₦airaland Forum

one would think it's only in Nigeria grasses grow along waterways and to cut/clear them you need to use cutlasses and manual labour...I weep for this country...and worst of all...he is trying to make us believe what he did is legitimate....why do these people assume Nigerians are stupid...

someone should advice him to change that name...JJC Skillz doesn't look like good news.

wonukwuru:
I am adult married to a lady of 35years. We have been married since 2007. God has blessed us with 3 wonderful children( 2 boys and 1 girl). Before we got married, i agreed with my wife that i only want to have 2 kids ( I wouldnt mind if they just boys or girls. That means, Im not particular of the sex of the kids). My wife is a B.sc Accounting graduate, while myself, I am a Chartered Accountant, with a well paid job. My wife had a 3rd class degree. On several occassions, i have told her to go back to school for Post Graduate Diploma (PGD) in order to upgrade, but she plainly told me that she cannot go back to school again. When i asked her why, she told me that her brain cannot withstand any academic stree again. I also suggested to her, since you studied accounting in the university, why not enroll for ICAN program? When i said that to her, she told me that she could not go for PGD, is it ICAN that she can do? I have been thinking, what will i do for her to be like others.

Luckly, was transferred to Benin. I went with my family to Benin. We stayed over 4years in Benin. While we were in Benin, I told my wife to go and enroll for a 6months diploma programm in computer (because she is not computer literate). I paid over N110,000 for the 6months programme. My wife only went for the programme for 1month and stopped. She refused to complete the program. When I asked her, she told me that she will go back after she had "put to bed"( Then she was pregnant). Guys, its over two years now and the baby is even in pre-nursery school, yet my wife has not reminded me of going back to complete the programme.

Last year, she asked me to open a store for her, that she want to go into trading. When I asked her the nature of the business, she said, she wants to deal on selling rice, beans, yams, groundnut oil, etc. I now suggested that it will not be a problem, but she has to look for somebody who is already in the business so as to understudy the person for atleast 1month. She refused, saying that without her understudying anybody, that she can still make it. I told her that my reason of suggesting to her to understudy somebody was that, i wanted her to be selling in wholesale. My plan was to give like N1.5million. I told her, i cannot just release N1.5million to her for a business that she did not learn. I told her that N1.5million is not a small money. Brethren, that was why up til now, i have not opened the business for her.

My children's school fees is over N650,00 per term for the 3 kids. I provide for feeding. My wife does not want to do anything as to assist me in the family. I give her money for her hair, cream, bathing soap, panties and clothing. Im really getting tired. My salary does not carry the family again because of too much expenses.

Another problem now is, my wife's dressing is nothing to write home about. She dresses as if she is in her late 60s. I have complained to her on several occasion that i dont like the way she dresses, but each time i bring up the issue, she will get angry. People around, have meeting my sisters to tell them that my wife does not dress well as somebody that has gone to the university. Even in my house, my wife only tires wrapper. Nothing in her again attracts me to her. Infact, for the past 3 months, i have not slept with her. I sleep in the parlour while she sleeps in the bed room.

Else, i forget, my wife delibrately "took in" again since July last year. This is after we agreed that the 3 kids that we already have is enough. Her method is, each time i remind her of what to do as to be assisting me in the family, she will delibrately "take in".

My wife, went to the university but she cannot speak simple and correct english. She cannot write application letter. She cannot teach my kids who are in primary 2 and 5 respectively. I pay a lesson teacher N30,000 monthly for my kids but my wife is at home doing nothing. Since we got married, my wife has not sent me text message on her phone more than 3times. The ones that she sent, my brothers, there are lots of gramatical blunders. When i confronted her with the text message, she could not say anything. I was checking for some documents in my room last week, and i came across an application that my wife wrote to submit to a private school where she wants to teach. When i saw the letter, believe me, my brothers, one of my kids that is in primary 5 cannot write such rubbish.

