Travel › Re: Finally, Parked Trucks Are Getting Off Expressways And Bridges In Lagos (PHOTOS) by OLAJADON: 6:33pm On May 28, 2019 |
MyphoneandI: My friend did you see my post? Don't be silly, read my other comments. The pictures he posted doesn't relate to his claims and I've sent proof. If you still don't understand, I leave u to ur ignorance and gullibility. I give up on you, no wonder this country is where it is, with youth like u I wonder where we are going. since u can't comprehend a simple nairaland post. THAT ALL. |
Travel › Re: Finally, Parked Trucks Are Getting Off Expressways And Bridges In Lagos (PHOTOS) by OLAJADON: 6:33pm On May 28, 2019 |
MyphoneandI: My friend did you see my post? Don't be silly, read my other comments. The pictures he posted doesn't relate to his claims and I've sent proof. If you still don't understand, I leave u to ur ignorance and gullibility. I give up on you, no wonder this country is where it is, with youth like u I wonder where we are going. since I can't comprehend a simple nairaland post. |
Travel › Re: Finally, Parked Trucks Are Getting Off Expressways And Bridges In Lagos (PHOTOS) by OLAJADON: 4:03pm On May 28, 2019 |
MyphoneandI: What pictures, he posted pictures of surulere claiming it's apapa, confused fellow. c this one, is it only surulere? baba can't u read? |
Travel › Re: Finally, Parked Trucks Are Getting Off Expressways And Bridges In Lagos (PHOTOS) by OLAJADON: 11:35pm On May 27, 2019 |
MyphoneandI: Oga shut up. I live at that apapa and that man is very right. Nothing is going on. STUPIDITY AND GULLIBILITY KILLS, SHEY YOU KNOW. autojosh, just posted a recent picture that those traffic has been cleared what are u now saying? maybe those truck are packed in your house, confused fellow. |
Travel › Re: Finally, Parked Trucks Are Getting Off Expressways And Bridges In Lagos (PHOTOS) by OLAJADON: 3:02pm On May 27, 2019 |
Oldiesgoodies: a zombie is one who is dead but doesn’t know he is dead. SHEY YOU KNOW. madam taking those truck from the express road would relieve lagos traffic to a bit, if you can't prove a picture prove of the street where the trailers are offloaded to then dont talk without point. Like I said before hate kills, it's a fact. bitterness is a disease |
Travel › Re: Finally, Parked Trucks Are Getting Off Expressways And Bridges In Lagos (PHOTOS) by OLAJADON: 2:58pm On May 27, 2019 |
caracas: U must be blind with zombeeism to make this comments . Someone posted the truth as it is n u are here talking trash . Honestly folks like u are the ones responsible for how useless this country is provide a picture of a street that the traliers are offloaded to and stop saying trash. talk with point not emotion idiat |
Travel › Re: Finally, Parked Trucks Are Getting Off Expressways And Bridges In Lagos (PHOTOS) by OLAJADON: 1:00pm On May 27, 2019 |
Oldiesgoodies: They are still in the streets I don't understand u people sometimes I don't, how can they still be in the street when a park has been created for them. People like you just don't like hearing good news about this administration, u will always find a fault. cant u appreciate this little gesture no matter how small it is instead of choosing to be a saddist. HATE KILLS, SHEY YOU KNOW. |
Family › Re: I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. by OLAJADON: 10:45am On May 22, 2019 |
Marbella003: I took some of the advice from my previous thread and told my husband what happened. Here is the thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/5162191/cheated-husband-guy-work-dont
I was genuine shedding tears as I relayed my shameful experience to him. I apologized and begged for him to forgive me and I promised to never repeat such again. I thought he'd understand and forgive me. But I was wrong. My husband now wants a divorce. Actually, he has sent me and the kids out of his house. I have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is 2. My husband said he doesn't think he is the father. I assured him that he is and that he should get a DNA test to confirm. But he refused.
I rented a 2 bedroom flat somewhere close to my office. This is where I currently stay. Since leaving my husband's house I have only received a phone call from him where he stated the date that he and I were going to visit my parents who are currently in my village. He told me that if I wasn't going to come, he'd go alone and tell them what happened and why he decided to divorce me.
