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bettyoge:
HMmm, had a male bestie while in skool,people felt we dating even his girl cldnt even bear d sight of me ,rember having a serious issh wit my guy cos he saw my post to him on FB n he felt bad n he said we dating n I said no we bff, finally they came to realise we best frnd frnd n nothing more .

why cant u make ur bf ur bestie?





ladies here are just funny

Niyinficient:
Blive me, had it been he ain't dating, I wud advice u to keenly monitor him and see if he's taking on d advantage of u being close to him or he's actually in love wit u. Now dat he is avoiding u, biko avoid am too, before e be like u dey force ursef on am, u be fine, correct and set babe wey any man will definitely look twice. So chillax, men will come, just b wise.

you get time o..go read her first post on this thread.
he friend zone the nigga, the nigga has moved on and shes complaining

JoeCutie:
It's just a matter of time before they start phucking.
If I'm your boyfriend, I'm your bestie.

"Bestie" is a lot deeper than the 'best friend' we know.

true yarn at last statement

coha:
My bestie is a guy,he stays n abj while I in phc,we talk evryday share problems,atleast there are still pple dat hv sense.sex is nt evrything abeg.

what problem cant you share with ur bf or is it that the things you discuss with ur bestie u cant duscuss with ur guy?

Abbykem:
My bestie is a male right from jamb lessons day. We are awaiting corpers now. They also said many things about us. My ex could not Blive we are just frnds too. I know his gf nd advise him wen it's comes 2 girls matter and vice versa. We are just frnds and nothing else. I don't really like girls drama.

its either he is not bn honest or you are not

Titidi:
So a lady should dump her longtime(childhood) friend cos of a lover that might later breakup with her

read my reply to you

Millz404:
Lol... She loves him.... Case closed

You de mind her..she no want talk true

richie9093:
if he's your best is means you like being with him and talking to him. you confide him among other things. why can't you date him? what's stopping you? do you want to date another guy you can't be free with it? I honestly don't understand girls

I honestly don't see why you can't date him because obviously you both already have a connection. just try it out and see where it leads to.

Some ladies for you

sonofananimal:
I'm telling you.

It just don't work like that!

Them don't know that guys have some kind of feelings due to REJECTION and still expect the guy to be your best friend for MUGU!


Gezz! I swear the way our NAIJA WOMEN dey think is just so annoying

True that..many spew rubbish atimes n u ask urself questions.

I dont blame guys who call some of them fish brain

MzPecs:
Hehehehehe

MzPecs:
Yes, I am

for ur mind

sonofananimal:
how I wish say I fit slap persin online

That WOMAN IS ACTUALLY LACKING COMMON SENSE

i dey tell u......Many gals are like that.they friendzone a niga and still expect the nigga to be around..

it just dont work that way..

sonofananimal:
mumu na only your self you dey think of!

You tell the guy no and you won come become friends again! Use ya brain think na! The guy dey avoid you so that, that good memory were he get on you before you carry ya chicken brain go FVCK up no go corrupt am again.

The guy na good guy! I even like how he dey avoid you like dead pig, but. You Ode no go sense face ya front continue ya stupidity

I hate people like you be giving guys green like and if the guy FINALLY APROACH you, that's when you have someone in ya life

STVPID WOMAN! What advice did you want.

That's why God will be punishing you people with miserable life.


Chicken

lol..leave her let her keep complaining..that guy is wise.

What many ladies here fail to understand is that majority of the guys they call bestie are in their friend zone.

NegeduGrace:
what is this one saying?I said I don't love him to date him cos I never wanted that in the first place..the guy in question is dating another lady but he is avoiding me for turning him down..I just don't want to loose him as a friend biko am not crying,if I want him it not a problem @all

carefully take time to go through ur first post again..
U dont just want to lose him as friend.is he ur brother?
U friend zone the nigga and he has moved on .u de here de complain.
Is he the only friend you have?leave matter for matthias

Beautifulemi:
My best friend is a guy and we have been friends for a very long time now. I call him my bff and my guy is aware of him. There's simply nothing in it, it all depends on the type of girl one is dating. if you are dating a flirt, then it is kinda difficult to trust her.

You have only succeeded in friend zoning that nigga

Titidi:
What if they were besties before boyfriend came

it very easy..if thats the case,reduce activities n time you spend with him..
Nobody is saying you should dump a bestie for a lover cos a lover may Bleep up someday but friends still remain.

Let me ask wat the need of a bestie and that of a lover?Are their roles similar in anyway?


i see ladies who have male besties atimes as people who are confuse and indecisive,who are scared of their boo or are not open.

What function can a bestie do that a boo cant?

missKiffy:
My bf is my bestie

confirm

NegeduGrace:
My bestie is a male..he ended up asking me out but I refused cos I don't love him to that length but I confided in him a lot when the going was good but now the guy just the avoid me..abeg make una advice me on what to do because this guy is dating n am not.

see one of them...You friendzoned him and he has moved on ..you are here crying..

MzPecs:
And sometimes, I still wonder why our bestie ain't always our lover!

make ur lover ur bestie today..
Many ladies are not free n open towards their lovers..some even have this fear too.

MzPecs:
You're correct tho!

Getting myself to believe they've got nothing to do with each other will only take some time!

lol..so u see..
It really hard for a guy and a girl to be just friends..along the line, feelings will set in and except dey wanna die in silence,one must ask the other out


having someone has bestie can mean you can go to any lenght,do anything with that person.
It best people make their lovers bestie.

Favolly:
Bestie kor!

That thing na scam jare

confirm talk....most case na wash.
wetin u want talk with bestie or do mk person no fit do with partner?

Male bestie..hmmm

MzPecs:
I had a male bestie back then in school, each time his gf comes in, she'll keep frowning @ me like i've got anything to do with her bf.

Buh we later became good friends when she knew I and her bf actually had nothing to do with each other!

You will do the same or even worse if you were in her shoes

Bbsharon:
We all know how bestie ish can be, as in the closseness might send wrong message to people around especially when is a guy and a lady.

My bestie is male and in our 100level days many thought we were actually dating because you always see us together. To me as long as you both set your priorities right then you are good to go but I find out some guys are not cool with it.

So guys do you feel comfortable when your girlfriend or fiancee has a guy as her bestie? If not tell us why.

Ladies you can also share your experience...

let put you in the shoe. how will u feel ??

asdfjklhaha:
Two wrongs don't make a right

gbam

make ah hear say dem comment

SailorXY:
where is the established striker then? even if plans were to be in the cooler, the transfer is not opened yet. what happens from now till then if we lose Martial & Rooney like last weekend?

lok...Fellaini and Romero will strike...im pissed mhen

funlord:


This should actually be viewed as good news! Brighton have loaned him till the END OF THE SEASON, and I don't think gaal wants to risk having only martial and rooney as our only 2 recognised strikers for the remainder of our season!

Meaning that gaal is confident of landing or has already struck a deal with at least 1 of our january transfer targets @ the moment(mane maybe?)! Wilson was never going to do much anyway so its better to let him grab some much needed 'expy on loan'! My 2 kobo..................

i hope we land a striker by January

MsAnne:
let's set d ball rolling drop ur pin n I will add u up; its for matured minds n not kids, To my shy peeps,kindly pm me... Shalom!!!

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we dont have enough striker yet Wilson is loaned to Brighton ..ohh my gawd.

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