₦airaland Forum

Egoandpride:
Guy, honestly this bitterness is too much and it's not healthy. Why so much hate for a gender that gave you life? Why so much generalization? This whole gender war will not lead us anywhere.. Honestly, anytime I log into Nairaland I always feel sad seeing so much hatred for the female gender when we all are born of WOMEN. Let's think this through.... We are first humans before gender separate us.

dem neva do you na him make body dey catch u, when dem show u 9-9 ur eye go clear - i use to think the way you do until my uncle's wife poisoned him to claim property - no be winch level ooo - na koro koro otapiapia level - guy, your bible tells u, "hell has no fury than a woman scorned" men get scorned like women, BUT the bible was specific about women - it continues .... "it is better to live on a roof top, than stay indoor with a nagging wife" - no be me talk am, na bible talk am

have u asked yourself why men in most marriages die before their wives? even if the man and woman are age mates?

how old are u again? - no worry your time will come to know, dem no dey tell person

now i dont mean hatred here- whatever i say here is for the purpose of social interaction aimed at sharing knowledge

Ebubu:
And what’s the problem from being from a polygamous home if the father can fend for all the wives and the children of the wives ?

Are there no spoilt brats from single homes?

I guess chrisland school girls having sex at 10 is from a polygamous home. You better start saying it out that monogamous home favors only wives so they can be misbehaving up and down.

Same monogamous home where many women bring kids out of wedlock and paternity fraud and the man raises to adulthood only to die of hypertension when he finds out.

Please monogamy is not the African tradition. Africans only started practicing monogamy due to capitalism and the raging cost of maintaining one woman and her children. But I can assure you as wealth increases naturally a man will once again desire multiple wives and children and it is traditional and fantastically NATURAL EVEN BIBLICAL.


Many times women use their bad character to pursue a man. They nag, quarrel, insult, fight, and cheat. So he shouldn’t marry another wife if she doesn’t stop tormenting him in his home he built and paid for ?

Haaaa

Polygamous home fits wealthy men especially if the money is enough to go round to all the wives and children so why should the man be cheating outside if he can afford multiple wives without hiding face ?

don’t mind them… in a certain town in southern Nigeria - na so so landlady full the town even though non of them know the price of cement or what C of O means… They got that title after killing their husbands with stress - nagging until the man gave up, now their mumu ungrateful children will sit their phat az z under their late father’s roof singing “sweet mother i no go forget u for the suffer wey u suffer for me yea yea” on the late man’s furniture watching BBNaija praising a mother whose only inputs to the family was MANIPULATION

WoundedLamb:
You said, "it is not better for him to marry her than hide thier affair?"

You realise they have been sleeping together long before now? You're only learning about this cause a baby got involved and he's now getting married as if that is meant to take away the fact that he's sleeping with his colleague while his innocent wife was at home cooking for him and taking care of children. Let's call a spade a spade. This idea of never seeing anything wrong on whatever a man does is not helping anyone. Aren't y'all the ones always calling out Nigerian girls for sleeping with married men? All of a sudden, it's now okay simply because you want the shield the man? Wow.

Abrahams blessings are mine - hallelujah

you don’t it in church every sunday, bia tell me
how many women born for Abraham ?

Siwel25:
OBJ cannot even decide the elections of Owu town. Infact, his polling unit do not have any sign of his influence. Stop painting the wrong picture here. He's from my LGA. Yeye!

alright a prophet they say is not respected in his home town - u never she shuntin

mauchiz:
When the jazz will start, hope you will still be talking?
Witchcraft will soon start, you want try?
I hope Yul Edochie is a strong man? Hope he is ready for charm and other things that follow?

forget all that jazz things - e no dey work

the only thing i fear is food poisoning not jazz

QuickStandard:
Polygamy is not illegal. some of us are only monogamous cos of our Christian religion.
If you check wella, side chicks still plenty for corner

i live in America and it is illegal here

in fact in American citizenship test and interview you will be told!

ddemillie:
The same yanke o!!! When he be say to dey yansh and marry fellow man dey acceptable o!!!

no mind dem for yankee - most of them na hypocrites

no polygamy but brothels everywhere where swingers operate - swapping each other's wives for sex

some sef engage in bestiality indoors like sleeping with their dogs

yet they say polygamy that Father Abraham practiced is a crime

Monogamy in the west was enforced for tax compliance reasons not for ethics!