I feel like my life is over. I can't face my parents and tell them what I've done. It's very shameful. I can't even face my friends and relations. I feel like I'm drowning a pool of shame and despair. I can't imagine being a single mother at this age. I love my husband and I enjoyed our marriage. I can't imagine it all being over.
I called my colleague and told him everything. He said that I shouldn't hold him responsible for anything since our rendezvous was based on mutual consent. He said he doesn't want to have anything to with me and we should keep our relationship at work very platonic so as not to raise eyebrows of those who might link him to what happened with me.
I'm utterly hopeless. I feel like taking my life. I almost took this action yesterday but I pitied my children. But with every passing day I feel like suicide is the only way to end my pain. I wish I had listened to those people who advised me to keep what I did a secret. I wanted to, but every time I was with my husband I felt I was constantly betraying him by hiding the truth from him. I just want to die. I can't bare this pain anymore. I won't lie to you, it is very hard for a man to forgive a cheating partner. even if he accept you and the kids back the scare will still be there, and anytime you guys have issues, he might bring it up, even you won't enjoy the marriage again. I don't know the best advice to give, because even I that I'm talking can only forgive a cheating partner, I can never forget. wallahi I can't, for the rest of my life I will always suspect her every move. |
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Romance › Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by OLAJADON: 11:21am On May 18, 2019 |
Toks2008: Don't move on yet but just ignore him for good and i mean stop texting or initiating conversation him.
If after like a month he does not wake up then it means he has moved on then you can move on too. Nobody is too busy to have time for the one h/she truly desires. exactly, no matter how busy we are we always create time for the ones dear to our heart. |
Romance › Re: Should I Wait For Him Or Move On? by OLAJADON: 11:13am On May 18, 2019 |
Adviseasister: You seem to really understand my position. I will send him a message later at night, when I am sure he is home and rested.
I have tried to withdraw, but whenever I do, he will start up a little conversation and my heart would start beating faster. I guess I will have to move on if our conversation tonight doesn't go well. 1) maybe the distance is what is the cause, for the decline in communication, he may feel the relationship is leading no where to me so he decided not to continue wasting his time. 2) another reason maybe, from the beginning he may not really have any solid plans for you, he may feel maybe one day if he gets the chance to see you, he might take his part of share of you that is if you guys see, but with time he later considers that the whole stress is not worth it 3) another point is, he might have a bad view of long distance relationship, either from friends or personal experience, to him been in long distance relationship with a lady he hasn't meet for once is a big risk, what if he continues the relationship for 2/3 years and when you guys spend time together for 5/6 month he see somethings he doesn't like in you. how do you think he will tell you he is no more interested, so the best is to end it now and prevent story that touches the heart. My point is, A GUY DOESNT JUST CHANGE IN A RELATIONSHIP, THERE IS ALWAYS S REASON, IT IS EITHER YOU ARE THE CAUSE OR HE IS, HIM TELLING YOU THE REASONS FOR HIS ACTIONS DEPEND COMPLETELY ON HIM. NOTE:- this is just my suggestion, they might not be true and they might be true. |
Islam › Re: Forex Trading Or Investment Halal Or Haram? by OLAJADON: 5:56pm On May 12, 2019 |
Rashduct4luv: Praise be to Allaah alone and blessings and peace be upon the one after whom there is no Prophet, our master and Prophet Muhammad, and upon his family and companions. To proceed:
The Islamic Fiqh Council of the Muslim World League, in its eighteenth session that was held in Makkah al-Mukarramah from 10 to 14/3/1427 AH (8 to 12 April 2006 CE), has examined the issue of trading in margins, which means that the customer pays a small amount of the value of what he wants to buy, which is called a “margin”, and the agent (the bank or otherwise) pays the rest as a loan, provided that the purchase contract remains in the name of the agent as a pledge for the money that was loaned.
After listening to the research that has been submitted and the detailed discussion on this topic, the opinion of the council is that this transaction involves the following:
1 – Dealing in buying and selling for the purpose of profit, and this dealing is usually done in major currencies or financial certificates (shares and bonds) or some types of products, and it may include trade in options, futures and the indexes of major markets.
