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Education › Re: Law Student Unfairly Expulsed For Protesting Poor Infrastructure by ogawisdom(m): 9:57am On Jul 24, 2017
Jst one yr he will be in law sch n he is protesting instead of reading his books. Foolish boy.

What stops him from graduating and taking a case against law School in d future
Politics › Re: Has Abuja Become A Grazing Land? by ogawisdom(m): 9:49am On Jul 24, 2017
Their man is in aso rock so it's even stupid to ask this question
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo Is Bullying My Daughter –seyi Law by ogawisdom(m): 1:28pm On Jul 23, 2017
Wow who else noticed tiwa baby seems to be losing weight fast grin grin grin

Education › Re: Richard Ogbon: DELSU Confers Honorary Doctorate Degree On 100+Year-Old Monarch by ogawisdom(m): 1:22pm On Jul 23, 2017
edoboy33:
this guy should be killed already
see how weak he looks
am sure he is tired of living
Haba go and kill him nw angry angry angry

Old age na crime
Politics › Re: Reps To Set Minimum Age Requirement Of 35 For Presidential Aspirants by ogawisdom(m): 1:07pm On Jul 23, 2017
40 as minimum is ok even with 40yrs ve we even produced a president or even VP below 50yrs through election? So minimum age is nt d problem

Maximum age shld be 60, minimum academic qualification shld be masters degree or professional first degree like in medicine n law

We can't afford another retiree president in history

Ppl above 60 can only go to HOR or Senate where maximum age can be 75
Family › Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by ogawisdom(m): 10:39am On Jul 23, 2017
Thisnut:
typical lazy Nigerian lady. Don't go and make your money to spend wisely, be looking for someone else's to. Most Nigerian women don't really contribute financially into a marriage, always having the mind set that marriage is a career.

@op, marry a working class lady who contributes Financially into the marriage and not a lady can contributes with only sex. If sex is what you want, go get some slay queen of Instagram, if marriage is what you want, go get a working class lady.

Gone at the days when wife materials were based on how homely and how good a lady can cook. These days are all about the survival instinct. Instead of marrying a woman solely because she can cook and sex, why not take that money to a restaurant and also get some slay queen who will do a lot better in their various specialty.

Woman way no fit contribute financially, that one na wife material?
Na wife u dey find abi na woman money?
A good wife is most impt in marriage whether employed or nt. U can help her get sth doing along the line, I dnt even place emphasis on whether a woman works or nt it's for lazy dudes
Family › Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by ogawisdom(m): 10:23am On Jul 23, 2017
iamrealdeji:
my guy,my married neighbour sleeps on the mat at the corridor whenever his wife's relatives are around,he vacates the one room he lives with his wife for them. I once sent this guy to fill my gas cooker for me and he stole part of my money and threw the receipt in a tyre for me not to know the actual amount just to feed his family,you should see how this guy complains bitterly whenever he wants to buy their baby's pampers. no rest of mind for him because he borrows money to take care of his family at times if there is no money,and yet,other older married men usually say he has not seen anything yet that it would get to a time he would feel like he's just fetching water into a basket and feel like running away when they have their second child and children start school and all.
A caretaker that rented my shop to me advised me not to rush into marriage. he said he rushed into marriage and now he's in his 40's,he is struggling so hard,sold his car for him to pay his children's school fees when they entered higher institution and upkeep,one child even had to wait for another . he said the reason he's so backward is because he rushed into marriage. his salary is not bad but raising family in Nigeria requires preparing well before marriage. there is nothing like favour coming after marriage o,its pure lie and African formulated fallacy. most marriages I've seen are not like that at all,only few men become successful after marriage and its because they're on the way to success even before marriage or just lucky. married men that didnt prepare well before marriage are the ones that are feeling this recession most,I do pity them. lots of married men that didn't prepare well always do soughts of illegal stuffs even after salaries just to take care of family,send them to buy you something,they would always try to steal part of your money and tell you the wrong price,many of them have done that to me
It's good to prepare for marriage dt I agree with but man proposes and God disposes at times. It will be foolish to wait till 40yrs to get married BC you are preparing for marriage.

D story of life is different for everyone, some ppl prepared well for marriage got married at 42 yrs on a salary of 450k but 3yrs down the line got fired n moved to square one others married at 30yrs on a salary of 70k and 5yrs down the line got a job of 250k.

