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Travel / Re: Fire Guts Lagos Blue Rail Station by odebmart(m): 9:55pm On Feb 28, 2023
Must everything be viewed from a tribalistic or religious point of view jn this nation. Why so much hatred can't things be analyzed normally, then we all bring progressive suggestions and solutions?
Family / Re: Lady Confused As DNA Test Reveals Her Baby Isn’t Her Husband’s Biological Child by odebmart(m): 12:43pm On Dec 04, 2022
rickpat:
she should match the DNA test with herself...if it shows the child is her child,then she is lying and should tell us the man that got her pregnant.. but if the DNA test doesn't match with her, She Should know that her baby was swapped in the hospital she put to bed...THESE ARE THE ONLY TWO SCENARIOS,NO BIG DEAL...let her find the solution herself... DNA test is always 99% accurate...but she can try another hospital for the test,if she is doubting
she already mentioned that DNA shows that child is hers
Family / Re: Lady Confused As DNA Test Reveals Her Baby Isn’t Her Husband’s Biological Child by odebmart(m): 12:40pm On Dec 04, 2022
This story does not add up, you noticed your child showing strange characteristics and the first thing that come to mind is DNA test? The woman is lying, she knows the father of the child and probably started noticing the man's trait in the child and decided to confirm, after all the DNA shows she is the mother. Putting this out in public is preplanned to show the husband how confused she was, that she had to seek answers from social media or she may have been drugged and raped somewhere or the husband may also be impotent and drugged her and brought someone to impregnate her. But the story sounds like a lie.

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Nairaland / General / Re: Ever Gone From Grace To Grass? by odebmart(m): 2:24pm On Oct 30, 2022
Aaaah... I know that level very well, I have been there several times, sometimes due to my wrong choices, other times due to human wickedness because I just wanted to help a brother, but you know like they say, it's not how many times you fall that matters but your ability to rise up again that counts, and in order to remain standing, you must first make sure you keep your power house (i.e your mind) healthy, by thinking the right thoughts and also you need spiritual backup and upliftment to keep the spirit alive and hopeful.
Most of all avoid privatisation ( success killer).
Learn from your mistakes
Be disciplined
Be focus minded.
Being down is painful and the desire to rush out of it immediately leads to more frustration and failure, take time analyse where you are at that moment and work out a plan to get out of it, taking one day at a time, in a short while, you will back on your feet.
I thank God that I learnt my lessons and am standing back on my feet, better, stronger and more experienced

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Politics / Re: Kanu's Lawyer Reveals Next Action As FG Objects To Court Order Releasing Kanu by odebmart(m): 10:02am On Oct 14, 2022
The game is set to truncate the P O presidential ambition. I believe kanu will be released when election is about to begin, the ipob have always said they will be no election in the east, and this is the card the opposition wants to play. This first claimed release is to spite the man, knowing that those who believe in P O presidency will not want him released now and also to gauge and distabilise obi's supporters, I believe he will be realeased maybe by December or January to shake up PO presidential chances, this is just my opinion.
Phones / Re: Which Network Data Plan Lasts Longer? by odebmart(m): 3:46pm On Sep 14, 2022
starbuck:




If you ain't sure of something, you can always possibly keep mute and ignore undecided undecided
you are both right, when you are using a new device you receive double data for bw 3-6 months afterwards it will revert back to normal price, Airtel 5k data is 20gb but when you use a new device you receive x2; making it 40gb
Health / Re: A Kidney Now Costs $262,000; Heart, $119,000, UN Warns Nigerians by odebmart(m): 3:25pm On Jul 22, 2022
These people just want us in Africa to kill ourselves, they are aware of the state of the nation and this so call warning will only escalate the rate of killings in Nigeria, they should have just warned about the high rate of human trafficking which we are already battling with, without the mention of the price.
Family / Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by odebmart(m): 10:39pm On Jul 04, 2022
Bianda24:
Why are some fathers irresponsible? In this age and time, irresponsible parenting should have been a thing of the past. However, lemme offer you a piece of advice freely, if you are truly 19 years as you claim, I should be able to advise you. As a mother, there is practically anything you can do to your dad, perhaps when you become rich, without your dad, something would be missing in you. The best you can do is to continue to pray for him for a change of heart. When you grow old, you will understand better
the reason why there are a lot of irresponsible father's is because a lot of father's grew up without a father figure in their life, so they don't know how to be father's themselves, it's only those who made up their mind to be great father's that succeed in the fatherhood thing, the father's we have now are just older boys not men.