2 – Loans, which refers to the money given by the agent to the customer directly if the agent is a bank, or via a third party if the agent is not a bank.
3 – Riba, which occurs in this transaction in the form of fees for delaying the deal. This is interest that is charged to the purchaser if he does not make a decision on the same day, and which may be a percentage of the loan or a set amount.
4 – Commission, which is the money that the agent gets as a result of the investor’s (customer’s) dealing through him, and it is an agreed-upon percentage of the value of the sale or purchase.
5 – The pledge, which is a commitment signed by the customer agreeing to leave the contract with the agent as a pledge for a loan, giving him the right to sell these contracts and take back the loan if the customer’s losses reach a specific percentage of the margin, unless the customer increases the pledge in order to compensate for a drop in the price of the product.
The Committee believes that this transaction is not permissible according to sharee’ah for the following reasons:
Firstly: It involves obvious riba, which is represented by the addition to the amount of the loan which is called “paying fees for delaying the deal”. This is a kind of haraam riba. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“O you who believe! Fear Allaah and give up what remains (due to you) from Ribaa (from now onward) if you are (really) believers.
279. And if you do not do it, then take a notice of war from Allaah and His Messenger but if you repent, you shall have your capital sums. Deal not unjustly (by asking more than your capital sums), and you shall not be dealt with unjustly (by receiving less than your capital sums)”
[al-Baqarah 2:278-279]
Secondly: The agent stipulates that the customer must deal through him, which leads to combining both giving a loan for something in return and paying commission, which is akin to combining giving a loan and selling at the same time, which is forbidden in sharee’ah because the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “It is not permissible to give a loan and sell at the same time…” The hadeeth was narrated by Abu Dawood (3/384) and al-Tirmidhi (3/526), who said it is a hasan saheeh hadeeth. In this case he has benefited from his loan, and the fuqaha’ are unanimously agreed that every loan that brings a benefit is haraam riba.
Thirdly: Dealings that are done in this manner in the global markets usually involve many contracts that are haraam according to sharee’ah, such as:
1-Dealing in bonds, which comes under the heading of riba which is haraam. This was stated in a resolution of the Islamic Fiqh Council in Jeddah, no. 60, in its sixth session.
2-Dealing indiscriminately in company shares. The fourth statement of the Islamic Fiqh Council of the Muslim World League in its fourteenth session in 1415 AH stated that it is haraam to deal in the shares of companies whose main purposes are haraam, or some of their dealings involve riba.
3-Selling currencies is usually done without the hand to hand exchange which makes them permissible according to sharee’ah.
4-Dealing in options and futures. A resolution of the Islamic Fiqh Council in Jeddah no. (63), in its sixth session, stated that options are not permissible according to sharee’ah, because the object of dealing in these contracts is not money or services or a financial obligation which it is permissible to exchange. The same applies to futures and trading in indexes.
5-In some cases the agent is selling something that he does not possess, and selling what one does not possess is forbidden in sharee’ah.
Fourthly: This transaction involves economic harm to the parties involved, especially the customer (investor), and to the economy of the society in general, because it is based on borrowing to excess and taking risks. Such matters usually involve cheating, misleading people, rumours, hoarding, artificial inflation of prices and rapid and strong fluctuation of prices, with the aim of getting rich quickly and acquiring the savings of others in unlawful ways. Hence it comes under the heading of consuming people’s wealth unlawfully, in addition to diverting wealth in society from real, fruitful economic activity to this type of risk that has no economic advantage, and it may lead to severe economic turmoil that will cause great loss and harm in society.
The Council advises financial institutions to follow the ways of finance that are prescribed in sharee’ah and that do not involve riba and the like, and do not have harmful economic effects on their customers or on the economy in general, like shar’i partnerships and the like. And Allaah is the Source of strength.
May Allaah send blessings and peace upon our Prophet Muhammad and all his family and companions. End quote from Majallat al-Majma’ al-Fiqh al-Islami, issue no. 22, p. 229.
We ask Allaah to guide us and you.
