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MRBrownJ:
LIFE FACT #43: women have no business being at a bar if they have no money for drinks

as funny as it is, you will still find many at the bar without money..

Sagamite:
{Pukes}

Some solid advice for you: "Make sure you stay the fck away from me."

https://www.nairaland.com/2817873/nigerian-men-foreign-wives-must#41257161

oh lawd.. saga is here.
swaggalicious, sagacious sagamite..

bami loke orun o.. edariji WA o

MRBrownJ:
thats madness, so the guy runs after the gal aimlessly?! for how long? she should be dismissed the minute she plays uninterested, then she asks why you tell her because you'd rather focus on someone that is interested in you.

believe me this set of girls will be the first to scream evil when they see the guy with another girl.
Some will even tell you it's good for them to do shakara. I don't take what many of them say here too serious

MRBrownJ:
how can her "friends" make it clear in their action that some gal loves you (while the gal herself ignores you)?!

if a gal doesnt SHOW YOU (by her actions) that she cares for you then she doesnt, and you might as well move on with your life and stop wasting time. trying to be with someone who doesnt give a shit about you, while her friends are telling you that she does, is the craziest thing i have heard this hour.

life is about loving someone who loves you EQUALLY back.... no compromise here!

I only pity the girl.. let her keep playing hard to get..

once I see signs of unseriousness, I simply ignore.

Bro, believe me, that's what many Nigeria girls do.. they Lik a guy and still be forming boss.

nothing Africans no fit chop.. Chaii

honey... aloe Vera

Here to view pix..

gynny:
i understand he may be going tru a lot, but he'll not even talk to me abt them and when i asks he just snaps. Sometimes he does'nt call for days, but i still try to call every day.

keep doing ur part and I hope he change soon..Though I don't know the nature of his work, I don't see anything wrong even if it's a ten minutes talk on Fone after work..

Since you are certain he loves you and vice versa, keep doing ur best to make the relationship work.. I tell you, long distance relationship is not for everyone, if you are not strong and don't easily trust people, believe me you will run away. Just a matter of time.

gynny:
sometimes he does'nt call for days. We only see on public holidays, thats the only time he has for visits.

does he work on Saturday and Sundays? If no then one of you should try pay the other a visit.. I hope the distance isn't too far

Decker:
OP I think I understand where you are coming from. In most relationships, it's normally hard on one partner if he/she feels he/she isn't being shown enough love as is being rendered to the other partner.

From your post your rightly stated that you know your man loves you. This means that he actually expresses love in other areas, but he is only lacking in the area of making out time for you.

You have to first understand one thing. The fact that a guy doesn't call you all the time doesn't mean he doesn't really love you. Some guys aren't the calling type. And given the fact that your man is a very busy person, it would be difficult for him to always call or be with you all the time. You are a woman. Women generally like to be given much attention by their partners, and when they feel they aren't given as much as they think they should, it becomes a problem, as is in your case.

I believe your man still loves you and cares about you. You should stop worrying.

I'll tell you what. How about you make out time for each other. I mean set out a particular time of the week, when he isn't busy, just for the two of you. Maybe on friday nights or sunday afternoons. Just the two of you. This would help in making you feel closer to him and in keeping the connection you have with each other alive, even if you don't get to spend that much time together, and hopefully it would erase your doubts.

This...

this is beautiful

The driver dey do need for speed

jamesbanjo:
Pls where z gionee carl in Ikeja... Reply is needed asap... (wanna repair a gionee m2 charging point)

medical road

doveda:

Thanks

you ehn, trouble maker

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]And she's dead? [/color]

yea

dominique:
He does have a point. We're too over-religious in this country yet so many atrocities are being committed all accross the regions.

na we do religion pass and na still we do bad things pass

doveda:
I don't use foul words offline, except in my mind

i am going to attribute it to the fact that I have never had the opportunity to be in the midst of scums.

I do not see these people as humans. Neither do I see them as humans. Therefore it is hard for me to treat them and consider them as humans not to mention respecting them or arguing with them civilly. I wish all of them the very worst! I wish God collect a arm and a leg for every favour he has bestowed and he will continue to bestow on them!

