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Travel / Re: Helicopters Providing Aerial Support For Abuja-kaduna Train Passengers - Police by ojuolu(m): 6:42pm On May 04
Why helicopter with the associated cost in terms of personnel and maintenance-fuelling inclusive? Why are we not employing drone with surveillance and communication capacity?
I believe people in authority should greatly considered this...
Business / Re: What Happened To Me At The Bank Today by ojuolu(m): 1:36pm On May 04
Ask them for account closure form. Give them another account in another bank to transfer your money to. They dare not refuse unless they have genuine reason with evidence.
The worse the bank will do is file a report with NFIU. If they delay, sent mail to the Consumer protection department of CBN. Check CBN website for the email handle, and don't forget to copy the customer care of your bank.
But at least you will have access to your money and you can open a bank account on a fresh note.
Education / Re: OAU Lecturer Assault Student For Refusing To Switch Off Her Phone While In Class by ojuolu(m): 7:58am On Nov 11, 2023
epainos:

Very funny.

Stop criticizing Gen X and Z. It is you who dont understand them. And thats on you. Your own generation is different. Baby boomers coped with those before and after them. Those who classified these generations know why. Events, politics, and technology influence the attributes of each generation. Listen, their generation is a disruptive innovative one. You must learn to understand them, if not, you will be the loser and not them. You will keep nagging they are spoit, while they are making progress.

Back to the story. So, if the girl was a student of the man, the man was justified to lay hands on her. Right? If you insist that old people laying hands on young adults is ok, you need real help.

As far as I am concerned, I dont care to know where she was coming from...the act of laying hands on a young adult is my concern. I dont care even she used a phone in his class, the man could have used a better approach. Laying hands in her is a No.

Like I said, your generation is manipulative. Just look at how you want to justify your action. Please, dont mention me again. I am not interested in interacting with manipulative person like you. You are exactly the true nature of the people I addressed. They dont say sorry when they are wrong but say elders cant apologize. In fact, they will even tell the younger person to still apologize. Thats manipulative. See, I dont care what you think, but listen, you will not enjoy the next coming years because your style is already obsolete. Whether you like it or not, coporal pubishment is going to be abolished in Nigeria also.

I wish you luck...but I advise you to open your mind and love these kids more. They are very resourceful even more resourceful than your generation. Your generation destroyed Nigeria...period. And for that reason, I dont respect everyone of you. I respect my parents as my parents...but I do tell them that their generation messed up Nigeria. Thats a bitter truth even you dont accept is the truth, and you have no moral right to correct anyone. Why would i allow a destroyer correct me? Someone who is among those who destroyed Nigeria. Oga, save your useless training for yourself. Gen X and Z dont need such useless traning method.

Goodluck!
Obviously you have time and energy.
Good luck!
Education / Re: OAU Lecturer Assault Student For Refusing To Switch Off Her Phone While In Class by ojuolu(m): 1:01am On Nov 11, 2023
epainos:

Read the bolded part again. Tell me what is good about those born in 1940 to 1960. Please, tell me exactly the training they had that is good cos you are saying it like those people are the best Nigerians. I dont know what you call home training....but the whatever training they had that led them to embezzle everything in Nigeria....is that a good training? Or do you want to say politicians alone destroy Nigeria and not that generation collectively? You have a generation of people who enjoyed everything, but chose to destroy it all. If they had done things rightly, are we going to be in this situation? If you say this generation of kids is bad...then dont you really think the previous generation before it has the responsibility of making it bad? This is exactly my point.

You are saying this generation is bad, but you do not want to put more of the blame on the previous generstion. The remaining ma.d people still alive in that generation are still manipulative. And if that is the generation you belong, of course...you will defend it all like the manipulators you are. All of you in that generation are werey.

But if you are not in that generation, it means you are one of the real victims of that generation, because you are finished. I can deduce you are a man, and that bullying spirit of that ma.d generation is in you....trust me...na slaps go re-format am. Many of you will commit suic.ide soon because things will definitely change. No one wants to do things that dont work.