And Allaah knows best.
Islam QA jazakumllah aikran for this ustaz, but what about crypocurrenciee like Bitcoin and etherium. because I understand crypto to be buying at a cheap price and selling at a profitable price, which is also buying and selling. |
Islam › Re: Forex Trading Or Investment Halal Or Haram? by OLAJADON: 5:54pm On May 12, 2019 |
Rashduct4luv: Praise be to Allaah alone and blessings and peace be upon the one after whom there is no Prophet, our master and Prophet Muhammad, and upon his family and companions. To proceed:
The Islamic Fiqh Council of the Muslim World League, in its eighteenth session that was held in Makkah al-Mukarramah from 10 to 14/3/1427 AH (8 to 12 April 2006 CE), has examined the issue of trading in margins, which means that the customer pays a small amount of the value of what he wants to buy, which is called a “margin”, and the agent (the bank or otherwise) pays the rest as a loan, provided that the purchase contract remains in the name of the agent as a pledge for the money that was loaned.
After listening to the research that has been submitted and the detailed discussion on this topic, the opinion of the council is that this transaction involves the following:
1 – Dealing in buying and selling for the purpose of profit, and this dealing is usually done in major currencies or financial certificates (shares and bonds) or some types of products, and it may include trade in options, futures and the indexes of major markets.
2 – Loans, which refers to the money given by the agent to the customer directly if the agent is a bank, or via a third party if the agent is not a bank.
3 – Riba, which occurs in this transaction in the form of fees for delaying the deal. This is interest that is charged to the purchaser if he does not make a decision on the same day, and which may be a percentage of the loan or a set amount.
4 – Commission, which is the money that the agent gets as a result of the investor’s (customer’s) dealing through him, and it is an agreed-upon percentage of the value of the sale or purchase.
5 – The pledge, which is a commitment signed by the customer agreeing to leave the contract with the agent as a pledge for a loan, giving him the right to sell these contracts and take back the loan if the customer’s losses reach a specific percentage of the margin, unless the customer increases the pledge in order to compensate for a drop in the price of the product.
The Committee believes that this transaction is not permissible according to sharee’ah for the following reasons:
Firstly: It involves obvious riba, which is represented by the addition to the amount of the loan which is called “paying fees for delaying the deal”. This is a kind of haraam riba. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“O you who believe! Fear Allaah and give up what remains (due to you) from Ribaa (from now onward) if you are (really) believers.
279. And if you do not do it, then take a notice of war from Allaah and His Messenger but if you repent, you shall have your capital sums. Deal not unjustly (by asking more than your capital sums), and you shall not be dealt with unjustly (by receiving less than your capital sums)”
[al-Baqarah 2:278-279]
Secondly: The agent stipulates that the customer must deal through him, which leads to combining both giving a loan for something in return and paying commission, which is akin to combining giving a loan and selling at the same time, which is forbidden in sharee’ah because the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “It is not permissible to give a loan and sell at the same time…” The hadeeth was narrated by Abu Dawood (3/384) and al-Tirmidhi (3/526), who said it is a hasan saheeh hadeeth. In this case he has benefited from his loan, and the fuqaha’ are unanimously agreed that every loan that brings a benefit is haraam riba.
Thirdly: Dealings that are done in this manner in the global markets usually involve many contracts that are haraam according to sharee’ah, such as:
1-Dealing in bonds, which comes under the heading of riba which is haraam. This was stated in a resolution of the Islamic Fiqh Council in Jeddah, no. 60, in its sixth session.
2-Dealing indiscriminately in company shares. The fourth statement of the Islamic Fiqh Council of the Muslim World League in its fourteenth session in 1415 AH stated that it is haraam to deal in the shares of companies whose main purposes are haraam, or some of their dealings involve riba.
3-Selling currencies is usually done without the hand to hand exchange which makes them permissible according to sharee’ah.
4-Dealing in options and futures. A resolution of the Islamic Fiqh Council in Jeddah no. (63), in its sixth session, stated that options are not permissible according to sharee’ah, because the object of dealing in these contracts is not money or services or a financial obligation which it is permissible to exchange. The same applies to futures and trading in indexes.
