ritylove: the only thing i feel here is pity i feel he wasted his time and resources on me but still i dont want loose a good friend
You ritylove are a cold hearted individual hiding under the feminine umbrella, no you don't deserve a man like that, you deserve Lucifer or Amadioha. Who even raised this type of kids like You?
Somebody is treating you right, like Princess Ada-ada, Princess Omobotty, you say you no get feelings for am. You have simply conditioned your mind to the low lives you constantly date and change, you're the problem not the guy.
Come to America and see how many women with 6 figs salary would do anything, pay any price to keep that young man. He is not weak, he is the best. I'm a Warri Boy, I do not take his patience as sign of weakness. A man like that guy, would be patient through life with you through tick and thing.
For Warri, we for even order smallie like you to Whoze you better slap, cause dis your doins na Kpians doings. No, go date Native Doctor naaa, dem hold you? Who you Epp? Okorpise, Ekpa!
Christie171: Hmmm...the issue of accepting a child not yours is actually deep than we think...
People have different personalities & ways of viewing life. ...well, some years back, I dated a guy, we both know it wasn't leading to marriage but unfortunately, I became pregnant & he said he'll only marry me if the child is a boy so I simply told him to go to blazes, I rather remain single than marry him...fortunately, I gave birth to a girl. Before I could go back to school, my mom died, I took the child to my dad's sister in the village, within a year, she became unkempt, I brought her back to my elder sister who took care of her even much better than I...now my elder sister has gone abroad to live with her husband... The nature of my job made it difficult for me to stay in one location & I can't afford a nanny now, so I begged my married younger sisters to accommodate her for me while I support them financially, they all refused because their husband wouldn't accept her...now, I had to quit my job in order to stay home with my daughter.
...my point is this, since there was no earlier agreement to accomodate the child initially before marriage and the man is not comfortable with the idea now, we shouldn't blame him but let the woman pray then choose between the husband & her child to avoid emotional/mental abuse & stress towards the child.
...as for me, everyone knows that my almost 10yrs old beautifully endowed daughter added so much beauty, prestige & value to my life so I'll choose 1001 times over any man...maybe, that's why I'm still single
As soon as a guy says hi, my first response is: I have a daughter incase you think of marrying me so are you ready to accept both of us even though she may not bear your surname?
And you quit your job so you could raise and be there for your daughter? Could you please contact me if you got a min?
As for the Ok, it's not easy and I understand from our broader Nigeria cultural perspective. Bro, see the big picture. That little girl could have been you, deal with her with grace not the law. We will be remembered for the lives we touched and gave a meaning, not our families or friends perspective of such sensitive issue as this. God rewards, God feels, God cares. Pray and make a decision guided by the Holy Ghost, if you have a Pastor and you're a Christian, could you consider seeking his advise at least?
Nothing special. It's d same community I guess.. just get to the channels, join d exciting ones and read thru. Ask for clarifications on any u don't understand. Also, don't forget to give back by answering questions of beginners too..
I'm a Security Professonal with many years experience, based this way . We have a startup cyber security consulting and technology coy. Now operate Africa HQ in Lagos Island, we're existing to solve certain problems in Cyber World over.
We offer security services to A Govt I won't mention here, but looking to Develop some Security Applications that solves a particular problem or solve existing problem better. As a Nigerian, I believe the greatest talents on earth are all based in Nigeria, period!
I am here to seek advice, we don't want to be the next Andela, we are not providing software development as a service. We just want to hire full time team player, talented developers to help us build our App designed for worldwide Enterprise use.
