interests... she will be gone the moment the benefits cease...
12) women will cheat multiple times and pretend they've never flirted or seen another guy's dick but flare up violently the moment they catch you cheating...
13) women are natural actresses... always verify...
14) a woman's past matters, judge her by her past.. scrutinize her thoroughly!
15) save yourself because no one is coming to save you..

modified: last but not the least, women are not the weaker vessels as you've been misled... they are manipulative, cunning and powerful.. underrate them at your own risk..
This quote is my handout every blessed day

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