5-In some cases the agent is selling something that he does not possess, and selling what one does not possess is forbidden in sharee’ah.
Fourthly: This transaction involves economic harm to the parties involved, especially the customer (investor), and to the economy of the society in general, because it is based on borrowing to excess and taking risks. Such matters usually involve cheating, misleading people, rumours, hoarding, artificial inflation of prices and rapid and strong fluctuation of prices, with the aim of getting rich quickly and acquiring the savings of others in unlawful ways. Hence it comes under the heading of consuming people’s wealth unlawfully, in addition to diverting wealth in society from real, fruitful economic activity to this type of risk that has no economic advantage, and it may lead to severe economic turmoil that will cause great loss and harm in society.
The Council advises financial institutions to follow the ways of finance that are prescribed in sharee’ah and that do not involve riba and the like, and do not have harmful economic effects on their customers or on the economy in general, like shar’i partnerships and the like. And Allaah is the Source of strength.
May Allaah send blessings and peace upon our Prophet Muhammad and all his family and companions. End quote from Majallat al-Majma’ al-Fiqh al-Islami, issue no. 22, p. 229.
We ask Allaah to guide us and you.
And Allaah knows best.
Islam QA jazakumllah aikran for this ustaz, but what about crypocurrenciee like Bitcoin and etherium. |
Islam › Re: Forex Trading Or Investment Halal Or Haram? by OLAJADON: 5:54pm On May 12, 2019 |
Rashduct4luv: Praise be to Allaah alone and blessings and peace be upon the one after whom there is no Prophet, our master and Prophet Muhammad, and upon his family and companions. To proceed:
The Islamic Fiqh Council of the Muslim World League, in its eighteenth session that was held in Makkah al-Mukarramah from 10 to 14/3/1427 AH (8 to 12 April 2006 CE), has examined the issue of trading in margins, which means that the customer pays a small amount of the value of what he wants to buy, which is called a “margin”, and the agent (the bank or otherwise) pays the rest as a loan, provided that the purchase contract remains in the name of the agent as a pledge for the money that was loaned.
After listening to the research that has been submitted and the detailed discussion on this topic, the opinion of the council is that this transaction involves the following:
1 – Dealing in buying and selling for the purpose of profit, and this dealing is usually done in major currencies or financial certificates (shares and bonds) or some types of products, and it may include trade in options, futures and the indexes of major markets.
2 – Loans, which refers to the money given by the agent to the customer directly if the agent is a bank, or via a third party if the agent is not a bank.
3 – Riba, which occurs in this transaction in the form of fees for delaying the deal. This is interest that is charged to the purchaser if he does not make a decision on the same day, and which may be a percentage of the loan or a set amount.
4 – Commission, which is the money that the agent gets as a result of the investor’s (customer’s) dealing through him, and it is an agreed-upon percentage of the value of the sale or purchase.
5 – The pledge, which is a commitment signed by the customer agreeing to leave the contract with the agent as a pledge for a loan, giving him the right to sell these contracts and take back the loan if the customer’s losses reach a specific percentage of the margin, unless the customer increases the pledge in order to compensate for a drop in the price of the product.
The Committee believes that this transaction is not permissible according to sharee’ah for the following reasons:
Firstly: It involves obvious riba, which is represented by the addition to the amount of the loan which is called “paying fees for delaying the deal”. This is a kind of haraam riba. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“O you who believe! Fear Allaah and give up what remains (due to you) from Ribaa (from now onward) if you are (really) believers.
279. And if you do not do it, then take a notice of war from Allaah and His Messenger but if you repent, you shall have your capital sums. Deal not unjustly (by asking more than your capital sums), and you shall not be dealt with unjustly (by receiving less than your capital sums)”
[al-Baqarah 2:278-279]
Secondly: The agent stipulates that the customer must deal through him, which leads to combining both giving a loan for something in return and paying commission, which is akin to combining giving a loan and selling at the same time, which is forbidden in sharee’ah because the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “It is not permissible to give a loan and sell at the same time…” The hadeeth was narrated by Abu Dawood (3/384) and al-Tirmidhi (3/526), who said it is a hasan saheeh hadeeth. In this case he has benefited from his loan, and the fuqaha’ are unanimously agreed that every loan that brings a benefit is haraam riba.