Where can we find this talent? Any tip will be greatly appreciated.
briandaman: shoprite was created by Christo wiese a south african afrikaaner man. Google it and see for yourself. I am not defending south africa. To be frank south africans dont really care about what africans think of us. So why would I defend south africans? I am just saying that you can't label south africa a xenophobic country because of a few bad south africans just like I can't label Nigerians. Drug dealers or 419 scammers because of a few Nigerian drug lords or internet fraudsters
@briandaman, I take responsibility for the misinformation on my part. I didn't carry out a thorough research. I see both Shop Rite and Price Rite are owned by a Corp that started in New Jersey. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/ShopRite_(United_States)
I find your comment on South Africans not caring about the perception of other Africans towards them arrogant and misleading. If you really don't care, why the defense? You haven't shown true brotherhood with your words, rather you are trying to promote the superiority of South Africans to Nigerians. Least I remind you, the way Nigerians travel to South Africa to work and earn a living is the same way many South Africans travel out to Australia, New Zealand, Ireland, UK, U.S.A, Lagos and Abuja to work and make a better life for themselves. Don't act like South Africa is an Eldorado of some sort that careless about the perception of other fellow Africans in the continent, rather promote peace, love and sportsmanship.
briandaman: it's unfortunate that you feel that way. Stop shopping at shoprite or any south african store. Don't watch dstv. Just don't support south african business here in Nigeria if that's how you feel
@briandaman, I try to stay clear from this type of conversations. But don't ride on pure Ignorance, Shoprite is not a South African store. It's one of Many Wal-Mart's stores.
South Africa was mostly their major African Market before they penetrated the Nigerian Market space. Btw, I love South Africans, I lived in Cape Town for a short time a few years ago. My bro's are Married to south African women with many nieces and nephews I am yet to meet since I am in a different continent.
While you are defending South Africa and the value she holds, do so with humility and consideration that one bad peanut in a bunch can create overall impression of the others.
These people bashing your country are folks who are really hurt from the ugly past in your country by some miscreant who happens to live among sane, educated folks like you. Understand that most people have lost close friends, commrades and fellow patriot. They have the right to be upset and express themselves from their point of view. Don't shoot them down, if necessary apologize and re-emphasize the values majority of South Africans hold dearly.
doneyor: There is this 11-year-old girl identified as Miss Mmeyene-Abasi, who is not only blind but crippled too in Akwa Ibom.
According to a Facebook user Benjamin Omini Itu, who took it upon himself to intervene over in situation, is calling Nigerians to join him take care of this little girl.
While sharing photos of the 11-year-old girl, Omini , wrote;
“When I got the call today about Miss MmeyeneAbasi Meaning (meaning I HAVE GOD), I knew I had to wrap up my business for the day and answer the CALL OF DESTINY.
“MmeyeneAbasi is 11yrs old abandoned girl child whose mother felt she was not worth love, care and a proper home.
“When I met her I had to fight off her only companions ;FLIES who feed off her hungry body because they find on her dirt and feaces since she SHITS ON HERSELF without the help of a wipe or wiper.
“She was dumped on her partially blind grandmother when people.in the compound had gone to.church on a Sunday.
“It takes her hours to do what it takes a 2yrs old child minutes to do.
“While trying to.bath her today I felt she needed FUMIGATION.
“She is covered in dirt and is gravely sick as you can see from her body.Am taking the next 3 days off work until I find her help not just Medicaid but also hygiene.
“Share until we have reached the people whose heart God will touch to HOLD MY HAND and help this innocent child.It was not her fault to be conceived.It was not her fault to survive evacuation.It was not her fault to be born.It should not be her fault to be loved and cared for.”
Please Nairalanders, how can I get this Man's contact? I'm interested in adopting this child and helping her. Please I beg you kindly, help me with a link to reach this man and reach this Kid and her Grandmom. PLEASE
briandaman: Travelling around west africa has made me realise how people in africa view south africans. Xenophobic. Arrogant. Ignorant and don't consider ourselves africans. All these views have shocked me and saddened me in many ways. Xenophobia is not only a south african problem it's a world wide thing. But not all south africans are xenophobic infact we are some of the most tolerable people in Africa. I mean we have pretty much neglected our borders so that african people can just come in easily and enjoy whatever south africa has to offer. If we were xenophobic we would have made our borders have electric fences or build a wall. We are humble and not arrogant, the reason why our pride and knowledge of being african is because of apartheid, it has driven our mentality away from being one with africa. Same thing has happened to the african Americans with slavery. But as the years go on we are becoming more and more enthused about being one with Africa. So all these views are just wrong
Dino is about to be paraded as a criminal rn he's also been tried so where's your own contesting fr governor coming from?