You criticize the lifestyle and ways of training kids abroad, but they mostly come out better than you. You run there cos you destroyed your own nation. Are you really ok? You cannot sustain yours ans you say the home training here is better. Your head no correct ooo. Walahi. You manipulators in Nigeria...you keep saying your ways are the best, but you all always come out as looters, destroyers, and wicked people. So, oyinbo bring terrorism, lesbianism and the rest to your place ....right? You better wake up and face the reality that the ways of those 1930 to 1960 people are not the effective ways. If they are, why does almost everyone in the generation you are saying that is good come out to become a potential thief in his office. Even you that is shouting kids are bad...are you good? If I check, you may be a thief at work. But those kids abroad mostly grow up to become responsible. And you run to their country. you...as in you guys in Nigeria. Over 95% of you all are thieves. Yes. So who is more responsible? See eh...you need to be slapped.

So, person wey be thief and pen robber dey accuse nations with good citizens. Your head no correct at all. You don kolo. Walahi. Foo.lish people defending rubbish. You will chop slaps ...mark my words. The kids have decided to turn against you ma.d people. Looters and pen robbers. I am sure this one has stolen several times in his office. He has collected bribes too. Who among you is clean? Werey. Your airports are filled with adults collecting bribes...your streets filled with adults in uniform collecting bribes and shooting people anyhow...so those people received the best homes training. See eh...you be werey oooo. And you said they received good home training. Your head no correct at all. As in...madness is in your blood.
I am not replying your epistle but rather an update to the event. I have read the account of what transpired. It was reported that the lady erroneously entered the Lecturer class and was about going out before the whole drama started. If the account is correct, the the lecturer acted in error and should be made to openly apologize to the student for that show of shame. He should also be suspended if found guilty of abuse of power. The student can also choose to sue the Lecturer for assault base on the circumstances surrounding the drama.
My position does not in anyway negate my former opinion about the Gen X and Gen Z.
Education / Re: OAU Lecturer Assault Student For Refusing To Switch Off Her Phone While In Class by ojuolu(m): 8:23pm On Nov 10, 2023
epainos:

Read the bolded part again. Tell me what is good about those born in 1940 to 1960. Please, tell me exactly the training they had that is good cos you are saying it like those people are the best Nigerians. I dont know what you call home training....but the whatever training they had that led them to embezzle everything in Nigeria....is that a good training? Or do you want to say politicians alone destroy Nigeria and not that generation collectively? You have a generation of people who enjoyed everything, but chose to destroy it all. If they had done things rightly, are we going to be in this situation? If you say this generation of kids is bad...then dont you really think the previous generation before it has the responsibility of making it bad? This is exactly my point.

You are saying this generation is bad, but you do not want to put more of the blame on the previous generstion. The remaining ma.d people still alive in that generation are still manipulative. And if that is the generation you belong, of course...you will defend it all like the manipulators you are. All of you in that generation are werey.

But if you are not in that generation, it means you are one of the real victims of that generation, because you are finished. I can deduce you are a man, and that bullying spirit of that ma.d generation is in you....trust me...na slaps go re-format am. Many of you will commit suic.ide soon because things will definitely change. No one wants to do things that dont work.

You criticize the lifestyle and ways of training kids abroad, but they mostly come out better than you. You run there cos you destroyed your own nation. Are you really ok? You cannot sustain yours ans you say the home training here is better. Your head no correct ooo. Walahi. You manipulators in Nigeria...you keep saying your ways are the best, but you all always come out as looters, destroyers, and wicked people. So, oyinbo bring terrorism, lesbianism and the rest to your place ....right? You better wake up and face the reality that the ways of those 1930 to 1960 people are not the effective ways. If they are, why does almost everyone in the generation you are saying that is good come out to become a potential thief in his office. Even you that is shouting kids are bad...are you good? If I check, you may be a thief at work. But those kids abroad mostly grow up to become responsible. And you run to their country. you...as in you guys in Nigeria. Over 95% of you all are thieves. Yes. So who is more responsible? See eh...you need to be slapped.