Thirdly: Dealings that are done in this manner in the global markets usually involve many contracts that are haraam according to sharee’ah, such as:
1-Dealing in bonds, which comes under the heading of riba which is haraam. This was stated in a resolution of the Islamic Fiqh Council in Jeddah, no. 60, in its sixth session.
2-Dealing indiscriminately in company shares. The fourth statement of the Islamic Fiqh Council of the Muslim World League in its fourteenth session in 1415 AH stated that it is haraam to deal in the shares of companies whose main purposes are haraam, or some of their dealings involve riba.
3-Selling currencies is usually done without the hand to hand exchange which makes them permissible according to sharee’ah.
4-Dealing in options and futures. A resolution of the Islamic Fiqh Council in Jeddah no. (63), in its sixth session, stated that options are not permissible according to sharee’ah, because the object of dealing in these contracts is not money or services or a financial obligation which it is permissible to exchange. The same applies to futures and trading in indexes.
5-In some cases the agent is selling something that he does not possess, and selling what one does not possess is forbidden in sharee’ah.
Fourthly: This transaction involves economic harm to the parties involved, especially the customer (investor), and to the economy of the society in general, because it is based on borrowing to excess and taking risks. Such matters usually involve cheating, misleading people, rumours, hoarding, artificial inflation of prices and rapid and strong fluctuation of prices, with the aim of getting rich quickly and acquiring the savings of others in unlawful ways. Hence it comes under the heading of consuming people’s wealth unlawfully, in addition to diverting wealth in society from real, fruitful economic activity to this type of risk that has no economic advantage, and it may lead to severe economic turmoil that will cause great loss and harm in society.
The Council advises financial institutions to follow the ways of finance that are prescribed in sharee’ah and that do not involve riba and the like, and do not have harmful economic effects on their customers or on the economy in general, like shar’i partnerships and the like. And Allaah is the Source of strength.
May Allaah send blessings and peace upon our Prophet Muhammad and all his family and companions. End quote from Majallat al-Majma’ al-Fiqh al-Islami, issue no. 22, p. 229.
We ask Allaah to guide us and you.
And Allaah knows best.
Islam QA jazakumllah aikran for this ustaz, but what about crypocurrenciee like Bitcoin and etherium because I deal with them |
Islam › Re: Forex Trading Or Investment Halal Or Haram? by OLAJADON: 6:39pm On May 08, 2019 |
I am also interested in this forex question, Is it halal or haram? |
Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Find It Had To Reciprocate Good Gestures From Their Boyfriends? by OLAJADON: 5:07pm On May 07, 2019 |
Imoh555: Do you know that In Nigeria, once the man stops calling, some relationship will just die a natural death?? I really just want to know why ladies always wants the man to do almost everything but they don't want to do or contribute anything yet they clamour for equal rights and feminism (let's not talk about that today) ever hear a lady say help me do so and so thing and guys will rush to do it..
But try telling a lady to help you carry your bag, you will hear something like do you want to kill me don't you know I'm a lady? My question is that is it appointed for men to suffer and always do the hard stuffs while ladies relax and get everything done for them and always be at the receiving end? I am very equal in my relationship we either split bills or work on projects together I don't have time to be worshiping any woman, Jesus died for everyone and not just for women alone that men should always be paying for their sins by living life for the ladies..
I was chyking one babe last December and I noticed she hardly ever calls even if I send airtime she liked me no doubt and was giving it to me hot, so I decided not to call for a week to see if she was gonna call and I ignored her whatsapp massages na so we take dey silent since February till now..
She called last night to ask if everything was OK and why I don't call and I asked her if she knew the phone works both ways...
Ladies please some of you should upgrade. A relationship is a 50/50 thing. For me I pay for our outings today you pay tomorrow or we contribute money and do whatever chills we want, you call I call, you text I text, you buy me gifts I reciprocate. Someone said I'm too strict that she can't date me I just told her I'm not strict that I just don't entertain mediocrity and I'm too tall to be bowing down to worship a woman who contributes absolutely nothing to my life.......