PrinceOfLagos:
You woulda been a dead man by now if na Yankee you try this thing

that is why kata kata dey yankee - husband dey kill wife, especially oyinbo men

WoundedLamb:
They're just trying to appease her after turning her life upside down in the blink of an eye. Conscience is a strong thing.

Yul will marry up to 4 wives in the next 10 years - a true son of Ebubedike
Is it not better for him to marry than hide his affairs? Real men own up - fake men pretend
I hate hypocrisy - that is what is killin the western world and we have bunch of single ladies doing stuff that married ladies do
like having sex, cooking and cleaning for a man they desire BUT the man cant marry them because polygamy is illegal

So carry go Yul.. He is handsome, rich, he has influence, a master in his field, a celebrity and what else, he has name identity

The man no be only one woman fit get am abeg, him too much!!!!

Truthisunique2:
Tilumbu that formed apc can not dare ask for right let alone you the apc decampee to pdp

But why can't you use the 11million and give support to a southernern, must it be selfish you all the time

As long as OBJ is alive, neither Atiku nor Tinubu will never rule Nigeria and Obj is going nowhere even in the next 20 years

Forget about all that wayo endorsement of Atiku in 2019 - those who know Baba know he is a quintessential backstabber who never forgives!

Atiku and Tinubu will be on suicide watch once they lose - and that is sure to happen!

PrinceOfLagos:
See as he look like unclean oracle

Tinubu should go and rest abeg

person like this Tinubu, once he is elected, he will move Aso Rock to London Metropolitan Hospital where he has a permanent sick bed - he will visit Nigeria for 1 weekend every month to rub it on our faces and nobody will say anything - after all Buhari did same and no one could cough about it

TINUBU PRESIDENTIAL ITINERARY After May 29. 2023 (God forbid he wins)

On Thursday the 25 (2pm Nigeria Time) of every hypothetical month
-------Presidiot Bola Tinubu arrives Presidential wing of Nnamdi Azikiwe airport- received by service chiefs, 36 state governors and all ministers and all traditional rulers in Nigeria - he holds state council meeting same day at (4pm), signs all pending appropriation papers and bills gathering dust and retire to his bedroom to sleep after a bowl of hot amala and ewedu soup -at (6pm)

Next day - On Friday the 26 of every hypothetical month - @6am He leaves for Lagos, Attends Jumat at Lagos Central Mosque - same day he meets ONLY invited guest at his Boudillon, Ikoyi Residence [some Governors, Diplomats, local and national APC leaders OR any body he likes to see] - then he takes a deserved rest / siesta and that evening from 4pm to 10pm - there is a mega owambe party at his Boudillon residence for his loyalist with the likes of MC Oluomo calling the shots

Next day - On Saturday the 27 of every hypothetical month - @11am, Presidiot Bola Tinubu leaves for Abuja - holds security meeting with the service chiefs and Senate President and Speaker of the House, Chief Justice of the Federation - He also meets with the Accountant General of the Federation , Attorney General of the Federation, APC National Chairman, The Sultan of Sokoto, CBN Governor and Chairman of Governor's forum to tidy up statements and share the loots - host them to a private party with their wives or girlfiends

Next Day - On Sunday the 28 of every hypothetical month - @ 11am, Presidiot Bola Tinubu leaves Abuja for London - seen of by All Service Chiefs, 50 Traditional Rulers, all 36 state governors, etc - to return again same time next month as he returns to the ASO ROCK wing of the London Metropolitan Hospital

IF THIS IS WHAT YOU GUYS WANT FOR ANOTHER 4 YEARS, VOTE BOLA TINUBU FOR PRESIDENT IN 2023

zinaunreal:
Waste of 100 million

na where him get this money ?

Kogi State Treasury abi?

very good

Urheadmaster:
What a cruel world we live in

Nigeria, not world

everythin concentrated at the center then we complain of incompetence

as big as Nigeria why should it have a fire service? In America it is cities that have fire service

That should be a local government service but what do know ?

