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ayofimihan:
Talks like this annoys me
Shift your mindset and thoughts away from lack and limitations friend.

Hi Ore, thank you for your response. I am not lacking in any way. I can well afford whatever i need. Whatever i cant afford as at today, definitely i dont need it. And I dont i or any other person need 300 pairs of shoes!

damiloladuke:
Singer Kcee showed off his massive shoe closet which looks more like a shoe shop.Impressive right?


https://www.instagram.com/p/BNbU54EhIdu/?taken-by=iam_kcee

Can he wear two pairs at a time? I wonder what people are doing with all these stuffs they acquired. Most will die without using any of those things gathered in their pursuit of vanity. I think it is a result of psychological problem or personality disorder.

Preator:
one good thing about this thread is that I now know the criminally minded nairalanders. just in case they advertise their services or products in the future, I'll know to steer clear of them.

NB
I'm keeping a copy of each page too. u never know when some thief might wanna go into politics. then the day of reckoning will have arrived.

Me too

LizGray:
Op you were very careless to make such mistake How could you send money to a wrong person? Wrong account name and number I still don't get. You should be grateful he returned part of the money. In this period we are

What period are you that should breed dishonesty. So if it is 500k, he will run and hide. Poverty is a disease! In my place of work, we conduct integrity test regularly . Once you fail, you are gone and we will blacklist you from the job and related jobs going forward (we pay 6 and 7 figure salaries). If you cant pass 53k test because of economy situation, how will you pass a 500k test? Some will because of small meaningless stuff like this, messed up a glorious future. Do i need to say more;?

1stolax:
[size=18pt]Nonsense!
So why are you displaying his contact [/size]
Op, you're ingrate
The dude tried for you, at least he's given you some of the money back and he promised to return the rest.

No be the guy say make you mumu ho send money to him account.

You should be happy that he is even giving you attention.

You must be a crook and a very dishonest person. One of the many reasons some of us will never do business with a fellow nairalander. If this is the way you reason, i give up.

oloyemeji:
can you give reason why he is lucky?

How much does graduate earn as salary in federal or state civil service? Please investigate and you will realize the guy is LUCKY.

What is the essence of this miracle if no need is met? What is the definition of a miracle? Is this the way Jesus and God thought us about Miracles in the bible? Please point my attention to any miracle in the bible that is pointless such as turning cold water to hot water?
Okay, Maybe there is no firewood to boil water, weather was cold, people wanted to bath with hot water or they wanted to prepare garri/tea with hot water and there was no means of boiling the water...lol.
With the way these so "uncalled men of god" are going about their businesses, "even the elects will fall" oh. He that thinks he stands, let him be careful, lest he falls.

saint047:
The perpetrators of this heinous and and barbaric act should be identified and brought to book by the police, the crowd that watches this callous people killing this kid are so brutal,So sad and barbaric, God will punish all those who watch the killing without intervening

AMEN!

As we turned into November two weeks ago, i thought in my mind that this year has been relatively peaceful in term of crimes and violence in my beloved city of Ibadan, the capital of Oyo state. In the past years, i have had my fair share of robbery incidences. I have been robbed thrice between 2008 and 2013. I have lost belongings ranging from mobile devices to vehicle to the men of the underworld in the same city of Ibadan. Funny enough, i was really not bothered about these until now.
Like a well crafted project, the men of the underworld seems to have commence "operation end of the year" in Ibadan starting from the beginning of this month. Places like Iwo road, Olodo, Adewunmi Village (along Ibadan- Iwo road),Ojo Express, had been visited in the the past few days. In fact, it is fast become a daily occurrence now. Tinubu Layout in Monatan area of the ancient town was the point of call yesterday. During these visits, residents were usually dispossessed of their valuables, injured and beaten mercilessly. The strange thing about all these is that we have a police force who are suppose to be policing the city and we have a governor who said security is one of the main thrust of his administration. Right under their noses, these criminals are having field day. Communities have tried to mount resistance through gates and barricades, but it seems as if their efforts are not enough. I wish to appeal to the Governor, the Nigerian Police and all law enforcement agencies to help restore peace and sanity to these once "peaceful" city especially at this ember period.

MrMcJay:
Don't mind him. It is a very irresponsible thing to do since he has no source of income.

This is what happens when people think with their balls and not their brains.

Oga, please consider the fact that this guy is not the one that determine the numbers of fetus in his wife's womb
(whether twin or...), your statement is a bit harsh. People without job can raise kids and they have been doing so as long as it is not more than one at a time. Since God has decided in His wisdom to give him three at a go, we dont have to blame him or cast aspersion. Just pray for him if you can't help.

bukatyne:
He picks the 'decent' looking woman for wife and sleeps about with the waka-waka oloshos.....

Lucky dude having best of both worlds

How many times does he take her out? Is he really proud of her as his wife or does he see her as a 'mummy' only good for caring for his kids and chores?

And who says the elegant looking woman will not be a good wife?