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Family / Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by odebmart(m): 10:30pm On Jul 04, 2022
Youngman you are focusing your energy on the wrong thing, you better be careful before you put yourself in more trouble by killing your father, bitterness is a very toxic poison that consumes the whole being, if it's fed continuously, from your emotional outburst, there's just a thin line between you and commiting murder.
At 19yrs old you are full of energy and have a great future ahead of you, forget the ones who have made it through illicit means and focus on what you want to achieve in life, the road will be tough but once you create the map in your mind, it will fire you up,.
I know a lot of young people these days don't like success that comes with patience and hard work or smart work (not yahoo), but it always pays in the end.
I was 11 yrs old when my parents left my junior ones in my care for years, I hated them for it , but I was determined to succeed, I became hardened to protect my sister's from those who might want to take advantage of them, many years later, they are all graduates married and have children, none ended up wrong, I became their father and mother, we reconnected with our parents and am taking care of them, no need for payback because I have risen above them all regardless of the challenges, I don't need to fall low to their level of wrong doing, it will not give me back those years.
I understand how you feel, if you want to hate, hate.. but use that hate positively to better yourself, let it be the fire that propels you each day to become better than your father. I will like to hear you were arrested for murder after all the pains you are going through, the person you are hating is enjoying himself, but you are poisoning yours, refocus your mind, and please change your moniker.

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Politics / Re: Ejiro Otarigho: I Want New Tanker, Not National Honour by odebmart(m): 5:42pm On Jun 19, 2022
BloomingDale:


Cos it’s the truth. He should have appealed not demanded. No one is obligated to buy him a new tanker.
The man is not making any demand on anybody, he is speaking out his mind that he would have preferred his source of income rather than the honor, because when he was asked if he would leave the job if given something else to do, his answer was yes.
Family / Re: My 17yrs Old Son Is Getting Out Of Hand by odebmart(m): 10:02am On Jun 09, 2022
Please don't listen to all those advising you to call the police on your son's, they will never do it to theirs, if you know a grown up they respect a lot, you can ask for help, but I advise you talk to them, chat with them, get them to open up to you, build trust, these are your children and not some random strangers, make them communicate with you heart to heart. Don't expect overnight magic but be patient, you change your attitude towards them and they will change also, maybe in anger you have told them severally that if not for them you would have remarried, find a way of retracting this statement and letting them know that it was out of anger you said so, even though you have the right to remarry but making them feel like a hindrance in your life will hurt them, I grew up with a single mom from a broken marriage, from your writeup, I already decoded all you did wrong, am sure you are a great mum because my mum is also but sometimes growing up I hated her a lot even though I loved her very much and my hatred played out through rebellious actions even though she showed me so much love as an only son with four sisters. Trying to control a growing man as a single mother is challenging but if well managed will bring great results, today I turned out great, like I said in my earlier post that I am a single father with four boys, I applied the wisdom my mom used in tackling me to them and it's working fine, today I and my mom are best of friends and I believe yours will turn out well also

