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I just don't know how you guys are thinking. Even the so called aas store he claimed we will use roi to buy, please how many gadgets have you been able to buy? All he has done was selling out fake hopes. Even ordinary 0.35% his greediness and selfishness won't allow him atick to that because he didn't want to give anyone any money from our hard earned money with him. Even the roi sales if he had maintained that will he be where he is today No. All jesam ever does was lies upon lies. When one lies fades off he comes up with another one. He is a thief and an expert in this scamming schemes. Have you used your eyes see where he claimed to do the liver transplabt or the transplant was miraculously put into his body without any cut. When exactly was such major surgery done that he never skips a day without dropping voice notes and was chatting constantly in the telegram room while winning people's trust over? Who does such transplant and won't be pushed into induced coma first before a liver transplant would be carried out?? So many questions but you guys refuse to think straight and just buy whatever he sells out for you people to hold on to. Please if you do contributions to a thrift collector and he or she gets robbed who do you hold accountable or arrest Why didn't he do the needful with his so called experience with different methods of save guarding digital assets Besides he already told us it was safe with binance and that even he himself can't access the funds so you guys should know that security people are not dumb even if you guys can't think straight. He is a thief, a scammer and a very wicked man that should rot in jail

Debbie0425:
Its very sad people come on here to lie. Especially when they know the truth. Then you have those that are paid to lie. Which is evident from the comments.

Jesam Michael is anything but a scammer. And he has the proof to prove his innocence which is being shown in a court of law.

The IGB, SEC AND EFCC SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF THEMSELVES. Members among you are so greedy you are being bought off. Whereas you could make money honestly and easily if you had invested in the platform he built.

But every one of you lying, stealing, blackmailing or taking bribes will have to stand before God. You wont be able to buy your way out of that.

Free the victim! Jail the thief Abayomi

I just don't know how you guys are thinking. Even the so called aas store he claimed we will use roi to buy gadgets for months, please how many gadgets have you been able to buy? All he has done was selling out fake hopes. Even ordinary 0.35% his greediness and selfishness won't allow him to stick to that because he didn't want to give anyone any money from our hard earned money with him. Even the roi sales if he had maintained that will he be where he is today No. All jesam ever does was lies upon lies. When one lies fades off he comes up with another one. He is a thief and an expert in this scamming schemes. Have you used your eyes see where he claimed to do the liver transplant or the transplant was miraculously put into his body without any cut. When exactly was such major surgery done that he never skips a day without dropping voice notes and was chatting constantly in the telegram room while winning people's trust over if you were really an investor because I was an early investor? Who does such transplant and won't be pushed into induced coma first before a liver transplant would be carried out so how was he still able to be sending us voice notes throughout till the matter started?? So many questions but you guys refuse to think straight and just buy whatever he sells out for you people to hold on to. Please if you do contributions to a thrift collector and he or she gets robbed who do you hold accountable or arrest Why didn't he do the needful with his so called experience with different methods of save guarding digital assets Besides he already told us it was safe with binance and that even he himself can't access the funds so you guys should know that security people are not dumb even if you guys can't think straight. He is a thief, a scammer and a very wicked man that should rot in jail. I know my money is gone but at least justice should be served. How much do you think is required to get a SAN in nigeria?? Using out money to do father Christmas. Investors were so so patient even while been branded different names on top of our funds by pushing out different narratives and gave him enough time to at least show sympathy but instead of showing that towards investors he was busy doing charity to win trust and gain attention while investors die of hunger and hopes destroyed. It will never be well with jesam and every accomplices to his scam schemes. How many months was he using different stories to deny tokens bought then all of a sudden the same token can now be distributed even without the so called sec approval he had been using to lie and to now make matter worse sent out another token against what was purchased with no liquidity. He is a smart and cunny scammer that all he cares about is him selves alone and no other persons matter.