What i thought she was before i married her, is not what she is. I cannot take her out for an occassion because she may embarrase me by her conduct in the public. I need a divorce but the problem now is, i did i court wedding with her. What should i do? Im confused.

wait first..who did you think she is the first place...apparently,you married her for the wrong reasons...look bro..don't divorce. .if you still love her..call her and talk to her...tell her everything you have written here...infact...tell her how disappointed you are and make her understand you are willing to make it work between you both if she also ready to put in effort..God bless your marriage bro..

what he feels is an advantage to Nigeria and worthy of emulation is actually our greatest Achille's heel...

comradespade:

he died but his manhood lives on

nailed it bro..

is it unravel why she can't type in normal English or unravel why she had to sound so confusing?.

well...she isn't the kind of girl who just comes around to watch movie or go for lunch....even if the guy had good intentions,his reaction says other wise...

rdouc:
It all started like a crush when I was like 12 years old, but now am 27, we attended the same church back then and till now, did some activities together, I thought it was just some passing feeling, then I got into the university, met some guys (though never dated them, just friends) still the feeling won't go away, I some times pray to God about it to remove the intense feeling (lol, funny but it's that serious)when ever his face flashes on my mind. At times I avoided him totally, I don't even call him, still the feeling persisted. Then Him on his part, showed some signs of care but later it went dead till date. Then he got a job and relocated. But each time he comes around to visit his family and attends church, and I get to see him hmmm I battle the feeling afresh in an intense phase, it has even affected me dating other guys, it's like a part of me is locked out, hanging and waiting for him to come around and boldly say the magic words or at least ask me out. Note: we aren't that close at all, just hi hi, we don't even gist deep, so I don't know a thing about him, but what I don't get is why it's taking so long to get over him and move on. I don't wanna appear cheap by poping the questions first, it will kill me more if he says he isn't feeling same way or that he has some one else.
Pls what should I do?

felt the same way exactly for someone...I couldn't feel anything for anyone else except her...we went to the same school and lived in d same area...however,we spoke on the phone, exchanged texts and all that..when I finally manned up to tell her after about 3 years of gathering momentum,she didn't say yes or no,she only said I had other things to think/worry about but I still kept on hoping she would finally come around..six years later she got married and here I am with no other option than to move on and find my own 'The one'...if a man likes you and wants to be with you...he will...I mean 15 years and he still doesn't notice you..move on...he is having a good life....you should have a good life urself....I know it's tough but you have to move on....however...here is a candid advice...its a risk though...someone once said...'at the end of ur life,you don't regret the things you did as much as the things you didn't do'...look for a way to meet up with him and let him know ,how you feel...it will hurt if he doesn't feel that way but at least you will know you tried...don't be too elaborate or say many words...just be a lady and express yourself in few words.....he will come around if he will,if he doesn't,move on...at 27..you shouldnt be scared of disappointments....

all the best.

UjSizzle:
Looking for cheap likes?


Take a look at those viewing this thread. It says there are more males than females here.

cool dp..

AutoJoshNG:
Certain gadgets are expected to be carried in every vehicle at all times to meet the requirements of the law. These include:

1. Warning triangle (c-caution)
2. Fire extinguisher
3. Jack
4. Spare tyre
5. First Aid kit
6. Wheel spanner
7. Water
8. Hydraulic
9. Transmission fluid
10. Torch light
11. Spare fan belt

https://autojosh.com/vehicle-checklist/

what about vehicle documents and parriculars.

kele wu Uwa nmedi....tufiakwa..

AntiWailer:
I read it.

What u explained only corroborate the fact that the justice system is sick.

obviously....i wasn't disputing ur assertion.

investnow2013:
That's is not the main entrance!!!.... The main entrance can contain 2 cars side by side!!!

ok..thank you for the correction.

he has tried...believe me,he has...but what kind of hospital or medical hub is this without a large entrance...the entrance is like entrance to a chemist shop...except he plans on having a canopy to salvage the problem a little...that little entrance is the biggest architectural failure of that building...and for what it's worth...its not a skyscraper..

the projects to be commissioned weren't done by the state government but the Nigerian Airforce...they should stop looking for a way to make state governors relevant..

