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Katier00:
Op make I kukuma follow ask, is that all? You need to grow up. Is she disrespecting you? Is she wasteful or lazy or is she cheating on you or neglecting her duties as a mother and wife? Why are you creating problem were there is none. How short is the gown sef. How can you tell a woman you love that you are ashamed of her? I don't know for you ooo but my late father would say, as you makee your bed so you lie on it. No use your hand destroy the beautiful thing you have

tintingz:
I was a Muslim so I'm more familiar with Islamic practice. As for my motive that's irrelevant, it will result to ad hominem argument at the end, trust me I've been through that here before.

Just stick to any premise presented.

tintingz:
I'm an apostate and a critic of Islam.

Inspectorsuga22:
I feel no pity for the $tupid men running after all u prostitutes dat parades themselves as actresses, wat I don't know is between such men and the other men who think it's wise to keep lions and tigers as pets who is more foolish.....lol

tintingz:
As at now there are over billions of people who are non-muslims in the world, Christians alone are estimated to be 2.4 billions, now add them(all non Muslims) with Muslim sects that won't make heaven, that's some hell of people going to burn forever! We have not even talk about the past and future!

My goodness what a merciful God, he love the smell of suya.

Jinns are not argument from ignorance, they are imaginary.

BiafraBushBoy:
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If you want to be financially independent, then creating multiple streams of income should be at the back of your mind.

Unless you are a politician or you work in an oil company – of which not even all of them are rich, then you need multiple streams of income to become rich in this country.

Currently, I have 3 sources of income, and I aim to increase it to 5 in the New Year. Does this look like something you would also love to do?

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Create a Base Income Source

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If you have a job already, then you can practically skip these steps and move on to the next one.

One of the mistakes unemployed graduates make while seeking to create a foundational income source is looking for a dream job. It doesn’t exist and most likely would take time even before it comes.

This foundational source of income is designed to help you build your financial bank for expenses that would occur later while trying to create other sources.

It would also remove pressure from you while in search of other streams of income. In essence, any job that pays well is okay for you to start. But remember to keep your focus on the bigger goals. This step is basically for unemployed graduates with no jobs. You can use this and establish your financial foundation.

Learn a skill

This point is very crucial because it will set the pace and open up other sources of income. To be able to make money outside your main job, you must be good at something.

I personally love ICT skills because it requires me to work from my computer during my spare time. It might be okay to start-up other offline businesses, but that would require your presence at the initial stage. This would create a sort of time conflict.

Skills like;

Mobile Application Development
Software Development
Graphics Design
Web Design/Web Development

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Create a Side Hustle

After I learned Web Design/Development and Content Writing, I quickly moved to start-up my own online agency where I carried out projects for clients.

Most times when the jobs became much, I would outsource and employ people to help. That was an easy way to create multiple streams of income aside from my day job. It didn’t affect my day job because I had everything already planned out – unlike if I had started a business.

The good thing about these online side hustles as a means to create multiple streams of income is that it requires little investments (learning fee) and it gives a huge profit margin.

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lilytender:
I am a Muslim, but I don't know why I think this is very senseless. In short it is very foolish. Kano State government should have taken these to Onitsha where they get drunk everyday and sell at half the market price.

PrimadonnaO:
I started by advising him to walk away if he's nursing hopes that this un-submissive woman would change for the better.

But if he has decided that it is her who he must marry, then he's got no choice but to stand by her. That's how leaving and cleaving works. Either he's in or out!

PrimadonnaO:
@Dogalmighty17, I've been reading the comments on the first page and I feel they are all missing the point.

First of all, I hope your fiancèe's lack of submission is something you can live with forever, else I'd advise you to walk away for good. Don't nurse hopes of change because that may never happen.

About your fiancee and her mother's annoyance about the unsteady wedding date, I can understand it. Mind you, the consequences reflect more on the girl. It would seem to them and to others that you aren't serious... that you're yet to make up your mind on marrying her. Decide once and for all and quit shifting dates. I can see too that you aren't carrying your woman along in your plans else she'd have understood the reason for the shift.