Aren't these the same morons that would call her ho.es, reduce her to nothing if she had opened another thread explaining how she had fvcked a total stranger for her accommodation fees? They deserve everything I have given to them and so much more. They are nothing but hypocrites.


I am sorry but my conviction to treat them as scums is stronger than my will to accept your advice. Nonetheless I agree with you and i will try to

I am still fining it very hard to believe this

lol.. it's best to ignore... people actually are hard to please and people actually speak with both sides of the mouth atimes and the best thing to do is ignore

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Baba mi Good morning.
Who is candygosh?[/color]

morning boss.. she was a Nairalander

doveda and manie nice one..
Oga manie I Lik ur maturity and doveda I'm happy you apologized.

Doveda will advice never to use any foul word on anybody here evn offline..Trust me it's a very dirty,ill mannered and repulsive attitude.
However, I must commend you for the apologies.

All I see is ladies too encourage sex alot in relationships.. God help anyone who complain that we guys are only after sex..

LaurelP:
My problem with most girls is not even asking them out.


My problem is what happens after you ask them out. When you have gone through the rigor of convincing and cajoling them to accept you, they still expect you to struggle to keep the relationship moving.
You must constantly call, text, visit, spend on them and not also forgetting birthdays, valentine, Xmas, new year and sometimes even pay school fees.

This is the idea of a relationship for a typical Nigerian girl. The guy must bear all the burden while the lady enjoys.
And I ask, what role do ladies play in a relationship?

Sadly there are only few who can call, text, treat you well, spend etc

wristbangle:
Smart ladies use all avenue to spring out love from real men through effective greenlight signals.

For any lady who sits back expecting MR. Right to chase her like dog may become single for life.

lol.. let dem sit back and keep waiting..

Ladies please if a guy show sign that he wants something serious, please don't let him prove himself to death by playing hard to get for a long time..

myfantasies:
Let me go nd look for a guy to toast
I am tired of waiting for guys to ask me out

confirm pikin

Michellla:
I didnt see the thread.
Now concerning this, many guys here may disagree and claim that they love a confident woman who has the cojones to walk up to a guy and ask him out.
But this isn’t always the case. At the end of the day, let’s face it. All a girl has to do is drop a few signs and if a guy does like her back, he’ll probably pop the question even before the girl thinks it. It’s safer, and an easier way to get to know if a guy likes you, saves the embarrassment of a guy turning you down.

What kind of embarrassment? You call rejection embarrassment? Do you know aw many guys are bn turned down daily or are ladies prone to rejection?

A guy can be rejected its normal to you but for a lady its embarrassing? Are guys created to be embarrassed?

All I can see is a lady who fear rejection and isn't ready to Tak risk
Chaii.. una no go kill us wt laff

keyzid:
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I can't imagine myself saying because a girl turned me down on just an ordinary request to be her friend sef, i won;t have to walk up to anyone of them again. Taar. You see what you like, you go for it. If you girls are claiming gender equality, then why put the mindset that the job of a guy is to woo and not vice versa.

Take what people say here too serious at ur own peril

LDR isn't easy at all and honesty not for everyone..
If you don't trust or lack patience or not strong, sorry long distance relationship isn't for you

luxanne:
Happy belated birthday dear, trust you had a blast.
Wishing you the best in life as you step forth

Thanks dear.. A fruitful and prosperous new year to you..

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Look at all these mumu girls that cannot handle rejection.

So for the fact that you give a guy green light then it's now compulsory for him to look your way? For fùcks sake a guy may not also care about your green light because you may also not reach the standard he wants in a lady. You may probably be ugly or shapeless or a drama queen.

Going by that it's not by force for a guy to woo you because you are showing him green light.

So fück you too and your dimming green light! [/color]

spot on

Kachisbarbie:
I read your post perfectly and I maintain, some guys are not vocal enough to even act after seeing the greenlight, if one happens to be with such guys_ why not help a young man'.

A guy shouldn't be that shy? Lols, I guess guys are immortals, they don't have fears.

perfect answer