Hunter2009:
JUSTICE DENIED: HOW JESAM MICHAEL'S KINDNESS WAS TURNED AGAINST HIM





What began as a promising crypto venture turned into a real-life thriller of betrayal, and alleged corruption. Jesam Michael, the embattled CEO of Afriq Arbitrage System Ltd., now finds himself behind bars—ensnared in a complex web spun from a series of shocking events dating back to 2023.



Shortly after launching his crypto trading platform to public acclaim, Michael’s health took a sudden downturn. Suffering from a critical liver condition, he handed over control of the platform to his trusted lieutenant, Abayomi Oluwasesan.

That trust would prove catastrophic.

With Jesam incapacitated, Abayomi reportedly assumed the worst—that his boss would never return. Acting on that belief, he allegedly looted over $87 million in investors’ funds and vanished when news of Jesam’s recovery surfaced.

Jesam's first port of call was the EFCC. They immediately placed Abayomi's account with over ₦400,000,000.00 (Four Hundred Million Naira) on post no debit (PND). But facing slow progress, he escalated the matter to Interpol, who eventually arrested Abayomi. A plea bargain followed, with some properties and cash returned. However, a significant portion of the stolen funds was allegedly hidden in a misplaced cold wallet.

Part of the plea deal required Abayomi to retrieve this wallet post-release. When he failed to do so, he was rearrested and charged with criminal theft.


Enter CSP Taiwo: Love, Power, and Alleged Manipulation


During police restructuring, CSP Taiwo Oyewale became the new commander of the IGP Special Investigation Unit (SIU). While reviewing case files, she came in contact with Jesam—and what started as professional interaction quickly evolved into a romantic relationship.

Taiwo, newly posted to Abuja, upon hearing that Jesam had renovated the new SIU office on the 1st floor, force headquarters, requested for accommodation and Jesam offered one of his guest houses. She moved in with her three children and reportedly became a regular visitor at Jesam’s home. The relationship, however, took a controversial turn.

Jesam allegedly assisted Taiwo in making a ₦108 million investment in crypto. When market conditions dipped and losses mounted, she reportedly demanded a full refund—despite the assets being stored in her personal wallet. Jesam transferred ₦108 million to CSP Taiwo's naira account but never received the crypto coins in return.

Things came to a head when Taiwo allegedly requested for 30 plots from land—recovered from Abayomi and located near the Dangote Refinery—claiming it was for the IGP. Jesam declined, fearing it would harm investors' interests.

That decision, sources say, marked the beginning of his undoing.

The romance soured, and Taiwo reportedly turned on Jesam, aligning with Abayomi to exact revenge. Trumped-up charges were drawn up, leading to Jesam's arrest on January 29th, 2025.

Allegations of Abuse and Official Overreach
Following his arrest, Jesam was detained under tight control at Maitama Police Station, then transferred to the notorious SARS facility. His lawyers fought back, filing a fundamental human rights suit against the police.

On February 18, 2025, Justice M.A. Madugu of the High Court of the FCT ruled in Jesam’s favor, ordering his release and restraining the police from re-arresting him without court approval. The court's order was served to all involved, including the IGP.


Yet the police allegedly ignored the court and instead handed Jesam over to the EFCC in an attempt to evade a contempt charge which had just been instituted.

Meanwhile, disturbing details emerged:

Police officer Abiodun Adekunle Fasasi, reportedly enlisted by Taiwo, allegedly underdeclared $100 from the cash seized from Jesam during his airport arrest. Despite no evidence of drugs or arms found during a search of his home, the police issued a press statement linking Jesam to such crimes.

The EFCC connection
The EFCC on taking over the case, first granted Jesam bail late in the evening of 25th February and by 26th morning they already had in their possession a remand order from a magistrate court to keep him for 14 days implying that the bail granted was purely cosmetic and of no value.
Every two weeks, the remand order was renewed and no attempt to charge him to court was made.