AntiWailer:
50,000 bail for attempted murder ?

our justice system is sick

maybe you didn't read properly...they didn't call it attempted murder...the id.iots called it assault...a slap is an assault,a punch is an aggravated assault...a push leading to a fall from a storey high is attempted murder...but the mumus didn't see it dat way...I weep for our judicial system...

rokiatu:
The kinda man ever woman want.

Not just because he got her a car but he obviously listen and pay attention to his woman.

heya....obviously you want something like this so much that you didn't mind ur grammar....this is ur first gbagaun post I have ever come across.

I think nairaland seun should add a caution like this...'if you must drink/smoke/sniff/get high by any means,..don't post and if you must post..don't get high..'..

what kind of post is this?..

so you didn't boil it...just went ahead to cut and fry it.....I can see ur cooking skills..

abeg...Her shakara is too much...what is her problem sef...this guy just took to social media to shower praises on her...who knows what might be going on in the background....social media will finally break this marriage up.

The best thing for us to do in this country is to stop copying the west hoping it will work here....this public procurement act is just another of those things that won't work...not that the problem is the bill itself...but thinking that a bill will drive our politicians and public office holders to become honest in the sale/acquisition of properties or make them fair and transparent in their award/concession of government contracts...huge lie...abeg,lets talk about what we can do...I ain't a Buhari fan..but abeg..its not his fault...even if the bill is passed into law...we all know why it won't work...you will only end up adding a huge load to the existing work load of the judiciary...I am not happy about it...but at this point in our history...its not we what we should be running after.

kilode100:
Mechionu biko. Wetin concern culture and Religion inside fucking matters? How is it even acceptable for a boss to buy a car for the wife of his aide? I will tell you the answer.


The wife is probably a housewife, and might not explain how she came about the car and Ifeanyi Uba with his big head came up with this plan. And you being gullible ran with the news that this car gift has sex written over it

well. ..i dont know what u have been through or experienced...but shut up..

please who knows anybody in EFCC or Julius berger....i need to hustle for contract in this their ongoing construction....their head office construction is really fine...you can see it from federal staff hospital jabi airport road...but I want to partake in this 6bn..anyone who knows how to hook me up with EFCC contract should tell me oh or better still PM me....

she isn't an officer...if u don't know her rank then I can't agree she is the prettiest....her bleaching is like climate change sef...

AutoJoshNG:
Read through these various driving speeds and their associated hymns..

And tell us which of the 9 driving categories you belong..

1. 60km/ph - It is well with my soul.
2. 80km/ph - God will take care of me.
3. 100km/ph - Guide me o'thou oh great redeemer.
4. 120km/ph - Nearer my God to thee.
5. 140km/ph - This world is not my home.
6. 160km/ph - Lord I am coming home.
7. 180km/ph- Jerusalem t'Orun (Jerusalem On High).
8. 200km/ph- Ao a pade leti odo (We will meet by the riverside)
9. 220km/ph- Ija dopin Ogun ti tan (The strife is over, the battle done)

Drive Responsibly during this festive period. It's going to be well with us. Amen.

https://autojosh.com/9-driving-categories/

3 and 4...if the road permits..
5 and 6...

Palatable or palatial

IYANGBALI:
na my head catch you now,we tin you dey find for my dp inside church?you dey look for free toto abi?

my mistake .... had I read ur signature, I won't have gone ahead to check ur profile...

she is ur sister-in-law...under normal circumstances...its very fine...but in ur case...maybe u've been nursing evil ideas somewhere somehow..

IYANGBALI:
so what year do you want it to be?

madam alakoba...I opened ur profile in church during preaching and ur dp nearly made jump out of my seat...TF is going on there...

see what weed has caused....which kind lie lie news come be this one..