You guys use this forum as an avenue to insult the Mr.President, this only shows how some folks disrespect their parents and elders at home. PDP has opted out of presidential debate for understandable reasons, (they are busy campaining and concentrating their forces).

You may wish to know that PDP is the only party in Nigeria today that satisfies the basic requirement for any part to win a presidential in terms of areas of coverage and reach(opposition parties know this also) and also the minimum win-win percentage required in at least 34% of the whole state.

You may also wish to know that most of the registered political parties in Nigeria are not fielding governors in a good number of states, talk more of having structures in the LGAs and villages.PDP is busy campaining and establishing structures.

Mr.Moderator, I think it's high time you regulate and edit  what you should be posted on this forum.

If anyone is still in doubt of what it takes to win a presidential election, you can call on any INEC office for them to better educate uninformed folks here.

I have come to observe that Sistawoman rarely contribute to questions raised in this forum,which are seeking for meaningful answers.This is one of those that took this forum to a new level, with her candid advise.Sistawoman please I'm missing your absence.

You may what, ?

Women,you always want to eat your cake and have it.I'm not surprised as this is not to peculiar to you at all,

Madam,mistakes are bound to occur.And if I may say,you are the cause of it all.You claim not be happy with your marriage,be careful in the manner in which you approach this issue.If you can tell your self the truth,nobody forced into this marriage,even though u claim that it's ur father that lurred u into such.
You are leaving ur husband for ur first love as u claim,be careful you might be heading on the wrong track again,u said u were 17yrs when he married you,so I won't be too far from the truth to say that u are 23yrs now,and your so called first love should also be within your age bracket.Be careful you might turn yourself into a laughing stock!I can tell you confidently that ur 'first love' will not marry you,and can not marry you,cos Nigerian men are traditional thinkers and don't be surprise that his people and colleagues will even advise him to have nothing to do with u,are u aware that if u take most of the advise u read here on NL,u will be misled!Cos majority of us aren't married and they will tell all sort of tales.

I'm not saying that u shouldn't walk away from your marriage,but is your happiness guaranteed at where u think u are heading?You are not the only person marrying an older man,daughters of celebrieties are getting married to older men,so u should know that your predicament is not a peculiar issue.

Blame the moderators!They keep recyling TOPICS but can not recycle the DATES.
Seun,there are so many topics that needs to be expunged.

Ladies could be funny at times,may be her expectations were not met.It could be that she feels that you don't match her societal taste,from her assessment at your place,the visit could have been to come and spy you.But you failed to state the reason why she's quiting,did u force her to bed?If you are right,and she's quited,let her go.Three weeksis not too a long time,you own will certainly come.[/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]

@POSTER

A vitreous woman,who can find?For her price is far[color=#990000][/color] above the rubies.The truth is that many ladies,I mean too many ladies cheat on their men.Even the married ladies,so you shouldn't be surprise to know that your girl friend wasn't faithful to you,rather you should be happy that you were able uncover her 'her and seek' games on time,as she's not worthy to be called your wife from your explanation.Let me reiterate it again,that she doesn't merit the least of your attention for anything in the world.

HOLLASLYD:

What do you expect.the girl got some sexual needs.for 3 years,give me a break.she gotta find someone to reach the promise land.for your question.the answer is yes continue banging her till you tire.she think say she go de disappear de reappear for your life.

The bitter truth is everybody cannot be bad,although you weren't providing the sexual satisfaction she needed,there should have been a dialogue between the both of you and a conclusion should be reached.Forge ahead with your life,certainly there are good ladies out there that are worth your precious time,not a 'commodore in bed',who can give it anywhere at anytime.[color=#990000][/color]

Ujujoan:

@ Post,

Yes, I think it’s just a part of the selfish and challenging nature of human beings.

Most of the time, when we meet people who really love us, we take them for granted. It’s not intentional of course, but the selfishness in us usually overcomes us.

On the other hand, when we meet a guy/girl who doesn’t give a damn about us. We become challenged. Our subconscious tells us we love him/her when all we are actually trying to do is to prove that we can get his/her love.

So yes, I think its human nature.

Love should be a "Two Way Affair" both couples involved should be willing and struggling to fine tune the relationship and make it work better.Love shouldn't be one sided.When it occurs,you can be sure that the relationship will definitely not work out.A time will definetly come that one of the parties involved will work out of the relationship for good.

iice:

How many cheating threads una wan do?

It's only normal for you to buid fantasies about your ideals.But at thesame time do not love to blindfold you.[color=#770077][/color]

-Believe in your partner,don't be in the habit of comparing him with a third party.
-Cherish and adore each other.
-Tell friends about your Love for each other.
-Avoid nagging attitude.
-Don't be too demanding,every now and then.
-Make your fears known to each other at all time.
-Don't be so much concerned about him taking you to the altar,to say "YES I DO", do the right thing.He will beg you to be his'.

Tuface is incumbating a very big problem for his old age.

I don't envy him.[color=#770077][/color]

Nigeria is undergoing a revolutionary trend.
We should be glad to welcome this,

This has been a mind bogging issue to me over the years.When a ladies' relationship puntures,may be for any reason; could be death or failed relationship.She now resorts to you as a "back up". I had this experience from a lady I was asking out during my university days,when she was in her 100L and I was in 300L.I did all I could to win her but all to no avail.She continued to give flimsy excuses that she was into a relationship that would possibly lead to the altar.But like a "patient vulture" I kept in touch with her with continued calls and visitation for 4yrs.Suddenly she started calling me when I was doing my NYSC that she's now in LOVE and asking if I would marry her.I asked why?She said she's sorry for all these years and that I'm her IDEAL MAN.But the truth is that I have found Love else where,and I'm not ready to compromise my grounds with my new fonund "mini mother"
I have told her point blank to hold her peace.

Are you truly a Nigerian,what do you want to do with the number of Nigerians on face book

My brother you don't have to release a half baked information to your fellow nairalanders,and expect to get something tangible, as you have refused to disclose the venue of pre-test