₦airaland Forum

The zoo republic itself is laughable

Until it makes IPOB to denounce Biafra u ve nt achieved anything

Nerdg:
She told me of being pregnant and later had a stillbirth at the 7months.

The background.
I met her when we were teens and have always loved her. She refused me sex and along the line, her neighbor gave me (who is her relation). She learnt about this and we had our first break up.
We both got admission into different universities and couldn't see again.
We later met again and settled with a condition that there would be no sex. This didn't go down well with me and I called it off. This repeated and there was even a time I walked her out of my house because of this issue and didn't give her tfare. My house is like 1hr drive from where she lives.
The issue:
I love this girl to the extent that anytime I thought of getting married, she will come to mind.
Now I have a good job and she's done with school. I proposed to her and she accepted it.
Is about 3 months now, she came on my birthday 3 months ago. That was all. She doesn't come always because she stays with her elder brother and can't leave house just like that.

Note, we haven't had sex till now.

About 2 weeks ago, I told her about how I got a girl pregnant and we had to abort it and that since then I haven't been myself. That it pains me to this day. We talked about it and she was sorry over it.

Yesterday, we had a very deep discussion and she revealed to me that she had a relationship at school. They were together for 4yrs. I then asked her if she had ever missed her period. She said yes. But not to this school boyfriend but another man. She wanted to keep the pregnancy but her parents refused because the guy is not a good person. The guy wanted the pregnancy but her family didn't want the guy to marry her. She finally had a stillbirth at the 7th month.

I was stunned. I know she's not a virgin, she told me but I was confused. Sex had always been our problem and I never expected that she had experienced something like this. Now she asked me that she hope she won't regret telling me this. I told her no that she won't regret but I'm stunned.

Please should I still go on with this marriage?

Nobody holy pass, this may be d least of her secrets. Jst conduct relevant fertility tests on her to ensure her womb is intact b4 u marry her or better still give her belle b4 marriage to be sure she can conceive

Where are d plots located n what is d installment payment like

Op u r 100% correct

It's all over my ghwx telegram group with 8k members was shut down today as d admin lost hope on GHWX ie GHWX telegram hub.

Iets mourn our loses n move on

Only God will punish Kyle n his crew I lost close to 1m

See money another participant will lose ie close to 4 million

eyesoflagos:
source: http://www.eyesoflagos.com/2017/06/former-abia-governor-kalu-reveals-when.html

Where are d pics with Buhari

Babachukwu:
If at last corruption has entered in our judicial system that means there is a serious problem in this country.

There has always been monumental corruption in d judiciary, even a fool kws dt

mkoabiola:
I have seen about seven churches in my neighborhood,where they worship in an hotel premises.
For me,I feel it is not right for a church to be located where adulterers and fornicators have come to commit sin .

What does the bible says about d sighting or location of a place of worship.

There are better places churches can be sighted instead of d hotel.

D best for easy access to sinners

belindar:
I have been wondering for so long the reason behind these notion why our women use these phrase most especially when men are financially handicapped sometimes maybe the man lost his job or the business not moving has it used to be before. Whenever the women help in a little way, after a while you will be hearing them saying I spent my money on you, I pay the children school fees and the rest. But Men were doing it before. My question now is that why do women refer to men money and other assets has collective ownership but regard their own has singular ownership.

BC he is the provider for d entire family n she is a helper, mind u rendering help to someone is optional n nt compulsory.

A real man shld be able to take care of his household with or without d help of d wife. A married woman even if she is a bank manager was nt made to pay house rent, feed d house hold, pay school fees n other bill but she alone can decide to help if she wants. Dts d role of a man as d head of d family

NairalandCS:
Guys complain of too much sex ?

Yes when they r nt jobless like u

FromZeroToHero:
My wife loves sex so much. She likes to have it at least twice everyday. Sometimes she'll wake me up at midnight and start demanding for sex. I'm not comfortable with it. It makes me to loose sexual appetite. It's not as if i don't like sex, but i prefer it at most thrice a week. Please how do i handle her without hurting her feelings.