In Nigeria - It is the ONLY the federal government that exist - Both STATE and LG are like dumb terminals

no power, no purpose, no prospect, nothing to produce ONLY acting as bambiallah (BEGGAR) levels in the federal structure

What A SHAME!

NaijaCoverBlog:
A Young Man identified simply as Dominion, was apprehended by vigilante group for allegedly stealing clothes at Aceremony community in Aguda-Epie Town, Bayelsa State.

According to a community leader, Izibeyame Prudent, the suspect who is from Otuesega in Ogbia Local Government Area of the state, was nabbed in the early hours of Monday, April 25, while allegedly stealing clothes from people's houses.

Another suspect identified as Lucky Godbless was also apprehended by the vigilante group with stolen items at Edepie-Epie.

Taking to Facebook, Prudent Wrote As Sighted By Below;

"YOU SEE THIS GUY BY NAME DOMINION. HE IS A NATIVE OF OTUESEGA IN OGBIA LGA, BAYELSA STATE, NOW RESIDING AT BIOGBOLO SUB-COMMUNITY IN AGUDAMA-EPIE TOWN, YENAGOA

"HE WAS CAUGHT DRESSED LIKE THIS BY THE VIGILANTE GROUP AT ABOUT 3am AT ACEREMONY SUB-COMMUNITY, IN AGUDAMA-EPIE TOWN STEALING PEOPLE'S CLOTHES.

"THE 2ND PERSON IS CALLED LUCKY GODBLESS FROM OPOLO-EPIE, YENAGOA. HE WAS ALSO CAUGHT BY SAME VIGILANTE GROUP WITH CODE 03V.

"DURING THE INTERROGATION! HE CONFESSED STEALING THE ITEMS IN HIS HAND AT EDEPIE-EPIE AND WAS TAKING TO IGBOGENE-EPIE FOR SELL BEFORE BEING INTERCEPTED BY AGUDAMA-EPIE VIGILANTE 03V."

See Photos As Obtained By Below:

when men commit crimes, they are humiliated and their faces shown - but when women commit crimes, their faces are blurred, interesting!

where is the national assembly ? can’t they initiate articles of impeachment for Buhari and Osinbajo so that the senate president can take over and conduct elections within the APC to get a replacement for Buhari for the next 1 year ? what is wrong with Nigeria ?

why are there no consequences for failure and incompetence ? awww I forgot - Nigeria is a country that forgives terrorists, claiming they have repented and serves them with delicious jollof rice and goat meat and with with "saintly" white clothes at tax payers expense - mobilizing and empowering them with public funds as a mark of appreciation for their contribution to societal development

I hate nonesense

who betrayed Jesus Christ ?

Judas Iscariot

That’s all I have to say!

Slynation:
So Rudiger is available and Bracelona picked Christensen!! Kai...nawa oO

Yes he was available but he did not want to play for the failed and useless club FC Barca

ibechris:
I am not surprised honestly...this thing is indeed an Egyptian plague.

beeni

ibechris:
I pity a lot of women who are married to gamblers.

How i wish they can summon courage to leave such men and continue their lives independently.

How can a married man be gambling away the future of his family just like that.

i know a baby mama who squanders the money she is given monthly for the upkeep of her child on bet naija

jmoore:
Below is the list of what most states in USA charge for a candidate that wants to partake in primaries.

Governor: $5,000.
U.S. Senate: $5,000.
U.S. House: $2,500.
State Senate: $1,000.
State House: $500.
Judicial offices: $500.
Countywide elected offices: $100.
County Commission or Constable: $25.

Let's compare one state in USA and a country called Nigeria.

GDP of Texas 2021: 2.0 Trillion dollars
Budget of Texas 2021: 261.5 billion dollars.
Presidential aspirants in Texas pay a $5,000 filing fee.

GDP of Nigeria 2021: 446.9 billion dollars
Budget of Nigeria 2021: 23.3 billion US dollars (13.6 trillion naira)
APC presidential form: 170,940 US dollars (100 million naira)

Compare that to a poor country called Nigeria. APC decided to set the price of governorship at $85,470 (50 million naira). That is 16 times more than what is paid in USA. While that of president set at 170,940 US dollars (100 million naira) is 34 times more than what is paid in USA.

