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Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by MissRaine69(f): 4:38am On Aug 10, 2018 |
So date the bestie as he has been sitting on that egg for a bloody long time. |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by martinlooter(m): 4:41am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Don't date him, I repeat, don't date him. This kind of guys are only good as friends, not lovers. All those nice things you think you will lose if you miss him, just prepare to lose them forever once you start fucking. Meanwhile, how can a guy stay four full years in school and all he has to show is just a casual fling with you Rita? You mean, all the while you were besties, you were kpanshing and he was listening to the gist of you banging another nigga. Some guys sha! He didn't have a girlfriend all that time. Please, tell him he needs a boyfriend, not you. 3 Likes |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by yankeedudu01(m): 5:04am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Say YES!!! He says he loves you halleluya... go download Johnny drille n Simi |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by Duru009(m): 5:09am On Aug 10, 2018 |
99% of bestie i know are all fucckmates ! |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by omakay(m): 5:14am On Aug 10, 2018 |
All the qualities of a best friend make up a boyfriend He has those qualities... Now he wants to upgrade those qualities and you are complaining... Are you looking for a boyfriend or a Bleep-mate? 3 Likes |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by massinola(m): 5:17am On Aug 10, 2018 |
My dear, the guy didn't take four years to study you like his course of study just for fun. Most a times, you girls keep making this same mistake of living the good guys for the bad guys. At the end, you will start crying had I known. Ask yourself, what does he stand to gain by asking you out in his last days in school : sex?, girlfriend stuff? No, I don't think so. He will soon leave the school. So, it goes beyond any of those. He's come to the conclusion that you are his kind of lady. He's asking you to be his woman forever. Why can't ladies think outside the box most times? See eeh, the greatest good you will do to yourself is give that young man a chance, and believe you me, you will definitely come back here to thank some of us who gave you this advice later. He knows you better than anyone else, and will treat you better as well. He knows your flaws and has come to the conclusion that he can leave with them. Once more, GIVE HIM A CHANCE 6 Likes |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by Omar09(m): 5:19am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Melison: If you feel guilty then you love him. Just lay him down easy pissy. |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by JAYUK(m): 5:21am On Aug 10, 2018 |
@ Rita, it all depends on what you want as a woman and your definition of marriage, this guy will give you peace of mind if you marry him,but you can look the other way and end with regrets with someone's later in life,I have been there before, you have all the answers. Love is usually overrated, time changes everything. 2 Likes |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by agarawu23(m): 5:27am On Aug 10, 2018 |
ritylove:i pray you won't bite your fingers with regrets in future if you turn that guy down. Fvck love and feelings, they don't grow one day....... It's a gradual thing. 2 Likes |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by ojdollars(m): 5:44am On Aug 10, 2018 |
ritylove: You ritylove are a cold hearted individual hiding under the feminine umbrella, no you don't deserve a man like that, you deserve Lucifer or Amadioha. Who even raised this type of kids like You? Somebody is treating you right, like Princess Ada-ada, Princess Omobotty, you say you no get feelings for am. You have simply conditioned your mind to the low lives you constantly date and change, you're the problem not the guy. Come to America and see how many women with 6 figs salary would do anything, pay any price to keep that young man. He is not weak, he is the best. I'm a Warri Boy, I do not take his patience as sign of weakness. A man like that guy, would be patient through life with you through tick and thing. For Warri, we for even order smallie like you to Whoze you better slap, cause dis your doins na Kpians doings. No, go date Native Doctor naaa, dem hold you? Who you Epp? Okorpise, Ekpa! 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by Amberon11: 5:48am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Dumbass fool Uglymugg: |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by daudaolaleke(m): 5:58am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Ritylove, so many questions to ask you. 1. Do you have a serious guy in ur life 2. During d 4yrs friendship did you notice any girl around him as his girl perse. 3.If yes, are they still together, if still together, it might be that he prefers you to d other girl as future wife. If not together he might want to take you as an available person to balance his emotional betrays. 4. 4yrs..... Was there anytime you sensed any advances move from him but was afraid to press forward. 5. You like him but you dont love him.....huunnnnn. what exactly is it that you want the guy you love/ would love to have that this guy does not have....be frank. 6. ........let me pause so that u dont get confused.... 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by sirkrux05: 5:59am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Since you have a reply for every suggestion, it means you already know what to tell him......... So f....king do it. |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by sben2308(m): 6:00am On Aug 10, 2018 |
ritylove: Op believe me u do love him and also admire him but u scared cuz his pronoucement came as a shock and two u r really scared .But pls try been without him for like a month n lets know ur conclusion den |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by rman: 6:02am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Do not date such a guy! Do not let people mislead you. Yes, the guy actually loved you all these years , however you made a serious blunder thinking he just wants to be friends. Some guys do not know how to ask ladies out and him getting close at the initial stage and doing all sorts is his own way of asking you out. The problem is you have told him so much and you are now to exposed. Especailly, the fact that he probably knows your body count amd other guys that have slept with you. Believe me, when you give in. relaity will also set in for him. Sometimes, sex clears guys head more on how they feel about a lady. He loves you? Yes, but no guy wants to know other guys that have slept with a lady while he stuck around being the good guy. He is introverted and most introverts are very calculative and can be manipulative too. I guess he just do not want to leave school without having sex with you. He came out because his time is almost over at school. Believe me, he has figured out you do not love him after the first year on his own. Because, if you were aa close as you claimed, you must have slept with guys that did not do 5% of what he has done for you. Move on dear. This is life and it is not perfect. He will not like that much after the rejection but that is normal. 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by rman: 6:05am On Aug 10, 2018 |