Weeks turned to months and with no plans of being charged to court, Jesam again filed for his fundamental human rights enforcement at the federal high court.
The EFCC in response, immediately drafted some charges and filed at the federal high court and used the same to oppose his bail on the fundamental rights case.

The trial of the substantive case has now begun and the futility of the case filed by EFCC has become clear to all.

The Bigger Picture

This saga is more than just a personal downfall. It raises deep questions about abuse of power, the intersection of personal relationships and professional duties, and the integrity of Nigeria’s justice system.

Jesam Michael’s legal team continues to fight for his release, and investors are watching closely—many still unsure whether they’ll ever recover their funds.

I just don't know how you guys are thinking. Even the so called aas store he claimed we will use roi to buy, please how many gadgets have you been able to buy? All he has done was selling out fake hopes. Even ordinary 0.35% his greediness and selfishness won't allow him atick to that because he didn't want to give anyone any money from our hard earned money with him. Even the roi sales if he had maintained that will he be where he is today No. All jesam ever does was lies upon lies. When one lies fades off he comes up with another one. He is a thief and an expert in this scamming schemes. Have you used your eyes see where he claimed to do the liver transplabt or the transplant was miraculously put into his body without any cut. When exactly was such major surgery done that he never skips a day without dropping voice notes and was chatting constantly in the telegram room while winning people's trust over? Who does such transplant and won't be pushed into induced coma first before a liver transplant would be carried out?? So many questions but you guys refuse to think straight and just buy whatever he sells out for you people to hold on to. Please if you do contributions to a thrift collector and he or she gets robbed who do you hold accountable or arrest Why didn't he do the needful with his so called experience with different methods of save guarding digital assets Besides he already told us it was safe with binance and that even he himself can't access the funds so you guys should know that security people are not dumb even if you guys can't think straight. He is a thief, a scammer and a very wicked man that should rot in jail

rabaye25:
EFCC has buy wrong Market. And EFCC take note 📝. This case will Expose the Weakness of Nigeria 🇳🇬 EFCC Abayomi Segun Oluwasesan and his Family will never 👎🏿 know peace in their entire lives. Nigeria 🇳🇬 EFCC is Fake, Nigeria 🇳🇬 POLICE 👮‍♀️ IS FAKE, go and arrest the Criminal Thief and RELEASED THE INNOCENT MAN NOW. IF NOT NIGERIA 🇳🇬, where can this Happened? What a country Nigeria! Their time is up by God grace. Justice must surely prevail now. Abayomi has paid the EFCC and Abayomi has paid the Police that’s why they’re doing all this. The whole World 🗺️ 🌍 🌎 will know how this country call Nigeria 🇳🇬 EFCC scam and Fraud Innocent People. All because of Bribery from Abayomi.

I believe you are one of the admin, so have you seen his body to show where the surgery was done on him? Same jesam that was sending us voice notes every single day till the whole saga started except if you didn't start the platform with us to know this. So when exactly was the surgery done. Was he sending us voice notes from the sick bed? How I'd someone who just did a major surgery able to be testing and sending voice notes every single day to build people's trust? No matter the narratives been tried to be pushed out there, security operatives are not zombies because they have come across many of his kinds. Destroyed so many lives to enrich him selves with fake humanitarian services to make himself look good at the expense of his investors funds thinking he was untouchable due to the amount of money in his possession. Investors were patient for more than 2 years with different hope stories. If not for his greediness and selfishness, even if he had maintained even roi sales to continue he won't be where he is today but he prefer to be dashing out our money to who isn't investors than allowing investors to even have little feel of their funds. Even ordinary 0.35% weekly roi he still couldn't maintain that so as to keep investors mind with something but his selfishness and greed won't allow him think straight.

oladiran2:
How transparent please, have you seen his body where the liver he claimed he did was done on him Did you see the hash tags showing how the so claimed money was moved? He only pushed what he want you all to believe. Please kindly answer this simple question. You were giving your money to a thrift collector who then tells you he lost your contribution to armed robbers please who will you hold The robbers or the thrift collector. After all he claimed the money was safely secured which made him gained the right trust so it's just like a thrift collector keeping money home instead of banks. So why did he lied of people's fund safely kept and not secure the funds securely in a se u're wallet or are you also telling me anyone can transfer your funds from your binance? Please ask the right question rather than following blindly. Justice must be served