Until INEC sets a REASONABLE limit on how much political parties can charge, this ridiculous trend will continue.

Are our destinies tied to APC and PDP?
Many are complaining that these top two parties are disenfranchising young candidates with their prices. We have more younger people than old people. If only many Nigerians think like me, APC and PDP would have been abandoned for a long time. But most of the electorates love 'abusive relationship'.

If in other countries, a young person can win an election with a unpopular party, why can't it happen in Nigeria?

I thought the new electoral
law creates a provision for anyone to run for public office without being sponsored by any political party? if it didn’t - why were the ignorant masses rejoicing ?

3 people protesting? abegi

Clinghton:
Lady looks tough, hope she's not a puncher.

Happy married life though.

ex con

Mykelslim:
Even if you want to help Nigerian women this way, they still ask for money "shey you want to sleep with me, won't you enjoy it?".

like say they don’t enjoy it too

weak men think women’s moaning during sex is out of pain (that’s the lie Nigerian females) have established for generations- saying things like “take it easy na, it’s painful - you are injuring me” bla bla bla all to massage your ego that you are the rampaging lion while they are the sheep being slaughtered and make u feel like they are doing you a favor so that when they ask u for money- you will be easily emotionally blackmailed to do or after all u injured her and u alone got all the pleasure while they got all the pain - FAT BIG LIE

a vag. i na that can bring forth a child can never be overwhelmed by any d ck…. sizewise

that’s why mugus are paying these girls big time in Naija

Akanoaaa:
Ok.. thanks for the enlightenment

you are welcome!

Akanoaaa:
Colourful picture in 1964? Ok continue

there was color picture in 1956 when Queen Elizabeth visited Nigeria - Even 1942 when Adolf Hitler gave a speech in Berlin

nijanigga:
This forum is not big enough for all that,I just quoted you ,saying affordable act was passed in the middle of night,which is bluntant lie and

you surely have no answers for the simplest of my questions- so no need to burden you with complex critical thinking with the second base of my questions… just like every emotional wreck of liberals trolling social media trying so hard to beautify Barack Obama into unmerited political sainthood through cheap distortions of his appalling records while in office - I will let you go, BUT whenever your peanut size brain can engage in constructive analysis of the Obama era, please, kindly come on board- even Mr. Obama himself can not debate me on his own records of failure while in office, not to talk of you, an uninformed CNN baptized and programmed disciple of leftist propositions… Take care!

nijanigga:
You're a liar from pit of hell,how many round table Obama had with the Republicans to pass the affordable act ? How many times have the Republicans went to court to repeal and replace affordable act ? Even after 6 years out office they tried and failed,today we're all enjoying Obama care,my children can remain on my plan until they're 26
You don't have to belive me,just goggle my questions
From day 1 in office Newt gringrich formed a clique to thwart every plan of Obama's presidency
Go to YouTube and type hell no you can't by John Boehner It's just one of the hate speech by the Republicans to block Obama care
As ignorant as these racists were, some of them were saying they love the affordable act but hate obamacare ,but when told they're all the same ,they got cold
Obama wasn't perfect just any past POTUS, but the hatred was too much
Took America out of recession since the Great depression ,balanced the budget NO Republicans is talking of national debt anymore by the so called deficit hawks ,since Trump ballooned the national debt to $27 trillion but under Obama they frustrated him even from spending a balanced budget.
You forgot the government shutdown championed by ass licker like Ted Cruz,
Dude list goes on and on.

calm down - you do not have to insult me to make your point
i see you clearly avoided offering a concrete rebuttal to the FACTS I stated
I am not going to run round on nairaland with you on your emotional roller coaster exercise

Please kindly answer these questions for me - because I was responding to you saying OBAMA was blocked by the republicans