So, person wey be thief and pen robber dey accuse nations with good citizens. Your head no correct at all. You don kolo. Walahi. Foo.lish people defending rubbish. You will chop slaps ...mark my words. The kids have decided to turn against you ma.d people. Looters and pen robbers. I am sure this one has stolen several times in his office. He has collected bribes too. Who among you is clean? Werey. Your airports are filled with adults collecting bribes...your streets filled with adults in uniform collecting bribes and shooting people anyhow...so those people received the best homes training. See eh...you be werey oooo. And you said they received good home training. Your head no correct at all. As in...madness is in your blood.

I read everything you wrote again and again and I did come to the conclusions, you don't know me and you are limited in your appraisal of Nigeria and the world all over based on your silos thought process.
I am a man of few words, therefore, abuse and name callings are not really in my lexicon. I won't dignify you with any odd or derogatory words. I assumed you are in your late 20s or early 30s. That set of people never see anything wrong with them but everything wrong with older generations. Well, I am not a victim of any system and I have never stolen a dime, collected bribe, defrauded or cheated anyone in my life. I have been married for close to 15 years, I have never raised my voice at my wife, neither have I raised my hand at her or call her names-never! She is here on this platform and reading you, very bemused. We are very well educated and refined and we have kids we are grooming to be like us.
I am almost certain if you see me in person, you will be forced to retract what you wrote up there.
Haven said all that, I repeat it again, I am yet to see what the teacher did wrong. His response is not overly inappropriate to me. You already shared your thought, I will stick with mine.
Again, like I pointed out earlier, let the young lady seek redress in a court of law if she is aggrieved. Her parents can sue the Lecturer and the school for damages. That is what I, like every other civilised person will do if I feel my right has been infringed upon by any means.
Your advocacy or abuse here won't cut it se o gbo.
Pele , Olorun a wo eh.
Education / Re: OAU Lecturer Assault Student For Refusing To Switch Off Her Phone While In Class by ojuolu(m): 5:20pm On Nov 09, 2023
epainos:

People...just read the bolded part. Just imagine how Nigerian ma.d men are justifying laying hands on adult. Werey plenty this nation ooo. They said their culture is to beat an adult in the uni. Werey plenty ooo. grin
You are cut off from reality. Since it is the culture of the "adult" to be irresponsible, uncultured, the really adult has straighten her out.
Like I said, she has right under the law to press charges. Simple.
The werey that is affecting this generation has no cure yet...that is why we see all manner of nonsense in the name of freedom.
Education / Re: OAU Lecturer Assault Student For Refusing To Switch Off Her Phone While In Class by ojuolu(m): 2:33pm On Nov 09, 2023
epainos:
Nigeria is an abnormal society. Read comments of m.ad people like the man above justifying his action. There are other ways of disciplining the girl, but the useless man as usual wanted to prove he is older than the girl. It is the right of the girl to defend herself from him. What about sending her out of the class. And if she doesnt walk out, he walks out and then take the right action. But he chose to force his will by laying his hands on the girl. And mum.u above just like the man are supporting the act. This is why they go to jail abroad. See eh...Nigeria is an abnormal society. This is why I dont regard anyone above 60. They are useless. Why? Na dem spoil Naija. Na dem holy pass...na dem sabi all...na dem want respect pass....but with the present state of Nigeria and with all the goodies available to them before and after independence. .look at where Nigeria is. Yet, they are still demanding respect. That generation is so manipulative. They use everything tovforce their will on people. If their useless words doesnt make sense, the next is to abuse the person by laying their hands on the victim. They dont mind using religious books to brain wash people. This generation ma.d oooò grin The portion they know in the Bible is honor your parents so your days may be long..if you quote parents, respect and love your children...dem go just go wild ni. Very selfish generation. They destroyed Nigeria. I pray the parents of the girl are well doing so they can treat the mess up of that useless ma d man. Just imagine...becos he thinks he is the alpha and omega in the class...he does not recognise the girl as an adult. Simple...use your authority and send her out of the class. Period. I know many lecturers who stepped aside until the kids walked out. Na the kids begged later because they kept sending the kids out of the class. Simple as ABC. That is the authority this man has. And it ends there. If the kid is useless and does not want to learn, it is automatic F. Period. But laying hands on the girl (an adult), this man needs to go to jail. But it is Naija na where abnormal people like those who have made comments above live. grin Werey plenty in naija grin

