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RevampNairaland:
I am coming back

always available

cristianisraeli:
nobody says dont look..but do not touch or harass or disrespect her..thats all we are saying...look..this is not saudi arabia where you are not allowed to look..she is free to wear bum shorts..in asia 95% of women wear bum shorts..that means your blood go come outside your veins..lol..no woman would ever label you as dogs just for looking..dont whistle dont call her and dont harass her..just LOOOOOOK

you are not getting my point, am not talking about disrespecting a lady in fact any man that does that is a coward, all am saying is ladies are expected to covered their body to prevent more springing up of more bastards.
that my point

cristianisraeli:
nobody says dont look..but do not touch or harass or disrespect her..thats all we are saying...look..this is not saudi arabia where you are not allowed to look..she is free to wear bum shorts..in asia 95% of women wear bum shorts..that means your blood go come outside your veins..lol..no woman would ever label you as dogs just for looking..dont whistle dont call her and dont harass her..just LOOOOOOK

you are not getting my point, am not talking about disrespecting a lady in fact any man that does that is a coward, all am saying is ladies are expected to covered their body to prevent more springing up of more bastards.

RevampNairaland:
at the bolded what defines it

Religion
Culture
or Personal conviction
I can't remember the name of a certain tribe in South Africa, you need to check their outfit including the King

my point of decency is you covering delicate part of your body, do you know that this indecency you are talking about is what promote pormiscuomity among the men.
when a girl wears just bum short and spaghetti top passes beside me how do you expect me not to look at her twice when I have blood running through my vein, after stairing at her I would either forget about her if am well disciplined or lust after her, then 2 years later this same girl will come on nairaland and label all men as dogs.
hope you get my point

kayjee101:
honestly, you made a valid point, but like the bro above me said, it is there problem and not yours...actually, an incident happened right in front of me at iyana-aboru, close pleasure bus-stop today. Some men nearly beat a girl just because she was in a very short bumper shorts or what-the-heck-it-is-called and a piece of t-shirt which hem she raised above her waist making every sh!t visible. 'Inu awe,' one of the man shouted as he nearly pounced on this girl only to be stopped by some wise men. You won't believe it, she wasn't relentless. She was charging at them to do their worst. When it dawned on her that she has lost out was when an army pickup van pulled up, and an officer was like, 'why did you not beat her very well well.'
Mind you, i was all eyes observing because it is her life not mine. Subsequently, non of those men knew if she had eaten that morning, they were all about her dress code.

ummmm valid point but the problem is even ladies on nairaland here see nothing bad in indecency they think it doesn't portray who they are, that what the society is turning into very soon pure nudity will be the norm of the day and like they have always said it doesn't portray inner self.

SirMichael1:
When you're not God. Bītçh stop nagging to stay relevant. I didn't mention your àss

yes am not God,but God himself gave his commandment in Quran and bible to dress responsibly.
except you want to go to hell pervert

SirMichael1:
Fūçk off my mention!

take it easy you hear, don't die yet.

SirMichael1:
When you're not God. Bītçh stop nagging to stay relevant. I didn't mention your àss

grow up kid and stop thinking like an infant, it is only a fool like you that will see nothing bad in walking naked and happily promote it or else you are the devil itself in human clothing.

SirMichael1:
Fūck off or shut up!

you see that is part of what I am saying, been defensive but won't want to think with his brain and see the sense I am trying to impact in his life.
like I said before when you have a child from age 4 encourage her to always walk unclad all in the name of civilization.

SirMichael1:

Majority? You refuse to take corrections yet again. These are your personal findings. You didn't conduct a wide range of research from different part of the country and you dare say majority?!

A girl walks in rags doesn't make her to be disrespected. It's her choice. Clothings and adornments isn't a yardstick for measuring decency or chivalry. Celebs wears crazy attires, don't they.

This is 2017. Everybody is bad but not everyone is corrupt

So, how was jamb?

even Adam and eve hide from God when they knew they were naked and you are saying we are in 2017 women should dress indecently.
shake my head for you

SirMichael1:
I can bet that a 19 year old is behind this handle. You're still too young to differentiate your left from your right

you are one of the problem of nigeria today. when you have your child encourage her to walk around without even the need of pant of bra. you hear matured man who is more than 19years.

