₦airaland Forum

Cheating in a relationship doesn't have to be just sex.If she passionately in contact with your ex she is cheating on you.There are two reason why a woman would cheat on a guy.Its either the relationship is over or she is just a flirt.In your case there was no relationship in the first place.Best advice dump her and move on.

The thing here is to show compassion to these people.It may shock you to know how many people go to bed hungry in this Lagos the banning of keke and okada without alternatives has not helped matters,and now this.In the UK for instance food is in abundance.So they can afford to lockdown.The government knows this but it was a difficult decision for them to take.

I just think that a woman who depends on a man for survival is a kind of slavery.Some men like playing daddy figures to their wives but end up holding a grauge against them in the later years.The complain that she has contributed nothing financialy to their union.But is marriage compulsory.I don't think so.But earning a living is.

You said that you asked him how much he has and he said 30k and you got angry.If you leave that guy now even do it might be hard breaking for him he would be better of for it.Of what value are you adding to his life.The right attitude to a relationship is to be able to add some kind of value to his or her life and not what you can benefit from it.If you do not like him because he is poor please do him a big favor and leave.Because i do not see the value you are adding to his life.

We are too superstitious in this country.I blame mostly the members of this churches who believe that if you give to the church you would receive from God as if God is now a magician or in the business of money doubling.

In a country were there is no social security and government keeps bringing out policies that render people jobless, i am not surprised that this kind of thing is happening.Let them keep neglecting the less privilege and be forming all sorts of security outfits,since the country security agents have failed.The beggers are even asking for empowement.You have not done anything to empower them and you are arresting them.

I am not surprised reading most comments here because of the way they country is.In developed countries,were Keke and Okada are not used,they have trains,double decker buses,trams,subways,good roads,even social security.While we have nothing,and yet people are supporting this policy.Thousands of people have lost their means of livelihood in a country with no social security and with the highest amount of poor people in the world as a result of this policy, yet people applaud the government for it.Unbelievable.Nigeria we hail thee.

She said there are no haters in London.Apparently in reply to a comment.I don't understand please what is wrong with that.Infact with the many hateful comments i have read here,she is right,Nigeria is filled with hate.

I want all those in support of this government to please tell us how they have made the lives of Nigerians better.

Nigeria has the highest amount of poor people in the world overtaking India with a population of over a billion according to the world bank.This is a sitting time bomb,it is the major cause of insecurities in the country according to president Buhari.A responsible government should bring out policies that would help the poor get out of poverty,not trying to hide them so that the rich and privelegde can live in a rich environment.This is because,when the y revolt and the revolution has already started with the high level of crime in the country,ritual killings,yahoo yahoo,kidnappings,terrorism,one chance,e.t.c.The rich would only be able to sleep with one eye.Well said,transport minister.The governor should consulted you,before taking this action.

My concern about this is that the level of unemployment would rise.I know two yoruba guys who are married with children that drive keke for a living.What does the government want them to do now.A government should bring out policies to create jobs not unemployment.

I am waiting for his boss the Bishop of Enugu to act on this matter.The Catholic church is a hereachy thats why you have the pope at the top and is seen as Christ representative on earth,it has its ways of worship so you cant come there and do anything.The bishops answer to him.On his prophecies, i would say people are endowed with gifts.I know people who have testified to seeing him work miracles.
If you read the history of the Catholic church there were priest who have done greater things than Mbaka,for instance st patrick of Ireland,whose feast day was declared as a public holiday in ireland,st Anthony of padua,etc.God boasted that he made Egypt the most powerful country in the world so that his will be done.

I wonder how someone dancing now makes the person a prostitute.Some peoples minds are so dirty sorry to say.

What is wrong with dancing?Does it mean that dancing is now a crime and sinful.Me i like to dance and i don't see anything wrong with.

quote author=MrFly post=85726757]this is why i love orthodox churches. Their pastors have less interest in the root of all evils. Welldone Father for clarifications[/quote]That priest Father Ugwu may God bless him has more to gain from preaching about first fruit but he prefers to do what is right by saying the truth.He prefers to do what is right than aquire great wealth.

Evil strives when good people keep quiet.God bless you Fr.for speaking out against this evil plauging our society.

Fake pastors are to blame for this kind of mentally this is because in order to hold the individual captive,they first put fear in him.That you wicked uncle in the village is the reason you lost your job,the reason your are sick...Please run away from this kind of people.They have destroyed many homes.I know of a man who died at age of 120 yrs,yet they were still blaming village people for his death.Free yourself from these fake pastors and learn to serve God in spirit and truth.