If you think critically, you will retract what you posted.
1: OAU is for learning and culture
2. The student have no right to distract the lecturer class with her phone.
3. The lecturer is the service provider and represents the school authorities at that instance so he is correct to assume the Alpha and omega of the class...he is leading a learning process.
4. It won't make sense if because of a single individual, the lecturer walked out of the class
5. Culture is culture. When an elder instruct, if it looks rational, you are suppose to obey first, most especially in a learning environment.
6. Fortunately, there is a video of what transpired. The man did not use enough brute force to warrant him being found guilty of assault. If the lady believe otherwise, let her press charges....
This generation has lost it all...no sense of reasoning, no moral, no ethics....were plenty among Una.
Business / Re: Dangote Repatriates $687,977m From Pan-African Operations by ojuolu(m): 6:30pm On Nov 06, 2023
Ikaeniyan0:
We need more people like Dangote in Nigeria


You really don't know the type of people will need.
Family / Re: New Wife Wants Husband's Late Wife Pictures Removed From The Wall by ojuolu(m): 4:55am On Oct 24, 2023
Odin13:
It’s not easy..
The man must heal before he marries.. if not.. it’s a huge problem.

been there..

And if he loves the late wife ba? So sorry for the new.

They will always want the pix remove.. the pix will go with time..when she fills the gap and more.
You are right. The last paragraph is very apt! And the pix will have to be removed. I have similar experience...almost 15 years now....not that I have totally forgotten but it is now in the background....like a distance dream. My present wife, my reality. And I love this reality very much.
Family / Re: Should I Call Off My New Relationship Because Of This?? by ojuolu(m): 6:49pm On Sep 14, 2023
UnconventionalT:
Copied smiley

"I am a Nigerian student living in Scotland, A Nigerian Christian guy got in touch with me via WhatsApp and asked for a relationship, saying he got my number off a church whatsapp group that I haven't been to for almost a year now. He said he's prayed about me and God has told him we are good to go. He is a student too.
I was single at the time and haven't been with a Christian brother before, so I decided to give it a chance. It's roughly 2 months and I am at the point where I want to quit.

We got talking on the platform and also through calls, about a week into our relationship/talking stage he asked me to come to his place and cook for him so he can have enough food for the coming week. I was surprised because we hadn't even seen each other at that at time. I told him I cannot, he made a big deal out of it and said stuff like it's not a big deal for me to do that as his wife to be. We got over that and arranged to see for the first time, he suggested my house and I said I don't feel comfortable with either of us seeing for the first time in our houses and we finally concluded on a Bugger King outlet which isn't far from my house. This didn't go well with him tho.

We met for the first time and talked, after that he said he wanted to know my place as it isn't far from Burger King. He came to my place and stayed in my bed till around past 10pm, he tried touching and kissing, I told him I wasn't comfortable and he needed to leave because of time. He got annoyed said his intentions was to stay over at my place, he already told his housemate he isn't coming back home and it's so late now to go back. I told him I cannot allow him sleep at my house for the first time we're meeting, I have a small single bed and you intentionally didn't even say you'd sleep over before. He grudgingly left and dropped 3 packs of youghurt and a bag of unfried chips which I later discovered where all expired at the time he dropped them.

I told him about it and he made a mess out of the situation. He attends a pentecostal church and critisizes other churches, he doesn't really believe in adult taking responsibility for their actions as the devil is most likely responsible for everything, we simply have to pray against the devil.
He's asked for sex multiple times in less than 1 month, I stopped talking to him one time for about 2 weeks and we picked up again. He said he doesn't have to penetrate, we can do every other things to satisfy our flesh. He said doing all that with him is the proof of my love for him which I have strongly disagreed. Sex isn't a prove of love, we are adults and can have protected sex with anyone without loving them.
The only single thing I enjoy about him is that we communicate well, he talks a lot too and that makes our communication half argument, he finds fault in any little thing and blows it out of proportion. I have told him I don't have strength for argument in marriage since we won't be arguing over minute things that get him pissed off now.