How transparent please, have you seen his body where the liver he claimed he did was done on him Did you see the hash tags showing how the so claimed money was moved? He only pushed what he want you all to believe. Please kindly answer this simple question. You were giving your money to a thrift collector who then tells you he lost your contribution to armed robbers please who will you hold The robbers or the thrift collector. After all he claimed the money was safely secured which made him gained the right trust so it's just like a thrift collector keeping money home instead of banks. So why did he lied of people's fund safely kept and not secure the funds securely in a se u're wallet or are you also telling me anyone can transfer your funds from your binance? Please ask the right question rather than following blindly. Justice must be served

Rajkumar9987:
As an investor, I have known aJesam as a very transparent individual who wants the progress of the common man. Abayomi stole from AAS and he is the reason we are in a mess today.
Free Jesam Michael
Jail Abayomi he is theif

Which normal investor won't be against him after using our hard earned money for extravagant lifestyle and on top branding up different names through his narratives of naysayers he successfully pushed into you dumbs brains. The whole abayomi is a gradual rug pull strategy. Please before you defend that thief, have you used your eyes to see the liver transplant surgery place on his body? No so was the liver miraculously transplanted into his body without any cut?? You guys should start using your brains and stop these thieves from using your head.

SheeAbex:
Jesam Michael reported that Abayomi Oluwasesan his former staff member stole $87 million from his company. Rather than investigate and bring the alleged thief to justice, the EFCC has instead turned its attention to Jesam himself. They falsely claimed that over 50,000 investors were against Jesam Michael and used that as a reason to deny him bail. This claim is completely untrue.

that can feed your entire generation and the ones not born. must you guys type without common sense just to make yourself relevant?

Jcomtrader:
They are not wise. If you see the dirty bleached thing they handed their money over to in the name of arbitrage. You go laugh. A local cheap scammer that was just promoting cheap ponzi around calabar

am surprised reading this from a man, no matter whatever you are going through if there is a way to make your parents be fine is it not worth doing no matter the excuse you are trying to give on how you dad wasnt there much for you so is that why you expect them sleep in a house with no roof in this rainy season or will you be happy your brother died when there is something that could be turned into money to save his life. you are seriously not normal in your thinking sorry to say. how can you be angry they sold something to safe your brothers life and roof the house for God sake. you are extremely selfish and self centered without minding anyone else not even your own blood for God sake. if you have had a more critical issue too is it not what one has one will turn to money when its not the end of the world. shame on you to even be considering what you just posted.

Hardtotrust:
I am very very angry right now. I couldn't sleep last night. That is why I'm bringing this here this morning before I do something very bad. A father should be after the growth of his son and not after ruining him.

Please you guys should help me look into this matter. I understand that it was a matter of life and important concern.

I'm seriously struggling in the city to eck a living for myself and do the little I can for my family also. My father was a petty trader who hardly can provide adequate for the family. Some of us who come from a very poor background would understand this better. I mean coming from where absolutely nothing is kept for you. No support from the family and nothing, nothing and nothing. You are the one who die and same you would have to pour yourself water to come back to life. You, you and only you.

I buy fast consuming products and supply to people and make some gains from there. Sometimes I hawk the products. I was able to save up to N150k. Around May this year, I went to the village and bought some rubbers of palm oil and store them to sell around November/December and make gains.

Last week, I got a call that wind pulled off our house roof in the village. Since they are using small torchlight phone, I didn't get to see how serious the situation was. Even though I didn't have money, I sent N15k to help fix it. My father later called me and complained bitterly on why I sent just 15k, that according to the carpenter, that materials and workmanship would cost N65k. In my mind, I was just like, does this man even know how I survive here in the city?

