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MrCork:
..Hello Ladies. .today is the intanational year of Romance (check yor Calendar) which encorage us has adults to talk about love...real love. Ok ladies..wher do we start? ..pleasse dont be shy...Lets talk!

Mature reply s only!

faith2ogesco:
well its obvious ur major is phleg. As for ur minor. Prob if I get to know u better and see ur reactions myself will I determine

faith2ogesco:
dats not argument but stubbornness. Phlegs nogogree anoda person own but Chloe in addition go wan force u do deir own.

faith2ogesco:
lol. U like argument sha. Dats a choleric trait. Others are domineering, always want to lead/be at d forefront, determination, drive, always want things to go their way, they are mostly workaholics, have anger and temper issues, aren't really that emotional as some have stone hearts, good manipulators, don't forgive easily,good motivators when they want to be, also good slave pushers . Am seriously trying to look for more good traits in cholerics but all I can get is that they are extroverts, good leaders and planners, workaholics, have determination and drive. Make una help me abeg cos I will love to settle down with a partly choleric lady. Not dominantly sha . Cos I dey trip for mels scara

faith2ogesco:
scared of public speech, been very free and helping at your inconvenience are def NOT choleric. The only xter u HV as choleric is being able to lead and phlegs can do DAT as well with enough motivation. Ur dominant character is phleg cos most of your attributed are(lazy at times, peace maker, crash programmes, like ur space, very quiet but can be a talkative, u probably have a dry sense of humour and can be quite sarcastic at times, you might be quietly stubborn and kinda stingy) As for u being arranged, and liking things being done right, being scared of public speech are among melancholic traits.ur probably sturbbon that's why you feel your chlor. Phlegs are very stubborn too but they show it in different ways.

faith2ogesco:
ur definitely not a sanguine or choleric. Ur either a melphleg or phlegmel. I dunno which is dominant for now. But I ll go with phlegmel.

DukeNija:
I've had the opportunity of being the head of two organizations, one an inspirational NGO (Lifechangers int'l) and the other a profit Business group (Entrepower, which I'm still the head) So I decided to put my knowledge to use here in Nairaland.

After experiences and much study of people due to one on one interaction I've realised that of a truth we have four temperaments. Since I cannot come up with more befitting acronymns for them I'll use the already existing ones.

1. The Sanguine
2. The Choleric
3. The Melancholic
4. The[b] Phlegmatic[/b]

Unless you were born in mars, had never been to school or don't have a thing for reading,you must have come across these words before. Although, no person has one singular temperament, we have a maximum of two and a minimum of two. Also, environmental factors might give room for slight variations, but they are usually very negligible.

Most people believe they have a distinct trait, peculiar character or are 'just them' but I'll tell you that you are not the only one that acts the way you do, not even in your street. Some others believe that they have temperaments but don't know which exactly, confused. While the bandwagon would say abeg leave that thing, I don't believe it. Well, if you finish my article which I am 'painstakingly preparing' and with sincerity, you will not only laugh, but also discover your temperament and how you can use it to improve your Life and Career.

Finally, emotional intelligence is a gift, at least to me. I have the funny but uncanny ability to tell ones personality trait or temperament(as the case may be) by several conversations or even one meeting. Yes one meeting, one conversation. This came effortless(so don't think I'm hardworking).

So I'll begin..

tayebest:
...and whats this pained wailer saying??

Toks2008:
When a man shows interest in a lady and tells her that he would love to know her better,most times in his heart this is exactly what he is saying: "Hi lady, can i get to have a taste of your goody-bag and have the feel of your body to know if you are good enough in bed and decide if i should keep you for long or dump your ass in a jiffy because i don't really care whether we end up together or not".

I honestly don't believe in dating and even as courtship sounds more reasonable,it is still not really necessary and i will try to list logical reasons why ladies should avoid this lie from the pits of hell called dating or courtship and i hope you learn a great deal from this.


1. A man usually knows if there is a huge possibility of marrying you or just want to use you to pass time the very first day he sets his eyes on you and a man who is really interested in a purposeful affair with you will give you the sign almost immediately with the body language except you refuse to be vigilant.

2. Many Men use dating and courtship as a means of exploring you sexually and probably after he realizes that your bosoms are not as firm as he wants them to be or your sex performance is below what he wants or after he has really used you to his satisfaction then he tells you it can't work out because his mum does not want him to marry from your tribe or just brings up any lame excuse and decides to walk away to get another lady to "date"

3. An Angel can turn to a demon: Many people have argued that dating period is a period where you will know the type of person you have but this assertion is very funny because a good person can turn terrible and most times even if the person seems bad many ladies will still go on and marry him with the hope of changing him.

4.Dating and courtship is a disguised miniature marriage because in many cases when a guy starts dating or courting you,you will be doing some stuffs that wives do and i keep wondering why they still see the union as dating or courting when he is practically having all the benefits he should get from a wife hence the need to continue dating and courting and dating and.. until you suddenly realized you have spent your honey years married unofficially to a man who will probably dump you to marry another lady still in the name of dating.

5.A thousand years of courtship is no guaranty that you will know the man and until you two stay under the same roof as man and wife,you will never come closer to knowing who he really is so why waste your years dating and courting.

6.Most of the marriages of our parents are great examples as most of our parents hardly knew each other before getting married yet many of them had a lasting and loving union but these days despite the celebrated dating and courting culture,many marriages hit the rock.

7.A good union is not hinged on the number of years both of you spend sleeping with each other in the name of dating or courtship but its in learning to love whoever you choose to marry and making up your mind to be with him against all odds.

8. I believe that for a man to ever propose an affair to you then he must have found you good enough to have to himself and for a decent lady to agree to an affair with a man then she is definitely ready to be with the man except she is a slut so why waste time fooling around with each other all in the name of getting to sleep with each other in the name of dating and courtship?

9. A sexless date or courtship is the ideal form of courting where both of you try to know just a peripheral detail about yourselves hence once sex comes in then its no longer dating but unofficial marital union.

10.The responsible and matured guys at heart knows the type of woman they want and do not get involved in baseless dating but simply go for the lady of their choice and marry her.

If you are not ready to marry a lady,don't make advances towards her just to waste her years sampling her and if you are a lady,stop fooling yourself thinking you are dating him whereas you are just giving him your body to be used and probably dumped and understand that dating and courtship are just facade from the pits of hell aimed at destroying the lives of ladies by becoming single unmarried mothers,losing their lives through abortions and many have contracted deadly diseases all in the name of dating.

Lets face it,a year of sexless courtship should be enough and one year is not too much to deprive yourself of sex in order to know that guy better and if a man does not start the process of marrying you within a year then it means you are either dating a small boy for the sake of having sex or you are probably with a man who is not sure he wants you.

I know that all the sermons in the world will not bring sanity to the facade of dating and courtship and if any lady sees this piece and shoves it aside,my advice to such is to continue to serve herself on the alter of sexual ecstasy for as many guys as possible in the name of baseless dating or courtship

My humble opinion and i hope this helps.

ECOTERRORS:
Buhari should never advise the youth about educational qualifications because we can never forget his own certificate brouhaha

temitemi1:
Is only in Nigeria that u will see a certificateless person advising the youth abt educational qualification

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MizMyColi:
Bia, Cork, where's your screw.
I see your nuts are going berserk.

Someone get this guy's screw for me, His nuts need proper screwing

MrCork:
...not sure why chicks r hatin on me....serrriously...isit ma fault I gots moiney?

ifyan:
Should I say supported or love this.