Life is full of ups and downs, there is time for everything n there is time to get married.
Family › Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by ogawisdom(m): 8:53pm On Jul 22, 2017
sisisioge:
Hmmm.. 50k ke? Biko no call that amount in this present times. By the time you take away your cost of doing the job that pays that, OYO becomes your case.
Dts what 50% of male civil servants between 25 n 40 yrs earn u mean they shld never consider marriage angry angry angry

On top of dt many states owe salaries
Family › Re: How Much Income Is Reasonable Before Marriage? by ogawisdom(m): 8:10pm On Jul 22, 2017
It depends on your location but anything from 50k upward is a good start n let your wife be productive too.

D impt thing is dt u ve a good wife, d money of a woman shld nt be over emphasised except for lazy dudes. Good wife whether employed or unemployed u r good to go
Investment › Re: ADIEU GHWX RIP - 10 Tactics Kyle Used To Deceive Members by ogawisdom(m): 8:07pm On Jul 22, 2017
tommysparks:
Ghwx has just posted an update on its website.
Update ko website ni
Celebrities › Re: Huddah Stylishly Flashes Her White ‘panties’ On Instagram, Disables Comments by ogawisdom(m): 8:00pm On Jul 22, 2017
Nice one White pant is going extinct with naija babes, e no easy to maintain na red n black pant dey everywhere
Education › Re: Nigerian Law School Expels A Student Few Days To His Bar Final Exams (Photo) by ogawisdom(m): 7:37pm On Jul 22, 2017
Afonja idiot grin grin grin n nw students representative disowned him. Graduate first b4 making trouble
Celebrities › Re: Erotic Yoruba Girl Causes Commotion On Instagram As She Exposed Her Boobs by ogawisdom(m): 5:43pm On Jul 22, 2017
Cheap porn star
Celebrities › Re: Investor BJ Shades Ray Hushpuppi by ogawisdom(m): 5:21pm On Jul 22, 2017
Patiently waiting for hushpuppi reply, may be an e war is loading for d weekend.

Only puppi can confirm if d guy dey buy fake or original Gucci grin grin grin

Car Talk › Re: How Economical Are V4 Cars? by ogawisdom(m): 5:03pm On Jul 22, 2017
ugoboss26:
Now that this is been discussed here, I'm going to throw my questions here, I am battling with the decision to buy either a 2006 corolla or 2006 EOD, please I need advice. I live in Abuja where there are good roads for those who might complain of the legs of the HONDA
Corolla is more rugged but Honda has better interior
Politics › Re: Presidential Candidate: Bishop Oyedepo Or Aliko Dangote (personal Opinion) by ogawisdom(m): 4:31pm On Jul 22, 2017
Both of them are bad choices, oyedepo will suck d country dry given his love for private jets
Politics › Re: El-rufai Heading Of APC Restructuring Committee Laughable - Atiku by ogawisdom(m): 3:02pm On Jul 22, 2017
The zoo republic itself is laughable

Politics › Re: Quit Notice On Igbos: Our Plans Working Perfectly Well - Arewa Youth Leader by ogawisdom(m): 2:50pm On Jul 22, 2017
Until it makes IPOB to denounce Biafra u ve nt achieved anything

Family › Re: She Told Me A Very Dark Secret, Should I Still Marry Her? by ogawisdom(m): 1:52pm On Jul 22, 2017
Nerdg:
She told me of being pregnant and later had a stillbirth at the 7months.

The background.
I met her when we were teens and have always loved her. She refused me sex and along the line, her neighbor gave me (who is her relation). She learnt about this and we had our first break up.
We both got admission into different universities and couldn't see again.
We later met again and settled with a condition that there would be no sex. This didn't go down well with me and I called it off. This repeated and there was even a time I walked her out of my house because of this issue and didn't give her tfare. My house is like 1hr drive from where she lives.
The issue:
I love this girl to the extent that anytime I thought of getting married, she will come to mind.
Now I have a good job and she's done with school. I proposed to her and she accepted it.
Is about 3 months now, she came on my birthday 3 months ago. That was all. She doesn't come always because she stays with her elder brother and can't leave house just like that.

Note, we haven't had sex till now.

About 2 weeks ago, I told her about how I got a girl pregnant and we had to abort it and that since then I haven't been myself. That it pains me to this day. We talked about it and she was sorry over it.