1. As of January 21, 2009, how many democrat senators were in the US Capitol?
2. Was the affordable care passed or not? - Mind you, I am not asking if it was challenged by the republicans in court
3. Did Nancy Pelosi (D) make the statement, "WE HAVE TO PASS IT TO KNOW WHAT IS IN IT? "
4. Did the supreme court rule that "OBAMA CARE is a TAX?"
5. Was Ted Cruz (R) elected in 2010 to represent Texas because he campaigned to REPEL OBAMA CARE?
6. If #5 is "YES", were you expecting him not to do the work he was elected to do when he gets to DC?
7. Was Newt Gingrich a member of Congress when OBAMA WAS ELECTED IN 2008?
8. If #7 is "NO" - what constitutional powers does he have to stop OBAMA in whatever he wanted to do with AMERICA ?
9. What hatred did OBAMA suffer that the democrats did not give to Reagan, Bush 41, Bush 43 and Trump?
10. Did you realize Cathrine Griffin put the picture of "headless Trump" with blood on it on social media? What of Trump on Hamilton?
11. What is the work of the opposition in any democracy? Is it to roll over and accept everything from the executive arm?
12. Talking about "taking America out of Recession" - Did Obama borrow more than all 43 presidents before him combined?
13. If #12 is "YES" - how can excess borrowing more than all your predecessors combined balance a budget?
14. Was Ted Cruz's government shut down the first in American history ?
15. If #14 is "NO" - does that mean it was racism too from whites to whites when Reagan, Clinton and Bush experienced shut downs?
16. What is hate speech? How does opposing views between government officials regarding policies translate to hate speech?


Let me stop here first - let me get answers to each time so I can understand you better before I proceed. I do not base my arguments on emotions but facts... Sorry u and your family have to rely on Obama care - I earn too much to rely on that

Thanks!

God1000:
I don't know why some Africans hate him so much, he did well in office apart from the US led NATO military operation in Libya that killed Gaddafi under him.

The republican led Congress both at the senate and House of representatives blocked everything Obama wanted to do

what congress blocked Obama?

when Obama won the presidency in 2008, he was sworn in January 2009 with a filibuster- proof senate headed by Harry Reid and a Congress headed by Nancy Pelosi - that means for good 2 years, Obama had the votes to pass whatever he wanted to pass - and there were weak republicans too who didn’t resist for fear of being called racist, folks like John McCain, Lindsey Graham and Mitch McCornell

It was after Obama passed the ACT in the dead of the night which was shrouded in secrecy without much bipartisanship and the Supreme court explained that Obama Care was indeed a tax on the people that the “TEA” (taxes enough already) party of the republican wing gained momentum to register that 2010 mid term “shellacking defeat” for the democrat party -

Even at that the Republicans got the Congress with John Bhoener as Speaker while the democrats kept the Senate with Majority Leader Harry Reid

so how was Obama stopped by republicans ?

He was simply incompetent Sir

I was here for years before Obama got elected and I am still here to tell u all that happened in his time - na my korokoro eyes everything happen, no be wetin CNN talk

ibechris:
Had it been that the guy wasn't bringing anything,then I could have asked u to talk to the guy but this guy is trying considering the global inflation rocking almost every nation.
That is close to 600k per annum...and she is even in Edo state where food is cheaper compare to some south south state.

Do u know that more than 50million Nigerians are earning less than that amount monthly and yet some people are complaining. U really need to educate your cousin about this abroad of a thing,because it is never easy over there and let her try demand less.

Keep it up,u have really tried and have nothing to say to the guy except where the guy stops bringing something as for me,I think the guy is trying.

there is a saying that “who no go no know” i have never seen a country in this world where money grow on trees, and even when one gets the job abroad, na so bills dey collect the money left and right - most people back home don’t even know they are more financially fulfilled than some of us living overseas

i pray she makes it to America someday- then she realize the guy tried - until then, whatever i tell her will certainly fall on deaf ears

that’s why i am against anyone hyping jand like it’s heaven, yes the infrastructure is there, basic amenities and social safety nets are there but free cash is not oooo especially America

Thanks for your rational advise and I will heed, God bless you, and increase your bank of wisdom, Amen!

GboyegaD:
No put your mouth for wetin no concern you. It is their joint responsibility to take care of the child and if all he can afford is $100 so be it.

If he is your friend, it would have been a different ball game. Respect your boundaries and respect him as a man since he's not neglecting his responsibilities.

Above all, I hope he sees the need to be more involved in her life than sending money.

exactly!

Ximenez:
You people and sentimental posts.
The child is also hers.

God bless you, entitlement mentality no go kee dem