Make una no mind my rant,na bread and avocado wey I eat dey sweet me.... But let's learn to practice equality....if I have all it takes I'll provide for my woman but she just has to reciprocate in her own little way just to show me she cares too... Hope I made small sense God bless you for this, I am also facing this same thing in my relationship. A relationship should be two sided not everything has to be the man the man all the time |
Romance › Re: A Note To The Man Who's Willing To Brave My Storm by OLAJADON: 1:42pm On May 07, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: A Note To The Man Who's Willing To Brave My Storm by OLAJADON: 12:51pm On May 07, 2019 |
EmpressT: I will take time to read through your post. Thanks a lot. sorry to disturb empressT, if I may ask are you a Muslim or Christian? |
Romance › Re: The legitimate concubine. by OLAJADON: 3:30am On Apr 28, 2019 |
Toks2008: Bro monogamy is a western psychology that has no foundation either from the bible or even in Islam.
The Devil has destroyed many marriages because of the twisted mindset of our women.
The worst part is that these western countries suffer the hit the most...
Walk on the streets of England and America and randomly pick 10 women with kids and you can be sure that at least 6 out of every 10 is either divorced, or never married single mum's.
Ask them why they broke up with their ex and you are almost certain to hear same reason..."HE CHEATED ON ME"
Have you ever come across any story in the bible where a lady leaves her husband cos he got another concubine? In fact it was these wives that were encouraging their husbands to take concubines.
I pity this generation of ladies who have already destroyed their mindset with the lies the missionaries brought with religion.
My duty is to continue to write from the realistic point of view...anyone who has issues should counter it with facts rather than make a mockery of him or herself by trolling. my advice 1) people will only believe what they want to believe. 2) everybody has his/her own definition of the truth. 3) when you hit an human being with a fact like this, sometimes they find it too hard to comprehend. Toks you are a writer I expected you to understand human psychology, facts like this will always bruise their ego especially the female folks. |
Politics › Re: Damaturu, Yobe Under Boko Haram Attack by OLAJADON: 9:40pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
Generalnomercy: Insulting Igbos have been the trademark of every average yoruba. will it pay you people? no it won't....
2023 is the time the entire South will collapse. this is not about insulting Igbo, human live should be valued, why are u been selfish? |
Politics › Re: Damaturu, Yobe Under Boko Haram Attack by OLAJADON: 8:46pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
SarkinYarki: Let them shut up and enjoy the Next Level jare they are killing a human being like you and I have the gut to use the word shut up, how I wish you were among then u will know how it feels. such a wasted sperm you are. idiat |
Romance › Re: How To Invest In The Nigerian Stock Exchange Market. by OLAJADON: 8:58pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
benswitch: Sorry, I can't! I have been looking for someone that has an idea about stock market and from what you posted about you will know more than me about it that the reason why I am asking for your digit. also I know some people might not want to share some information on a public forum so if you would oblige, I would appreciate it |
Romance › Re: How To Invest In The Nigerian Stock Exchange Market. by OLAJADON: 6:37pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
benswitch: Each time your broker wants to buy stock on your behalf, he buys it into your investor’s account. The account is for both equity and bonds.
3. Secure Trading Capital
You and I know what that is. There is no technicality involved in explaining that. Depending on the volume you want to trade or what I will call the amount of risks you want to take, you will need enough trading cash that is proportional to your trading options.
More than anything else, knowledge is your power in this business. You must be in the know, constantly updating your knowledge of the market and be in-tune with the latest trends. You must be good at spotting opportunities and possess the ability to predict trends.
"Buy the rumours and sell the news”. That’s a very popular saying among investors. It means – Do not trade on sentiment.
Making Money With The Nigerian Stock Exchange
The game is simple! Spot a good commodity in the market, predict accurately it’s movement, buy, and sell at the right time.