This is the major cause of sexual immorality in our society today with its terrifying consequenses.It is the major reason why their is a very high rate of abortions,one abortion every second.It is the major reason why men cheat on thier wives i can go on and on on the consequeses of abusing such a wonderful gift as sex.We should also know that sex is the spring in which the whole of the human race springs from.To distort or poison it could lead to the destruction of the human race.The question now is.What is sex?

Honestly why these people hate Jesus so much i dont know.I am not a follower of Mohammed,but i don't hate him.Why are these people so bent on preaching hate and not love.Even if you are not a follower of Jesus must you preach hate against him.Looking at homosexuallity.If these peoples parents were homosexual would they be here producing this nonesence film,what is sex really?Infact i have given up on humanity.

Honestly i don't know why someone would want to be idetified as a minority.You speak Igbo and answer Igbo names but you want to be known as Edo a minority,what is so special about Edo state,i just don't get it.Even Britain a super power is finding it difficult to exit the EU.

Honestly speaking anybody supporting president Buhari in whatever action he takes truly hates him.This is quite embarrassing,that the Nigeriann government do not obey court orders.Who takes such a president seriously.So sad.Well i guess i am just a wailer.

Even here in Lagos,i know many roads that have been constructed by Igbo business men.That's what we are talking about.But unfortunately people who hate don't like this.

Nawaoh most of the comments i read on Nairaland is about tribe.

I hope we don't have another Rwanda here in Nigeria.

Imagine a prominent Nigerian is being accused by the US for fraud.Rather than us to render our support to him since he has pleaded not guilty we are here discussing tribe.

And tomorrow we would be wondering why most prominent Nigerians are not sending their private jets to help Nigerians stranded abroad e.t.c

From what i have read so far,this border closure would lead to more job loses,a lot of business would fold thereby causing more poverty and hardship in the land.And for a country which according to the world bank is the poverty capital of the world.I don't think this is a very wise thing to do right now no matter how good the intention is.

Mercy is a graduate...BBN,nollywood are creating jobs for Nigerian graduates something your government couldn't do.

Lets look at the bigger picture of the impact of Marley's statement on the society.Since the 1980s there has been a steady rise in STDS,STI and HIV/AIDS.Women as a result of the easy availability of abortions have been reduced to mere sex objects.We now have side chicks all over the place,with its devastating impact on the family.The truth is thst the consequences for this type of tought on society is dissatrous.The path to destruction is easy that's we prefer to listen to people like Marley.

Honestly i don't know what is actually wrong with us.In a country were there is no light no potable water very bad road networks security issues no jobs,government at all levels, strugling to pay 30000 naira minimum wage etc.I can go on and on,people are still hailing the president who wears Gucci shoes and has a fleet of presidential jets.

The main thing i got from this wonderful write up is that money is not everything,but love is.True religion is visiting the orphans and the widows in their affliction being humble and not wanting anything back in return for your good works especially praise from men.Good moral values.It condems homosexuality,abortion and all forms of immoralities destroying our world today please,those condeming religion should tell us what is wrong with that..I think Christianity if properly practised by Christians can actually bring development to our country,because money is not everythingThe developed countries we always refer to were one time in their history just like us or even worse.Religion has got nothing to do with our problems.

The truth is that the Igbo man would continue to dissapoint the Yoruba in this their false belief that they own the monopoly of success in Nigeria. I have seen how they have been struggling to run down Innoson with their comments without success.But the funny thing is that at the end of the day it's what is in your pocket that matters. Because you would not tell Iyabo your wife that Mike Adenuga is the owner of Glo and he his a Yoruba man when she asks you for money.

The sad truth is that the Yorubas on this forum have this false belief that it's only them that have the right to succeed, but unfortunately for them the Igbo have continued to dissapoint them.Which they find very annoying, as a result they try to run down any achievements made by an Igbo forgeting that they share a lot in common with Igbo. The igbo man is a black man like them,he is also a Nigerian and an African just like thenThe sad reality for them is that the Igbo would continue to dissapoint them in their very myopic thinking because they don't own the monopoly to succeed in Nigeria. Most annoying for them is that most of the Nigerians performing wonders so far are Igbos. The question they should be asking themselves is why am I always proud of others who are yorubas and have achieved, can't I make others proud of me aswell.

Nigerians are not bad people, its just that our leaders are the ones making us look bad.This girl Success problem was her inability to pay school fees in a dilapidated primary school run by government. Now with the help of social media,good spirited Nigerians have come to her aid. May God one day give us good leaders in this country.

If you do a calculation from the exact time that Jesus was reported dead in the Bible to when he resurrected it is not exactly three days, just close to that. What this means is that these guys were really telling the truth about Jesus resurrection. If it was just a story they would have made sure that they reported his resurection to be exactly on the third day.
Praise the Lord. He is truly awesome. That resurrection is the sole reason that we have Christianity today. Because even if we die we shall be with him in paradise forever.