About your mum...why's she being so difficult and dramatic? You mustn't have your wedding at her own preferred time.

Just carry everyone along..and stand by your woman. It's all going to be fine.

Larryfest:
Ordinarily your momc should not have a problem with the date unless she is not telling you the real truth about what's going on, it's like she doesn't want you with the Lady probably she has noticed a thing or two about her attitude towards you that you yourself didn't know... follow momc talk wella and reason with her cos if you go against her wish and do it only for your wife and mother in-law to turn to something else after the wedding then you are on your own...

Dogalmighty17:
Her family has been very accommodating. They have been open to see my mom. My mom however, keeps finding one excuse or another not to go.

Dogalmighty17:
I have dated this girl for three years. We fixed a date for the wedding for late this year. However, events seemingly out of my control necessitated that I shift the wedding to February next year. Initially, she was against the shift but I pleaded with her.

Sometime in August this year, we had a disagreement because I noticed she was being disrespectful towards me. She is hardworking, cooks well and is very business oriented. But her sense of independence makes her struggle with submission to her man. I told her how uncomfortable I was with it and she's promised to make amends. She has but from time to time, her old self comes out.

I was at a loss on what to do that I had to voice out the issue to her family. When they asked her, she told them that since I requested for a shift in wedding date, she became uncomfortable with the relationship. Her family then told her to call off the relationship. I got to know about this decision and I called her and she said she was going to obey the wishes of her family. Her mom also told me that since I keep complaining about her daughters lack of respect, I should leave her daughter alone. It took serious pleading from me before the family accepted the continuing of the relationship. They asked me that since the date I initially agreed for the wedding wasn't going to be convenient for me, when then do I think will be convenient? Since I didn't want to loose my woman, I mentioned February. The desperation on my path was much.

My mom on the other hand wants a wedding in April. She has said February is not convenient for her. All my pleas have fell on deaf ears. She has threatened not to bless the union and has even gone as far as threatening to curse me with her breasts if I wed in February.

My girl has refused to even entertain the thought of shifting the date again. She maintains that it is better that we outrightly call off the wedding, than shift it again. I understand her fears. She feels that I may just be wasting her time. I am not

This is my dilemma. Should I go with my woman who has spent three years of her life with me or do I go with my mom?

I must also mention that my mom was informed of the initial date of the wedding over a year ago. But she foot dragged in her support for months until much later in the year that I now had to take issues into my own hands.

IamaNigerianGuy:
Who else has noticed that Buhari has not ONE competent minister. Not One. All his appointees are mediocre.

This man should go back to Daura. He makes dullards appear to be geniuses.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Who cares What is your definition of decent?The cloth is okay.She went for a function.

BenzEne1:
Maybe the men need reorientation. Maybe the middle east is drowned in harassment and violation of women. This your standpoint only helps to fan the embers of female objectification you know right.

Well that is not my point sha, Islam isn't about rationality. There are rules according to the Sharia, so the point about civilization or "this is 2018" doesn't come in. Sharia doesn't change because everyone is changing. If she doesn't like it, there are lots of countries that she can go to and go entirely nude.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Where did you get this from. ? If she ask for my services I would happily represent her in court
You are right to some extent but despite how well these women dress decently in some parts of the mid East they are still harassed and violated.So it is a thing of the mind.Their men need reorientation.

chiommy123:
If you truely love her you'll stay and make her wat you want

ogasharpsharp:
OP you know why I like you? Because your spirit man is strong, and it is this spirit man in you that is urging you to quit the relationship and run while you still can.

No matter how much I love a girl I can never drop up to 100k (even 50k, I don't give cash I rather spend) at once on her but you dropped a whopping 500k. Now, take a look at how the ladies on this thread are trying to trivialise that large sum of money, that's half a mil right there!

Trust me when I say most of them have never seen that amount of money in one go. Their account balance will testify. But they will tell you that "How much is even 500k sef?" Never encourage stùpidity in a woman because that is their default settings and it is your job as a man to correct that otherwise you bounce.