@troublemakea.. Can you tell us what was the Crime Senator Dino Melaye committed? Do you have proof? Has he been convicted? Do you follow international politics or are you pronouncing a guilty verdict on Dino base on your third world political mentality operations? How can you pronounced a serving Senator of this Federal Republic a Criminal without no legal evidence admissible in a law court? I'm all ears brother man.
No, it's wrong to assert that Nigerians don't care about the budget, it's just that there's no difference between when the budget was signed and when it's not signed. This is the third budget of this administration, what impact has the previously signed and implemented two budgets made on the life and standard of living of the Nigerian populace? Zero. That's why we did not even notice that the budget has not been signed up till now because there's no impact.
Day2logic: I get offended when I see you pastors wannabes mislead people without having idea of what message you are spreading. You pick one favorable verse out a whole chapter when the rest of the chapter doesnt correspond with everything else you are trying to put out. Christians these days have completely ignore apostle Paul's teaching, there are different doctrines which is not supposed to be and also different churches which is wrong but we can always talk about that later.
Now about speaking in tongue this is what Apostle Paul had to say;
1st Corinthians 14:1-40 1) Follow the way of love and eagerly desire spiritual gifts, especially the gift of prophecy. 2) For anyone who speaks in a tongue does not speak to men but to God. Indeed, no one understands him; he utters mysteries with his spirit. 3) But everyone who prophesies speaks to men for their strengthening, encouragement and comfort. 4) He who speaks in a tongue edifies himself, but he who prophesies edifies the church. 5) I would like every one of you to speak in tongues, but I would rather have you prophesy. He who prophesies is greater than one who speaks in tongues, unless he interprets, so that the church may be edified. 6) Now, brothers, if I come to you and speak in tongues, what good will I be to you, unless I bring you some revelation or knowledge or prophecy or word of instruction? 7) Even in the case of lifeless things that make sounds, such as the flute or harp, how will anyone know what tune is being played unless there is a distinction in the notes? Again, if the trumpet does not sound a clear call, who will get ready for battle? 9) So it is with you. Unless you speak intelligible words with your tongue, how will anyone know what you are saying? You will just be speaking into the air. 10) Undoubtedly there are all sorts of languages in the world, yet none of them is without meaning. 11) If then I do not grasp the meaning of what someone is saying, I am a foreigner to the speaker, and he is a foreigner to me. 12) So it is with you. Since you are eager to have spiritual gifts, try to excel in gifts that build up the church. 13) For this reason anyone who speaks in a tongue should pray that he may interpret what he says.
14) For if I pray in a tongue, my spirit prays, but my mind is unfruitful. 15) So what shall I do? I will pray with my spirit, but I will also pray with my mind; I will sing with my spirit, but I will also sing with my mind. 16) If you are praising God with your spirit, how can one who finds himself among those who do not understand say "Amen" to your thanksgiving, since he does not know what you are saying? 17) You may be giving thanks well enough, but the other man is not edified. 18) I thank God that I speak in tongues more than all of you. 19) But in the church I would rather speak five intelligible words to instruct others than ten thousand words in a tongue. 20)Brothers, stop thinking like children. In regard to evil be infants, but in your thinking be adults. 21) In the Law it is written: "Through men of strange tongues and through the lips of foreigners I will speak to this people, but even then they will not listen to me," says the Lord. 22) Tongues, then, are a sign, not for believers but for unbelievers; prophecy, however, is for believers, not for unbelievers. 23) So if the whole church comes together and everyone speaks in tongues, and some who do not understand or some unbelievers come in, will they not say that you are out of your mind? 24) But if an unbeliever or someone who does not understand comes in while everybody is prophesying, he will be convinced by all that he is a sinner and will be judged by all, 25) and the secrets of his heart will be laid bare. So he will fall down and worship God, exclaiming, "God is really among you!" 26) What then shall we say, brothers? When you come together, everyone has a hymn, or a word of instruction, a revelation, a tongue or an interpretation. All of these must be done for the strengthening of the church. 27) If anyone speaks in a tongue, two--or at the most three--should speak, one at a time, and someone must interpret. 28) If there is no interpreter, the speaker should keep quiet in the church and speak to himself and God. 29) Two or three prophets should speak, and the others should weigh carefully what is said. 30) And if a revelation comes to someone who is sitting down, the first speaker should stop. 31) For you can all prophesy in turn so that everyone may be instructed and encouraged. 32) The spirits of prophets are subject to the control of prophets. 33) For God is not a God of disorder but of peace. As in all the congregations of the saints, 34) women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says. 35) If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church. 36) Did the word of God originate with you? Or are you the only people it has reached? 37) If anybody thinks he is a prophet or spiritually gifted, let him acknowledge that what I am writing to you is the Lord's command. 38) If he ignores this, he himself will be ignored. 39) Therefore, my brothers, be eager to prophesy, and do not forbid speaking in tongues. 40) But everything should be done in a fitting and orderly way.