Get her a job

nwaimostate5:
I opened this new moniker just to lay my frustrations as typical Nigeria youth who is tired of the whole system.

when I was in secondary school I was among the best in my class,is either I came first, second or third I never had any position below them.
my parents were so happy and proud of me and vow to train me up to University education even if it will cost them starving just make sure I attend University because they were poor.
After hearing this from them I became so happy and elevated (remember those feelings then that u will go to University, those feelings no be here) at that time I don't think about anything else except University, jamb,post utme , life in campus and any other thing relating to University.
I wrote my first jamb in 2009, scored above 260, then score relatevely high post utme but I was denied admission in one of the federal University in Nigeria not because I didn't meet the cut off mark but because I don't have money to runs the admission,I lost the admission that year and became so frustrated and dejected.
let Make it short, i have been writing jamb from 2009 till lastly in 2013 when I got admission to study marketing in one the state University in South East.
I,m in my final year now studying marketing just few months for me to graduate.
You may be wondering while i,m writing this,now let me tell you.
I,m writing this first because ......
1 I,m frustrated right now because after graduation I will start roaming the streets looking for job.
2 Had it been I use those time I spent in writing jamb and do business by now I would have been s millionaire by now.
3 Had it been my parents advice me to learn trade by now I would have been my own oga controlling millions.
4 I have to start afresh and enter the streets for hustling because there is no jobs out there, so why the certificate when I can read and write with secondary education.

Then, why did I spent all the years looking for certificate that I may not use tomorrow because streets pays more than salary.
I remember how I hustle during holidays to meet up the needs in school thinking after graduation good jobs are there waiting for me.
Should I said I wasted my time acquiring University education or what, somebody should answer me.
I think I regret Ever going to University.

Y have u concluded ur fate will be same with those of other graduates.

Yawns superb final worth d fuel I am burning to watch it

Juve all d way

deebrain:
You have already lost your soul with this comment. Anyone can feel the beef emanating from the post. And you never gain the world yet.


Better repent before it is too late.

Who is this e rat

frosbel2:
Are you sure a Nigerian senator wrote this article? With all the grammar mistakes and misplaced sentences? Na wah oo.

Are u sure ur president can ever spell his name?

secretsuccess:
my name is joshua a chemical engineering graduate. it is so difficult to survive as a hardworking, honest and God fearing person here in Nigeria. After my NYSC i have been struggling from place to place, looking for opurtunities. i always shuttle from lagos to portharcourt...thinking that one day it will be well. i just discovered that it will never be well..

When we were in secondary school we were told to get a good course..my parents were happy when i got chemical engineering..then in school it was get a good result..that was no problem, i got a second class upper.

Ater service it was get certified..ahh, no wahala.. i got my NEBOSH certificate..then again some said it was connection..ok, i joined lots of proffesional whatsapp groups after much work, i even had to pay for some...funny enough the so called proffesional group failed woefully.

twice i was called for a job brief..twice i was rejected..the first reason was because i am igbo the woman saw my name and her countenance changed though she dashed me 2k and told me the usual words i would get back to you..ok, fair enough. The second was in portharcourt i was rejected because
of my church..Roman catholic.. hmmm. A young man was also rejected for same reason he kept on complaining while i was just laughing..though later i begged him for #100 for my TP, he gave me sha.. he is a nice man.

ok. i had to go back to the drawing board..met some people and they said i should just do further courses..oooo! course again, ok.. no wahala. i begged my mum to sell her bike for 110k so i can add 30k and do process safety and loss prevention..she accepted.. i sold the bike and did the course.. yet, no interview call. i said ok let me visit companies and give them the cv..my brother no show.

i sat still again..and then reviewed my cv..paid 2k for push CV to review the cv..still no luck.. downloaded CV review app used it time and time again. same results.. no calls.

the only thing i get everyday is insults from my Father and some relatives of how lazy and weak i am...this is not fair life itself is not fair..is it not better to die? after working hard in school and after school for about 8-10 years no result for it..

People will always say dont be tired but my brother i don tire... i know many of us have same story, but for me the only thing i can do to make the pain easy.. is write..

Nigeria is not worth it.. did i tell you i briefly went into business?.. but how can you do well in business without long time experience.. it is always difficult..well, the pressure is much and i see that breaking point is close... only God knows Tomorrow.

These days the only thing that comes to my mind is suicide..i have downloaded lots of books to see if i can find a solution.. but none yet.. please if you have good advice for me i am willing to hear it.

thanks
E Joshua

D only problem is dt u are functioning with an outdated concept ie go to sch, get good grades n get a good job dt no longer works.