Both of us have been getting multiple 12 hours night shifts from work and two nights ago, he asked me what he was going to eat when he gets home the following morning, I knew he was up to something. I told him I can't say, we don't live together and I don't know what you currently have at home. I suggested he buys bread on his way back home. He then asked me to cook for him to eat the following morning, I sincerely let him know I have no soup or stew myself. His response changed and he later called me on same subject, citing how I don't care enough about him to be concerned about how he is gonna eat since he's been working few nights now, he compared himself to a married man that always brings food to work at his workplace. Even gave the guy his phone to talk to me, that one too said I should do things in my power to make my man happy.

I tried to make him understand he isn't married and it might be difficult to enjoy what his married frnd is enjoying. Youve never bought me foodstuff, you haven't worked before and sent me 50 pounds or less for groceries, we are both working night shifts and I sort my own food, why are you angry I can't make out time out of my rest period to come cook at your house to stuck your fridge?

I have been in relationship where I cooked, I personally enjoy cooking, but I have never been with a man that feels to entitled to me doing that for him. He says I'm supposed to be the one cooking for him. He also believes in women abroad sharing bills, but he is too traditional to share house chores"


Run oh...
Family / Re: Men Can You Bath Your Wife, Wash Her Clothes And Do Chores, IF She Is Pregnant by ojuolu(m): 11:31am On Aug 08, 2023
Lutherblaq:
My neighbour's wife is heavily pregnent, and i was shocked to see him doing things Like this:

>Washing her 'Clothes'
>Doing all manners of 'Chores'
>And even bathing her Sometimes
We all Know how, things like that are really Rare to see, And to tell you that they have been married for like 12yrs, with atleast 3 kids. so the marriege is not that new na.

back to my question can you do that

Lol. This is natural for me. I take care of my wife during and after each of her pregnancy and child birth. I nursed her back to full health, including massaging her stomach with hot water, washing her clothes and bathing her. My marriage is over 12 years too.
You see, it depends on the individual understanding of the concept of marriage, the foundation of the union and the type of partner you have (which also depend on the type of partner you are). I married my friend. So we do stuffs together....😂😂

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Family / Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by ojuolu(m): 10:08pm On Jul 26, 2023
Tayorshd87:
From a friend though


Am the last born in my family and there are too many ups and downs and wahala in my family because it was a polygamous home and my father was one of the man I mistakenly ever met on earth and unlucky for me he is my father 😭😢
So how I wish I should start my life with my own fresh lineage from my wife and children. Like I don't want to be part of the father tree again.

I gave birth 3days ago and I don't want my son to bear my surname 🤔 I want my own name to be his surname so my father lineage will be cut off
☹️

Please is there any future implications in this decision?
Or rather something bad behind this decision??

Thanks 😌
Simple thing. I have 3 already. They all bear my first name as their surname. Afterall, I gave birth to them and no known law mandate it that they must bear my father's name. My dynasty start from me.
Politics / Re: “I Don’t Want To Be Disturbed With Any Probe”, Buhari Tells Tinubu In London by ojuolu(m): 6:58am On Jun 28, 2023
Business / Re: Gtbank: You Can Now Change Dollar To Naira Instantly From Internet Banking by ojuolu(m): 6:54am On Jun 28, 2023
thesicilian:
GTBank keeps setting the pace. It may take up to 2 years before some other banks catch up, just like the instant ATM card processor.
It is good but this has been happening on my bank's mobile app since last week and at the prevailing rate. Yesterday was 770 to $. No noise, no hassle. The bank clients know this is possible...
Politics / Re: President Tinubu Wants Stigma On Drug Use Removed by ojuolu(m): 2:09pm On Jun 27, 2023
Antimandatethie:
cheesy grin grin
He is Trying to Clear obstacles for his employees na wink



Chai there will be enough of white powder for us in this adminstration
For a Mental Health Aider and Advocate (I am one) his position is right. Remove the stigma and deal with the issue. When you stigmatized, you prevent victims from seeking for help. Society often try to help, aibet in the wrong way....