One day. I am going to open a thread and write everything I have read in the bible that every pastor especially Africans have turned upside down to favor them. From women anchoring programs in churches to women not covering their heads, to churches having different names and doctrine under one body "Christ" to offering and tithes and pastors extravagant lives to calling pastors daddies and their wives mommies its all there in the bible.
The topic says 7 reasons why every believer should speak (Pray in tongue in context), this statement is addressing personal spiritual interaction with God, avoiding to praying amiss and indulging in selfish prayer points. Because when you pray with presenting your thoughts to God, you pray amiss sometimes, you do not pray accordingly in line with God's word or vision for the time. Paul was addressing a different topic/subject in these scripture, not personal interaction through praying tongue. I'm a Security professional, if I go to UBTH or IBTH to address the Nurses as a speaker in a convention, and I start talking to them about Firewall, Intrusion Prevention and Detection Systems - IPS/IDS, Or How to whitelist application in a Bluecoat Proxy app and I do not bake this subject of conversation into healthcare relatively, then I have done no good showing up to speak. I was just blabbing and feeling fly the whole time. But if I speak to them in a manner that communicates the importance of IT/IS in 21st century health care provision, they would be attentive, draw up many benefits from my speech... Pray for one another, the Gospel is not given to us so we can develop a mentality of outshining others with theological prowess, but it was given to draw unbelievers to the light of God's goodness, mercy, undiluted love that can make a spirit man give up His only son, stood by and did nothing and watch the 33yr old Son flogged, beaten, humiliated, abused, tortured just to draw man (The Rebel) to Himself again 2000+ years ago. Is about Love and Spreading the goodness with meekness, humility, kindness and consistency.
Thank you Mr.Nwodo and Dr.CLARK, this is one of the most inspiring and hopeful speech I have ever listened to from any Nigerian Elder state Men. Speech is loaded with fact, I fact checked him from Minute 1 to 22 of the video. Please share this videos with your friends, we can no longer fold our hands and watch our country burn.
The artists have created a magnificent Ice City with illuminated castles and buildings, and even a replica of the Empire State Building. It’s really an unforgettable experience to see their creations, but I can’t say the same about the people working in the cold.
Every year, this snow experience turns into a massive snow festival with some of the most impressive snow sculptures. The Harbin International Ice and Snow Sculpture Festival first began in 1963, but it has been interrupted because of the Cultural Revolution and resumed on January 5 in 1985. Since then, this tradition is continued, and this year the thirty-first Festival will be held. The Harbin International Ice and Snow Sculpture Festival lasts one month but with average temperatures of -18C the sculptures can bee seen even longer than a mount.
Take a Look at Harbin – The Ice City Which Everybody Loves!