Akjwyzepal:
cn u imagine a 16yr old gal posted a pics of her in pant and bra. I commentd and reset her brain, she now deleted d poo. Nt every1 wants to c a gal private body so they should only show it to those who want to c it.

am glad I have seen a guy that reason like me. if you follow this trend from the beginning you would notice that majority of the females comment actually are attacking the op and see no bad in indecency all they are saying is dress doesn't portray inner self, can you imagine that kind of statement and the funny thing is they will be quick to call men cheat.
the reason why men has the freedom to fornicate is because of women, they need reorientation without that women will always dress indecently calling it civilization while men lust after them.

Maxi112:
who are you to dictate choice of dressing to them?

you're obviously jealous of what you don't have, I'd keep reminding you that.

same way they don't interfere in your choice of dressing you should also learn to respect theirs.


I'm not trying to promote indecency, but the rational behind this thread is what I don't understand. haven't you had or seen where a modest dresser was being raped or harassed?

cases of girls well dressed are rare

Angel196:
Lol. Sorry for that but don't worry, I'm certain most won't heed to it share.

The funny things about you guys is that you compliment in their presence but abuse them behind their backs. I've witnessed lots of things like that cause I grew up with lots of guys around me.

when I checked your profile I saw you are a mumeenat. salam
let me share an experience I had last 2 weeks
I was going to one of my brother shop not too far from my house, as I was going I saw I girl walahi if you see what this girl wore you as a lady would weep for her, she wasn't wearing a bra and what she wore was just pure thin cloth which was showing all her boobs as in all her boobs was been displayed when I saw it I had to first removed my eyes and she was very beautiful then I asked myself a question what exactly is the essence of cloth?

Nma27:
Are u for real? The way we dress? Anyway you are entitled to your opinion.

yeah she is, and stopping indecency begins with you and me. encourage young girls to stop exposing their body all in the name of civilization.

Dimples182:
This is some country mindset

No, you should not judge people by what they wear, that's shallow. Because a woman wears a short dress or skirt does not mean she is less of a woman or human being.

The fact that this is coming from another woman is just sad.

so are you one of those girls that see nothing bad in dressing indecent all in the name of been civilized.
atleast humans should not be judge by what they wear abi, even Adam and eve ran when God opened their eyes that they were naked but women of nowadays don't see anything bad in dressing indecency instead they call people calling again indecency uncivilized.

Angel196:
The way some women dress these days I don't really blame guys for disrespecting or treating them as cheap, after all, the way you dress is the way you'll be addressed.

They dress themselves in rags, walking around half naked all in the name of civilization yet they keep complaining guys disrespect and treat them like a hooker. How do you expect to get a responsible guy when you yourself don't dress responsibly?

Stop blaming and criticizing guys for thinking you are cheap if you are one of those who walk around in rags cause they are only following the signal you are sending out to them.

The truth is always a hard pill to swallow but it still remains the truth.

this coming from a girl. thumbs up
I have said it times without number women are the reason why men cheat. the way they dress is disheartening and they will be claiming civilize or a feminist.

subtlemee:
Dear Nairalanders..this is my first thread and it stems from misery

I've been in this relationship going to two(2) years now and we are deeply in love and planning to get married this year and my introduction is coming up soon but I'm having this serious issue I need help to deal with...

We all know there's no relationship without its hurdles,frictions and tensions but each time this happens my man keeps malice which can run from days into weeks, anytime we quarrel and I try talking to him later probably to apologise he'll feign more anger and i'll leave him and stay miserable till whenever he decides to end the malice he'll come kneeling or asking his relatives or friends to call and apologise on his behalf..

i'll take this decision not to talk to him again but when once I open my door and see him kneeling I go all weak and accept his apologies and it won't take up to a week or two again something will happen and he'll start ignoring me again...

Please help and advice a miserable fellow nairalander on how to deal with this situation now that it's still early,we've not spoken since Friday and it could be worse after marriage

the guy loves you that is sure, he is just been immatured.

preccy69:
it wasn't all dat,we were in love,he just cope with staying for a year nd some months without sex

OK, but I hope you learnt something

pocohantas:
These are the same guys that claim Nigerian ladies offer nothing but sex, see them fighting for the sex.
The same guys littering NL with pictures of fish, depicting UNIPORT girls vagina.
The same guys that claim every Nigerian girl has had an abortion.
Same guys calling non-virgins second hand.

OP, don't drop your standards for any nigga.
There are guys out there that will love you for you,as long as you don't blackmail him with your 'virginity'. It shouldn't be all about your virginity, be a virtuous one first.

The advise they give here about sex,they'll never give it to their sisters. You're 19, how many more guys will you date, how many more will you have sex with? Jmoore, abeg come put mouth.

