Glistinin:
30k as a lawyer?

I am not a lawyer but working at front desk

franchasng:
It is not entirely true.



I am a private employer myself but I can boldly tell you that my staffs are one of the happiest employees in the world. Not that I pay them a lot of salary per se, but I give them the freedom to live their life, work happily and enjoy whatever role they are assigned to. I am sure most of my employees are happier at work than maybe at their various homes cos I make my workplace very comfortable for them to work and feel happy like its their organization.



Some that came as SSCE holders are now graduates via part time study. I made that possible by granting any of them that gets admission some days off to attend to their study needs.


I do this because I was once a broke, depressed graduate who didn't have any better hope for tomorrow. I suffered after NYSC. Even though I had the option of falling back to my family members, I decided not to, I made the decision to battle life out on my own. It wasn't easy, it wasn't funny but at the end, I pulled through and today, I bless God for His mercies and unmerited favours.



So one of the ways I appreciate God for all He did for me is to be kind to people, and to treat anybody that works for me temporary or permanently with humility and kindness. I do it as a service to my God that blessed my little efforts in life.


All my life, I have only sacked one staff and it was beginning of this year and why I sacked him was because he took my kindness for granted. I bought all the things he is using in the house he lives. A time came he said he needed bicycle for exercise, I gave him money to buy. I buy him clothes, shoes, cooking gas, just name it cos he is a young boy from a poor family. Sometimes he decides not to come to work without informing admin and he does this cos he believes he is very close to me and maybe because he believes I like him more than any other of my employee based on how I treat him and ignore his errors.


The one that I couldn't take happened in January 2022. I gave all employees Christmas and New Year holiday start from 24th December to 29th, and they were to return to work on 30th and 31st and close till 5th of January when we will then resume fully for the year. This young man intentionally absconded from duty and traveled on his own without telling me. And some other employees were already granted travel leave for New Year, so this made us to have serious lapses that many things weren't done and almost resulted to losing vital clients who had been patient for us to resume. He didn't bother to even call me or inform the admin.



Please dear young people, dont take your kind employer for a fool for your own good.



Op, from your narration, your employer is heartless and I can see it seems you work in a private school. I have observed that Nigerian Private school owners seems to be unkind and harsh to their employees, reason for this I dont really know.



Take it to God in prayer okay. Don't give up, challenges and failures are common to every successful person, but its how you manage your challenges and failures in life that will determine how far you would go in life. Don't feel its just you alone that have passed through this, nope. Almost all successful people you see and envy passed through this.



A very close friend got fired by his boss just because he managed to save money to buy a rickety Nigerian used car and also decided to marry his Church girlfriend. He specially invited his boss with a costly wine, only for the boss to reply him with a sack letter. He was shattered. I told him to cancel the wedding but he refused. The wedding was like a burial ceremony of a poor orphan, I was his bestman


But guess what ?


That guy is almost a Naira billionaire today and an employer of labour now living a sweet and purposeful life with that his wife and kids. But he did suffered for years if not a decade oh, but he was hard working, determined, smart and focused.



So don't give up.



Tell me how much will transport you back to your base or how much would take care of your most pressing need right now.



God will see you through. Go into personal covenant with God for a better life, tell God what you really want in life, back it up with hard work and don't ever carry malice for anybody in your heart. Forgive your employer and any other person that wrong you and focus on God and your handwork and watch out in few years to come.

God bless you bro... How I wish I can work for you. My place of residence is Agege! Egbeda, Iyana ipaja, Berger, Ikeja, ojota, alausa, gra, Oshodi etc are close to me sir.

RedCentaur:
This is inhumanity at it's peak.


With these string of events talking place by this time of the month, it's obvious she's not including you in her payroll, at least not for this february.

Kindly return the material as requested by her, ask her if you can continue working for her. If she declines, kindly leave.

When the period of payment of salary is approaching, go back to her and demand for your salary ( be calm and careful with your words this time). If she's still adamant, let it slide.

I experienced something similar around October last year, mine ended with a surprise and a bigger package.

Alhamdillilah
God will help us all, Amiin

MoneyGoDrop:
This is why i can't work for a private company. Most of them are modern slave merchants that will drain your whole energy while paying you peanuts.

I am currently in one bro... I do hope God help my situation.

