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What is actually wrong with all these men

African culture in its highest form on display here.Igbo kwenu!!!

Holding grudges trying to revenge can lead to depression and disorder.Inorder to free yourself you need to forgive.Forgiveness is not an easy thing to do.There is a way the mind works.Praying for your enemy can actually change your mindset and completely free you from the hurt.

I think men should stop chasing women.Paying bride price and other things men are supposed to do.Let the women now do them.Men should now become women and women should now become men.Imagine,any woman can just walk up to you and accuse of rape and you accept it.Nawaoh.

Honestly i don't understand this obsession for Igbo people.I don't see anything wrong with the pics by the way.Atleast there is evidence that the palliaties got to the right people we all know the kind of country we live in.But all i see here is people obsesing about Igbo people even when the OP did not even mention the state were this took place.Who did this to Nigerian youths.

One has to be careful when choosing a life partner.That's why write ups like this are very important considering the rate at which marriages are failing these days.But i would like to add that for the men they should not marry an emotionally needy girl that is the clingy type of girl. such a girl is dysfunctional there nothing you can do in this world to please her just run away for your dear life.The best type of girl to marry is the one who is flexible not rigid.That is you can suggest an activity to her and she ready to yeild to it this is because you guys are going to be making a lot of decisions together as a couple.Flexibility is the hallmark of a good woman.Any man who finds such a woman is truly blessed.

I am not saying that you shouldn't give to your church.But question is why did government give you the money in the first place.You did not earn it you were given because you are poor and need assistance during this trying times.The Church itself should be looking for a way to help its poor members like you.May be through appeals to its rich members to help the poor.

This is what i call stupidity.

Well done Airpeace.This is what we have been talking about.I can also see that there is some kind of obsession for Igbo people here.

Hunger was what put an end to the civil war not guns and bullets.A hungry man is an angry man.The government should try and handle this situation better.If not the poor would begin to eat the rich.

What! Padita Agu is 41...That lady looks 23.As far as i am concerned she is the hottest.

What! Padita Agu is 41....That lady lady looks 23.I would say she is the hottest.

Honestly,i like reading threads like this.Apart from the humor it gives.It makes me to know about different places in Nigeria.Nice one guys.

The fact is that Catholics are not obligated to even explain any of their doctrines to anyone.How can an atheist even condemm abstainance from eating meat when many doctors have said it is healthy to abstain from meat.Or a Christian condemm the same act even do it is done as a form of sacrifice for Jesus.What is the big deal in not eating meat.If you don't eat meat would you die.Or is eating meat now a do or die affair.

I think the problem here is finding the right partner for marriage as this institution is seriously under attack.There are many dysfunctional people out there for instance the clingy and emotionally needed woman,the selfish man or woman,the gold digger,the selfish the jealous man e.t.c.I just feel that people should go for pyscological eveluation before getting married but getting a good woman like that mentioned in proverb is very hard these days.But if you do find one like the OP said.You are lucky and should not take them for granted.What i don't agree with is that a woman should not pursue her dreams because of a man.

Hunger is bad o.It was hunger that actually ended the biafran war.

The op is a very wise and good man and would make a very good husband.A word is enough for the wise.Most girls don't mind marrying a beast as far as he has money.If a man is using money to keep a woman,such a man is dysfunctional and needs to see a doctor.

Cheating in a relationship doesn't have to be just sex.If she passionately in contact with your ex she is cheating on you.There are two reason why a woman would cheat on a guy.Its either the relationship is over or she is just a flirt.In your case there was no relationship in the first place.Best advice dump her and move on.

The thing here is to show compassion to these people.It may shock you to know how many people go to bed hungry in this Lagos the banning of keke and okada without alternatives has not helped matters,and now this.In the UK for instance food is in abundance.So they can afford to lockdown.The government knows this but it was a difficult decision for them to take.

I just think that a woman who depends on a man for survival is a kind of slavery.Some men like playing daddy figures to their wives but end up holding a grauge against them in the later years.The complain that she has contributed nothing financialy to their union.But is marriage compulsory.I don't think so.But earning a living is.

You said that you asked him how much he has and he said 30k and you got angry.If you leave that guy now even do it might be hard breaking for him he would be better of for it.Of what value are you adding to his life.The right attitude to a relationship is to be able to add some kind of value to his or her life and not what you can benefit from it.If you do not like him because he is poor please do him a big favor and leave.Because i do not see the value you are adding to his life.

We are too superstitious in this country.I blame mostly the members of this churches who believe that if you give to the church you would receive from God as if God is now a magician or in the business of money doubling.

In a country were there is no social security and government keeps bringing out policies that render people jobless, i am not surprised that this kind of thing is happening.Let them keep neglecting the less privilege and be forming all sorts of security outfits,since the country security agents have failed.The beggers are even asking for empowement.You have not done anything to empower them and you are arresting them.

I am not surprised reading most comments here because of the way they country is.In developed countries,were Keke and Okada are not used,they have trains,double decker buses,trams,subways,good roads,even social security.While we have nothing,and yet people are supporting this policy.Thousands of people have lost their means of livelihood in a country with no social security and with the highest amount of poor people in the world as a result of this policy, yet people applaud the government for it.Unbelievable.Nigeria we hail thee.

She said there are no haters in London.Apparently in reply to a comment.I don't understand please what is wrong with that.Infact with the many hateful comments i have read here,she is right,Nigeria is filled with hate.

I want all those in support of this government to please tell us how they have made the lives of Nigerians better.

Nigeria has the highest amount of poor people in the world overtaking India with a population of over a billion according to the world bank.This is a sitting time bomb,it is the major cause of insecurities in the country according to president Buhari.A responsible government should bring out policies that would help the poor get out of poverty,not trying to hide them so that the rich and privelegde can live in a rich environment.This is because,when the y revolt and the revolution has already started with the high level of crime in the country,ritual killings,yahoo yahoo,kidnappings,terrorism,one chance,e.t.c.The rich would only be able to sleep with one eye.Well said,transport minister.The governor should consulted you,before taking this action.

My concern about this is that the level of unemployment would rise.I know two yoruba guys who are married with children that drive keke for a living.What does the government want them to do now.A government should bring out policies to create jobs not unemployment.

I am waiting for his boss the Bishop of Enugu to act on this matter.The Catholic church is a hereachy thats why you have the pope at the top and is seen as Christ representative on earth,it has its ways of worship so you cant come there and do anything.The bishops answer to him.On his prophecies, i would say people are endowed with gifts.I know people who have testified to seeing him work miracles.
If you read the history of the Catholic church there were priest who have done greater things than Mbaka,for instance st patrick of Ireland,whose feast day was declared as a public holiday in ireland,st Anthony of padua,etc.God boasted that he made Egypt the most powerful country in the world so that his will be done.

I wonder how someone dancing now makes the person a prostitute.Some peoples minds are so dirty sorry to say.

What is wrong with dancing?Does it mean that dancing is now a crime and sinful.Me i like to dance and i don't see anything wrong with.

quote author=MrFly post=85726757]this is why i love orthodox churches. Their pastors have less interest in the root of all evils. Welldone Father for clarifications[/quote]That priest Father Ugwu may God bless him has more to gain from preaching about first fruit but he prefers to do what is right by saying the truth.He prefers to do what is right than aquire great wealth.