Think entrepreneurship n skill acquisition

youngest85:
What if you die b4 d 9mnth, any provisión to get back my Money?

agreement shld ve a clause to take care of dt

sainteve4r:
I Dont know if these will work but I'm tired of not giving it a try. I messed up financially last year and fell down flat without any back up, thanks to my wife a strong woman even though her take home pay just raised to 12k now for her ruggedness.
I'm working now, my income is just times 2 of her own and its very stable but my mess that we are trying to clean up coupled with sick Mum and younger ones being the 1st son is what is making me to seek for help.

THE HELP I SEEK FOR

I need someone that can get me a good and Nigerian used golf car price not more than 400k in ur name with interest not more than 15percent that I can use for taxi at my spare times of the week to augment my income. with good agreement that the car becomes mine after full payment within 9month.

MY PAY BACK PLANS

25k monthly payment for the 1st 4 month.
150k for the 5th month as I have a stable money to get by October for that purpose and I can show you evidence for that.
I return back to 25k monthly payment for the 6th, 7th and 8th month while all balance will be paid off at the 9th month by Gods grace. I have evidence too to show you the payment plan is solid God sparing our lives.

we can discuss on collaterals if d little I have can with post dated signed check book to effect all payment as at when due.

pls help a brother trying to survive. u can contact me on 09078769957 for more discussion. Thanks

Nobody does monthly repayment it's mostly weekly pay and minimum of 12k weekly excluding sun ie 2k daily

uzoclinton:
so long as human sacrifice no go dey involved... yes... the few ones I don meet dey always demand for fresh human skull wey dey still drip with blood

Lol dnt go dt way bro, earn ur money legitimately n ve peace of mind

uzoclinton:
then I need to see the same baba

U get d mind soo

uzoclinton:
I wonder wat he does for a living... the real job and not the one he's using as a front

He is a ritualist in occultic world

Vanity upon vanity all is vanity

What shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul

eyinjuege:
It's a pity the trust is broken.
Many people lie to their would be spouses, from age, wages, family status, religion, educational bckgrd, children from previous relationships, Just name it.

Well, they've done the traditional already. They should try and start afresh. Are there any virtues in the woman? What did he see in her? Or was it the law degree, and the grade that attracted him?.

Hope they can build the trust again.

From all indications d uk law degree mattered most to d man, may be d man na gold digger self

Forget those abusive words used by some ajekpaco parents make their children hard nut to crack in d real world.

Life is nt a bed of roses, one shld be able to keep his head up irrespective of d storm u face

obitee69:
Good day guys, my brother just confided in me that his wife to be lied to him. She told him she studied law from a UK uni with 2.2 as her grade. She never wanted to go to law school and my cousin has since been encouraging her.

Now he just stumbled on her certificate which says she studied Sociology and graduated with a pass!!

Now hes depressed. Hes white is in 2months time and he has already done trad. Pls what should he do!!

This is funny ooo sociology pass degree vs 2.2 uk law degree

My only problem is dt she lied n waited to get bursted nt her degree. If she confessed herself it would ve been easier to forgive.

This is jst one of alot of things she may ve lied abt n dts a major concern.

It's difficult to trust a liar, it will be difficult to continue if na me.

Modified here is a tip for young men

Once u start dating insist on getting ur babes cv n credentials via telling her u want to use it to hustle for job for her dt way u kw everything frm day one to avoid stories like this dnt rely on what she told u alone. Most HND babes dey claim degree holder nw ooo dnt be scammed by any lady shine ur eyes

Aminat508:
Source : http://www.amiloaded.com/2017/06/breaking-news-again-osun-doctors-stage.html

All na change very few Govt workers receive full salary these days, 50% low sha but ppl get 60/70% usually

chukel:
why this mentality naa. Don't mislead this guy. If there are people who abuse cars, civil servants rank among the top. Mileage shouldn't matter when looking at a naija used car. And do you know what a 200,000 km mileage means? That's about 124,000 miles for a 16-18yr old car? Let's mind the kind of advice we give.

What nonsense are u talking leave my advice n give ur own. I have my reasons for saying what I said. Did u even see d part where I said well maintained, next time read properly b4 jumping to comment.

U want him to get a lemon used by some hustler whose engine n transmission may ve been nearly dead.

Bottomline is dt he shld get a professional mechanic to ascertain d true condition of any naija used car engine n transmission b4 he pays for any even if it was used by a pastor or priest.