For two nights, they didnt sleep in the house as the wind pulled off the rooof.

On Tuesday, I learnt my younger brother was being operated of Hernia. I know about the hernia but was under plan to raise money for it. And I knew there was no money to settle medical bills for operation. So I was shocked where they got the money to do operation.

As I traveled down yesterday to see them, dear Nairaland friends, all my rubbers of palm oil has been sold and the money spent on fixing the roof and paying for the medical bills for the hernia operation without my notice.

I am not taking this kindly with my father who engineered the whole thing and I want to arrest him to refund my money.

That is my life investment and it took me so much to raise the amount. Due to how things are now. I even wanted to sell two rubbers to invest back as the business is facing challenges now.

What should I do here to recover my money back? If I have another money, I would over look it but that is my life investment of my labour.

i agree too. i dont see a demand from who you are dating to be an issue. whats even 2k that is bringing issue not like she is asking you of 20k. you seem not also dating her alone and why you could be renting hotels to meet up, now you complaining of asking you of 2k, will you complain the same if she allowed you lodged as usual and refuse to show up

donbachi:
Op, you're too arrogant

So what will your statement be if eventually it resumes trading in the coming week If you were the owner of a group will you tolerate statements that will jeopardize the peace of the member? Hate with sense and not been bias as of aas is the first platform to have a group that doesn't tolerate I'll statements or you want to tell us all groups you ever find yourself has always welcome any kind of conversations dat so suit the members been good or bad right?? Was AGT not also banning members who say things against them? Why did you not come on naira land to say bad before they went away with many investors money and disappeared with no trace but the ones still talking and trying to keep his community intact you come here to spill thrash by not using your small brain at least a little.

Jcomtrader:
The crook and scammer called jesam michael cooked the tales by moonlight arrest above you evade attention and to distract his investors from asking for their money. If you go to their telegram there is no freedom of speech. The place is a prison and a grave yard of people's investment.

After lying to them for many month that their money is safe. He cooked a new story overnight that money had been stolen and used by one abayomi

You are the most gullible poster I will ever come up to read his post since have been on naira land. Seek knowledge before you type epistles of what you don't even have a single knowledge about. Understand how something works first before jumping on conclusions on issues you have no knowledge about. Let me just use a bit of my time to educate you small for your small and empty brain. The liquidity wallet you scan that goes up and down isn't been used by aas alone, it's like an auto generated wallet address been used by Binance for organizations in which they handle their payments using their gateway. Secondly if you don't know something I think no crime in asking, the way those guys hack the platform was them using their bybot to pick up investor's daily routine which was supposed to drop for some investors and reason you see many missing roi and imagine the millions on the platform and probably able to get the roil of just a million users which went on for more than 2 months. They were not able to steal from the liquidity but from the daily roi of many people

webmonkey:
The whole story is beginning to get boring. First he said that AAS liquidity pool can NEVER be hacked and it was hacked and he came up on AMA meeting and said it was a bybot that we should give him 30 days.

He lied and decided to continue lying. After another 30 days. He came with another stories that he needed more time to build or finished building the robot from scratch. Another lies.

The annoying part is that AAS admin are the most gullible persons on earth. They censor the telegram group to the maximum. If you said anything against AAS, you are immediately removed.

Those AAS myopic investors cheering that lier called himself JM are there praying for him and praising a Ponzi scheme master who thinks he can decieve people with 63.5% per month on ROI. The hard and honest truth if your care to know, earth does not have that kind of money. Crypto and Blockchain does not have such liquidity to pay thousands of investors everyday with minimum investment of $100.

If it does, the Blockchain Industry including DeFi, NFT, smart contract, and Staking both PoW and PoS will collapse under 45 days.

He came up with Abayomi and Nigeria interpol, i laugh. What have we not seen in Nigeria. Snake swallowing N80B, APC winning Abuja and scoring 25%

Everything is possible in Nigeria when you have the money. The last time i check more than $100M has left the ASS liquidity pool.