A guy that loves you will stay, sex or no sex.

lolz, funny but true you know 90% of guy fall under these you said, they don't know how to control their urge.

preccy69:
I didn't fall for d sweet words I fell for him

so what made him so special? was it his looks,humour or dress sense or maybe personality.
I guess it should be personality(just my own guess) now you know a guy having a attract or gentle personality doesn't guarantee he would be faith.
like I said before more of these type of guy will always come your way as long as you are pretty, they will see your like a quest that need to be conquered, you will see them like a potential lover that you think deserves your love.
And we guys are very good in reading and predicting behaviour when it comes to love story, you won't know what hit you till it hit you so just be careful and learn to guard your heart.

preccy69:
he never loved me,its obvious,thanks anyway

you know the funniest part is this guy may love you, it is just that he can't put his urge in check.

preccy69:
I learnt d hard way but I thank God, I wouldn't dare think of loosing it to someone had is nt my husband its really nt worth it

the truth is you are a very pretty girl, girl like you will always be a potential victim to wolves in sheep clothing, your ex didn't cheat on you because you didn't give me sex, he cheated because that who he is even if you have agreed to sex there is still a probability that he will still look outside for a more pretty girls.
in fact to me, you were smart for not giving in to sex because if you had your loss could have been double and that could lead to depression
my advice is learn to guard your heart and don't fall for sweet word although i know it is hard for a girl not to fall for it now you know we guy can act just to achieve our desire aim.
Especially you that is very pretty, there is a probability that lot and lot of these kind of guys will always come your way.

scarr:
Contrary to what you said up here, all that was visible in the article was that America "sponsored"........ ALREADY created Islamic extremists group including ISIS and Al Qaeda.

America was not there when the Islamic fanatics decided to form a group. Don't blame America, blame the extremists that allowed themselves to be used freely. Nip the problem from the bud sir


For the fact that America sponsors them today doesn't mean Nigeria or Russia can't sponsor them tomorrow if they exist.

For the fact that a governor in Nigeria uses a particular cult group to achieve his aim doesn't make the Governor the creator of the group.

I see wisdom in what you said, the main problem are the Muslims who make themselves vulnerable to be used as puppet.

Oluwamuyeewa:
So boko haram na American spies abi?

Yęyę

see how smart you are, why don't you first check the meaning of the word spy in your dictionary, because if you know the meaning of spy you won't mention me saying book haram is spy instead you will know a spy could be anybody anywhere that is what it is called spy.

Aaronsrod:
The King of the East as foretold in the Book of Revelations!

Let us prepare for Rapture. The Trump(et) has sounded. It is the End of Days.

Let the Sinners be Judged most harshly O Lord!! Cast them into the Pit!

a world war doesn't means the world will end now, remember first and second world war.
man as always been an instrument for it's own destruction, the second world war was fought with guns people rises from the remnant,a third world war will be fought with nukes and other nuclear arsenal which will really have a bad effect on earth but the truth is people will still survive and the will be The one to continue human race. the cycle continues

Aaronsrod:
The King of the East as foretold in the Book of Revelations!

Let us prepare for Rapture. The Trump(et) has sounded. It is the End of Days.

Let the Sinners be Judged most harshly O Lord!! Cast them into the Pit!

a world war doesn't means the world will end now, remember first and second world war.
man as always been an instrument for it's own destruction, the second world war was fought with guns people rises from the remnant,a third world war will be fought with nukes and other nuclear arsenal which will really have a bad effect on earth but the truth is people will still survive and the will be The one to continue human race. the cycle continues

Zoharariel:
Gentlemen, this is the 2nd time I am posting this news in this section. Let us be objective for once, there are millions, if not billions of Muslims worldwide - and all of them observe the Ramadan. Y would any Muslim kill his fellow religious brother/sister especially during this sacred period?

Now read this:


British Special Forces Caught Dressed As Arab “Terrorists”

British soldiers have been caught posing as Arabs and shooting Iraqis in the occupied city of Basra in southern Iraq. A group of them was caught yesterday by Iraqi police. They were driving an Iraqi car, wearing Arab clothing, and carrying weapons and explosives.

The Iraqi police were patrolling the area looking for suspected "terrorists" or "insurgents", and they noticed that the men were acting suspiciously. Suddenly, without warning, the suspicious men started shooting at people, but the new Iraqi security forces managed to capture some of them before they could escape. Obviously, if these men had not been caught, the mass media would now be reporting the incident as just another attempt by evil “terrorists” to create civil war in Iraq.