Law firm, Lagos n 30k salary... I am so damn tired like tomorrow no dey, Walahi

That line where she said she wanted to pay and forgive, pls my dearly brother... Don't think am an inche, that's how terrible all these bosses are. They want you to be guilty conscious of ur actions but naw lie she no have any forgiveness plan 4 you b4.

Make sure you collect ur salary b4 you return those office things, let her know you're rug too and you just respect her bcoz she is a boss.

Datboredberri:
Omg!!! Damn!

I once masturbated in class...

Sneaky...

Lol... Nope... Never!

I've been caught watching porn though... My mum... She gave me a lengthy sermon... Into one ear, out the other...

Omó, porn of a tin, e be like say naw 4 everybody oo.

Omó, porn of a tin, e be like say naw 4 everybody oo.

I was shocked yesterday.. my Oga 4 work wey me dey see as holy woman base on say naw she dey lead choirs for her church. As she wan make I help her searching something on her phone via chrome. As I just input www... The next tin I see naw xvideo, e no funny, she come dey do like say she no see waiting pump up, me too I assume nii oo... Next time, I go enter the x-rated video n call am mistake >:

GuyWise101:
Nna mehnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn

As conji would have it today I decided to masturbate in my shop, I was almost caught by a customer, my only saving grace was that I was doing it behind my desk......

I have also masturbated in a commercial car, after I traveled to the village and spent two weeks without masturbation conji wanted to kill me got a little chance in the car as the driver wasn't around and there was no passenger with me, I did it quickly within 4min I poured and felt relieved, took my handkerchief and cleaned up but I was almost caught by a fellow passenger who wanted to join in the vehicle.

I have also masturbated in the bush, it was during a festive period all members of the family were around, I had to port to the bush and relieve myself This time I wasn't almost caught.

Lol

IkranDragon:
Hello Guys. Please I need your brotherly advice. I just met this girl in less than 2 weeks.

We are still in the talking stage, this past Val, we exchanged gifts but after that it has been her needing money for this and that.

She keeps whinning about it whenever we talk, we can't even talk for straight 5 mins without talking about her financial needs.

But I always didn't have nothing to say than to keep her hopes alive as I don't offer to support her.

Now, she texted me tonight to lend her 15k to repair her damaged phone. I already told her I am not loaded enough to do that.

How can I skip this issue of money and press on with the game, or should I just leave her?

Please I need your candid advice, I am not so good at this games.

Just leave the leech abeg. I am wondering you're still asking if to leave or not.

Educonomist:
Hmmm , oldies full this nairaland oo.. I drank limca and gold spot though

Same here... Only limca n gold spot I Sabi.
Both drinks were available till 2010 sef

sheanzy:
school dropout


It's 'I'm her friend's husband' not 'I'm her husband's' friend.

Illiterate waec certificate holder

Why are so bitter as a human being? This insult is uncalled for.

folake4u:


As in ehnn! Thank you oh, Ma'am Dogged fighter.

Na NLS wahala just full my brain WALLAHI.

My Cement or Capitol babe... So, u be lawyer?

Yustash001:
50%(50,000)

You're a boss man

Dating a young lady is nice but they are so stubborn to the stupor. My girl is 20yrs now but she give me a lot of headache than when I dated my ex, who was 27yrs then.

Why I actually run away from those aging girls is bcoz of pressure to settle down, I am still vr much into hustling life n try to arrange myself for that institution. Not that I don't like to marry now but the weather too harsh on me financially. So, I am managing the headache, at least, no any sign of cheating from her yet, main reason I am in.

Beebah2000:
I no join them ooo.
I dey hear word well well

I no say u dey hear word vr well... Keep it up

You need to high at some point, go to ur parents house, while going, make sure you have a vr long Cutlass with you... Stay at the front of ur parents house, say it loud that nobody should ever step his or her legs in ur house, whoever try such, you will cut d person head with d Cutlass... Believe, everybody go maintain. Sometimes, desperate issue need a desperate approach. Your mommy wan show say she get mind.

adamsmith914:
Lazy Mumu because one million bags of rice can feed 200 million people?

How many bags of rice did you contribute? because your mates should bring jollof rice for you to come & consume?

Nonsense.