Let’s take for example you bought Ashaka Cement shares worth N200,000 at the price of 1.00 kobo per share, if by next month the price appreciates to 4 kobo per share, you’ve made 4 times your money after selling, which will amount to N200,000 x 4 = N800,000
On that trade, you will pay a total commission of about N,8000 and pocket your profit of N592,000 from that single trade. hello Bros, you mind if I get your number of whatsapp number preferably. |
Family › Re: My Husband Threatened To Divorce Me Because Of His Friend. by OLAJADON: 2:26pm On Mar 30, 2019 |
Chinnyrita27: Good day nairalanders. I created this account to seek for advice as I am confused and crying as I type this. I have been happily married for 4 years with a daughter of 3 and my husband. Not about a week ago, I had issues with one of his friend in his absence in our home. He had this close friend who came visiting on a faithful evening last Monday(I was not strong enough to go to work),he came when my husband wasn't around so I had to leave whatever I was doing to keep him company while we wait for my husband, at some point I offered to get him food, he obliged and ate, it was not upto 30 minutes after eating, he asked me to go buy him card. Politely, I told him I can't as was so tired and weak to walk about 10 minutes under the sun, i suggested to recharge free for him from my bank, he insisted, frowned his face and asked if I was trying to tell him that he can't recharge from his account, I was shocked, he stood up angry and aggressively and drove out of the compound. I didn't utter a word, I was angry but kept calm.
Not until my husband came back, and when I was about to welcome him but, he angrily yield and screamed at me and asked why I had to insult his friend and call him poor. I angrily asked him why he believed his friend without trying to confirm the from me, we deeply quarrelled and he made statement threatening to end the marriage if I cannot respect his friends and his people. I have never disrespected him or any of his friends and family members before, I'm so confused, we have not be conversing and relating well since Monday. I tried to make peace with him as I wasn't comfortable keeping malice with him but he said I will have to apologise to his friend which is something I don't think I can do.
I am so confused, what should I do? let me ask, before this particular issue do u think you have done something wrong which u think he should have forgotten or forgiven u about and he acted like he has. I feel maybe he has some hidden issues about which he has been keeping to himself, he just use this opportunity to express part of his feelings. it is better you trying settling this between you guys without involving third party because it might complicate. also I will suggest never apologise to that his friend because if you do he will still blame u for another issue and I feel in marriage there need to be boundaries between wife and husband friends. you are not his slave |
Properties › Re: Photos As 3-Storey Building Collapses In Ibadan by OLAJADON: 11:24pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Jayslicky: since the beginning of this year, all the news we have been hearing in Nigeria is bad news, from tanker explosion to election violence now buildings collapsing, could this be a sign that the heavens are rejecting buhari been president because the number of bad news has tripled since buhari's re-election, R.I.P to lost souls. chairman, u have sense why don't u use it? is it buhari that awarded contract of the building? is it buhari that cause the building to collapse? these building have been built for more than 6,7 or more years, you should blame the quack contractor that constructed them and more to collapse. the fault is for me and you, you will give contract to unqualified contractors just because they charge less then after ten years the building will collapse and you will be blaming buhari for your nemesis. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Suleman Embarrassed In Canada Church Service. Photos by OLAJADON: 1:38pm On Mar 14, 2019 |
KingAzubuike: Suleiman is still better than the likes of adeboye and oyedepo who have turn their churches to a money spinning franchise and threaten you with hell, doom, failure and difficulties in life if you refuse to do their bidding. Genuine men of God are very rare, not in this generation of pentecostal churches.. Even the God himself most people don't believe in him. How will a God be up there and shine him korokoro eye dey look as innocent children died yesterday at the Lagos building collapse. A God that doesn't want his creation to live long and enjoy the good things of life that one na God? Ur statement is blasphemy, please don't speak against your creator since you can't fathom the way he does his things I will suggest you keep quiet. |
Family › Re: My Woman Wears Very Short And Tight Outfits. I Cautioned Her, This Is Happening by OLAJADON: 7:12am On Mar 14, 2019 |
DMerciful: Why are you supporting a bad thing? So you will disrespect your husband because you want to please other men literally? Or what does a married woman get from advertisement? Op, there are many women looking for husband, look for one who will respect you! don't mind that one, I guess that how she dress also. |