Every year, this snow experience turns into a massive snow festival with some of the most impressive snow sculptures. The Harbin International Ice and Snow Sculpture Festival first began in 1963, but it has been interrupted because of the Cultural Revolution and resumed on January 5 in 1985. Since then, this tradition is continued, and this year the thirty-first Festival will be held. The Harbin International Ice and Snow Sculpture Festival lasts one month but with average temperatures of -18C the sculptures can bee seen even longer than a mount.
cococandy: Hey lovelies. Just felt like sharing my meatpie recipe with you guys. This is a favorite snack in my home. You will pick up a list of what you need for this as we go along. Enjoy
1) wash your hands thoroughly. Very important step. Alternatively, wear gloves if you have any open cuts on your finger/s or have acrylic nails.
1b) Dice half of a small onion, two medium carrots and two medium russet potatoes (also called Irish potatoes in some parts of Nigeria)
@cococandy, please I want to be your student. Can I contact You? I'm in the Midwest in the States. This is exactly what I have been looking to learn, my staff likes Nigerian food and it cost so much to order for many mouths and most are Indians and I would be grateful if you can coach me. I tried YouTube, I failed. Lol
SaudiBoy: Greeting to everyone. I am in serious dilemma and need matured advice.
I dated my wife for 8 years before we got married last year and God blessed us recently with a child.
My problem began when my business nose dived and we began facing a little difficulty, my wife's sister who happens to be my good friend also stepped in and helped us with a loan totalling 340k which i have paid 190k and still making out ways to pay back the rest. During those trying times my wife and i would go there and spend days to alleviate pressure of feeding, please i went there with her because I felt welcomed and they never made me feel i was Inlaw, a stranger will think am part of the mums children.
Now the main gbese is this, my wife's mum has been staying with us since this year, taking care of wifey as she put to bed and we have been living peacefully.
Now my mum wanted to come and spend time with us, and the problem started when my mum told me to come with my car and carry her as things she bought for us were too much for her to carry and enter public bus, and i agreed. I went to inform my wife and she kicked against it, citing high fuel cost and lack of money. I talked to her to forget about the money side of her story and see it as a sacrifice. It is a 6 hour journey to and fro. When she saw she could not convince me, she reported to her sister who tried to talk me out of going to pick my mum, but i refused and told her my mind was made up. Then my wife resorted to i will see those things your mother will bring and come.
Then it got to the day i was going to pick my mum, I called my wife and told her i want your mum to stay and be bathing baby and taking care of you, as I know my mum is now lazy and can't do these work continually, they both agreed. I went and brought my mum home. And the journey to hell started.
There is this girl married with two kids i have warned my wife about to quit been friends with her as despite been married she is a big cheat who sleeps with men for money. So this girl came to my house to visit my wife, and there was this white man at my wife's former place of work that my wife has been chatting with, I read all their chats and had nothing to fault with their conversation, until i discovered my wife sent scantly dressed pictures of her friend to the white man and gave the man the girls contact. I was very furious and felt disappointed, y she did this, that was where my anger started.
So I told her point blank to quit every conversation with the said white man, but she told me plainly she has her life to live and i cannot tell her what to do. This word hurt me and i harboured it in my heart for her.
I and her mum tried to talk to her she didn't still see what she did as bad, then i reported her to her sister whom I felt was close to us and will advice her but no she continued her chat and instead changed her phone pattern.
So we started having issues, every small thing irritated me, then my wife started complaining about my mum, once i go to work and come back, no welcome hug, it will be ur mum said this. Therefore i should Go and fight her if that was her expectation.
The wrong thing I did was not hearing her out, because I already had this grudge in my mind for her bcoz of the statement she made about the white man. And I was already under pressure, how to pay off my debts feed and provide for my family and the 2 additional mouths that came, run generator everyday, and doing everything not to allow my family feel any form of hardship.
Then one day her sister called me and there was nothing she did not say on phone that day, my wife called her and was crying my mum was maltreating her and i kept quiet. In her sisters exact words, u should be happy my sister married you bcoz she would have seen a better man. These are now the words my wife tells me.
Now the main problem my mum fell sick and she wanted to go back, fuel has now become 145, she met my wife and asked her how will she go if i will drop her or she will take public transport, my wife came to ask me and i ignored it because I didn't want to stir up quarrel. So I met my mother in-laws and told her i would like to go and drop my mum and she said OK if i have spare money for fuel i should do it that moreover my mum is sick.