Yesterday, we had a very deep discussion and she revealed to me that she had a relationship at school. They were together for 4yrs. I then asked her if she had ever missed her period. She said yes. But not to this school boyfriend but another man. She wanted to keep the pregnancy but her parents refused because the guy is not a good person. The guy wanted the pregnancy but her family didn't want the guy to marry her. She finally had a stillbirth at the 7th month.

I was stunned. I know she's not a virgin, she told me but I was confused. Sex had always been our problem and I never expected that she had experienced something like this. Now she asked me that she hope she won't regret telling me this. I told her no that she won't regret but I'm stunned.

Please should I still go on with this marriage?
Nobody holy pass, this may be d least of her secrets. Jst conduct relevant fertility tests on her to ensure her womb is intact b4 u marry her or better still give her belle b4 marriage to be sure she can conceive
Properties › Re: Official Selling Plots Of Land Now Available In Enugu Urban by ogawisdom(m): 9:28pm On Jul 21, 2017
Where are d plots located n what is d installment payment like
Investment › Re: ADIEU GHWX RIP - 10 Tactics Kyle Used To Deceive Members by ogawisdom(m): 9:21pm On Jul 21, 2017
Op u r 100% correct

It's all over my ghwx telegram group with 8k members was shut down today as d admin lost hope on GHWX ie GHWX telegram hub.

Iets mourn our loses n move on

Only God will punish Kyle n his crew I lost close to 1m cry cry cry cry

See money another participant will lose ie close to 4 million

Politics › Re: 2019: MASSOB Threatens To Stop Election In South East, Kogi, Benue by ogawisdom(m): 8:52am On Jun 05, 2017
grin grin grin
Politics › Re: Orji Uzor Kalu Visits Buhari In London, Reveals When He Will Return To Nigeria by ogawisdom(m): 8:48am On Jun 05, 2017
Politics › Re: Akon Ikeme Has Confessed For Her Involvement In Dino Melaye's Tape Scandal - SR by ogawisdom(m): 8:46am On Jun 05, 2017
Babachukwu:
If at last corruption has entered in our judicial system that means there is a serious problem in this country.
There has always been monumental corruption in d judiciary, even a fool kws dt
Christianity Etc › Re: Is It Right For A Church To Be Located In An Hotel Premises? by ogawisdom(m): 2:22pm On Jun 04, 2017
mkoabiola:
I have seen about seven churches in my neighborhood,where they worship in an hotel premises.
For me,I feel it is not right for a church to be located where adulterers and fornicators have come to commit sin .

What does the bible says about d sighting or location of a place of worship.

There are better places churches can be sighted instead of d hotel.
D best for easy access to sinners
Family › Re: Why Do Women Say My Money And Refer To Husband Money As Our Money? by ogawisdom(m):
belindar:
I have been wondering for so long the reason behind these notion why our women use these phrase most especially when men are financially handicapped sometimes maybe the man lost his job or the business not moving has it used to be before. Whenever the women help in a little way, after a while you will be hearing them saying I spent my money on you, I pay the children school fees and the rest. But Men were doing it before. My question now is that why do women refer to men money and other assets has collective ownership but regard their own has singular ownership.
BC he is the provider for d entire family n she is a helper, mind u rendering help to someone is optional n nt compulsory.

A real man shld be able to take care of his household with or without d help of d wife. A married woman even if she is a bank manager was nt made to pay house rent, feed d house hold, pay school fees n other bill but she alone can decide to help if she wants. Dts d role of a man as d head of d family
Family › Re: Please How Can Someone Handle A Wife That Loves Sex So Much? by ogawisdom(m): 1:14pm On Jun 04, 2017
NairalandCS:
Guys complain of too much sex ? huh
Yes when they r nt jobless like u grin grin
Family › Re: Please How Can Someone Handle A Wife That Loves Sex So Much? by ogawisdom(m): 12:00pm On Jun 04, 2017
FromZeroToHero:
My wife loves sex so much. She likes to have it at least twice everyday. Sometimes she'll wake me up at midnight and start demanding for sex. I'm not comfortable with it. It makes me to loose sexual appetite. It's not as if i don't like sex, but i prefer it at most thrice a week. Please how do i handle her without hurting her feelings.
Get her a job

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