Investing money on a girl is like pouring water in a basket, it will never be enough. And these girls never have to make such sacrifices so they don't know what it takes and how it hurts when an agreement between two parties is reneged upon. Abi you no get family wey need half a mil? Abi you dey crase ni?

End the relationship as your spirit being is telling you, she will still do more as the relationship progresses, especially if she gets away with this criminal act of hers without any consequences. Yes, what she did is criminal but being a woman (synonym for stùpidity) she will try to shame and blame you for it (Baby you are not understanding, you don't really love me, etc).

A REAL man must always train his babe to know that for every transgression against him there will always be dire consequences otherwise see-finish will occur. Shalom!

PS - Never spend such money again on a woman unless she is your wife. They don't have sense!

Pekele007:
This is utter bullshit conjured by an ignorantly misguided illiterate.

ogapikin:
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In other words…

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Affiliate marketing is really just a quicker way to offer products and services without creating them yourself.

In practice, it’s a modern interpretation of a very old idea — getting a commission on a sale. You introduce your readers to products or services from trusted companies or individuals and get a commission on any sales to customers you send their way.

For bloggers, that means you find a product or service that you like, promote it to your readers, and earn part of the profit on each sale that you make.

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Quality: posting consistently is key but so is posting quality content. As a fashion blogger or a blogger in any niche for that matter, you should know that posting quality content is what will make your audience trust you.


A quality content entails

1. Research; you need to take your time out to research any topic from several sources so you will be well informed about the topic you’re writing on.

2. Good Pictorial representation; as a fashion blogger, it goes without saying that you will need a lot of pictures, one or two Is enough depending on the length of the content you’re writing.

3. Structure: your content needs to be well structured to encourage easy readability.
With consistent quality content, you can build a loyal audience within two months. After these two months, as a fashion blogger, you can send a message to fashion brands that you are willing to sell their products on your blog. Now, you need to understand that affiliate Marketing is plain different from just advertising a product on your brand. Most times it feels natural, like you’re recommending the product rather than advertising. In essence this is content marketing, you’re marketing to your audience without actually marketing.

After this, most brands will be interested so they will give you a special link to include in your related posts (a little about this later). When readers click on these links and buy from the brand, you get a small commission at no extra cost to your audience. Most times these companies can even offer your audience special discounts or coupons.

Things to Consider When Choosing Your Affiliate Brands

1. The brands have to be related to your blog/website niche. You cannot be writing about fashion then include a food link. When you do that it will be obvious you’re advertising and your blog will not be well represented, you have to include links to just fashion products. Furthermore, the product you’re linking to should be very related to the topic you’re writing about. You can’t be writing about African prints and then include links to trendy jeans. You should foremost include links to where they can buy quality African prints from.

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fratermathy:
Good for him. Unfortunately, the Nigerian populace will not support candidates like this. Nigerians are motivated by hunger. They will vote those who will satisfy their immediate hunger, not those who will probe into the remote cause of the hunger and solve it once and for all. Nigerians, and indeed many Africans, are very short sighted.

Until Nigerians change their mindsets, people like Moghalu or Sowore will only try their luck and fail. Nonetheless, I appreciate their efforts and hope that some magic happens that will bring them in.

anigbajumo:


The fact is that we just av to flash back and face the reality on ground, there is no way Atiku could defeat Buhari in 2019 even if the election is free and fair pending APC will set all there rigging machinery in motion to rig him out.Sadly majority of Nigerians is going to vote either PDP or APC while we va the like of technocrats like Donald Duke nd other credible candidate from other party,ain't seeing a better Nigeria in this present century except if there would be total revolution of which I doubt that...

chiommy123:
how he behaves how he treats you, his family members and even outsiders. What does he understand about life, marriage, family, etc what has life thought him. You watch his reactions when he is angry even when he is happy

Kinggnicole:
Lol..were you expecting me to give the cliche Nigerian wife "pray that God touches his heart" advice?

I say it again! She has to leave if it gets to that point. From the write up above, her husband is outright disrespectful and obviously doesn't care about her needs and wants. Imagine telling her to stay and take care of the children so that nothing happens to them since she knows she's not fertile. How insensitive!