I wanted to go look for a way to tell my wife but my mum was already dressed thinking she was going that day and was in the room with my wife, and i was to take my mum to somewhere before she goes, and she was in a hurry, I couldn't tell her anymore of my decision, and promised to call her on phone. Only for me to come to the parlor, in front of my mother in-law,i told my mum I would drop her but she had to wait till the next day early morning as I had jobs I needed to attend to.
I then left with my mum to the place she was going to and when we came back, I was with my wife in the room and she was shouting on top her voice, that I shud choose between her and my mum, and that if I go and drop my mum off at her place, she will pack her load and go. I laughe thinking it was a joke. So mum heard what she said and left my house in anger, in retaliation, that's how i feel, she went to make her hair, as my wife has been begging to come let them go and make her, she cited sickness as example. When I saw my mum with the hair i was bitter and told her to better look for an excuse to give my wife.
She came home and my wife saw the hair and was deeply hurt, mum tried talking to her but it couldn't pacify here, i begged her she refused, so I decided to leave the house and go back to my work, at the door my wife told me to make sure i come back early as she won't givevny mum food, I begged her still, called her when i left and sent an SMS from work, but alas when I got home around past 11pm she didn't give my mum food.
I called my wife, mum and mum Inlaw and tried talking to them so that what ever venom in them will soften, I spoke at length and my mum spoke, when it got to my wife's turn, she flared up and insulted everyone and left, I was disappointed.
The next day morning my mum was finally going to leave, my wife woke up, met her at the door and passed her without greeting and when we were about to leave my wife never came back to say good bye
I travelled and came back and true to her words she packed out of our house and went to Her sisters house. I called her sister to enquire she wouldn't answer, I went to her house and for 2 hours nobody opened the gate for me, despite hearing my horns and my many calls to her phone which she finally picked and told Me no one was around to open gate for me, quite shortly I saw my mum Inlaw, I asked her how can she encourage her dorta to pack out of the house, she said she was not around when she packed. So my wife's sister knowing her mum was at the gate sent someone to open it and since I was still outside called me she was sending someone to open gate for me, in anger I left and told her not to worry as she was opening it for her mum. I called my sister in-laws husband and informed him my wife packed to his house without my consent and he was away from town and said when he come back.
He came back and called me after talking to us, I told him I have already changed the padlock of our protector that my wife must apologise before i will let her in again. my wife's response was that she needed a break of 6 months then changed to she was done.
I posted a picture of me holding our baby and wrote some love touching words to him, my wife saw it and became very upset and jelos, and the new accusation became I value our child more than her and don't appreciate her. Then I went to work only to come back home, I saw the locks to the house has been broken, I met my wife packing her remaining things that she needs space, I tried talking to her, next thing her sister called that what is holding her, my wife said I was stopping her, her sister came to my house packed my wife's things including my mum in-laws things, before they left I called my mum Inlaw to ask if she was aware and she said yes, that she heard because of how my wife treated my mum that I said she will not come to my house again, a word I said out of anger. That was how they left.
It's been 3 weeks now I have forgiven my wife and we have settled and she even passed a night in the house and we made mad love
Now she wants to come back, I told her plainly I will not carry those load her sister carried, either she forgets them or I send a cab for her. She agreed to leave the load and come pick her later, immediately she told her sister, the music changed, my wife became abusive and told me if I won't come myself and carry the load then I should forget about her and my child, that she will never use a cab since I have a car and her sister cannot bring the load.
At this juncture I became irritated. Seriously I don't want a broken home since am a product of one, and I know the effects it has on a child.
For 3 weeks I have been jumping from canteen to canteen, I don't know what to do, if to go and bring the load or just allow them to remain there.
Please i need candid advice and criticism, not insult as am already broken.
Am 31 and my wife is 26
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Reading through let me make something clear about the money i borrowed from my in-law
You see am not broke, I live in an comfortable house, drive a good car, and have a land in the state i reside, with a back up bank balance that gave me confidence, but overnight i watched all i have go away due to circumstance better imagined.