martinlooter: We share exactly the same thoughts. She should flee. |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by sisisioge: 6:08am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Hmmmm...expecting the closest/bestie relationships between members of the opposite sex to stay casual forever is not feasible. Your next step will either ruin or make what you two had going. It really would be nice to end up marrying one's bestie...it will be awful if a perfectly wonderful relationship is ruined by intimacy. Chai! This is such a rocket science 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by archdon: 6:11am On Aug 10, 2018 |
When you look back on your life, you'll regret not dating him. You always wonder how it could have turned out. The things we regret most in life are the thing we didn't try for whatever bs justifications we have. Logically speaking, if you date him and it didn't turn out fine, you loose a friend but if it does you gain a life mate. Is dis really a difficult choice? 2 Likes |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by Dollabiz: 6:16am On Aug 10, 2018 |
ohh |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by Owiii(m): 6:22am On Aug 10, 2018 |
ritylove:You like him but don't love him right? The one you love, is he treating any better than this your bestie? My one cent advice, always marry you friend. 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by SirBunky85(m): 6:23am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Sheuns:wat if d guy didnt plan dating her initially but later developed interest in d gal cuz of her manners? |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by SirBunky85(m): 6:26am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Homeboiy:enyia jiri ya nwayoo dia |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by NnamdiEducamia(m): 6:26am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Fake story just to keep the platform on! Nairaland, I hail o! |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by Gagare1(m): 6:27am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Nnaabros:While other guys were busy sleeping with her to his hearing. The guy na MONUMENTAL MUMU. 2 Likes |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by daolad: 6:29am On Aug 10, 2018 |
From your post, ` u don't want to loose him' means you admire him so dearly .Since you can't loose him, give him a trial if he can cope with you, because your relationship with him is another guy aside from being your bestie in the initial stage. At this time, all what he hides from you will know well and it may seem when he correct you on your wrongdoings, you'll start to wonder is this not the guy that have being friend since four (4) years ago. I 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by amadice(m): 6:30am On Aug 10, 2018 |
ritylove:.. bae, That guy is your future.. don't date your husband and marry your boy friend 4 Likes |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by olisaEze(m): 6:33am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Funny but a very common story among uni students. Dude has been comfortable in d friendzone for 4yrs, n now he's about 2graduate he suddenly realizes he's about to miss a nice piece of *ss because of forming bros. U probably have spent a lot of nights in his room without knowing that he's always wntd to tap that *ss. Its not love, believe me, it's just his 'final fantasy' (pun intended) that he wnts to achieve. If a guy really cares that much about a girl, he's not going to be there while other guys play with her heart for 4yrs b4 trying to steal it. He'll blurt it out no doubt b4 that much time passes. Truth, he just wants a piece of *ss b4 he leaves u finally without d hassles of relationship with u. 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by ordainbuzz(m): 6:38am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Babe that guy try oo, me no get that patience to wait, sha, just compensate am by giving him kpekus.may be wen him finish, him eye go clear 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by Jocknom(m): 6:47am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Tell him you can't have a relationSHIP with him, the thing has tae now, 4years no be beans, but let him know you can have a relationBIKE with him because the SHIP has already full since last 4years. 1 Like |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by SirBunky85(m): 6:47am On Aug 10, 2018 |
Odunharry:dat gal doesnt know a thing abt love,she's just confused |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by Bigdeeee: 6:48am On Aug 10, 2018 |
I can bet on it that the OP will be the ugly type. Still one mumu is hyping her, making her feel important. Some guys are just very stupid! |
Re: My Bestie Is Now Asking Me Out by neoobinna(m): 7:01am On Aug 10, 2018 |
'Nigerians don't take matters of the heart serious" First: It's either He have always been in love with you all this while Or He developed it in the process of knowing you If I'm not mistaking you your HUSBAND is right there in front of you and you can't even see it Let me give you an example: I knew my wife for 3 years, then we were just friends and then "bestie's" then we started dating. Believe me dating your bestie is the best thing that can ever happen to anyone and on the other hand marrying your bestie is the greatest of it all Imagine someone knowing you more he knows himself, he knows your does and don't. Believe me he will not use it against you And for the love thing, I have seen people in love but they don't know it. Take a minute and think why do you like him or like everything he do. "It can be love in disguise" Even if you don't agree with me, this guy have come a long way you can't just shut the door on him give him a little chance just tinny little chance (a plan ground) I bet you will fall for him "if you liked him as a friend then you must love him as a lover" don't you think so? I don't know why women don't recognize love even when staring at its face |
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