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Family / Re: My 17yrs Old Son Is Getting Out Of Hand by odebmart(m): 9:38am On Jun 09, 2022
Welcome to the club, I have four boys two young adults 19 and 16yrs, one pre-teen and a hyper active four years old. Am a single Dad.
Through all this challenges I eventually succeeded in making them into friends, sometimes parents leave issues unchecked until it gets out of hand then they try to fix it.
In the early stage of the child's life you play but discipline them well, when they get to the teen age, build strong friendship with them.
I always warn parents never try to strike or hit your children once they are 15yrs especially the boys you will create enemy for yourself.
My simple advice is sit them down and have a heart to heart talk with them, tell them about the great guy their dad was without trying to compare him to them, those boys need their father and has been hurting for years which is just playing out now, and please stop reminding them of how much sacrifice you have made for them, they know and appreciate it, accept them as growing men and treat them as such without acting weak, they will take advantage of it, give them responsibilities so they can feel that you see them as grown ups and they will protect you. As for the going out and wasteful habit, it started as an act of rebellion against you, but you can change that, though it won't go away overnight but gradually it will reduce. Just build back trust, make them into your friends, at first they will be on guard but after a while they will relax . Please never ever compare them to others. An lastly pray for divine help, most people don't believe in the power of prayer anymore but it still works.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How An Employer Sacked A Job Seeker Immediately After Giving Him A 250K Job by odebmart(m): 11:20am On May 08, 2022
Maybe the employee is on the short side and felt insulted. Even the guy has not met.
Politics / Re: Reno Omokri Responds To Prof. Wole Soyinka regarding his stands on Buhari by odebmart(m): 1:41pm On Apr 08, 2022
I disagree with Reno, that write up did not show Soyinka support for buhari, he only pleaded that people should forgive an already elected president waiting for swearing in. What else is there to ask for. If you have a tyrant step father you try to manage the situation than escalate it by provoking him, even the bible said to the Israelites to pray for their masters in their time of captivity,so that they can prosper as their masters prosper.
Crime / Re: New Format Of Scamming (screenshot) by odebmart(m): 12:41pm On Mar 09, 2022
It's good to be careful. The truth is the person might be a scammer or being truthful, when you can't access your Facebook account anymore and trying to reaccess it, Facebook ask you to give the name of your friends on Facebook to help you reaccess your account, I believe this is just the same as when you are retrieving your sim, you are asked to provide at least 5 numbers you communicate with regularly to help restore your sim contacts, the person must have gotten this prompt and decided to contact you, see here https://m.facebook.com/help/213343062033160
I have experienced same while trying to reaccess my account. It would have been better to contact someone very close to him/ her for help, also we can not excuse the issue of scam with intent to take over your account, lets remain vigilant
Crime / Re: Sister: Bamise Ayanwole's Private Parts Were Cut Off While Still Alive (Video) by odebmart(m): 11:47am On Mar 09, 2022
So sad�, may God comfort the family.
The has been a rise in human organ trafficking lately which may be the real causes of these continuous killings in our nation.
Most times the police try to play down on the physical appearance of the dead. The dead lady may have been mutilated, I don't think the sister of the dead will lie, the family must have seen their dead loved one.

But what is baffling now is through this whole issue nobody has mentioned the whereabout of the elderly woman she said was sitting at the back of the bus, was she a part of the gang? Or was she taken away to be killed elsewhere?
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Properties / Re: Adebowale Sikiru Ikoyi Building Collapse: My Rejection For Being Muslim Saved Me by odebmart(m): 1:43pm On Nov 05, 2021
Righteousness2:
Brother I Praise GOD for your being alive. But that does not change the fact that Without JESUS Christ you are headed for Destruction in Hell.
As There is no other way to be Saved!




Modified
My Brothers and Sisters, Listen to me!
Being angry, Insulting us or being Bitter cannot change what is Written.

As a Servant of GOD, it is my duty to tell you the truth irrespective of how Bitter! It is your Choice to acce pt or reject the truth.
Every word we put out here will be replayed to you on the other side as you cannot say , you didn't know.

It does not Matter who we are or how religious we are. If you did not Surrender to the LORDSHIP of JESUS Christ as your LORD and SAVIOR, Forget about Eternal life in Heaven.

It is comments like this that makes people run away from Christianity, Jesus Christ made it perfectly clear that he did not come to save those who think they are perfect because a person that is well does not need a doctor, he showed love and interacted with prostitutes, tax collector's e t.c and won them to God, he also said it is by God's grace that we are saved, probably if you were born into a dedicated Muslim family you will be defending Islam more. Most people that became born again heard the word over and over until they made up their mind, you can not judge or condemn anyone because you are not God. [Have you thought about it, that maybe God actually allowed that building fall because of that man's utterances, it is very unfortunate that others have to die or get injured in the process ( just my thought)]
This judgemental attitude by Christians has to stop. If you look closely you will find out that Christianity is loosing more value because of Christians themselves. No wonder Gandhi said he loves Jesus more than the Christians, because the Christians are nothing like Jesus.