I own a truck used for sand and stone transportation, and people into this business will know drivers remit 150k weekly.
My problem started when my truck was involved in an accident which cost a life and also condemned the car, my driver disappeared from the scene and my conductor was in custody for 13weeks
After police case and everything, I paid the family 2.5m for burial and compensation, I paid 400k to the driver of the car my truck hit, bailed my conductor, my truck and closed the police case with 150k.
So this expense cost me 3m that was y i had to seek that loan.
Now i decided not to engage in the trucking business anymore and sell off the truck, but the best price I have gotten from a buyer is 1.5m for a truck i bought 4.5m 2 years ago, so i refused to sell. Still waiting for the right price. To pay off my debt and run my home, I am secretly using my car for uber without my wife's knowledge.although she said i should just sell the truck and start again
I don't want to believe my wife is about the money because she met be broke and we built our wealth together before finally getting married, my problem is during this crisis, she started confiding in her sisters more, and this is where it has landed me
****** modified********* You see there is more to this story that meets the eye. That is why I decided to be calm about this whole issue, because it has really opened my eyes, I don't believe this has to do with the money i loaned because the sisters husband also loans money from me atimes, And pays back, I was very very close to them.
I only soft pedalled on this issue because it is very clear to me there is a grand script been planned by my sister in-laws out of jelousy, because she has been childless for 7 years of marriage.
My wife made a statemet that startled me, that she will send me divorce papers, and that the baby been just 2months, court will award her custody and she will just give the baby to her sister and travel out.
Then i started working on my wife's senses, talking to her until she became soft and we settled my wife she needed time to heal, I offered her to come back home and heal she said know that her sister just had another miscarriage and she needs to be with her.
Now the day my wife came to visit me and decided to sleep over, the sister called her, I pretended to be asleep and I could hear the sister say, now now now, u Don run go sleep there bcoz of sex. The next day it was clear my wife didn't want to go back, I dropped her off around 2pm and before the sister agreed to to open gate for her, it was war after much exchange of whatsapp message
@SaudiBoy... Can you please send me a PM so we can discuss in private? I'm a little free this week. Just shoot me a PM
That's Chitown weather for you oooo.... Sun will be up and you will be feeling cold
I will PM you later today or tomorrow.....I'm enjoying Saint Patrick's Day right now @ Link Staproom around Wicker Park.
More pics later.....
Oh Nice. Is St.Patricks day this weekend? I heard about it on the Radio driving but wasn't sure what day. I hardly follow up with this events sometimes. Okay, I will be looking out for your PM to link up soon.
stonemasonn: The water is green or is it the camera...or something..
Yes ooh bros, it's called Oyibo Magic. We should do something like this for Nigerian Independence day. Not sure how they turned the water into green, it looks cool.
Nice to have you here.......Hope you are enjoying Chitown weather
We should be very close, I live in Rogers Park, 5mins from Howard train station.
@Bishopp007 the Cold almost change my living, my neighborhood gets cleaned up like every minute so the after snow effect is less likely. Yes we are like 24mins apart, I just look am up. Shoot me a PM now, I will send you my Digit for a connect.
Hi there, Oh...I won't give specifics... although a few guys on this website know the state. I'm in the southern or southeastern portion of the U.S. though...a ways away from Chi-town...but closer to u. It's like a 12-14 hour drive from Chi-town to where I live. Every time I visit there though (so far and thank God), and depending on which airport I'm flying from, I take a direct flight (no stops) and it takes no more than 1 and 1/2 to 2 hours... Who doesn't love Texas? I wouldn't mind living there...heard it's nice. ...
Oh yes it's very nice in Texas. Easy living.. holla at me anytime you plan to visit.
Family / Re: Lady Shares How Man Abandons Family To Marry A New Wife In Nigeria by ojdollars(m): 7:12am On Aug 21, 2018 
. We have a startup cyber security consulting and technology coy. Now operate Africa HQ in Lagos Island, we're existing to solve certain problems in Cyber World over. 