Is Omotola not elegant? Is she not fine? What of Mercy Aigbe?

Abeg, the wife should upgrade herself so she is relevant all round jor.

Even the Virtuous Woman in Proverbs 31 dressed in Purple (Royal/Beautiful) clothes.

Happy Birthday to her, long life and prosperity

Have you ever read any scandal involving this dude in the last ten years? Do you ever wonder why with all is fame and talents? Please think it through before posting your comments on social media. Investigate the man family life, you will appreciate God for his kind of man. She gave him stability, a steady anchor from the home-front. She is always there when it matters. A kind of woman every man that desire success should look out for.

Rexnegro:
that's The problem....most people thinks it's beauty first...for The guy it might be that she's understanding, supportive and give him peace of mind. wish me too Am looking out for first, a lady who will give me peace of mind and not all those pretty but drama and wahala full lady.

Look well bro, i am sure you will find. Though not common but such woman as describe by you still exist...Good bless.

Akeema14:
I respect this man die. I wonder why some people are complaining about this woman's beauty... This is natural beauty
. I can't recall when last have seen a celebrity's Wife picture on social media without a make up... Looking at odunlade post shows his wife is a very good woman.... He even place his wife at mother level.... "MY SECOND MOTHER" wow!... I'm jealous

Happy birthday to you Jare

Prayer point : O'Lord give me a wife with All this character listed below :
A God fearing woman
An obedience woman
A natural good looking woman
A caring and loving woman
A supportive woman
An understanding woman
An intelligent woman
A woman who will seek God's Kingdom with me always

Can't wait to get married but for now I got to make money for my future wife and kids

And God that answer by fire will answer your prayer in Jesus Name. Amen. He did for me, i am so sure He is ever able and faithful bro...cheers.

mrvitalis:
this pastors are funny see the type of chair they seet with there wifes.. . Even Buhari never get this kind of sit

Have they ever gone through Matthew 23??

Guy, i wish Fela is still alive...I just remember"suffer suffer for world ,Amen" lyric now

Acheron:
Maaamaaa,

The guy will come to his senses when that baby is finally born, trust me. For now, just stay healthy and try your best possible to be a good woman and wife to him.

I can bet it with anything that things will return to normalcy when the baby is here. That baby will draw you both together especially if the baby turns out to be a boy and a replica of him. I've seen this happen before.

That baby needs you to be strong right now. This shall pass.

I dont know if Maaamaaa will get to read this. the truth is you cannot married this man now because it is like buying a pig in the poke. Acheron theory that he will come around is based on chance with 50% or less probability of success because it is based on no known tenet. Like other people have advised, moved out now from the shared apartment. Move on with your life. If he want you, it will be based on love and not out of pity. A life journey with a man who only pity you is not worth it. Consider the child your gain and devote your time to the child and yourself. What of if the child turn out to be a girl and a replica of you, what then happens? Please and please, you are a very reasonable person. Do what is right. Better life ahead.

Ishilove:
Hmmmm, aunty, this your story dey somehow o... He never loved you, obviously, but you were too blinded by 'love' to see all the warning signs. That he asked you to abort shows he never had you in his long term plans.

Fact is, you pushed yourself on him and being a man, he saw the opportunity for free punny. Now the novelty of the said free punny has worn off and coupled with it, the said punny is pregnant for him, so he is feeling stifled and thus resents you for making him do all things he doesn't want to do.

He wants to marry you out of pity, which is why he said he doesn't want to bring shame to you and your family.

Sister, you are on your own. Better wake up seriously because deep down, you know the truth. Love, they say, is blind but na inside marriage eye dey clear. You are seeing all the signs but you still want to go ahead to marry, because you want to bear 'Mrs', or you want your child to have a normal family as you claim. Sister, you want your child to grow up seeing you unhappy because his or her daddy doesn't love mummy?

Sister, I repeat, You Are On Your Own.

The God of wisdom has granted you plenty of wisdom. I wish you are my friend.

Rukkydelta:
If I love him I'll but only if my own monthly pay is atleast 10times his


Don't want my future Kids to suffer

hmmmmm. This excuse get as e be.
In a proverb, a man said when he become the richest man in the land, he will marry the king daughter. Let him become the richest first. Ladies that are not married are talking of "not wanting the unborn child to suffer". If you are not married, how will you know if the unborn child will "come" and "will suffer"? The determinant of the future earnings is not the salary paid today but how you are able to translate same into a better life for you and the family. A foolish man with a 500k job today cant guarantee a financially/emotionally secured family and a wise man with prospect on a salary of 50k can guarantee financial/emotional security for you and your unborn generation.
The wisdom is to look beyond the money. Look at the man! 2face, Adeboye, Oyedepo, Otedola were not comfortable when they got married. But they are now right?

Roon9:
After the church service u can even wear bumshot ni. But while at their alter, indeed God's alter, you must comply

So tail and waist coat are forbidden on God's altar? Just asking ni o...