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Romance / Re: My Fiancee's Unstable Look Is Threatening Our Relationship. Please Advice Me by odebmart(m): 9:51am On Oct 07, 2021
The truth is you don't love that lady, just let her go find her happiness elsewhere, you have always known what you wanted before meeting her. You probably see her all the time, got used to her good qualities and decided to compromise. Your whole complain sounds selfish, what about her, you never mentioned that you even had a chat with her about facial expressions, it might even be that you look at her disgustingly sometimes without meaning to and she response by expressing her unhappiness.
Like someone rightly said follow your heart, let her go and find your tomato Jos elsewhere. Please don't make her unhappy, because that's what will happen if you remain in this relationship

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Nairaland / General / Not Every Storm Yield Crops by odebmart(m): 5:22pm On Feb 25, 2021
NOT EVERY STORM YIELDS CROP:

Here’s a dirty little secret you might now know: Brainstorming doesn’t always yield results. In fact, despite how often a good brainstorming session is presented as the ideal solution to a creative block, very few good ideas come out of them.

The problem? Not much thought is put into the ideas getting thrown around. So all those crazy creative ideas don’t hold a lot of value. Sure, you might get some off the wall stuff, but how usable is it?

The better solution? Have a discussion session where everyone takes the details of the problem and sits down to present their best creative ideas. The true value lies in a frank discussion where ideas can be dissected, then put together again in brand new ways, leading to well thought out solutions.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eSjrvFvdvm0
Pets / Re: Man Shows Off His Pet Dog 'Lady Chinyere' (Pictures) by odebmart(m): 6:35pm On Feb 18, 2021
Very wicked.... So after you help lady chinyere, you now have that big pot plan for her abi? If na lie, why the happy pose beside the pot, while the dog look miserable �.
Nairaland / General / Do You Know These 6 Things About Highly Creative People by odebmart(m): 7:40pm On Jan 19, 2021
6 Things You Didn’t Know About Highly Creative People

You may not realize that there are some differences between ordinary folks and highly creative people. If you’re friends with people who are highly creative, you’ve probably noticed they see the world in a slightly different way. But scientists have now found that their brains not only work differently, but their neural hardwiring is also unique. Creatives can sometimes be challenging to get along with, but it helps to understand why.

Find out more from the link below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_qN7CbHuY9M&t=35s
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Remote Job Opportunity by odebmart(m): 12:18pm On Dec 14, 2020
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Wish you success
Jobs/Vacancies / Remote Job Opportunity by odebmart(m): 4:15pm On Dec 04, 2020
Check out this remote job opportunity.

-Free training

-Free 7 days boot camp training ( you can earn even earn some cash during the boot camp)

Just sign up and beginning your training.

Note: You must pass your test after training to qualify for a job.

The test are not hard to pass as long as you are very attentive to your training

Learn more HERE

Wish you success
Programming / Re: Can I Code With My Phone by odebmart(m): 3:18pm On Dec 01, 2020
I use grasshopper for my nephew.

Find it on Google play

This app runs you through the basics of coding in a fun way

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Romance / Re: How Do I Get Over Sex? by odebmart(m): 5:51pm On Nov 28, 2020
Hello bro,
Feel your stress. I have a nephew who confided in me once about his uncontrollable sexual urge.
I did not take it seriously because I thought it runs in the family, the men are very sexually active, but when he told me all he has been through, I knew there was problem.
So I started searching for solution, then I remembered a health book my father gave to me, he also got it from his dad, I searched through and found something, we tried it and it worked.

The book has become very rare now, I stumbled upon it again on amazon, and I have been an advocate ever since, it is truly a must have for every home.
So many natural health remedies.
Am attaching the page that talks about the solution, but the herbs involved, you have to visit your alagbo.
But should incase you want to buy the book. Buy through my link https://bulkselas.com.ng/wp2/BackToEden

So I can make commission, after all I no charge you, but if you end up buying the whole book, the seller cannot make profit at my own expense, man must wack.

Wish you luck.

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