Romance › Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Ogegod87: 10:40am On Nov 26, 2019 |
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Celebrities › Re: Surgery: "My Body Is Swollen. I Am Bleeding" - Bobrisky Shares Bloody Photo by Ogegod87: 9:01am On Nov 26, 2019 |
I hope you come out alive.
God please give this young man a another chance to realize how stupid and very foolish he has been so that he can give his life to you completely. |
Romance › Re: I Had Sex With My Fiance's Friend, Please Help! by Ogegod87: 12:46pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
Alexun: I'm just wondering...are you sure the sex only happened once or you just painted the story to reduce your mess up?
Anyways, this is my own humble submission! Either way, the truth will come out - sooner or in the nearest future. During this period, you may complicate your health condition by constant harbouring of the fear of the unknown.
But, your major worry shouldn't be about "when" your dirty secret shall be revealed. Your major headache now should be "HOW" it will surface.
So I will admonish you to clean up your mess by yourself. Your priority should be how to have peace in your heart rather than trying to cover up your shame. Tell your fiance EVERYTHING before picking the guy's call. Let him know your present dilemma and your sincere reason for not wanting to pick up his call. Let him break up with you if he is unreasonable enough, but by then, you would be able to walk with your head high up. Your bf (or ex bf depending on how it goes) will respect you and his friend also will be amazed at your courage.
I wish you the best in your relationship!!!  |
Romance › Re: I Had Sex With My Fiance's Friend, Please Help! by Ogegod87: 12:45pm On Nov 25, 2019 |
midnighter: I was seriously expecting to see "click here to read more" at the end of the post, but its actually real 
Sister sorry oh, the thing is that you dont know what the friend will do Until you pick his call and see what he wants to tell you. Maybe he wants to have an agreement with you too.
Having said that, I think you would still need to come clean to your fiance at some point so that you dont start the marriage on the wrong foot and anyway, its not like you cheated on him. Are you sure he would really cancel the wedding over this?
Chai! What a horrible coincidence, sorry. If i were the OP, i will tell my fiance straight up. |
Romance › Re: My Sister Is About To Marry An Osu Man, About To Commit A Serious Taboo by Ogegod87: 9:52am On Nov 25, 2019 |
Heartbender: Take down this iniquitous post. You are boldly worried about an illegality. If the authorities see this your family can get into big trouble. Take it down before a criminal prosecution begin against your family OP, take this advice serious. Osu caste system has been abolished very recently. Don't get your family into trouble. Your sister has found love, you should pray, encourage and support her. Bleep OSU. E nor help anybody. |
Family › Re: I Think My Husband Scammed Me by Ogegod87: 4:14pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
My heart goes out to you OP. I'm sorry about what you have gone through and especially what you are still going through. From your write up, i perceive you to be a strong resilient woman. Your husband is insecure and probably fears that you might be more successful than him.
It's time to move on with your life and of course your kids. A lot of right thinking persons have already advised that you try the Canadian visa once more. Keep your plans to yourself. Hopefully they give you and kids visa, quietly move to Canada and start all over, this time with your kids.
God be with you all the way through. |
Family › Re: I Think My Husband Scammed Me by Ogegod87: 4:06pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
egwekwe: This is your side of the story.. If we ask your husband I'm sure he'll as his as well .
But as married couple, you're meant to be honest with yourselves.
He should have told you he's going to UK. There's no excuse for that but then he might be struggling financially and not able to fund your travelling . Some african man feels egoistic about this type of issue.
Anytime he's back in Nigeria, tell him how you feel.. Tell him you're completely fed up and depressed.
His reaction should answer you. This is the funniest comment i have read on NL so far. You mean she should WAIT for her husband to come back and then start explaining her feelings to him? This your comment no be advice at all o. No offense meant. The husbandman has moved on, she should do the same. QED |
Family › Re: I Think My Husband Scammed Me by Ogegod87: 3:39pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
[quote author=FrLukas post=84268022]Would it kill the man if he had explained that to his wife?
He has a responsibility to the family he started. He can't just up and disappear from their lives like they never existed in the first place.