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Religion / Re: Bishop Feyi Daniel Raped Me Twice In His Lekki Home, Sent Me N5k To Treat Myself by ojuolu(m): 1:26pm On May 10, 2023
When you are called to the ministry by your d**k...
Imagine a serial rapist parading himself as what again? Man of God...
May my erection not dictate the direction of my attention in life in Jesus Name. Amen

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Politics / Re: I Will Renounce My Nigerian Citizenship If Tinubu Becomes President - Ojikutu by ojuolu(m): 10:28pm On Apr 13, 2023
Na because you been get dual citizenship. I no get any other country to call my home
Politics / Re: EFCC Denies Raiding Tinubu's House by ojuolu(m): 6:32pm On Feb 19, 2023
MrOON:
Supporting Tinubu should be a punishable offence with hard labour under the law
Thank God say you no be God or Law.
Crime / Re: I Begged Him To Use Condom - Married Nurse Tells Lagos Court How She Was Raped by ojuolu(m): 8:47pm On Jan 06, 2023
habsydiamond:
U have a condom in ur bag... this story get kleg oo.. when u noticed he was weak why not take advantage of the situation then by looking for an object to hit him somewhere and run out of the room. U said u are not cheap that he should go and find single ladies outside..
So, in one word, you doubt her story. Obviously you sound like a rape apologist.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Why Would You Do As An Employee? by ojuolu(m): 7:47pm On Oct 30, 2022
It will amount to lack of respect from the prospective employer to insist the prospective employee resume immediately after such a dialogue.
Let me put in proper perspective, every employer deserve to be treated with respect , especially if they are good. So if you must leave, please leave with some level of respect. A prospective employer should know that the way you treat your current employer is the same way you may likely treat them. As a prospective employee, if nothing is urgent and regulatory, always give the 30 days notice or at least, 15 days minimum.
Properties / Re: Dear Abuja Residents, Is 980k For 2 Bedroom House in Lugbe Worth It? by ojuolu(m): 5:55am On Sep 24, 2022
In my side of Lugbe (policesignboard), 2 bedroom flat of 1.1m is available. The range is between 750k and 1.2M.
Romance / Re: Young Man Wails, Rolls In Mud Water After Being Dumped By His Girlfriend (video) by ojuolu(m): 12:25pm On Sep 21, 2022
Lazy youth.

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Family / Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by ojuolu(m): 3:43am On Jul 05, 2022
Failure44:

I'll make that man suffer mehn, the amount of hatred I have for him is unmatched.

He'll suffer, when he dies, I'll bury him in a shallow grave or let him rotten in the mortuary

Hmmm, op, you are the architect of your own problems. At 19, you are learning the get rich quick business such as Forex, crypto etc with the mind of making it very fast so that you can compete with your so call mates out there. That is where you have problems and not in being financially dependent.
Look for any other physical and legitimate business you have passion for and learn it. Forget the mindset of wanting to be like your mate, and focus on being you, being brilliant, focus on the future. The result will baffle you.
Lastly, have you ever imagine your father to be dead, leaving you with nothing and you have no entitlement to anyone money but yours? Start thinking that way and work legitimately towards making money.
I have a 200level adopted son in my home, waiting for ASUU too and he is 19. If he ever nurse this kind of thoughts...well, what do I know...

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Family / Re: Young Lady Mourns Her Husband Who Died Two Weeks After Their Wedding (Video) by ojuolu(m): 10:31pm On May 25, 2022
It is not an easy place to be. I was there a while ago. Mine was exactly 5 weeks after wedding. My world came crashing belly flat. I fell from euphoria to anguish and deep misery without anything to hold me in between. I hit rock bottom. I don't want to go on. I wanted to follow her...but God, this God gave me joy for my mourning...He restored me and lifted my soul and spirit.
Finally I am here. God who helped me back then will help her and heal her. Amen

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Music/Radio / Re: Photos From Nigerian Idol Season 7 Episode 14 by ojuolu(m): 3:30pm On May 09, 2022
AntonVince:


The top-3 are all good and thoroughly deserve to be up there but that Progress boy is simply on another level.
He's a notch above everyone.
Zaddok for me is everything a musician cum entertainer should be. He has the voice ( so powerfully sonorous, the vibes, so enchanting, the stage personality, electrifying...I love this dude...as if he is from another planet. I am rooting for him and voting for him too.
Zaddy all the way!!!!!!
Celebrities / Re: Nkechi Blessing: Broke Men Have No Right To Chat Me by ojuolu(m): 10:26pm On May 06, 2022
People, please remind, who is she?
Career / Re: Should I Accept The New Job Offer? by ojuolu(m): 4:41pm On May 06, 2022
Stick to your present job bro. The new offer already underrated and undervalued you.
Forget about the nominal increase, it is not an increase per say. See below analysis.
If you have no accomodation for now or a lasting one, you will need 250k for a studio room in a not too fantastic part of Lagos and you will transport yourself with about 1000 naira a day. Put that at 25k a month and 300k year. That is already 550k less in real salary. Your new job offer you 1,032,000 naira per annum. Minus that 550k from it, you are left with 482,000 naira plus Lagos stress.
Your current job is paying you nominal 600k naira per annum plus 550k naira in benefits...that amount to real pay of 1,150,000 naira per annum minus the stress.
Untill you get a job of at least 2M in nominal value, or real value in Lagos, don't move.
The profile of the company should be the driving force not the role you are being offered. Some job role are just nomenclature. You can be call team lead engineer and be the only one in the dept leading yourself. And you can be a technician and part of a team in a robust company where your contribution will be considered as valuable by future employer because of the profile and the anticedent of the company (talking from experience here)
Finally, add value to yourself on the current job and keep updating your achievements, someone/company will value you and offer you something commensurate with your worth. Until then, don't sell yourself cheap.

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Politics / Re: UN Secretary-General, Antonio Guterres, Arrives Maiduguri (Photos) by ojuolu(m): 5:21pm On May 03, 2022
Ebubu:
Borno get airport people dey vex say Ebonyi dey build airport

Una deh ment angry
Have you been to Borno before? From your comment I guess you haven't. Please forget about the insurgency, Borno have so much that even till now, Ebonyi is still dreaming of. Let me ask how old is the UNMAID? 47 years! How old is EBSU, 33. Maiduguri has been a cosmopolitan city before Ebonyi was carved out of Both Enugu and cross River. Please read history before you comment next time.
I am not from the North but I have lived in the north and I lived a whole year serving my fatherland in Ebonyi, Ikwo, Ndufu Alikwe to be precise.

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Religion / Re: No Black Man Will Go To Heaven - Prophet Agya Dan (Video) by ojuolu(m): 8:27pm On Apr 17, 2022
TMSMedia:


https://igberetvnews.com/1418305/black-man-will-go-heaven-prophet-agya-dan-video/

Is he white, yellow, red or orange? Tell him he should check with God and ask Holy Spirit next time he has the urge to say things like this...this one get as e be...
Education / Re: Unic Vilos Teacher Flogs 2-Year-Old Pupil Who Could Not Recite English Alphabet by ojuolu(m): 2:06pm On Feb 11, 2022
lalasticlala:
As shared by Twitter User, Waka Waka Tailor:



https://twitter.com/WakaWakaTailor/status/1492036296574910468?t=UxRwvRkcVLEaEF_j-pfDIg&s=08


Are they mad in that school? The teacher is definitely insane!
I am not against flogging a student. But you have to flog someone who should understand what you are trying to achieve. But you cannot flog a 2 year old for her inability to recite!!! This is bullying for crying out loud. What does a two year old know?
The teacher should be sacked immediately and the proprietor call to order.
And to flog a 2 year old at all is not to talk of this much is just not normal. No one should try this with my 4 year old...or else, I won't just bring the school down, the teacher will never teach again...radarada oshi!
Family / Re: Young Man Surprises His Dad With A Brand New Mercedes Benz SUV (video) by ojuolu(m): 9:29pm On Feb 08, 2022
Thandiubani:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jApf97JOh6s

A young Nigerian man has made his father's birthday special by gifting him a brand new Mercedes Benz SUV.

The surprise took place in the presence of friends and family members.

The father of the young man couldn't contain his happiness after the surprise.


He was indeed overjoyed.


What is his source of income/wealth? Can he provide proof of funds coming from legitimate source? I am not a joy killer but this is the kind of news that made some 17, 18 years of age to cut human head for ritual... Until we start asking the right questions, crime and criminality will not abate in our society.
Any society that celebrate wealth without knowing or minding the source like we do will continue to witness mindless crimes.

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