You're so shameless that you could open ur disgust mouth to defend this barbaric govt. The guy was vr correct, it is nothing but pyramid of lies n deceitfulness. Any pumper harvest will surely has effect on the market fragility. Never to APC govt again

gunners160:
shut the Bleep up. Stop acting like you are a Saint. She is olosho but she is married,so respect her for that. I Dont Even belief the guy she is married to his a yahoo guy . So Dont just spew rubbish

You call that rubbish bcoz you don't know the value of kids, if you're, you should fight to get what belong to you.

It really appalling, now her marriage is more valued that her wayward life.. You deserve Buhari in 10 years to come.

MrBrownJay1:


fact that so many people on this thread are more concerned about her marriage being scattered than knowing who the bioligical father truly is, is what is amazing here. some people out there really have MISPLACED PRIORITIES in their lives!

You can imagine the rubbish, every actions have equal reaction. The man should not let the matter die. Let him seek for legal mean to tackle the issue.

This guy deserve to know if the baby is his or not? Just the way to go by to make the process easy n undeterred. Marriage scatter or not, I care less, infact, the other man need to know he married a runs girl.

When you resort to go olosho way, that is the end product. Let her dance to the tune.

Your moniker would have suit you, if you choose Mylife69... Bros, forget about spending lavishly on a woman who is yet to be ur wife. It better for them to call u stingy man than maga. Your wife can never have interest in picking another man's gift no matter how little you give her.

My village sweet die... "Okene" Best home ever!

I am super blessed man... 27th Insha Allah.
Come see food, Chai
My mommy, my two auntie, my grandma, and my uncle wives... Dem fit use food kill person.

The beautiful side of it is that... Dem go dey pity n cherish you bcoz they know say Lagos life no be moimoi.. Any small change wey u give them, they will really appreciate.

Bandits, herdmen, Gumi, Buhari, Fulani kidnapers, are all terrorists!

tonyzeal:

United never submitted an official
Complaint;it was tabled by Athletico

And United is ready to play any team...

Well play... Maguire is not a man to face Messi, Neymar, Mbappe n the rest.

This is unbelievable, it happen everywhere walahi... For Magistrate or high Court, Ikeja, if you go for filing of process, you will pay amount running into 9k but you only see two receipts of 1400 and 1200 which is summed up to 2600.. I asked them where is the remaining money going to... The cash officer will call for the next person, she was unable to give a concrete explaination. Everywhere, I swear... Land, survey, ministry of physical n regional planning... It is well.

yorubakid:

Abokkiii, how many villages have been burnt down in the north for the thousands of police men and soldiers killed by your terrorist brothers over there in the North

Get sense Mr Man. No people from the North come out publicaly d way you guys do to support the evil agenda of ESN. Boko Haram, bandits n esn are all terrorists.
They should be deal with severely.

kponkedenge:


Government approved is different from Government owned.

Your head dey there niggi

ifytrik:
he is a e very good friend of mine, more like a brother to me, he has never lied while he was here in Enugu but like they always say, Lagos can turn a good guy to a bad guy
I will ask him about the companies name letter, just that I don't want him to think am suspecting him of trying to DUP me.

With this thought of yours, you're already make urself available to scam, ask questions where is necessary, if he think you're too inquisitive, let him give the job out n hold on to your 450k with all the stress of going to Lagos..

CuteMaro:
Sorry man. There's something fishy and she's probably cheating (Went for a quick one). You shouldn't have told her you were at the hospital when you got there to see the time she'll be coming back.

She yelled at you as a cover up coz there's no excuse lol. It's very common among cheating ladies.

But then again you must begin to look out for other clues! I wish you luck in your marriage.

Honestly, he shouldn't have told her he is in d hospital. That spoiled the whole show.
You can even tell her you are at far place, you will see the woman telling you, she is at the hospital. Don't worry, her cup will soon full.
The hardest thing in the world is the inability to trust ur partner.

Who designed this nonsense entrance... E choke I swear

taylor89:


Are you this stupid and daft? Like they can’t remove my sim and put on another phone? You’re really an empty garden please stop derailing my topic till brainy ones bring up an idea

Requiring my transaction password? Did you not read the part I told you they could reset my transaction pin via sms according to what the banker told me

Sorry brother.... But ur line use to receive alert can so be secured by using sim lock method in case of next time.