It is a different thing if he and his wife had agreed that he would go first. Why the deception?[/quot
Thank you! |
Family › Re: I Think My Husband Scammed Me by Ogegod87: 3:30pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
extremelygolden: Hmmm. Please try the Canadian stuff again, for you and the children. When he hears you have immigrated, he'll try to contact you. God bless you for this comment. You took words from me. Madam don't sit down and wait for him. Hopefully they will grant you and your kids visa. Forget about that man for now. And while you are at it, don't allow him or anyone get wind of your plans. Do it with God and relocate to Canada. I hate rubbish! |
Romance › Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Ogegod87: 10:17am On Nov 19, 2019 |
donchrisville: Dude its quite a difficult scenario though. But i tell you this....in marriage trust comes first before love. you see this love shacking you guys now, give it 2 or 3 yrs in the marriage it fizzles and you guys are back to reality. What keeps a marriage is that friendship loyalty and trust. Trust is the basis of marriage though. If you would always weigh everything a partner tells you out of distrust, then you both are not fit to be in a relationship, talk more of marriage.\ Dude you wont be happy if you end up living that life. Theres no joy in always investigating anything your loved one tells you.
I feel maybe you can put her to a test of your own again, and check if she passes it without lying. Maybe she's changed or maybe she's not. So put it to test
Bro as for the abortion, just forget that one, Its a mistake without a doubt more than 60% ladies have gone through it. Either operation or drug. If you've taken postinor before, you've committed abortion. So just move on with that...don't judge her with regards to that |
Romance › Re: Nairalander (Humbleservant) Weds His Beautiful Wife by Ogegod87: 10:08am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Happy married life humbleservant
Your wife is very beautiful. |
Celebrities › Re: Is Lilian Esoro Pregnant? (Photo) by Ogegod87: 10:03am On Nov 15, 2019 |
She is soooooo pregnant.
Nonetheless, i love this woman. |
Health › Re: What Is This New Sickness In Town That Causes Severe Itching by Ogegod87: 10:19am On Nov 13, 2019 |
Rockyrascal: am sure it's scabies. Stop by at any credible pharmacy store and buy 1 sachet of bishan ampiclus, it will heal before a week. Really? Guy, really? |
Events › Re: UNN Lecturer Constructed Wedding Invitation Card Using B.sc Project Format by Ogegod87: 4:33pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
yazga:

Of the 20 AIRPORTS in Nigeria, 12 are INTERNATIONAL 8 are DOMESTIC The NORTH has 8 Airports designated as "International" by FAAN, The rest of Nigeria has 4 INTERNATIONAL airports. South-South 1 South East 1 South West 2 7 of the 8 Northern International airports handled less than 2,700 flights since 2016 according to FAAN figures. Calabar is NOT designated as an "International" airport operation wise. Enugu, till date, is still not functional. The injustice in Nigeria is obvious to even the blind.
The implication of this is that these so-called ghost international airports get funds and attention like an International hub though nothing practically goes on there. How can Katsina, Yola, Maiduguri and Sokoto be designated international status for God's sake!
Who exactly is flying out of Nigeria from these places? Please, lets peacefully split along regional lines before we choke to death on sadness. LOL @ bolded. Sad truth though. |
Food › Re: Fisayo Soyombo Buys Nigerian Rice, Cries Out (Photos) by Ogegod87: 4:00pm On Nov 06, 2019 |
Which Nigerian local rice is the best please? |
Politics › Re: Army Goes For Made In Nigeria Technogas Cylinders(photos) by Ogegod87: 11:35am On Nov 06, 2019 |
Good one but i hope we can trust these cylinders? |
Education › Re: Should I Apply For Medicine Considering My Age? by Ogegod87: 10:31am On Nov 02, 2019 |
post=83674134: @ 25, you are still very young to study medicine in school.
We went to school many years ago with a 39 year old man what was in 100 Level studying medicine.
He his doing very very well now as a full time medical Doctor.
Chase your dream.
If you can dream it, you can achieve it.
