Bbsharon:
We all know how bestie ish can be, as in the closseness might send wrong message to people around especially when is a guy and a lady.

My bestie is male and in our 100level days many thought we were actually dating because you always see us together. To me as long as you both set your priorities right then you are good to go but I find out some guys are not cool with it.

So guys do you feel comfortable when your girlfriend or fiancee has a guy as her bestie? If not tell us why.

Ladies you can also share your experience...

Beautifulemi:
My best friend is a guy and we have been friends for a very long time now. I call him my bff and my guy is aware of him. There's simply nothing in it, it all depends on the type of girl one is dating. if you are dating a flirt, then it is kinda difficult to trust her.

Odunharry:

carefully take time to go through ur first post again..
U dont just want to lose him as friend.is he ur brother?
U friend zone the nigga and he has moved on .u de here de complain.
Is he the only friend you have?leave matter for matthias

vingeophysicist:
assuming am your boyfriend wetin I go do you hexgo be you like film okponu having a guy as your bestie when your boyfriend is there.make I no catch you if not I go break your leg.

Bbsharon:


Endtime post.

NegeduGrace:
My bestie is a male..he ended up asking me out but I refused cos I don't love him to that length but I confided in him a lot when the going was good but now the guy just the avoid me..abeg make una advice me on what to do because this guy is dating n am not.

Cutehector:
My only bestie is Jesus....

ojuolu:
I have been the best friend to somebody of opposite sex for 8 years now and we have not shared a kiss. In between I got married and I still remain her best friend till date. She about getting married now and we are planning it seriously. My spouse accepted our friendship because she met us like that and her guy too. So that conclusion of yours... it is not correct

Ibelong2God:
Hmm! Endtime question!

Uncletony:
Yorubas brought cultism
Hausas, terrorism.
We dnt like cultism & terrorism!. We love business & hardwork. We are biafrans!. God bless biafra

Millz404:
Lol... She loves him.... Case closed

Titidi:

So a lady should dump her longtime(childhood) friend cos of a lover that might later breakup with her

VickyRotex:

faustinalove:
the only connection most boyfriends hav with their girfriends is s*x, nothing else..they dont gist about things together, they dont create d time for any other thing apart frm 'u visit, then we end up having sex'...so d girl prefer to get another guy that they can gist wit and that can also listen to them when they talk...the fact is that some girls r closer to their male besties than their boyfriends...let d boyfriends create more time to listen and gist with their girlfriends, they should stop making the relationship more abt sex..

These days, the number of sex a bf and a gf have during d course of their relationship is far more than some wives get frm their husbands...

Abbykem:
My bestie is a male right from jamb lessons day. We are awaiting corpers now. They also said many things about us. My ex could not Blive we are just frnds too. I know his gf nd advise him wen it's comes 2 girls matter and vice versa. We are just frnds and nothing else. I don't really like girls drama.

coha:
My bestie is a guy,he stays n abj while I in phc,we talk evryday share problems,atleast there are still pple dat hv sense.sex is nt evrything abeg.