He is now coming back for the second billing and these mugus are jumping up and praising him with his cook and book stories with Nigeria interpol.
JM should be arrested and interrogated. The funds are gone. AAS is the biggest scam in Nigeria.

they dont just collect that amount for the first time, its an improved credit score for good repayment of loans given to them over time. i was given 700k. i have been with fairmoney for a year but one needs to be disciplined because the interest are massive and if one is not careful one wont even get savings because your income will just be going to loan repayment due to the high interest on loans collected

PapaNnamdi:
My own question is, why is fair money giving huge loans just like that without collateral or anything for this Nigeria wey we dey,

for my front person collect 150k loan

another 300k loan,
by just registering on app,

Nigerianz wey no de gree pay back

what is fair money getting back in return

This your thinking get as he be ooo. Which subsidy are you removing again when no more export of crude and crude can only be sold out for foreign exchange and tnus hopefully bring down d dollar rate.

ojun50:
Dey play, just prepare to buy at 500 plus, ones the refinery is ready we remove subsidy

Did you even watch the movie at all. You are too bias. The guy wasn't faultless but he tried to his best after the first bleeped up, he never cheated anymore to the point of working with the lady's family but they never loved him and looked down on him cos they wanted the lady to marry their friend. Their pressure didn't help matters to make the lady make the right decision even down to divorce room where the guy was begging not to take such path that he loved her dearly, how supportive do you still want him to be after been forced to sign which he must sign. Bought the house back, gave 10m dollars which was x5 of all her expenses to appreciate her.

kurlz:
How I'm I biased nah

You are as dumb as the poster. Someone is hypertensive and you are talking rubbish. Is it new to see someone today and even same day you hear the person is no more. Do you have power over life and death to know when it's time for anyone or are you God? If not for African mentality to respect in-laws, the poster can even be sued and to pay dearly

rapwizzy:
Do the necessary thing... Don't listen to some nincompoop around here. Some of them are too childish. You can imagine, a man is dead, and his brother wanted to know what killed the man, and they are talking nonsense.
Don't trust that woman, but do your findings legally.
Ire o

Allow the woman mourn in peace please. Did you even read what you wrote for God Sake. So where is it said that if a man can't get sleep then it's the woman or the wife's fault. Do you know if your brother was involved in a business that didn't work out and maybe the business was funded through loans and now no how to repay back. Many reasons could make a man have sleepless night.

If she didn't visit the mother in-law what has that has to do with been wrong,do you know if where she works she wasn't given any break or she has alot on her plates? If not physically present but do call to check up isn't that good enough.
You are wrong in many ways and don't feel cos she is married to your brother you have the right to disrespect her.

dboY1123:
I lost my brother early last month and I have been unsettled and paranoid. He visited us a day before and he was healthy and hearty only for us to hear of his death the next day which was on Sunday.

He was admitted in the Hospital, on the bases that he was short of blood. He took 4/5 pants of blood and stayed 1/2 weeks before he was discharged and that only made him live for a month or so.

I want to know more about his death, exactly what happened. His wife is someone who didn't relate well with us (in laws) and she distanced my brother from us, while he objectively did as well.

This wife didn't visit my mum throughout her stay in the hospital for more than 3 months before my mum passed on a year ago. When I visited the hospital where my brother was rushed to being the same place he was admitted, they told me that he must have been bothered about somethings, and that the drugs he was given parts were hypertensive, that he stopped taking the drugs and all those excuses.

I was informed by the nurses that my brother has been suffering from insomnia, he hardly sleeps in nights and if he does, it's just few hours. All these things, the wife didn't tell us anything.

Now, I want to take the fight to her. I need her to tell me exactly what transpired, how did it happen! She's been in 40 days mandatory sit-at-home stuff and I can't wait to sit her ass down and interrogate her.

Should I get her arrested for questioning by the police?