TV01:
Maybe it would help if you provided a clear-cut definition of abuse. I have so far heard nothing I can consider objective and meaningful here.
If a spouse slaps there other half once, it is not abuse? Ok, what if it happens twice? What is the qualitative difference?

A short, seemingly simple sentence - but packed with so much inanity, I don't even know where to start . Do we determine imperatives based on individual experiences?


TV

Even if you use a more derogatory words than "inanity", I believe it will be unwise to join issue with you on social media on something sensitive as this. I am a christian husband and father. I am also a friend and colleague to few people going through one abusive relationship or the other. One thing i am not is a bigot. When we needed to be practical in protecting lives at the brinks of destructions, we should seek for divine wisdom and sense, not the bible say or a pastor says. Let the Spirit interpret the words. God gave us eyes so that we can see dangers, brain to know dangerous situation, legs and other useful body parts so that we can avert dangers where possible and when necessary. A man or woman who died in an abusive relationship will still face judgment and don't let us start to imagine the "questions and answers session" that may take place that very day.
In as much as i do not support divorce, i will not encourage anyone, even you reading this to continue to stay in an abusive relationship (especially Physical and Emotional) in the name of one ideology or belief. We really dont have the resource or time to deal with abusive partners in this clime for now as to encourage anyone to keep holding on.
Thank you.

TV01:
Because;
1. Physical abuse could be mild
2. it could be a one-off, situationally driven event
3. It could be dealt with effectively - healing and reconciliation should always be the first recourse
4. It's not given as grounds for divorce
5. There are no grounds for divorce in a consummated marriage

Further, even if you separate (you cannot remarry) unless your spouse dies - I am not counselling murder 0! - even if you call that separation "divorce". That's Christianity - I didn't write the rules


TV

This is far from reality. Do a check. Walk in that shoe and come back and talk here.

dokiOloye:
Was going to d east from Lagos in mid june wt my newly cleared mercedes C300.
Ol boy,I reached Ore where d road is good and wide,next thing I noticed was that it looked like I was practically flying but d speedometer was at 140.It didn't help too that I wound all up and was using d A/C.
It was after a time it occurred to me that d speedometer was in m/h and not k/h and it didn't help that all d cars I'd used b4 were calibrated in KMs.
No be person tell me to 'reduce' leg for throttle.

I was following a Benz C320 from Abuja to Ibadan Last Month and i was in Camry 1999 model. I was on 180 -200 km most time and the guy, i dont know what he doing but i never seems to be able to catch up with him at all and i start wondering if he is conscious of the road at all.

Bluffly:
What should the govt use their earnings for? and what do we mean by infrastructure?. Basically we are looking at good roads, electricity, portable drinking water, basic amenities that make life easier not to generate profit but to make people feel more of an humna being.

Do you want a transformation like Singaporean economy? Do you want us to enjoy better lives with better, more efficient way of doing things? Research into how this third world economy transform into a first world economy where everything works. Let me give you instances. NIPOST (Govt own postal agency) in Nigeria use to be the only way we know how to courier parcel and letter before and the TAT when it was very efficient was like 3 day for a letter/parcel from one town to the other in Nigeria. Cost of doing business was minimal but time was not efficiently used. Then came private courier companies like EMS, UPS etc and you can get a parcel from Lagos to Sokoto in 24 hours with more cost but more efficiency. Businesses picked up, more hands were engage in these allied companies and other companies, translating into more jobs and more incomes (simply income redistribution). Everyone are better for it. Please read about Circular flow of income and Economy Efficiency.

kings09:
Do we have a govt @ all. Wat sort of useless ppl r these?. So investors shld come build d infrastructure while buhari n his super clueless govt do wat?

Chai, My people perish because they lack knowledge. Give me a viable system (economy) where public sector have been in the driver's seat of infrastructural development, then i will understand your own type of people.

Bobandgreat:
Madam, did anybody force iPhone on you?

See your life. Read to understand, you will not... Typical nairalander.

skelewu404:
she is not even fine self, all those site enginner go don yansh am tire

You need serious therapy.

jopretty:
Most ladies think of now and not later. Ladies, if he's true to you, loves you, wants you for keeps but earning low or close to nothing now, your duty is to encourage him, love him and always pray, pray, and pray some more. Thank God for you, Op dear.

God bless you real good.

moyo1993:
Yes its possible. There are some automatic cars that also comes with manual gear shifting.

like some recent model of Avensis in Toyota? Complex in shifts between manual and automatic and not completely put you in control. I have driven one on a stretch of 9 hours, so I know the feel. Manual my choice any day any time.

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uboma:
Your points are duly noted but my stand still remains,

cars with manual sticks cannot and will not be phased out. This is because no car manufacturer will want to loose any segment of it's market share.....

Like me, there are so many die-hard manual stick lovers. There will always be cars with manual sticks irrespective of the advances achieved technologically wise.

Boss, you are correct. I drive both and I love speed, also need the feel of control that come with manual. I have travelled with both between North and South of Nigeria and I can confirm to you that anyday any time, Manual rock.