There have been a number of incidents in this area and throughout Iraq in which police and civilians have been targeted and killed by "terrorists" or "insurgents". But this is the first time that any of those responsible have been caught in the act, and it is now clear that at least some of them are working directly for the occupying forces, as many Iraqis have openly suspected all along.

A few days ago, in a statement unreported in the corporate mass media, Iran's most senior military official specifically linked the instability in Iraq with agents of the US and its allies: “we have information that the insecurity has its roots in the activities of American and Israeli spies.”

The post-war violence in Iraq is always been blamed on "Islamic extremists" or "rival ethnic factions". Yet in the history of the country, nothing like this has ever happened before. The problems began precisely when the US and UK seized control.

The Iraqi police arrested the men and put them in prison. Unfortunately the police never had a chance to question the men and find out exactly what they were doing, because within minutes the UK sent in six tanks and an elite SAS unit to break their terrorists out of jail.

During the illegal prison break Iraqi officials were held at gunpoint, much of the jail was demolished, and all of the other criminals and insurgents were set free. The US and UK do not hesitate to use violence and terror to achieve their objectives, no matter what the consequences.

The official explanation for the illegal jail break is that somebody thought the British men might be taken away by a gang of Iraqi resistance fighters and never seen again. This is blatantly nonsense, of course, because the entire prison was entirely surrounded by British tanks and troops. With the full force of the British military at hand, the terrorists were rescued quickly and easily.

As further details emerge, the Western media increasingly presents conflicting reports about the nature and sequence of events, and the official British sources cited without question in mainstream news coverage are indicative of a classic disinformation exercise.

When local people saw what was happening the area began to erupt with angry anti-British protests.

Conclusion: Unless Amerika, Britain & Israel are nuked into vapour, walahi-talahi, terrorism will never end - You can quote me anywhere!

they have spies in every country, the Quran has said it already no matter how bad Islam is painted it will always triumph because I wonder how a Muslim will also kill another Muslim or innocent soul for no reason all in the name a jihad.
this is not the first time these terrorist have been attacking even Muslims they attack, so it so obvious there is a foul play somewhere, there is somebody somewhere trying to give people another impression of Islam and I guess it is working.

Kathmandu:
Why should the Sultan automatically becomes the head of Muslims in Nigeria when there are other groups that can also vie for it.


Yoruba Muslims need to rise up and challenge this aberration. Sultan doesn't have a direct communication to Allah so others should aspire for the head of Muslim body

the sultan is not communicating with GOd for we Muslims, his only duty is to be the amir(leader) of Muslims in Nigeria that is why he has the authority to declare when we fast or not. any other relationship is done between a Muslim and his lord not involving anyone.

businesscitadel:
The only thing these guys think about during Ramadan is food. Food, Food, Food! You begin to ask yourself what's the point of starving fasting. I'm not talking only Nigeria here I've been chanced to spend some time in an African Arab country during Ramadan. You need to see the way the trolleys are packed full with food by customers in the supermarkets during Ramadan. Starting Work hours is shifted from 8 to 9a.m and closing from 5/6 to 4/5p.m. Everyone acts lazy and put the blame on fast.

There's nothing special in the fast as they only miss one meal in a day which is lunch, most people who work already miss a meal in a day. Iftar and sahur is met with lots of food binging!

lolz very funny you are, you said the only thing Muslims think about in ramadan is food and we miss just a meal(lunch) in a day and call it a big deals. well, ramadan is compulsory for every Muslims, it doesn't matter how long or how many times we don't eat in a day or week, the most important thing is to follow what the Quran and hadeeth says.
so you saying it is only lunch Muslims miss, is like you trying to judge how religious a person is based on how long he could stay without food.
it is compulsory for Muslims to eat sahur and should break his fasting at appropriate time not him trying to show how strong he is by doing 2 or whatever day fasting, it is the sunnah and it has to be followed.
my question now is, your own fasting is that how your holy book says you should fast? because I know you are not a Muslim.

almahdulilah, same to you ustaz

GavelSlam:
Can you imagine?

Are you younger than those involved in such creations?

I hope you are working in a specialised field and you've distinguished yourself from your peers.

Some people are simply incorrigible.

don't mind cristianisraeli, I already told the fool to commit suicide instead, I wonder why we will have haters of good thing, the funniest thing is the idiot is proving how underdeveloped Lagos is while him and his relative hustle here.
I guess he need brain and blood test.