Modified

Gm

Common sense is not common

For the bruises, that's nothing.it's as a result of her vagina hair going in with your Dick. She hasn't shaved yet that's d cause so no issue on that. The only concern is on the std stuff. If she has almost finish d drug then there is tendency you have nothing to fear as I expect the drugs to have done the needful but if not go get yourself injected with erythromycin and it's tablet too. You should be good after. Infection takes less than 24hrs to show in men, very fast. If you don't feel any pulse or pain in urination then I think you are good

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Are you in your right senses at all?? Am noy sure you re-read what you wrote at all. She can't take care of her MIL but can do for her own right? Common sense is not common at all.

cococandy:
When sick and old in-laws come to love with the family, the expectation is that the wife will be the one to provide care for the sick and old family member. So your wife should have the final say on who’s coming for extended say in my opinion.

Because let’s face it, your wife would have been the one to give your mom bed baths, bathroom care etc. now that her mom is coming, she’s still the one who will be expected to do that. Not you.

So it might not be the presence of your mom she didn’t want. She just didn’t want the extra responsibility which invariably falls on her. Before you ask why she can’t treat your mom the way she treats her mom, know that her mom will be willing to die for her but your mom won’t. That’s the difference

You judged your moms patience wrongly. Yes she did that for peace doesn't mean that would definitely seat well in her mind. That action alone is enough to add to her pains of motherwood and might even be your fault she died more earlier because yes she might leave but do you know if she is thinking and crying when she gets home You really did some damage to your mom ignorantly and I pray she forgives you in her sleep. That's completely wrong in all aspect. Even if she wanted to leave you were supposed to block the door and say No way not you allowing her. Even if to kneel down by the door to tell her no way not been cool because she said so. She only acted the way any elder would behave and it's now your duty to defend her but you didn't. Motherwood is not by sending money to her alone, am sorry but am not sure you made your mom enjoyed her last days at all courtesy to you and not your wife because you allowed such impudence

SPAMBOX7:
So you saying you even had a brawl with your wife cos of your mom in your mom's presence.
OK wait lemme rephrase. You mean your wife wanted your mom out to the extent that your mom heard about it and had to leave your home?
So because your mom was cool headed you let your wife had her way with her?
Wow my guy you weak o. Sure say no be you be wife for that house?

Nothing like remorse, that is late already. Who knows if the mother in law would have had extended years seeing his son too. The husband was soft in the first instance, I hope he will be strong to take the right decision now too cos it's just a No, especially if ever the ehn marriage is for husband and wife talk ever came from the wife, I would remind her of the same statement and kill the discussion asap.

Neweramify:
Op your wife was wrong, but try and understand her fear. Most women feel inconvenient around their mother inlaw. Not because she hates her mother inlaw but for the fear of the unknown.

Let her know how you feel knowing she wanna bring her mum in when she rejected your mum. I'm sure she will feel remorse of her action.

Permit her to bring her mum, cause if anything happen to the old woman, she may accuse you of one thing or the other.

Exactly well said. In as much as they told you marriage is supposed to be between husband and wife and not husband wife and mother then she should be ready to dance to the same music. A wife thay feels hostile towards the mother of her husband to me is no wife, just get a little problem she is gone. If you had not been well brought up and trained by that same mother she is acting hostile towards today snd not been grateful to her for giving her the best husband will she see you to marry today Anyone that told you otherwise is hypocrite. Capital No, as long as you were not okay with her decision but you still went ahead to do just her wish and she becomes happy, she Dare not even change the rule this time.

MrBrownJay1:
if the above is how your wife felt about your own mother coming to stay with you guys, then she has NO RIGHT to expect her own mother to come stay with you guys... NONE!

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to use 869 billion to count less than 300 million people. do you guys just mention millions, billions like its one piece of cake? why not dash each citizen 10-15 million naira each and see how the country will reshape itself in all sectors and the so called 869 billion wont still be exhausted.