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One quite understands your emotional attachment to your son but you need to stay alive to show him LOVE and as well provide fir him.

You are loosing your mental health slowly and wouldn't realise with it gets to a crescendo. Make up your mind a grant her a divorce as your wife feels trapped by you and her parents; set her free to gain your mental health back.

I wouldn't want to say she would sooner than later get you killed if you choose to not do the needful by letting her go. Its a difficult decision but its necessary.

May God Almighty help you to discern.



Don't mind my English pls

Anytime we had an argument with my wife, she utter some words that I can't even tell that to my enemy...."I am tired of the marriage", "I am always praying for u to die" " I always pray something terrible should happen to you" and so on....

I am Muslim, we are married three years ago and blessed with one child, I can't stay for a good one week in my house peacefully without having misunderstanding with her......i am depressed, worried, always thinking.....[/quote]

Rev. Fr. Make the Deputy Jesus....
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PeaceJoyLove:
I find this funny. How do you explain paying a 22-years old monthly stipend or what? Lol. The girl needs to bull crap him if he doesnt want her in his life. Eto'o will regret it later. It's the mom who is a gold digger. Just using the girl ...putting her in the middle of the battle when the useless mother should try to give her a father - daughter relationship, she decided to chase monthly payment. Very irresponsible woman. I want to read on the ground the court asked him to start paying. For a 22-years old? It's why Eto'o is not bothered. He didnt even attend any of the court proceedings. I'm sure he has no property there. Or he will simply appeal and win. But if the girl is his daughter, he should do the right thing. Taking care of her and even lavishing $5,000 monthly on her is not too much. That woman ...the mom is the useless thing.

It would be unfair ro the Lady in question as we don't know how much efforts she could have put in trying to reach Eto'o all these years before heading to the court. Her actions may not have been solely about the money and of course marriage is out of it. Raising a child alone and with no input from the "other" partner isn't so easy;

I wouldn't advice you allow her terminate the pregnancy for God's sake you are 33, ever thought of retirement? About marriage, if you know she compliments you and you indeed have genuine feelings for her settle down with her; I do not see the big deal with white weddings as the MOST important wedding is that conducted according to TRADITIONAL NATIVE LAWS AND CUSTOMS. Have a heart to heart talk with her and move to your parents or older siblings(who can join you break the news and your decision to your parents).
All the best.

Truth remains that whatever steps he takes, people would still talk, better he chooses to be happy. If he has discussed with his sister inlaw and they have both sought the consent of the family; he is very free to marry her. Death has put an end to his marriage to her sister and as such no qualms.

Elpipitaaa:
how many King does Edo have self?

The title ESAMA isn't a kingship title. Esama is a chieftaincy title conferred on Chief Gabriel Igbinedion. He owns NO kingdom as his allegiance is pledged to the the throne of the reverred Oba of Benin (Oba gha tokpe e) currently occupied by HRM Oba Ewuare II. Hence his annual homage visit at every Igue festival; as would hold in this month of December.

SOLD! SOLD!! SOLD!!!
Its a neatly maintained car.
Only need to fix the car AC system(compressor replacement). Asides that, its a buy and drive car used by your truly.
Price: 1.5million (slightly negotiable

A close family friend had same issues as this in the US; and his approach was simple. Bro, use her absence to install CCTV cameras within your home; you'd need all the evidences in court to sail through bearing in mind that in the event of marriage dissolution she'd want to be given custody of your children. She has promised to ruin you but learn to fight back (with civility and tactics) because this isn't the time to be depressed. I feel for but you'dscale through. BE STRONG AND KEEP A CLEAR MIND; you'd need it.

Verify your facts before bringing unverified stories to nairaland to avoid being hit by litigation that world eventually bring you down. Quoting Sahara reporters doesn't make your story valid. Sahara Reporters have since lost credibility. Get your facts straight and stop peddling lies; those personnel are being self isolated before been mobilized to the field for crew change.

oshiokpu:
This guy that is very corrupt. This guy is one of the reasons why Delta State is where we are at the moment

U don't just spur nonsense from your mouth without verifiable facts. Thank God the man is in the opposition party in his state; wondered why Okowa has not come for him yet?

hisexcellency34:
Cruel from the bleaching senator. He is probably reffering to Dino Melaye. and him that read all the books couldn't secure a return to Senate

First of all, Senator Ben Bruce isn't returning to the Senate not because he did not perform his duties but simply because he has to respect the rotational structure in his Senatorial zone. Secondly, his is not bleached; his mother is CAUCASIAN(OYIBO). Simply put you are less informed and don't come running your mouth on SM like a child.

GraGra247:
As far as the man is taking care of her and her children 100%, don't say anything that will break their home.


But if you want to tell her, do it anonymously by providing her all the info using text messages and another phone number that can't be traced to you.

DON'T EVER SNITCH on your Boss.... whether anonymously or not! It would be in your interest to confide in your Boss as regards to what his wife is up to. It's not your responsibility to snitch on your Boss. Apply wisdom!

davillian:
There are Tibetan mastiff in Nigeria no Jones yourself

Tell OP to go ask of Mr. Igbo Koko; he has giant mastiffs....

sarahade:
Of course I smell my pant and my vagina why won't I.
In fact I wear only white pant so I can notice any change in color of my discharge.

Most girls just don't understand how to take care of the vagina I don't use anything except soap and water and I'm good.

And you think using soap is ideal? Use more of water with little or no soap; soap alters the ph balance of the vagina and this increases the chances of infections and vagina smell.

ChiefAzubuike1:
This is a complete waste of money and resources. That money he wasted on that wagon would have been used fr better things like giving to the poor, giving to the less privileged on social media, orphanagess, street beggers etc. Why waste millions of naira on a woman when you can just get her a Toyota pencil and move on with your life.

Poverty speaking......

What she is carrying is the MONSTRANCE and not the Holy Eucharist. Only an ordained Roman Catholic Priest can turn bread and wine into the body and blood of Christ during consecration of the Host.
These are pure razzmatazz copycats.....

I wish I could talk to you privately. Mastubarting had nothing to do with your experience; fact is that your body lacks a very vital mineral going by all the symptoms you stated in your post. It's affordable and can be bought from any registered pharmacy.

You have given room to a beast to be born by your "wife's" attitude. You ought to have tackled this issue before talking of marrying her; it didn't just start. Would advice you put your feet to the ground before the church wedding to put to her "stupidity" in check or you live your marriage to her in misery. She's wicked and callous. Think with your head and be a man. All the best

This car is lovely! For its specs(European) and the price is fair considering its neatness.

Why do we have this annoying mentality for destruction... Did it ever occur to the morons who set that vehicle ablaze that it could have been snatched from an innocent person? Our Mumu for dis country baffles me atimes.

Please go through thread I sent an enquiry. Awaiting your reply. Thanks.

Hi Hassan, please give me what it would cost to get each of these (to choose from) to Warri:
2003 Mercedes ML320(European specs), 2005 Toyota RAV4 L and 2005 Toyota Corolla. Thanks.