OP apologise to him again(if you need to because this is an issue of trust and is quite sensitive too) but tell him squarely that you are not quitting your job. Also give him some more time. If he's not budging , you know what to do.

Kinggnicole:
You were wrong and you apologised.
I just hope you are not considering quiting your job. He's already rubbing it in your face that you are not fertile. Imagine adding jobless to the mix. He'll rub that in too forgetting he asked you to leave.

He's already abusing you emotionally. You have to be strong dear. And by being strong you have to know when to leave.

baba3know:
If there is something common among youths in Nigeria, it would be unemployment. Believe it or not, 60% of intelligent graduates that have something to offer the economy are currently unemployed, putting their intelligence to waste.

The question remains, “is all hope lost?”

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Just before I forget, unemployment isn’t someone without just a job, it is also for people who are currently underpaid. If you are in Nigeria, and your net salary is less than 60,000 Naira, just assume that you are unemployed.

The painful fact about the Nigerian workforce is that the possibility of being in such a position for a long painful period of time. So whether you are unemployed currently or your monthly paycheck can’t fund the lifestyle you wish to have, this post will educate you on all what you need to know.

How can you make money in Nigeria as an unemployed Graduate?

Become an Affiliate Marketer for Companies

Most times I see friends and family recommend people’s product for me free of charge, I know how much they are losing by doing such a thing. A few days ago I saw an advert on Nairaland of a shoe company looking for affiliate marketers. Instead of liking and sharing people’s post for free on Instagram, why can’t you promote that specific advert and make money when someone buys from your promotion?

Affiliate marketing is basically selling other people’s product and making money from the sales. It can be done practically from anywhere, and you don’t need a laptop to become an affiliate marketer. With the phone you have in your hands, you can start selling other people’s product and start making money.

Last month I made $300 in commission – which is about 108,000 Naira selling things from my little home and living my life in the fun. I have explained how I was able to do it.

It is up to you to decide if you will follow my path or not. Whichever way, unemployment is a thing of the mind.

Become a Fiverr Freelancer

Last month I got a simple job of writing a “Contact Us, About Us, and Our services pages” of a foreign website. I charged them $140 for writing all of them in 4 days. They promised that if I could finish it in 2 days, I will get an extra $50.

Guess what?

I finished it in 2 days and I was paid $190 – how many people earn that in 2 days? I still have about 6 orders still waiting for me to complete.

What do you think is unemployment?

Unemployment is laziness and not being able to think outside of the box. I can show you thousands of young fellas who are making a living on Fiverr. You think it is overrated, but I will show you proof that I also make money on this freelancing system. I have successfully mentored many others who have replicated the same system I have created.

So if you are skeptical about taking action, then it is up to you. Unemployment is a thing of the mind.

Perform offline services for people

Unless you didn’t take time to build your skills while in school, there are so many things that you can do. I know of a guy who started running errands for people who were too busy. He started off with people he knew, before extending to people he didn’t know – who came from referrals.

If you look at your surroundings, you will see lots of opportunities offline for you to make money. But the truth is that we have all been programmed to believe that graduates can’t become rich except by working a white-collar job. I just hope the rich Igbo man at Alaba market doesn’t hear this.

Once you are able to find a problem and implement a solution, money will flow in naturally. The first steps is to move out of your comfort zone, then you can have all the opportunities that are available outside.

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Queenrabella:
Just super curious, why is it nearly impossible? If it’s not yahoo-yahoo. It’s rituals, if it’s not that it’s love scams. All sorts have taken over the good old days of loving relationships. On another note could it be my looks? On several occasions all manner of people, usually men who are strangers refer to me as ‘China’ or sometimes ‘India’. Is there a street meaning to this or do they mistake me to be a Chinese person?! I’m tired, maybe I should just give up on love

Agp19:
bro they get attracted to those kind of guys more..bcus u dont give a fyck of what they think..

Give it a shot and see for ya self!!!

Agp19:
bro they get attracted to those kind of guys more..bcus u dont give a fyck of what they think..

Give it a shot and see for ya self!!!

Agp19:
it sucks when u go over to pls a lady...just be yhursf as a guy