All the very best for the future. |
Education › Re: Should I Apply For Medicine Considering My Age? by Ogegod87: 10:26am On Nov 02, 2019 |
iammo:

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go to philipines and study medcine(its cheaper and faster), then strugule and smugle your self to america where your services are needed , the honest truth is doctors to patient ratio statistics shows that no matter how old a doctor is, he would still get a job
Plus, Adults learn better in universities than teenagers, especially when you are paying the tuition from your own pocket, you would want to enjoy all the value of your money in a classes Thanks for this advice. This sort of applies to me. Been thinking of going back to school but by passion is nursing. |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu Replies Justice Binta Nyako Suggesting Prison To Be Safest For Him by Ogegod87: 4:59pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
Angelfrost: A very huge joke indeed... As I have said time and time again, the judiciary is dead and buried!!! As in, a long long time ago. Messed up judicial system. Imagine this sort of statement coming from a judge? Indeed there was a country. SMH |
Sports › Re: Eto'o: I'm The Best African Player In History by Ogegod87: 4:44pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
OfeAchi: Is you better than Chukueze?
The greatest so far... 1. CR7===The one and only GOAT. Greater than Pele and Maradona 2. Mo Salah===He is greater than Weah and Eto'o 3. Pele & Maradona 5. Chukueze 6. Eto 7. Weah 8. Then that short engine from Barcelona===Messi the SHEEP CR7 is NOT African Maradona is NOT African Messi too is NOT African Damn! Eto'o has said his piece. Y'all be arguing with your forefathers. |
Romance › Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by Ogegod87: 10:16am On Oct 31, 2019 |
OP, if you intend to marry her, then accompany her to meet her mum. Let her introduce you to her as her fiance. Get to know her (be a son, call her mum, pay her visits occasionally, win her over), and then who knows, she (her mum) may end up telling you what happened exactly. But i advice you, don't rush things and don't be too forward o, because she has to trust you enough to be able to tell you anything and you have to be very patient too.
She has told you what she knows already, don't pester her any further. She didn't grow up with her mum and definitely not close to her reason she is finding it very difficult to ask her what went down with her dad.
Good luck. |
Celebrities › Re: Kechi Okwuchi 30th Birthday Hosted By Cubana Chief Priest. Naira Marley Spotted by Ogegod87: 9:44am On Oct 31, 2019 |
FatherBona: Happy Birthday to a fighter, a survivor That is exactly what i call her, A SURVIVOR! HBD to her. |
Romance › Re: Fatima Timbo: Dwarf And Her Disabled Friend Show Their Dance Moves by Ogegod87: 9:34am On Oct 31, 2019 |
RoyalBlu: Everyone deserves a shot of happiness, regardless. I swear. Her friend is beautiful! |
Sports › Re: What's Your Most Heart Breaking Moment In Football? by Ogegod87: 3:29pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Kanye West 'Jesus Is King' Is Packed With Bible Verses & Praises To God by Ogegod87: 12:25pm On Oct 26, 2019 |
post=83470384: THE CHURCH IS MARCHING ON AND THE GATES OF HELL CANNOT PREVAIL.
HOW GREAT IS OUR GOD!
Sing along with us......... Very well said. It is written. |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Frustrating My Life by Ogegod87: 11:39am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Your story is one sided.
What did you do to her, OP? She didn't just wake up one morning and became aggressive and violent. You must have done something to her to warrant all the fighting. |
Celebrities › Re: Paul And Jude Okoye Pose With Their Wives At An Event by Ogegod87: 10:07am On Oct 22, 2019 |
jom28gy: so both two had married? I thought that is only one,so which one is which among them? and can't they come back together again? This is not Peter and Paul. This is Paul (one of the twin) and Jude (Ngees) their elder brother. |
Travel › Re: Tanker Falls, Explodes At Omagba Phase 2 Onitsha by Ogegod87: 11:25am On Oct 18, 2019 |
tamonokare: The thing is beginning to look like a terror attack. |
Crime › Re: Delta: Wife Dumps Charm In Front Of Shop Of Lady Who Snatched Her Abroad Husband by Ogegod87: 10:31am On Oct 16, 2019 |
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. It is written. |
Sports › Re: Wenger: Hazard Isn't Man To Replace Ronaldo, He Won't Score 50 Goals A Season by Ogegod87: 11:41am On Oct 12, 2019 |
You are not his God, Wenger. This is football you are talking about, anything can happen. I believe Hazard can do it. Someone up there asked how many heads Ronaldo has?
I love Ronaldo I love Hazard |